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Author Topic: would you like to give your confirms to ease my mind ? ..  (Read 2913 times)

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Offline kutim

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would you like to give your confirms to ease my mind ? ..
« on: February 26, 2008, 11:20:31 AM »
thanks for your forum and I hope all the best things for you ?

Frist, Because I'm not good at English, so Please forgive me if there's any mistakes about it.

Dear Andy, Ann and other lovely memebers..

I have just 2 questions about my history :

1. after the incident the condom maybe was slipped and in one minutes , I don't remeber to use it or not when having sex with the gril in the massage club (happened in 25/08/2007). The test HIV I took : 2 weeks, 6 weeks, 2 months,3 months (25/11/2007) and 6 months (happaened in 25/02/2008) . all of them are the Elisa and negative.

2. But in 29/12/2007, in my business, I had fingering to the sex worker and only Fingering to her vaginal while sha use "hand-job" for me. My hand maybe had a cut and was wet after it came into her vaginal. the Elisa test in 25/02/2008 , it means that it also after 8 weeks after my fingering. It is Negative.

with the newest test in 25/02/2008, 6 months after my slipping of condom and 8 weeks after my finger, it is negative. It say to me : you are ok and if you have sex with your grilfriend, it must be safesex, we will be Ok too..

Can I get on with my life and stop thinking about the HIV happened to me anymore ..

I'm Looking forward to your replies...

Thanks and best regards ..!

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Re: would you like to give your confirms to ease my mind ? ..
« Reply #1 on: February 26, 2008, 11:28:44 AM »
You are negative. HIV is not your concern.

Offline kutim

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Re: would you like to give your confirms to ease my mind ? ..
« Reply #2 on: February 26, 2008, 12:20:35 PM »
thanks rapidrod...and Fingering never a risk for HIV,is it right ? because in my relations in business, I often drink and come to the massage club with my customers, But I only Fingering and the gril in the massage club often "hand-job" for me. It's ok to protect me from the transmission of HIV, I think so...

Thanks for your reply again,

 

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: would you like to give your confirms to ease my mind ? ..
« Reply #3 on: February 26, 2008, 01:01:41 PM »
Fingering is absolutely not a risk for HIV transmission. Period.
Andy Velez

Offline kutim

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Re: would you like to give your confirms to ease my mind ? ..
« Reply #4 on: February 26, 2008, 11:42:41 PM »
thanks andy, It helps me so much,as you know, The fingering with the cut in hands also made so scared in a long time to stress with HIV..I recognized I had lost many things..But it's an experience for me . it's time to put the end for the stress and get on with my life, and my grilfriends..thanks agian and hope you all tha best things..

Offline kutim

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Re: would you like to give your confirms to ease my mind ? ..
« Reply #5 on: February 26, 2008, 11:44:39 PM »
sorry, it's my mistake, just "grilfriend" no "s"..because if with "s" after "grilfriend", it sounds a little dangerous  :).


Offline Andy Velez

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Re: would you like to give your confirms to ease my mind ? ..
« Reply #6 on: February 27, 2008, 08:53:18 AM »
OK, I get it. One girlfriend.

Good luck to you.
Andy Velez

Offline kutim

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Re: would you like to give your confirms to ease my mind ? ..
« Reply #7 on: February 27, 2008, 10:48:45 AM »
thanks Andy,just my last questions : if the gril has the wound on hands and she use that hands to "hand-job" for me, It also doesn't have any risk of HIV ?it's the same with my cut hands to her vaginal,  is that right?......good luck to you ..

Offline BT65

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Re: would you like to give your confirms to ease my mind ? ..
« Reply #8 on: February 27, 2008, 11:16:51 AM »
Right.
I've never killed anyone, but I frequently get satisfaction reading the obituary notices.-Clarence Darrow

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: would you like to give your confirms to ease my mind ? ..
« Reply #9 on: February 27, 2008, 01:32:22 PM »
Still not a risky situation. Period.
Andy Velez

 


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