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Offline netta

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Ladies I thought this deserved a thread of its own, If this doesn't take your mind off your problems..... Apparently there is a man who made a video on YouTube about the women HE INFECTED with the HIV virus AND LIST THE NAMES AND WHY HE DID IT. This man is scum and I hope it is true that he is captured and giving life in prison. Ironically it is a wake up call also to women having unprotected sex ,if you dare to watch go to youtube and type in "aids trash man" to see the video.
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« Last Edit: April 18, 2008, 01:35:07 PM by netta »
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Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #1 on: April 18, 2008, 05:18:28 PM »
Hmm, that is some fucked up shit. But he must be asking to be caught, there are too many ways to track someone online isn't there? It's definitely going to come back to bite him in the ass. He better hope the people he mentioned don't see it and hunt his ass down. News at 11???
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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #2 on: April 18, 2008, 06:16:09 PM »
Unbelievable.  It'll catch up with him. 
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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #3 on: April 18, 2008, 06:23:18 PM »
Click here to see AIDS trash man video on Youtube

This guy is psycho. disgusting.

I don't understand people like him.

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #4 on: April 18, 2008, 09:22:42 PM »
And he tries to justify it all, isn't that amazing... >:(
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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #5 on: April 18, 2008, 09:27:05 PM »
thanks Win, I didn't know how to paste the link.
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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #6 on: April 18, 2008, 10:43:42 PM »
Oh and it's always the woman's fault. Notice how this guy never once mentioned HIS responsibility to wear a fucking condom.

Before or more importantly, after he knew his status.

His dick, condom.

Don't get me started...........  pricks
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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #7 on: April 18, 2008, 10:45:48 PM »
No problem. That man should be strung up by his balls. His justification doesnt make a damn bit of sense. He seriously needs a long term stay at a psychiatric hospital with manditory education and a smack in the head.l
Guy acts like he is doing the community a favor and he has the nerve to call some of these girls whores or sluts or what ever it was he called them.

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #8 on: April 18, 2008, 11:00:04 PM »
No problem. That man should be strung up by his balls.

Sorry Wendy, have to disagree with you here. Stringing him up by the balls is just too good for him.

You don't really want to know what I'd do to the bastard.
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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #9 on: April 18, 2008, 11:09:32 PM »
Do you think it is for real? I mean why would someone say all that on video? I don't get it.

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #10 on: April 19, 2008, 04:26:25 PM »
Sorry Wendy, have to disagree with you here. Stringing him up by the balls is just too good for him.

You don't really want to know what I'd do to the bastard.

LOL I can accept that

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #11 on: April 19, 2008, 06:17:11 PM »
I did a little poking around earlier today and it seems that many are of the opinion that this guy was doing some sort of "humourous" "public service" announcement. It seems he wants to get people's attention by freaking them out. He also seems to have a reputation for "dark" humour - and he's also allegedly a bit of a porn star/legend. (probably in his own mind... ::)  )

If that's true about it being an attention getting device, I still think he's an A-1 asshole. Some sense of humour. Jerkwad.

Can you tell this shit pisses me off? Well spotted! ;D

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #12 on: April 20, 2008, 09:14:12 AM »
well if its not real, I'm very relieved.

with schoolkids filming beatings on their mobiles, I really thought it was real. Thank God the guy is a total fuckup but not a total monster.
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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #13 on: April 20, 2008, 12:15:04 PM »
I showed it to my SO and he said the same thing, that the guy was just messing around BUT why would he say the things about the women like he did? If he wanted to help them, why make them feel worse?  He totally went about it the wrong way if that was what he really wanted to do.
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Offline fraidknot

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #14 on: April 22, 2008, 08:37:21 PM »
OMG - another man who knew he had HIV that purposely infected someone else. Imagine that?


Modified to reflect that I was criticized for wanting to prosecute the man who knowingly infected me. I posted asking for advice and was flamed.

The great thing is...the case is proceeding and I met a wonderful man as a result of this site. So the flame was worth it.

« Last Edit: April 22, 2008, 09:08:20 PM by fraidknot »

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #15 on: April 23, 2008, 09:06:18 AM »
Modified to reflect that I was criticized for wanting to prosecute the man who knowingly infected me. I posted asking for advice and was flamed.

The great thing is...the case is proceeding and I met a wonderful man as a result of this site. So the flame was worth it.



Fraid, I can't recall where you posted about wanting to prosecute the man who infected who you.  Was it here in our women's forum?  If it was, I highly doubt anyone 'flamed' you.
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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #17 on: April 23, 2008, 10:26:07 AM »
I remember she got blasted pretty good....i think she posted in Living with....
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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #18 on: April 23, 2008, 10:51:27 AM »
Dragonette you are correct as are you wishful.

Rather than make a pariah of HIV positive people as it was suggested I was doing, I have taken positive steps towards educating myself, my friends and my family. I want to make something good of this - being an advocate and activist is a way to do that.

I do believe that prosecuting HIV+ individuals who DELIBERATELY infect others is acceptable. The laws are written so that it takes a great deal to prove this and so it should be. Very few cases are actually prosecuted because the victim is too ashamed to follow through even though there is more than enough evidence.

A predator is a predator, some of them just happen to have HIV. Does that mean we should just let them continue?

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #19 on: April 23, 2008, 05:35:11 PM »
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A predator is a predator, some of them just happen to have HIV. Does that mean we should just let them continue?

.............. of course not - I am totally with you on that - and I have also decided to become an advocate since I learned I was HIV - so you go gal ;D
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I have taken positive steps towards educating myself, my friends and my family. I want to make something good of this - being an advocate and activist is a way to do that.

Me too!! that is EXACTLY what I am doing

Sorry you were flamed - but I know you would not be in the woman's forum i.e here ....................

I have only been here for a short while but I mostly  stick to here - as I think the women here understand where I am at - and if I do post on the rest of the forums I take everything said with ' a pinch of salt' to use an English expression

As I am not sure on the rest of the Poz forum I would get the same level of understanding as I do here??? ...
So I am sure we are all here for you But whatever the flame was about and however it happened .....
so glad for you that the outcome was positive  ;)
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The great thing is...the case is proceeding and I met a wonderful man as a result of this site. So the flame was worth it.

Maybe the flame was just an misunderstanding????
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Just gone here: http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=18382.0

And see that you did get flamed

One thought in retrospect - did everyone replying to you know you were a woman ?? I think maybe not.

But maybe?probably I am out of order so suggest that maybe assumptions about your gender came into the response - it should not have made a difference to how you were responded to  - but reading through after the event I think in this case it may have !! Not quite sure - just from first reading ...................

but I think it was all a misunderstanding as Ann and others have been very supportive to me and so many others.....................

But I can see you were flamed and can see that it was a misunderstanding and know that it is so hard to get it right for everyone when you moderate a forum like this

But feel for your situation - as while my man did not deliberately infect me and he probably  did not know he had it

-I would not accept I was party to my own infection with HIV  - in my case for different reason from yours

i.e when the man who infected me was the man I had been with for over 25 years and married for 21 and had pregnancies and a child with and I had long reached the menopause!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ( I still am with him and he is my daily support, best friend and lover)

Why would I think I needed to use condoms!!!!!!!! What reason would I have to think I was taking any sort of risk having unprotected sex with him? What reason would I have to think I needed to protect myself  with safer sex? or even think this were necessary or to think that he had had sex with anyone else!!!!!!!!!!!

Not quite the same as your situation, but I believed I had an 'implicit' understanding with my husband that there was no need for condoms - and you believed an explicit lie ............I can not see that either of us actually 'complied' in our infection??


Sorry - off on my own thing.......

I really do not want to open a can of worms here :o

I was just stating how I feel having read the thread after the fact -

I probably should not have commented - and I do hope this can be put in the past - where it belongs?

As once thing I know is that  the women's forum here is really supportive and I hope you will give it another chance

I do so hope 'fraidknot' you can feel you can use the women's board from now on ..........

As I would love to talk to you in the future
...........

I intend to be completely 'out' about having HIV and to advocate for other women in the UK and especially in the rural area I live .

Hope to talk to you again

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #20 on: April 23, 2008, 05:48:26 PM »
Though I am sure this will come off badly to some I must say I don't think the thread came off as flaming until Ann's post was responded to in a defensive way.

Your partner absolutely had no right to conceal his being positive. But I believe the consensus on the previous thread was that until a person has concrete proof that their partner has had a couple of negative HIV test and is in a monogamous relationship when you choose to have sex without protection you share some of the blame.

But like I said before I agree he absolutely has no right to knowingly have sex without protection, if he is aware he is HIV positive. That is criminal behavior in my opinion.
I'm sorry you had the misfortune of hooking up with a classless, self serving jerk.

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #21 on: April 23, 2008, 06:06:02 PM »
So sorry I did not mean to carry on anything negative .........

re read thread http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=18382.0

Right to the bitter end now

and I should not have commented at all - as to do so will open a 'can of worms'


And I have no desire to do this - I would like to start again
 
I should not have commented being so new here and not involved in the original thread

But I was/an still concerned that fraidknot, as another woman with HIV - which she obviously is.

May now not feel she is able to get support here - and your support has been so valuable to me and i am sure it wil be to her and many others.

I am sorry now I said anything

Can we not 'draw a line' under this now
And welcome fraidknot here ?
And start again?

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #22 on: April 23, 2008, 06:48:33 PM »
Oh absolutely. I'm not angry with her at all.
I just couldn't start out with niceties without sharing my opinion on the prior thread. It didn't seem fair to Ann.

Welcome to AIDSmeds fraidknot.


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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #23 on: April 23, 2008, 08:11:43 PM »
Thank you very much for the support and welcome Winiroo and Veritee.

I have grown by leaps and bounds over the last few months. I was able to attend a conference "Positive Living" and finally meet someone else who was HIV+ face to face. I am going to be an Ambassador for Dining out for Life tomorrow night and I'll be going to a retreat the first week of May that is sponsored by our local outreach agency.

I really want to make a difference and I have a great group of friends who are encouraging me and supporting me in my endeavors. I've come "out" to a lot of people - one day maybe I'll be brave enough to tell everyone. I really believe stigma is the biggest factor in overcoming the spread of the disease.

I like the women's forum...think I will hang out a while.

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #24 on: April 24, 2008, 06:06:46 AM »
fraid - talk about getting lemons and making lemonade huh? 

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #25 on: April 24, 2008, 06:10:56 AM »
Not taking away from the man's guilt, what were you thinking having casual BDSM sex in an orgy with a stranger, "friend of a friend" and not using a condom? And as you're a blogger on a BDSM site shouldn't you be at least aware of HIV being out there as well as other STDs? And why did you detail all your sexploits extremely graphically online and even here on the forums?

Something smells extremely fishy here, and if you were a gay man, the word chaser would be used and it wouldn't be referring to an alcoholic beverage. Don't turn yourself into a professional victim please, first of the bug and then of the (predominantly) male "flamers" on this site.
You've slipped into the role of gala attending "ambassador" extremely quickly, and frankly I am quite unenthusiastic about someone like you representing me as a poz woman. I wonder how much all those people you come out to as a proudly open poz really know, and how much do you tell yourself.


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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #26 on: April 24, 2008, 08:23:17 AM »
Dragonette - I was asked questions and I answered them honestly because that is who I am. As for my previous actions, there is no good excuse - it was plain stupidity. That does not change or excuse the fact that he was positive and knew it.

I'm not here to argue. My work as an "Ambassador" tonight simply helps to raise money for the organization that has done so much to help me. The people I speak with aren't going to ask if I'm actually positive, they aren't going to ask my story and they aren't going to ask if I specifically represent you.

I am doing what I can to deal with this thing I brought upon myself. Trying to help others makes me feel better. If you would rather continue poking sticks at me, have at it.

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« Reply #27 on: April 24, 2008, 08:47:16 AM »
If you would rather continue poking sticks at me, have at it.

Um, NO, let's NOT "have at it". We're not going to have a repeat performance of fraid's original thread.

I'm warning you all - don't even go there.

That goes for you too Fraid. Drop it already.

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #28 on: April 24, 2008, 09:34:34 AM »
you sound quite different in the last post Fraid which makes me somewhat regret my last post if I am honest.

but then if I didnt express my feelings openly about the whole thing I wouldn't get this reply.

guess there is a lesson in there somewhere. hmmm. I should not have poked at you the way I did. It was not very classy was it? there had to be a better way to get a response about the things that bugged me.

wish you luck with all of it.
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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #29 on: April 24, 2008, 01:03:25 PM »
No problem Dragonette. No hard feelings.

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Re: Hiv infected man brags on You Tube about the women he infected
« Reply #30 on: April 28, 2008, 01:50:46 PM »
 :o I saw the video on Youtube and it is really messed up for this low life to boast about this!!!  It is good that he has been captured and is doing life in prison....this person has no regard for a persons life!!  Just because he is infected doen't give him the right to go and infect others!!
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