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Offline bosco

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read a post in the woman's forum
« on: February 21, 2008, 10:44:22 PM »
I just read a entry in the women's forum that I would have loved to post a reply to, however I obeyed the rules. It was asking where the "straight poz men are". It would seem from the replies that the straight women (on the forum) are frustrated and would like to date.

After trying POZ personals I can tell you it isn't any easier finding straight Poz girls. Although the girls I've "meet" in posts on the AMG forums seem sooo nice and interesting, BUT, they are usually taken or hundreds of miles away.

So maybe the straight poz girls who are forum members that are looking for straight poz males for friendship or dating should look closer in the forums and not in POZpersonals.


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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #1 on: February 21, 2008, 10:50:22 PM »
Bosco, the women in the forums already know that the majority of men who post in pozpersonals are not worth the time.   We're all quite capable of finding our own partners without advice from the men, here or anywhere else.  If you're so turned out by one of the ladies, I suggest you pm her and not make a whole thread out of the subject.  *shakes head*
I've never killed anyone, but I frequently get satisfaction reading the obituary notices.-Clarence Darrow

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #2 on: February 22, 2008, 12:00:41 AM »
Hmm, has someone caught your fancy, Bosco? Just wondering...For the record, only one straight man has hit me up but it is more on a friend level because he is so far away from me. If he was closer, would I consider dating him? Sure, he seems to be a lot of fun. No other straight man from the forums has approached me but maybe they have their reasons, I dunno. I seem to have fever for few of the gay men on here. If you have seen some of my previous posts, I flirt with them quite often. I know I will never have a snowball's chance in hell with any of them but I just can't help myself. And I think if I did find a poz man it would make my love life probably a helluva lot easier.
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Offline lucas clay

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #3 on: February 22, 2008, 04:25:48 AM »
I don't even go on the women's forum.
I want the Ladies to have there say without old Lucas lurking in there like a peeping tom.
besides i know the Ladies are worse then the men ever thought of being.


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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #4 on: February 22, 2008, 05:27:17 AM »
I don't even go on the women's forum.
I want the Ladies to have there say without old Lucas lurking in there like a peeping tom.
besides i know the Ladies are worse then the men ever thought of being.


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hehehe.... sometimes being watched is hot! ;D

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #5 on: February 22, 2008, 08:33:31 AM »
oh.....my.......god

Sharkie (who is blushing)

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #6 on: February 22, 2008, 08:43:14 AM »
oh.....my.......god

Sharkie (who is blushing)

Being watched by a blusher is hot too! ;D

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #7 on: February 22, 2008, 08:46:52 AM »
tee hee

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #8 on: February 22, 2008, 09:12:10 AM »
I don't mind being peeped at, lol.  If I didn't want the world to know, I wouldn't post it.

But yes, it was difficult to find a straight poz guy to date.  The one I did find turned out to be a headcase, which just tells me that this stigma can really take its toll on us emotionally. 

I was lucky enough to meet a great neggie, and after disclosing early on, we are very happy together.  :)
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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #9 on: February 22, 2008, 09:15:55 AM »
I think some folks are surprised and a bit disappointed when they join the forums and discover it ain't a pick up site. Well, unless you're a homo. ;D

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #10 on: February 22, 2008, 09:39:24 AM »
Bosco, the women in the forums already know that the majority of men who post in pozpersonals are not worth the time.   We're all quite capable of finding our own partners without advice from the men, here or anywhere else.  If you're so turned out by one of the ladies, I suggest you pm her and not make a whole thread out of the subject.  *shakes head*

Well Betty -
You certainly JUMPED to a big conclusion after you MISINTERPERTED what I was saying in the thread. First, if I was interested in a forum girl, I wouldn't make a public post announcing the fact. I was merely "thinking out loud" after reading a post entitled Where are all the straight men posted by Wishful, November 15, 2007. BTW you were reply #13 to that very post.
As an aside, unless you are the guardian of the casual conversation forum, why in the world would you care WHAT TOPIC any member decides to make a thread out of.
Lighten up...Betty.
« Last Edit: February 22, 2008, 01:14:32 PM by bosco »
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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #11 on: February 22, 2008, 09:44:04 AM »
GRRRRR snarl   

 >:(

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #12 on: February 22, 2008, 09:53:12 AM »
Oh dear
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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #13 on: February 22, 2008, 09:59:44 AM »
just when this thread was getting fun  :(

Offline BT65

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #14 on: February 22, 2008, 01:07:15 PM »
Well Betty -
You certainly JUMPED to a big conclusion after you MISINTERPERTED what I was saying in the thread. First, if I was interested in a forum girl, I wouldn't make a public post announcing the fact. I was merely "thinking out loud" after reading a post entitled Where are all the straight men posted by Wishful, November 15, 2007. BTW you were reply #13 to that very post.
As an aside, unless you are the guardian of the casual conversation forum, why in the world would you WHAT TOPIC any member decides to make a thread out of.
Lighten up...Betty.


Bosco, your weak attempt to verbal me leaves a lot to be desired.  An old saying comes to mind, however hillbilly it is:  If you can't play with the big dogs, stay off the porch. 

I must say I did need a good laugh and you certainly provided that.
I've never killed anyone, but I frequently get satisfaction reading the obituary notices.-Clarence Darrow

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #15 on: February 22, 2008, 01:16:19 PM »
"Bosco, your weak attempt to verbal me leaves a lot to be desired.  An old saying comes to mind, however hillbilly it is:  If you can't play with the big dogs, stay off the porch. 

I must say I did need a good laugh and you certainly provided that."

LMAO
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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #16 on: February 22, 2008, 01:17:15 PM »
*yawn*
I've never killed anyone, but I frequently get satisfaction reading the obituary notices.-Clarence Darrow

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #17 on: February 22, 2008, 01:19:34 PM »
"*yawn*"
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Offline lucas clay

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #18 on: February 22, 2008, 01:22:52 PM »

hehehe.... sometimes being watched is hot! ;D



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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #19 on: February 22, 2008, 02:11:34 PM »
Ann .....I LOVE YOU

                                                    Lucas
                                                             ( who is running for cover)

Well honey, before you run, watch this:

:-*  :P  :-*  :P  :-*
;D ;)

Ann
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Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline bosco

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #20 on: February 22, 2008, 02:20:13 PM »
Well honey, before you run, watch this:

:-*  :P  :-*  :P  :-*
;D ;)

Ann
(who thinks we should have pornicons)

I second the pornicons...what a great idea.
"Dog is my co-pilot".

Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #21 on: February 22, 2008, 02:25:22 PM »
I think some folks are surprised and a bit disappointed when they join the forums and discover it ain't a pick up site. Well, unless you're a homo. ;D

Now why do all the homos get to have all the fun? :D
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2/6/08 CD4- 401 VL- undetectable
5/7/08 CD4- 705 VL- undetectable
6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
8/6/08 CD4- 805 VL- undetectable
11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
4/27/09 CD4- 664 VL-- undetectable
6/17/09 CD4- 438 VL- 439
8/09 CD4- 404 VL- 1,600
01-22-10-- CD4- 525 VL- 59,000
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Offline Snowangel

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #22 on: February 22, 2008, 02:42:35 PM »
I met my man on some personals I don't remember which one back in 99.  The whole scene leaves a lot to be desired. To put it nicely- it SUCKED  ;D I talked to quite a few wierdos with a lot of baggage.  It all depends on what you want and if you can wade through the bullshit.  Seeing it is the internet a lot of people have no problem lying thier asses off and making themselves up to be something they are definately not.  This goes both ways, male and female.  I posted on there recently just looking for female friends and have had no luck.....maybe people just have one thing on thier mind, I can't call it.  Maybe you can meet people through your local ASO?  Not that many people that are positive are outright vocal about it but I think it is kind of strange that I have been poz for 14 yrs now and I have never met(in person) anyone else with having to jump through hoop after hoop.  Like I said, I can't call it or figure it out.  I just know everyone deserves to happy and not alone whether they are straight, bi, gay, les or trans.  If you are looking, whoever you are, good luck!
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Offline MOONLIGHT1114

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #23 on: February 22, 2008, 04:22:11 PM »
When you keep trying, you succeed.  I have been poz 14 years and only in 2007 did I start to reach out.  I joined a support group and I dated a poz guy.  Which turned out better?  Definitely meeting all of the gay guys in my support group.

Yes, homos have all of the fun.   :-*   :D
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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #24 on: February 22, 2008, 10:55:02 PM »
Well honey, before you run, watch this:

:-*  :P  :-*  :P  :-*
;D ;)

Ann
(who thinks we should have pornicons)

Never had anyone show me there pornicons before!!! :o
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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #25 on: February 22, 2008, 11:06:00 PM »
Hmm for as much porno as some forums members have in their collection, I am sure one of them have some pornographic emoticons, they just don't want to produce them for fear of getting a time out.... ;D :D ;)
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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #26 on: February 23, 2008, 01:03:54 AM »
Here's a fisting emoticon



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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #27 on: February 23, 2008, 01:06:50 AM »
LMAO@Philly....I rest my case...But it looks like he is trying to lure someone to him not stick his hand up someone's ass...
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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #28 on: February 23, 2008, 01:39:16 AM »
Nonsense.  That's a crazed look of sexual abandon in his eyes, as he stares up at a waiting rosebud.
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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #29 on: February 23, 2008, 01:35:27 PM »
But where's the decoupage emoticon? 
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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #30 on: February 23, 2008, 01:58:59 PM »
Nonsense.  That's a crazed look of sexual abandon in his eyes, as he stares up at a waiting rosebud.

That look could be from the poppers you supplied...*lol*
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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #31 on: February 23, 2008, 02:24:39 PM »
It could be worse boys. You could live in Mecca.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/7260314.stm

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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #32 on: February 23, 2008, 03:50:50 PM »
holla!
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Re: read a post in the woman's forum
« Reply #33 on: February 23, 2008, 04:30:33 PM »
But where's the decoupage emoticon? 

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