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Author Topic: need help!!!!!!!  (Read 1546 times)

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Offline pixmac

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need help!!!!!!!
« on: June 06, 2008, 11:42:46 AM »
i am a + male and i've been on treatment for quite sometime now, and a few years back we got a new good looking nurse.....i think i have a thing for this nurse, but i dont know if it will be okay to ask her out or ask my doctor to get me a new nurse...she claims to be +.

Offline Florida69

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Re: need help!!!!!!!
« Reply #1 on: June 06, 2008, 12:18:48 PM »
I would ask her out.  You only live once, and how many doctors are there that are ID's...   You don't have to worry about disclosure... D
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Offline GSOgymrat

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Re: need help!!!!!!!
« Reply #2 on: June 06, 2008, 01:19:04 PM »
I agree. Ask her out.

Offline bear60

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Re: need help!!!!!!!
« Reply #3 on: June 06, 2008, 03:36:18 PM »
Just dont pop the question while she has her index finger up your butt examining your prostate.
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Re: need help!!!!!!!
« Reply #4 on: June 06, 2008, 04:07:44 PM »
You can ask if you like, but don't be surprised if she says "no". I'm not sure if it's the same in the States, but here in the UK heathcare workers are discouraged - if not outright prohibited - from dating their patients on ethical grounds.

By the way, welcome to the forums. You might want to introduce yourself as there are quite a few members of the female persuasion who post here.

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Offline pixmac

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Re: need help!!!!!!!
« Reply #5 on: June 07, 2008, 01:53:11 AM »
thanx everyone....will see what to do from here.

And for all you out there........pliz,pliz,pliz take your MEDS.

Offline bearby

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Re: need help!!!!!!!
« Reply #6 on: June 11, 2008, 10:29:49 AM »
Yes it would be unethical for her to accept an offer from a patient I know this for fact .
 I have asked my id dr. to go to dinner with my other half and myself numerous times and am always declined on the basis of professional ethics within the medical community .
 Now what you might be abe to do is locate yourself aanother id dr ( if that's pozzable ) then that way you would not be in conflict with ethics from any one's standpoint and you can ask her out if not  go ahead and pop the question some time in the distant future ( if it should be some thing that will be will ake you noth happy )
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Offline pixmac

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Re: need help!!!!!!!
« Reply #7 on: June 12, 2008, 01:51:03 PM »
not my Dr, but my NURSE.

Offline Ann

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Re: need help!!!!!!!
« Reply #8 on: June 12, 2008, 01:57:25 PM »
not my Dr, but my NURSE.

Nurse, doctor, other sort of healthcare worker, it doesn't matter. It still goes against medical ethics to date a patient.

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: need help!!!!!!!
« Reply #9 on: June 12, 2008, 05:30:45 PM »
Indeed.

If it became know that your nurse had been having some sort of intimate or personal relationship with you she would certainly lose her job. She'd almost certainly be de-registered as well.

MtD

Offline anniebc

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Re: need help!!!!!!!
« Reply #10 on: June 12, 2008, 06:09:34 PM »
Hi pix

What Ann and Matty said..I have seen young Nurses lose their jobs because of this, unfair I know but it happens, I had to transfer a young nurse to another department because of this.

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Jan :-*
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