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Author Topic: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass  (Read 33061 times)

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Offline Snowangel

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #100 on: March 03, 2008, 10:00:18 AM »
Morning everyone-
Masshole is a loving term  :-\ for the people or drivers from Massachusetts.

Hope everyone has a good day!

Snow
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Offline Cheetara74

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #101 on: March 03, 2008, 11:12:56 AM »
Morning everyone-
Masshole is a loving term  :-\ for the people or drivers from Massachusetts.

Hope everyone has a good day!

Snow

LOL

Good morning everyone.  Greetings from New Jersey... ;D

Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #102 on: March 03, 2008, 11:58:22 AM »
Good Morning----

It looks nice out but haven't been out in it yet. I got woken up by the noise of men doing work to the apartment next door. I got pay a few bills and go to the doctor but that's about it for me. I haven't watched the last episode of the Wire, I will do that a bit later. Betty, I got Prince in my cd player and Erotic City is the first song, I have 15 songs total.

Lucifer is in my lap demanding some love, I will get back later....
Started Atripla/Ziagen on 9/13/07.
10/31/07 CD4-265 VL- undetectable
2/6/08 CD4- 401 VL- undetectable
5/7/08 CD4- 705 VL- undetectable
6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
8/6/08 CD4- 805 VL- undetectable
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2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
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6/17/09 CD4- 438 VL- 439
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Offline BT65

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #103 on: March 03, 2008, 03:45:28 PM »
Afternoon ladies:

Well, it's in the 30's and grey now.  I just woke up from a nap.  I was still tired from this weekend; and still am a little.  Nothing really happening today.  I paid some bills, did a little grocery shopping and got lunch at Long John Silver's, cause sometimes only Long John's fish will do. 

I have not seen the last episode of 'The Wire' yet, so anyone who has, please don't let the cat out of the bag.  I will probably watch it tonight.  Of course, I'll post when I do. 

Keepingfaith, whether you wear a condom or not is a very personal choice.  Myself, if I'm fucking someone who's poz, I don't use them.  If I'm not, I do.  I don't think there's a solid right or wrong. 

Queen, please let us know how the doctor visit goes today. 

Other than that ladies, I'm sure I'll check back in later-
I've never killed anyone, but I frequently get satisfaction reading the obituary notices.-Clarence Darrow

Offline Winiroo

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #104 on: March 03, 2008, 04:00:04 PM »
Win- We are getting there, its going to 50 tomorrow.  Geez, I don't know what Im gonna do. Oh, I know drive back and forth to school and...nothing.   I hope you are enjoying the new baby too, I didn't mean to leave you out when I posted earlier.

LOL It is 41 windy and rainy right now. The weather changes pretty quickly here sometimes.
Amber is over here with the baby right now doing their laundry.

Just a question to everyone. I know that we are supposed to have sez with condoms "safer sex" I was just wondering would it hurt to start of with out a condom and put one on mid way or may if he pulled out. Just asking.
Putting a condom on midway wouldn't stop him from getting infected. It might minimise the chance of you getting pregnant but it wouldn't do anything to stop him or you from getting an STD.

I don't always use condoms with a poz partner unless he has other STD's or he insist on it but that is my choice.

Offline keepingfaith

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #105 on: March 03, 2008, 04:42:58 PM »
I was just asking. My b/f is poz also. I just hear so much about reinfection and other stuff like that.

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #106 on: March 03, 2008, 05:09:24 PM »
There has probably only been a dozen cases of "cross-resistant" type infections from poz-to-poz via sex. Mostly, we develop our own resistance.  Especially if both your viral loads are undetectable.  Like I said, if the other person I'm fucking is poz, I don't ever use a condom.
I've never killed anyone, but I frequently get satisfaction reading the obituary notices.-Clarence Darrow

Offline Snowangel

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #107 on: March 03, 2008, 05:24:51 PM »
  Like I said, if the other person I'm fucking is poz, I don't ever use a condom.
Me either.
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Offline Ann

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #108 on: March 03, 2008, 07:32:17 PM »
I was just asking. My b/f is poz also. I just hear so much about reinfection and other stuff like that.

Hi Faith,

If you're both poz and monogamous, you don't need the condoms unless you're using them for birth control. My bf and I are both poz (he's the source of my virus) and we don't use them. He's on meds and undetectable, I'm not on meds. I'm not worried about reinfection (it's RARE) and neither of us is sleeping with other people (um, this time around! ::) so I'm not worried about other STIs either.

I've said it before... poz on poz rocks! ;D

Ann
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Offline BT65

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #109 on: March 03, 2008, 08:53:03 PM »
Evening ladies:

Nothing exciting to report.  Just wanted to check in.

Queen, I tried to watch 'The Wire' on demand, but it's not going to be available on there until 03/10.  So I guess we'll just have to wait until Sunday night to see the end.  Damn.  BTW, how did your doctor's appointment go today?  That was today, right?

Ann's right about poz on poz sex.  It's extremely sensual.   As well it should be.

Well ladies, I'm going to check out a few other threads and who knows, maybe check in later-
I've never killed anyone, but I frequently get satisfaction reading the obituary notices.-Clarence Darrow

Offline Winiroo

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #110 on: March 03, 2008, 08:54:41 PM »
You know, its nice to tell the truth about not using condoms with my partner without being treated like a dumb ass once I've admitted it.

Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #111 on: March 03, 2008, 09:24:20 PM »
Hey, it's time to start another thread. Who is up for the challenge? This one flew by quick to me. Nothing eventful happened today. My primary doctor cancelled on me and I rescheduled my depo shot once again. Just til tomorrow, I couldn't help it. It was so nice here today, it was 65 degrees. I threw my walkman on and walked to the store listening to Prince. I could've went across the street but chose the store 6 blocks down. I even got hit on when I walked past one of the watering holes...*LOL* Maybe it was because I had some makeup on, I had put it on for the doctor's appointment but left it on when I went to the store. Now it is rainy out and we're suppose to have more snow. I'm glad I bought myself a nice warm jacket today... ;D

I still haven't heard back from Sue but instead got a call from my case manager, Ms. Twice A Week. I now sense that she has a bit of a tude cause she is now figuring out I don't want to be bothered with her ass. What is disturbing to me is that I am being ignored for asking for another case manager when I know they just hired a new one. Her name is Michelle and I heard she does a great job. Ms. Twice A Week droned on about if I had gotten with a therapist yet. I explained the story once again to her and told her I would like to go to a therapist at the hospital close to my house if they have one. She was still talking about trying the place that I have been getting frustrated with. But she said she would find out about the hospital. But I can't help but be pissed about my request for a new case manager being ignored.

Other than that, nothing else going on. I am watching wrestling and will be going back to Warcraft shortly.
Started Atripla/Ziagen on 9/13/07.
10/31/07 CD4-265 VL- undetectable
2/6/08 CD4- 401 VL- undetectable
5/7/08 CD4- 705 VL- undetectable
6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
8/6/08 CD4- 805 VL- undetectable
11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
4/27/09 CD4- 664 VL-- undetectable
6/17/09 CD4- 438 VL- 439
8/09 CD4- 404 VL- 1,600
01-22-10-- CD4- 525 VL- 59,000
Cherish the simple things life has to offer

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Offline MOONLIGHT1114

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Re: Dating thread: Part XXI- March right in and kick some ass
« Reply #112 on: March 03, 2008, 10:40:49 PM »
Retracted after seeing Ann's statement.....   :-\

Massachusetts asshole is what I believe the phrase refers to, because of the people up there, which I of course love!   ;D  Traveled up that way once, love the "accents" too!
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