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Author Topic: I touched my penis! do I have to worry!  (Read 2272 times)

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Offline abyssinian

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I touched my penis! do I have to worry!
« on: February 12, 2008, 01:08:44 AM »
2 years ago, I had sex with an escort worker in vegas.  I got out of the room for a few seconds, when I came back in, I saw her preparing the codom and everything, bottom line is this.

She put the condom on me after she prepped it (I don't know what the hell was she prepping, but she had apparently oppened it from the package seconds before I came back in the room).  it looked new as she was putting it on me, otherwise I would;ve stopped her.

SHe gave me a blowjob with the condom on, we had sex with the condom all the time, and then finally we were done, I took off the condom, BUT THEN I TOUCHED MY PENIS WITH MY OWN HAND THAT I USED TO TAKE THE CONDOM OFF, I THINK I EVEN TOUCHED THE AREA OF THE HOLE AND THE HOLE ITSELF!

20-30 seconds later I washed my penis toroughly for about a minute non-stop, and then I let it go.

Another thing, I did lick her nipples (as juvenile sounding language as my choice of words are, sorry)

Two pluss' - she had her own condoms to put on her clients (me).  They sure felt like latex condoms, not anything different that may not prevent HIV, she gave me a blowjob with a condom, very few girls in my opinion do that, and she seemed very professional in what she does, she wouldn't even allow the "F" word into the scene.

I am worried if this is a possibility of exposion??

Please help.

I already went for HIV testing today out of curiosity and I have never had sex without a condom, ever.  But I'm worried, I can't wait for the results.  Is this something people should take a test for if it happened to someone on the first place?

and also, that same hand I used, I had usedit through our intercourse to "masturbate" and penetrate again, and so on.

I apologize for the language, I can't seem to find better words.

Thanks.

Any doctors?

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Re: I touched my penis! do I have to worry!
« Reply #1 on: February 12, 2008, 03:00:05 AM »
Aby,

Sex workers use condoms to protect themselves, not the client. You can bet she used one that was new, latex and intact.

Nothing you describe is a risk for hiv infection. None of it. It doesn't matter that you touched yourself after taking the condom off. Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse. You wore a condom, you were protected when you needed it.

Nipple licking and/or sucking is also not a risk.

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you do NOT need to test over this one incident, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection.

Ann
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Re: I touched my penis! do I have to worry!
« Reply #2 on: February 13, 2008, 12:07:29 AM »
Thank you Ann, that is very reassuring.

I'm glad to hear that it is not even a risk for HIV infection, at one point I think to myself if it can even be called exposure at all?

I appreciate it, my results should be coming sometime this week, negative of course. :)

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Re: I touched my penis! do I have to worry!
« Reply #3 on: February 13, 2008, 05:36:01 AM »
Aby,

No, you can't really call it an exposure. I also fully expect your result to be negative.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: I touched my penis! do I have to worry!
« Reply #4 on: February 14, 2008, 12:24:18 AM »
thanks again for your reply.
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im felling really optimistic about the results.

Thanks !

 


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