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Please I need help. Thanks.
« on: January 14, 2008, 11:48:24 AM »

Good day to everyone. This is my very stupid experience. I went to a night club for two consecutive days. I had payed sex. The first girl gave me a blow job without a condom, I fingered her and we had protected sex and the condom did not break. The second girl she gave me a blowjob without a condom. We had protected sex and the condom did not break.  Here are my worries:

                                1. She have a tongue peircing and I dont know if it is old or not. Would I get infected if theres blood in it?
                               
                                2. I fingered her and my index finger is dry so it has small cuts in it. Is it possible that the virus would go to the small cuts?

                                3. I tested serodia particle agglutination in 4, 10, 11 weeks and got a negative result. Do I still need some more test to conclude it?

                                4. I party a lot and I'm a heavy drinker. Does being an alcoholic makes a person seroconvert longer?

                                5. We used a lubricant but I dont know if its water base or oil base. Would I get infected if its oil base? 

Im very sorry if I have many questions but I read your welcome thread but I cant seem to open the transmission lesson and testing lesson for some unknown reason. Thank you so much in advance. I hope you can give an answer to all my questions. I guess some lessons in life should be learn in a very hard way. Sorry if Im not that good in English. Waiting for your expertly advice.


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Re: Please I need help. Thanks.
« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2008, 11:57:17 AM »
lost,

1. A tongue piercing makes no difference. Neither kissing nor getting a blowjob are risks for hiv infection.

2. Fingering, regardless of cuts, is not a risk for hiv infection.

3. You did not have a risk in any activity you report so no, you do not need further testing. You are conclusively hiv negative.

4. No.

5. Oil based lube can cause condoms to break. Your condoms did not break.

Along with reading through the Welcome Thread and following the Transmission Lesson link, here's what else you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you do NOT need further testing at the moment, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Ann
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Re: Please I need help. Thanks.
« Reply #2 on: January 14, 2008, 12:14:01 PM »
 Thank you so much ann for your very immediate response. I really appreciate it. :-*

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« Reply #3 on: January 14, 2008, 12:27:50 PM »
 Ann,
        Why is that fingering even if you have a cut in your index finger is not a risk? Is vaginal secretion does not contain hiv? Or the virus cannot enter through cuts? thanks again.

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Re: Please I need help. Thanks.
« Reply #4 on: January 14, 2008, 06:09:03 PM »
Any cut immediately begins forming a protective covering not visible to the eye. That's the way skin begins to heal. More importantly, the female secretions which would contain HIV IF the woman is infected are in the cervical area, which is much further up in the vaginal cavity than the area you would be fingering.

I've never known of a case of transmission in this manner and you aren't going to become the first.

Cheers,
Andy Velez

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Re: Please I need help. Thanks.
« Reply #5 on: January 14, 2008, 06:26:30 PM »
 Andy,
     Thank you very much for your very informative response. You are all to kind to help all of us. Just wondering. Can a condom jus breaks its tip and still stay intact in the penis? Sorry for my English. Thanks again.

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Re: Please I need help. Thanks.
« Reply #6 on: January 14, 2008, 06:29:20 PM »
A condom would NOT break at the tip and stay intact, they are made to fail catastrophically.

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« Reply #7 on: January 14, 2008, 06:39:38 PM »
Thanks RapidRod for your very quick response. Thanks to all of you. I have peace of mind now. God bless all of you and takecare. :)


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« Reply #8 on: January 15, 2008, 01:00:36 AM »
 Hello Ann, Andy, RapidRod,

Good day to all of you. Im truly sorry if in any case Im annoying you guys. I know you have lots of important things to do. Just in case you have some spare time please answer it. I would really really appreciate it. Here is my question. Can a serodia particle agglutination test be considered conclusive after 82 days of possibe exposure? Thank you very very much.

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« Reply #9 on: January 15, 2008, 08:57:37 PM »
Lost,

Your test result is conclusive because you did NOT have a risk.

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« Reply #10 on: January 16, 2008, 12:10:10 AM »
Ann,

        Thanks Ann. Im very happy to discover this site. More power to all of You! :)

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Re: Please I need help. Thanks.
« Reply #11 on: January 17, 2008, 12:10:06 AM »
Good day to everyone! Just want to ask something. How much will it cost a complete std test? Thanks in advance. :) Anybody who have done it please tell me the price. Thanks!

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« Reply #12 on: January 17, 2008, 01:35:54 AM »
How can well tell you that?

It will vary from place to place. In most parts of the Western world it's free. In the states the cost will vary from free (at certain clinics) through to varying co-pays depending on your insurance coverage, if any.

You will need to discuss these issues with the doctor.

I presume you're asking this because you're following Ann's sage advice:

Although you do NOT need further testing at the moment, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.


Yairs?

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« Reply #13 on: January 17, 2008, 10:16:21 PM »
Hi Matty, Thanks for the response. You're right I have to go to the clinic and ask for it. Yes, I'm following Ann's advice. I'm just got aware of everything about STD and some STD can even be acquire even with a condom. I just want to make sure I will not spread it. When it comes to STD you cant be too careful right? Anyway thanks for everything. I know this is not related to HIV but just in case you have some idea. I will ask it anyway. Do you know whats the name of testing for chlamydia, HPV, and gonorrhea? Thanks. This would be a great help.

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« Reply #14 on: January 17, 2008, 10:23:08 PM »
If you're sexually active we recommend regularly having a full STD panel done. If you ask for that any reputable clinic or doctor is going to know what you're asking for.

Good luck.
Andy Velez

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« Reply #15 on: January 17, 2008, 10:28:58 PM »
Do you know whats the name of testing for chlamydia, HPV, and gonorrhea? Thanks. This would be a great help.

I do know these things, but I won't discuss it here. You should raise these matters with your doctor or your sexual health clinic.

MtD

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« Reply #16 on: January 17, 2008, 11:32:59 PM »
Ok, thanks Matty and Andy. Have a nice day.  :)

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« Reply #17 on: January 22, 2008, 12:47:07 AM »
Good day to all. Just want to ask for general knowledge. Would the level of risk in anyway affect the seroconversion? For example, you will seroconvert faster if you engage in anal sex compared to vaginal sex? If Yes, How do they come up with this study. Thank you and have a nice day. :)

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« Reply #18 on: January 22, 2008, 12:52:14 AM »
You seroconvert at the same time.

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« Reply #19 on: January 22, 2008, 01:00:52 AM »
Thanks RapidRod. That was very quick and brief. ;D

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« Reply #20 on: January 22, 2008, 04:54:12 PM »
It was fast, brief and accurate. If you're going to seroconvert the source of the transmission is irrelevant.
Andy Velez

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« Reply #21 on: January 23, 2008, 09:15:00 AM »
Thanks Andy and RapidRod for the accurate response. Im just curious, Do all hiv test the same to all countries? I had my test in a poor country. Do all serodia particle agglutination the same? The person who collect my blood sample said that I should come back in 6 months. Does this mean that the test I took requires six months to be able to detect antibodies?

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« Reply #22 on: January 23, 2008, 09:34:52 AM »
Lost,

As you have already been told, you did not have a risk and you do not need further testing. You ARE hiv negative.

If you've read our Welcome Thread like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

Please consider yourself warned. Keep posting over this no-risk, conclusive negative situation and you WILL be given a time out.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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« Reply #23 on: January 23, 2008, 09:40:01 AM »
Sorry Ann. That was absolutely unintentional. Just curious about the tests. Anyway have a nice day. Godbless. :)

 


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