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Offline wishful

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Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« on: November 23, 2007, 09:48:53 AM »
Are there any here?? I dcided to post this question here as well..as i am looking for male feedback as well as women..
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Offline Movingon

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #1 on: November 23, 2007, 10:41:03 AM »
yep, there is one here mate ! i am fairly new to this but feel free to Private message me if there is anything i can help you with. At the very least i will be able to give you a straight, married perspective on things

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #2 on: November 23, 2007, 02:03:34 PM »

Yeah, we're around.

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Offline LordBerners

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #3 on: November 23, 2007, 04:48:47 PM »
Wishful, I'm very new to our condition so my feedback will be minimal, but I consider myself 'straight'. 

I have no idea if it would interest anyone, but to clarify while I have had a few experiences with other males I'm quite convinced I contracted the virus through heterosexual sex.  In my case this was unprotected sex with female 'sex workers', perhaps an atypical route to infection among posters on this board, though not such an unusual one worldwide. 

I suppose the main issue with being heterosexual and male is the lack of compatriots in the same situation, but I'm so private about it that I don't think it would make any difference.  Another is that one's girlfriend or wife might be less prepared to deal with the development than a gay man's partner.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #4 on: November 23, 2007, 09:17:37 PM »
Hi Bern,

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I suppose the main issue with being heterosexual and male is the lack of compatriots in the same situation, but I'm so private about it that I don't think it would make any difference.

I think you've gotten to the crux of the issue here. I suspect it isn't so much a case of lack in the compatriot department as it is  hiding from the world - and by default, each other.

I'm not criticising; I'm commiserating. It's one of those 'rock and hard place' moments.

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Offline Henritx

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #5 on: November 24, 2007, 01:50:48 AM »
Hi Wishful,

Looks like I make #4.

Ann: Dont know about the hiding from the world part. But would agree that there is a differnece in how problems are processed and dealt with. Perhaps more toward: "I can handle this myself" then it is "runaway and hide".

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Offline Esquare

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #6 on: November 24, 2007, 05:26:27 AM »
I'm a straight dude that is poz. Always available to talk through PM if you want. I usually check the site several times per week. There are quite a few straight guys here.

Offline Esquare

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #7 on: November 24, 2007, 05:29:00 AM »
Another is that one's girlfriend or wife might be less prepared to deal with the development than a gay man's partner.



That sure is the truth.

Offline lucas clay

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #8 on: November 24, 2007, 07:00:43 AM »
  Another is that one's girlfriend or wife might be less prepared to deal with the development than a gay man's partner.



amen to that brother

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #9 on: November 24, 2007, 10:13:12 AM »
There are quite a few of us around, but the shame and stigma associated with being HIV+ (a topic that is often discussed in this forum and elsewhere) keeps us well closeted. Unfortunately it is still assumed by most of America that any man with HIV is either very gay or an addict.

It may also be that men are generally not as communicative as woman are, and as we all know "real men don't cry." The "dating" thread over in the women's section (yes, girls, we're watching you!) is a hoot, but I don't think most of us are particularly eager to discuss the women we've dated, or to quote Erica Jong, "our stars, our scars, our choice of scotch in bars."

I suppose we could be more creative: "Topic: Prostrated by my prostate" or "Levitra levity".   
« Last Edit: November 24, 2007, 10:35:51 AM by wishihadacat »
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #10 on: November 24, 2007, 11:40:54 AM »
Gotta agree with Mr wishihadacat.
I shoulda mentioned some of the stigma. That shuts me up quite well thank you.

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Ive lurked the womens thread as well. Bet all the guys have. A Hoot is right...What an insight!!!
Very entertaining.

Prostrated by my prostate" or "Levitra levity"....
Hmmmm,
What color is your hump?

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Offline LordBerners

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #11 on: November 24, 2007, 12:10:15 PM »
Though I posted this generalization:
...one's girlfriend or wife might be less prepared to deal with the development than a gay man's partner.
, I have to say that I'm lucky to have an incredibly supportive girlfriend, and we weren't even all THAT serious before we found out. 

As for the question of disclosure, I do wish to avoid it, more for employment reasons than anything.  My biggest fear is that treatment will lead to all-too-obvious alterations in my physiognomy, making it impossible to keep the secret.
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Offline gardner

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #12 on: November 24, 2007, 12:31:28 PM »
Wishful.  Am I #8?

I'm sure there are more of us but as Ann put it, we're "hiding from the world".

Offline Sdgirl

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #13 on: November 24, 2007, 08:36:56 PM »
Okay, I had to chime in here.

Soooooooooo are any of you straight men in the vicinity of California?

Just sayin
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Offline next2u

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #14 on: November 25, 2007, 02:15:02 AM »
there is one lone straight man in my men's support group. it's funny, cause there he is surrounded by 20 or so catty fags and manages to navigate the social waters quite nicely. to make things more interesting, he's kinda hot and all the guys totally hit on him, albeit in a loving and teasing sort of way. so, he's welcome and a great friend. oh, and i have seen some other poz guys at the mixed group as well. hmm, ill tell them about this site next time i go there. ill keep an eye out for straight poz men for my straight poz sisters out there.

we are in so cal btw.
midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

Offline Matthew

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #15 on: November 25, 2007, 03:15:10 PM »
Hi,
I am straight and married w/ children. I have been married 8 years, and did not find out until a life insurance exam 2 years ago about my status. Luckily, my wife and children had not been infected.
I have a very supportive wife, but other than her and a few close friends, it is not something that straight men get to talk about much. I have been reading on this site that last couple of years, and have now decided to start posting.

Thanks.
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Offline Poz Brit

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #16 on: November 26, 2007, 07:22:17 AM »
Straight, Poz, English, and in a serodiscordant relationship.

Offline wishful

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #17 on: November 26, 2007, 12:13:48 PM »
Wow there u guys are..i was wondering!!!!..Thanks everyone for your responses...Here in nj where i live i dont meet anyone my within my age group who is poz, let alone any straight single men..I mean even at the doc i go to its all older people, and my town isnt that small that i wouldnt run into 2 or 3 people like me..i know with my kids dad..he was in denial a long long time..and i think he is just now starting to come around but im not sure. Like i have said before he just "feels" ok and thats enuff for him to ignore it..But im working on him..i joined a dating site but there is never anyone on there.. i have tried poz personals yet bcus my job computer blocks it..but im gonna get me one for xmas...
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #18 on: November 26, 2007, 02:13:41 PM »
I was not present in the forums for some time ( domestic problems ,depression, , familly worries , medical issues and some researches on my own) , but just to say that I`m still around..........if you wanna know a litlle bit more about me read my posts ( if that does not bore you to the death  ;D ).......and feel free to answer  to me by a PM if you want so.............
Thanks to all members of this forum..............
C`you soon...............................................
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Offline 9941_K

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #19 on: November 26, 2007, 08:09:00 PM »
Wishful

Thanks so much for posting. Obviously we have more feedback here than on positive women page  ;)

I'm new to the community, checking the forum for a week or so and this is my first post  ;D

Just wanna say I share exactly the same concern as you... Where are the straight poz guys?? 
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9 Oct - CD4 202 (12.63%); T4/T8 0.13; VL n/a
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Offline next2u

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #20 on: November 26, 2007, 09:35:04 PM »
how about poz bi men? will that work for y'all?
midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #21 on: November 26, 2007, 10:43:57 PM »
Uh yeah NO.  Bi men are just men who really want to be booty bouncin' but don't want to call themselves gay.  Just my opinion though.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #22 on: November 26, 2007, 10:50:40 PM »
I have found no luck on the poz dating sites.  It seems like it's full of "god fearing" women who want "god fearing" men so they can treat them like the "queen" they see themselves as.  Either that or they're scammers.  Oh and the other option is that some of these ladies are really overweight.  I'm not saying that overweight ladies can't be attractive, just that I like my women slim to athletic but definitely more on the petite size.  Kind of like how many women don't like short men, I don't want to date a girl who weighs more than I do.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #23 on: November 26, 2007, 11:00:24 PM »
Right there with you sdgirl! :) I have been posting in the women's dating site except that I am not dating right now but I would love to. I was just diagnosed in May of this year.

Sd-what part of CA are you in? (are you in San Diego?) I am in Orange County.

Offline next2u

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #24 on: November 26, 2007, 11:15:35 PM »
okay, so maybe a lot of bi men are fags in denial. what about the hot beefy men that aren't, like vin diesel. (grrrr). i've thought about crossing over many times. i decide to do all womankind a favour and keep my fickle, indecisive, noncleaning, noncooking & lazy ass on this side of the border. you all can thank me later : )

midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

Offline wishful

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #25 on: November 27, 2007, 09:01:38 AM »
Next u are too funny!..and cute too  ;)
yeah i subscribed to hivnet.com and its soooo lame..never more than 3 peopl on at a time and that includes me! My friend said she meets alot of guys but they all want sex still even after being diagnosed, Sex is still their main focus..dont get me wrong i definitely need a lil love err now n then but ultimately we are lookin for someone like ourselves that can understand where we are coming from but sometimes i think i want a negative person who just falls in love with me...and not worry about my condition..
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Offline wishful

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #26 on: November 27, 2007, 09:03:55 AM »
oh yeah..and NO NO NO to bi men..cus it will always be in my mind that im not pleasing him..and i am the ULTIMATE pleaser..but that would be somthing i just couldnt give him..(naturally)..lmao!
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Offline Denver Toad

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #27 on: November 27, 2007, 09:11:14 AM »
Lifts rock.... peers around... says RIGHT HERE.... goes back under rock.

It's a mixed STD (HEP/HIV) site, met some really decent people over at pozsingles.... Including my current sweety. Give it a look.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #28 on: November 27, 2007, 01:29:32 PM »
Now hold up!!!!! As long as I have been whining about being single and flirting my ass off with the gay guys, all I needed was to start a damn thread.....Who woulda thunk it!!!!! But now I am dating a neg guy all you poz guys wanna come out......Grrrrrrr. I should kick y'all in the ass.....j/k but damn. And for the record, I have nothing against bi guys, I would do one. I just couldn't be in a relationship with one because I don't like sharing... :P But if it was about being friends with benefits well I could work around it. Alway wanted to do a bi guy with a strap on.. ;D

As for the women's dating thread, I hope that is helping you straight guys out and supplying you with a few pointers... ;)
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #29 on: November 27, 2007, 05:04:39 PM »
I have found no luck on the poz dating sites.  It seems like it's full of "god fearing" women who want "god fearing" men so they can treat them like the "queen" they see themselves as.  Either that or they're scammers.  Oh and the other option is that some of these ladies are really overweight.  I'm not saying that overweight ladies can't be attractive, just that I like my women slim to athletic but definitely more on the petite size.  Kind of like how many women don't like short men, I don't want to date a girl who weighs more than I do.

LOL I likely weigh more than my boyfriend. But I am 3 - 4 inches taller than him. LOL
I'm not as stick thin as I was in my 20's but I sure as heck aint thick. I'm a fairly tall average sized girl.
I'm not a short man chaser. I just happened to really like a man who was shorter than me and unlike the girl I was 20 years ago the height thing doesnt faze me.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #30 on: November 27, 2007, 05:32:26 PM »
I have found no luck on the poz dating sites.  It seems like it's full of "god fearing" women who want "god fearing" men so they can treat them like the "queen" they see themselves as. 

Wow.  That's totally different from the ''god fearing'' experience I had growing up.  In most of those relationships, the women were treated as anything but queens. 

And gasp!  Is Vin Diesel supposed to be bi or something?

And I have to differ a bit about the bi thing.  I call myself a big old mo, stictly dickly and all that mess...but the bare truth is that I have been in love with females a few times in my life.  Truly, madly, deeply.  And I'm not in denial bout nuthin' from nobody, so believe it or don'ts, people.  I honestly wish I was more truly bisexual than I am (as I am admittedly leaning far, far further on the scale toward penis than va jay jay), and in my perfect vision of the world we'd all be bisexual and all this gender/orientation hoo ha would be moot from the get go.

But enough about all that.  Somebody just tell about Vin Diesel and then you heterosexuals can continue doing whatever it is you do.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #31 on: November 27, 2007, 06:16:34 PM »
What? Is Vin bi? After seeing The Fast and The Furious, Tokyo Drift and Vin appearing in the last 3 minutes of the movie, he isn't as fine as he was in Pitch Black. But I heard he has a twin..... ;)
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6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
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11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #32 on: November 27, 2007, 09:16:33 PM »
Ok...
I think I am still on topic

Ladies, If you've been on a poz dating site, have you included a picture?
I cannot even count how many dont and it leaves one thinking,
why not??


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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #33 on: November 27, 2007, 09:29:36 PM »
Ok...
I think I am still on topic

Ladies, If you've been on a poz dating site, have you included a picture?
I cannot even count how many dont and it leaves one thinking,
why not??

are you planning to post your photo on here?  just curious.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #34 on: November 27, 2007, 10:02:26 PM »
If I am understanding you correctly I would sat touche'.
But truly, I am not on here to date so I didnt feel compelled to.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #35 on: November 27, 2007, 11:25:22 PM »
Hell, I had my pic posted on Poz Personals but after almost getting scammed, I took it down. And if it wasn't that then it was people who could barely hold a conversation.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #36 on: November 28, 2007, 06:29:17 AM »
I was diagnosed a few months ago, and have not told my girlfriend my status.  I have also not had sex with her because I do not want to infect her.  Is getting pretty tense.  I am concerned that if I tell her she will label me.  If it goes further, though we could end up together and I was thinking, even if she accepted me, how to I have kids...I feel like I went from having a great life to a freak show now.  What are the alternatives.  Break off and do one night stands (safe) and not disclose but what kind of llife would this be. 
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #37 on: November 28, 2007, 10:57:36 AM »
No pic posted but i would email them one if they wanted...some people cruise those sites just to see who is on there and if youre worried about that then..i wouldnt post a pic..

Queen"..U NAsty!..lMAO... but what if he is bi but doesnt want a strap?..
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #38 on: November 28, 2007, 12:05:47 PM »
Somebody just tell about Vin Diesel and then you heterosexuals can continue doing whatever it is you do.

Let's see.  He never is seen with a girl friend and he's stated in an interview that he only has sex when overseas...
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #39 on: November 28, 2007, 12:22:45 PM »
This thread rules....cuz it's kinda like getting to participate in one o' those PW Dating Threads.  And those always just sound oh-so-intriquing.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #40 on: November 28, 2007, 02:45:07 PM »
Well, if that is the case, let's keep it going like the ladies dating thread....See what you started, wishful.....

Cityboy---- I wish I could give you advice about when to disclose to your gf but I am in a similiar situation as yourself. I will say this much...You know her better than any of us here...This is your life and you're living it but I feel you do need to tell her but only you will know when the time is right.

Philly----What?!? I missed that interview. When was this?

Wishful---- Oh, why I got to be nasty? I am just trying to be in touch with my inner freak... ;) Well, if he doesn't want a strap on that's fine too..There is always other things... ;)
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #41 on: November 28, 2007, 02:51:42 PM »
Most straight poz people on this site are just in the wrong part of the world.  Sadly in the Western World HIV is something that disproportionately affects the gay community.  If we were all to relocate to South Africa or Russia we'd likely find more straight people for the possiblities of dating or at the very least a dependable booty call...
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #42 on: November 28, 2007, 04:09:11 PM »
Most straight poz people on this site are just in the wrong part of the world.  Sadly in the Western World HIV is something that disproportionately affects the gay community.  If we were all to relocate to South Africa or Russia we'd likely find more straight people for the possiblities of dating or at the very least a dependable booty call...

That's undoubtedly right - not that I would want to move to either place.

It's also hard to find independent straight (or bi) poz women who have maintained a sense of humor about life, but who can blame them?

Now Queen A, on the other hand...   
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #43 on: November 28, 2007, 04:22:44 PM »
I RULE!!!..lmao
what have i started???..lol
wishihad: i am an independent, poz straight/bi woman, with a killer sense of humor...TRUST THAT!
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #44 on: November 28, 2007, 05:17:09 PM »
"Iíve slept with enough men to know that Iím not gay"

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« Reply #45 on: November 28, 2007, 05:19:37 PM »
I RULE!!!..lmao
what have i started???..lol
wishihad: i am an independent, poz straight/bi woman, with a killer sense of humor...TRUST THAT!
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #46 on: November 28, 2007, 05:28:56 PM »
wishful comes across as the kinda woman who'd be pretty fun in the sack and Queen as a freak!  Not that there's anything wrong with freaks...
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #47 on: November 28, 2007, 09:42:42 PM »
Vin Diesel?! Interesting...he is soooo hot, but he doesn't hold a candle to The Rock. That is my secret crush.... ;D

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #48 on: November 28, 2007, 11:24:24 PM »
404error:     Ohh how I long for the days of dependable booty calls. I think i am actually becoming ambidextrous from all the self medication!
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #49 on: November 28, 2007, 11:56:28 PM »
i'm starting to think the bi/vin diesel tangent is hijacking this thread. sorry ladies, you know how we fags are. we're your best friends and always need a lil attention. and we don't want you to forget about our marginalized brethren, they still like the va jay jay!

in defense of bi's - you can totally satisfy them. i was talking to a bi-guy tonight at my men's group. he's had a girl for sometime now. and my ex roommate's ex boy of 3 years has had a girl for the last 2 (and i think they're gonna get married). and don't forget about those msm's. all i'm saying is don't discriminate against a man that loves the poontang, even if he likes the schtick too :)~

okay, my hijacking is over. anymore of this bi talk will have to be in another thread. and ya ladies betta come. hmm, oh, if it's any consolation, yeah, there are a lot of gay pozzies out there, but it's still hard to find a good man.

i like the comment above where girlfriend was talking about hitting up the negg's again. i think it has merit. hmm, world aids day is coming up. we are having multiple events. i will advertise this site to any single men i see. hey, gotta look out for my ladies, y'all always helped me out in high school (margaret cho said some funny shit about how the fag hags always helped us gay guys throughout high school by ushering us through the gay underground railroad- comedy).
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #50 on: November 29, 2007, 02:10:27 PM »
I've met a lots of hetero pos men. Not all of them where dating material and some of them I'd prefer to have never met  but none the less I've met likely less than one hundred but absolutely more than fifty either online or in person.

You just gotta put yourself out there socially. Join local social groups, go to hiv seminars or other hiv related events in your area, frequent different chat sites and forums ect.
Dating only pos men certainly shallows the dating pool but they are out there. Its just a matter of finding the right one for you.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #51 on: December 01, 2007, 09:41:02 AM »
(Nudging the thread over a bit)

 I grew up not far from NYC, the youngest of two children of upper middle class, nominally jewish parents. Both of my parents were reasonably intelligent and liberal, responsible and never abusive. Nevertheless, they did not seem to be particularly communicative in the ways that mattered to me as a child. My sister and I never spoke at all. Only fragments of any happy memories from the first ten years of my life are retrievable now. I stumbled through adolescence as mindlessly as most of us did.

I spent my early twenties in vain self-absorption. Despite a measure of material success, I wasted my late twenties either too blind or unable to deal with life, and from roughly mid 1979 to the late spring of 1980, I sought refuge from the pain of my confusion by injecting myself with cocktails of cocaine and heroin, and for those ten months I lived in that chemical dream with a young woman I knew who made her living by selling herself to other men.

When the money ran out, as it always does, so did she. I woke up from my stupidity and started to use the gifts Iíd been given by life.  The year was 1980.

Still searching, but lacking direction, I tried writing for a while and I did manage to have at least one short piece published, but it very soon became very clear that I was not really meant to be a writer, so I finished college and then law school. It was a practical decision and it gave me a sense of purpose and meaning that I had never really known before. I followed that path, met my wife in 1985, and for the next two years lived a happy, if not boringly conventional life. We married in November of 1986, blissfully unaware of a cunning invader that I had unknowingly injected into our lives six or seven years earlier.

Like everyone else in those days I thought of HIV and AIDs as a strange new plague fueled by tainted semen and bottled blood that fed on the flesh of gay men and hemophiliac children. And then, in late 1987, as the epidemic continued to spread and the world learned that HIV also sought out intravenous drug users and that it could sometimes incubate hidden for years inside us, devouring our bodies from within, only to emerge years later, I began to wonder if I was also one of those who had been infected.  At that time my concern was mostly for myself; I had never had any signs or symptoms of the opportunistic illnesses that science and medicine grouped so neatly together as resulting from this new "acquired immune deficiency syndrome.Ē I hoped I was wrong, but somehow I knew I was part of it all.

I went to a clinic down on Ninth Avenue operated by the New York City Health Department and left a small sample of my blood, and on a cold clear day in January of 1988 I learned that I was one of those people whom the doctors grouped together to as "long-term slow progressors." Like all of us who are HIV positive, it was a day I will never forget.

Back in those days the ways by which the virus could or could not be transmitted by heterosexual sex were still not well or widely understood, and my wife and I tried to maintain some semblance of physical intimacy while avoiding any risk of transmission. For a few months we held each other, we touched each other, always aware, always fearful. We would never again make love. As time passed we stopped touching each other. We stopped holding each other.

Somehow, despite the virus, despite the fear of death, no chance of children and no physical love, I managed to do well - for a while.
            
For twenty years we lived together in secret shame the twists and turns of life with HIV, in a relationship devoid of all sexual contact. We were an old couple before we were old. I suppose that the simplest explanation is that we loved each other and neither of us wanted to admit defeat, but there is also an element of complacency and convenience; this world can be a very lonely place.

Maybe we lack the courage to split up and find more suitable partners. Maybe there is another woman out there who will laugh at my jokes, and a good, responsible man out there for her who doesnít live his life dancing on the edge of a cliff. Maybe this is what passes for love in the age of AIDs.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #52 on: December 01, 2007, 06:13:18 PM »
wait, i know i may be missing the point of your post wishihadapussy, but why don't you put on a condom and bang her? bust out the good old toys and start making up for lost time? i mean, technicalities a side, you two can go at it like teenagers on prom night. you know about transmission now, is it habit or some other foe that's keeping from the sheets from being stained with sweet. you know, lbd should only happen to ....

btw, im sure the women here are great : ). i know i've come to love 'em.
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may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #53 on: December 02, 2007, 08:00:48 AM »
wait, i know i may be missing the point of your post....

That would seem to be the case.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #54 on: December 02, 2007, 08:22:11 AM »
wait, i know i may be missing the point of your post wishihadapussy, but why don't you put on a condom and bang her? bust out the good old toys and start making up for lost time? i mean, technicalities a side, you two can go at it like teenagers on prom night. you know about transmission now, is it habit or some other foe that's keeping from the sheets from being stained with sweet.

next2u
i know you have a very playful side, but Iwishihadacat's post was heartfelt. If you reread the last half, you'll perhaps understand what's amiss in his marriage. It's not as easy as slipping on a condom and banging away as one might hope. Long-term relationships are sometimes much more complicated. This is an agonizing circumstance for him.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #55 on: December 02, 2007, 08:31:09 AM »
Great, a straight girl posts here and she lives on the other side of the country, actually the other side of another country  :) So, if any of you are in the Vancouver/Seattle area, give me a shout.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #56 on: December 02, 2007, 08:53:23 AM »
Maybe we lack the courage to split up and find more suitable partners. Maybe there is another woman out there who will laugh at my jokes, and a good, responsible man out there for her who doesn’t live his life dancing on the edge of a cliff. Maybe this is what passes for love in the age of AIDs.

I just want to say I am touched by your post Wishihadacat..
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #57 on: December 05, 2007, 04:11:30 PM »
WHAT THE FRENCH TOAST HAPPENED TO MY THREAD???....
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #58 on: December 05, 2007, 05:08:08 PM »
Dr. Phil?

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #59 on: December 05, 2007, 05:14:10 PM »
Dr. Phil is an idiot.  I blame Oprah.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #60 on: December 05, 2007, 05:22:18 PM »
wishful comes across as the kinda woman who'd be pretty fun in the sack and Queen as a freak!  Not that there's anything wrong with freaks...

Well, you are not far off point. I am a freak but it just takes the right man to bring it out....And I can be fun in the sack....I would like to try my hand at new things too.... ;)
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #61 on: December 05, 2007, 05:28:38 PM »
That's undoubtedly right - not that I would want to move to either place.

It's also hard to find independent straight (or bi) poz women who have maintained a sense of humor about life, but who can blame them?

Now Queen A, on the other hand...   

Sweetie, if I didn't keep a sense of humor, I would've been gone a long time ago. It is my sense of humor and some good green that gets me by. I would love to have an independent poz man in my life. That would complete it for me but I can't seem to find one......

By the way, I am back on the market so to speak. I ended it with the neg guy I was dating. Due to my issues with disclosure, I have come to the conclusion that a poz man would be better suited for me...Now where can I find my King at?
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #62 on: December 05, 2007, 05:30:47 PM »
Quote
I would like to try my hand at new things too....

Me too.  I've covered most ethnicites, a variety of heights, mostly slim or athletic girls but I did do one really big girl (just to see what it was like.)  I never got to do a midget though and now that I have HIV I fear that is one "to-do" that will never be crossed off the list.  I also never got to be used and abused by a female bodybuilder, another one I fear will forever remain undone, so to speak...
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #63 on: December 05, 2007, 05:38:27 PM »
Me too.  I've covered most ethnicites, a variety of heights, mostly slim or athletic girls but I did do one really big girl (just to see what it was like.)  I never got to do a midget though and now that I have HIV I fear that is one "to-do" that will never be crossed off the list.  I also never got to be used and abused by a female bodybuilder, another one I fear will forever remain undone, so to speak...

Sounds like to me that you have pretty much done it all...Any faves that you can mention? ;) I feel almost like the 40 year old virgin compared to you. Though I am a few years from 40 and far from a virgin..... ;D
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6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
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11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #64 on: December 05, 2007, 05:44:30 PM »
My favourite was either a Canadian girl who was half Dutch, half Jewish (on her Dad's side.)  She had a killer body and was an all natural Playboy model.  5'6", about 125lbs, freckles across her nose and cheeks, greenish eyes with brown flecks in them, a nice round booty and a total sex machine.  We were together for almost two years.  The other favourite was a Fijian girl who was half Black, half Polynesian.  She was 5'2" about 110lbs and had the nicest booty I have ever seen in my entire life.  She was so mouthy and had something of an oral fixation.  She liked to go down, bring me just about to the point of bursting then stop, wait for me to go limp and start all over again.  She was truly something special.  She left me for some thug (he seriously had "thug life" tattoed on his forearms in Detroit Tigers style lettering) who got her pregnant and took off.  I told her that was exactly what would happen. 
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #65 on: December 05, 2007, 09:22:14 PM »
And I can be fun in the sack....I would like to try my hand at new things too.... ;)

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #66 on: December 05, 2007, 09:33:03 PM »
Trying my hand is mostly all I do these days. 

I wouldn't touch that one with a ten foot pole.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #67 on: December 05, 2007, 09:50:25 PM »
Trying my hand is mostly all I do these days. 

Now Thunter Bunny...I have been after you for awhile but you just won't have me..... :-\
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #68 on: December 05, 2007, 10:16:12 PM »
I tried ALL of those poz dating sites this summer and finally met one guy.  The main problem was geography, no one lived close by.  The one I finally met had some issues, and I'll leave it at that.  We just ended up not being compatible.  I swore I would never date a poz guy, and then I did, and then it didn't work out.

Hell, I was even in a certain magazine in October and nothing.  Just scammers on the POZ personals, what a joke.  I turned in a dozen of them, pisses me off.

I'm dating a neggie now (Iceman in the Dating Threads) and we are doing well.  I consider finding him like finding a needle in a haystack, we are very lucky to have found each other.

Now Queen, as for Timtation, you know I said I would hold him down while you strap him.  We need a roadtrip to where the peaches are, kinda like a Thelma and Louise thing, but no going over the cliff at the end, ok?  LOL

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #69 on: December 06, 2007, 01:42:23 AM »
hey ladies,

if you find a straight poz man, when it rains does it pour? also, what about the hiv support groups? i know the ones here for straights are mostly female. has that been true in your experience?
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oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #70 on: December 06, 2007, 07:25:51 AM »
I wouldn't touch that one with a ten foot pole.

You have a ten foot pole?  :o WoW! Respect!  8)

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #71 on: December 06, 2007, 09:35:15 AM »
i would also like to try my hand at some new things..never dated outside of my race..always wanted to try a puerto rican man but the ones that hit on me were always too short for my taste...i likes them tall n hunky.. :o *growling like a tiger*..
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #72 on: December 06, 2007, 01:35:24 PM »
You have a ten foot pole?  :o WoW! Respect!  8)

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #73 on: December 06, 2007, 01:36:51 PM »
What can I say? Some people get Lipo, I got lucky.  ;)

So, wish.....um....hello there....
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #74 on: December 06, 2007, 05:54:01 PM »
So, wish.....um....hello there....

See what I mean, rejected again. And lost to who? a man who wished he had a pussy and I even have one of my own..... ;D Ahem, sorry, I guess that is the tequila talking..... ;)
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6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
8/6/08 CD4- 805 VL- undetectable
11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #75 on: December 06, 2007, 05:58:10 PM »
I wish I had some pussy too
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #76 on: December 06, 2007, 06:15:53 PM »
There are times when a thread begins to flag and you have to let go of the rope. Sometimes this can be hard to grasp, but I'm keeping a stiff upper lip. ;)
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #77 on: December 07, 2007, 03:58:37 AM »
There are times when a thread begins to flag and you have to let go of the rope. Sometimes this can be hard to grasp, but I'm keeping a stiff upper lip. ;)

A ten foot pole and a stiff upper lip?

This keeps getting better and better!  8)

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #78 on: December 07, 2007, 04:04:18 AM »
Already tried women..they are only fun if theres is another man present...  :P

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Jun 08 CD4=325(22%) Jul 08 CD4=301(18%)
Sep 08 CD4=257/VL=75,000 Oct 08 CD4=347(16%)
Dec 08 CD4=270(16%)
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Feb 09 CD4=233(15%)/VL=13,000
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Aug 09 CD4=346(24%)/VL=UD
Nov 09 CD4=437(26%)/VL=UD
Feb 10 CD4=471(31%)/VL=UD
June 10 CD4=517 (28%)/VL=UD
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #79 on: December 07, 2007, 07:23:21 AM »
Nothing wrong with a back that is strong and a tongue that is long.... ;D Personally, I would cut that pole down a foot....Walking funny is one thing, ending up in the ER and having to explain things is another..... ;D
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6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
8/6/08 CD4- 805 VL- undetectable
11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
4/27/09 CD4- 664 VL-- undetectable
6/17/09 CD4- 438 VL- 439
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #80 on: December 07, 2007, 10:16:57 AM »
Tramp...what u call me Tramp tramp what u call 8) me..lolo???

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #81 on: December 07, 2007, 02:19:53 PM »
Tramp...what u call me Tramp tramp what u call 8) me..lolo???

(Salt n Pepa) like 1987?

LOL...Good thing you explained it was a song by Salt n Pepa...It still prolly went over a few heads....
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6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
8/6/08 CD4- 805 VL- undetectable
11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
4/27/09 CD4- 664 VL-- undetectable
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #82 on: December 07, 2007, 02:29:45 PM »
im sure it did..lololo
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #83 on: December 07, 2007, 10:16:05 PM »
puertoricans are definitely fun. not to insult the fine pr bros out there or to put it out there as complete objectification, but yall just know you rock the boat (pole & stiff upper lip included). well, most men are fun from my experience (except the codependent ones). anyhow, i definitely have a special spot in my heart for those boricuas : )

whats all this mess about a ten foot pole & a stiff upper lip? is this some sexual innuendo stuff that straight people use that i just don't get (add it to the list). anyhow, i got the s&p comment. oh, my men's support group has some hot straight guys. where yall ladies at?
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sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #84 on: December 08, 2007, 11:20:41 AM »
I agree Puerto Ricans can be fun....since I am 1/2 and I think our Philly is just as enamoured with hispanic men..*calling Philly*..... ;)
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6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
8/6/08 CD4- 805 VL- undetectable
11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #85 on: December 10, 2007, 02:54:49 PM »
I WANNT ONE.....(pr mAN) ;D
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #86 on: December 12, 2007, 11:35:20 AM »
I agree Puerto Ricans can be fun....since I am 1/2 and I think our Philly is just as enamoured with hispanic men..*calling Philly*..... ;)

You rang darling?  I've had TONS of Puerto Rican men, but I really must say that on balance the Dominican men win in the sack.  My all time winner, however, was part Cuban and part Dominican.  Puerto Rican and African American is a nice mix too :)  The man who gave me anal warts was that mix.

There are a lot of Dominican men in NYC, not so much so elsewhere.  There are sizable amounts of Puerto Ricans in Philadelphia :) 

Hmmm... I've even scored men from Roatan.  Look it up :)
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #87 on: December 12, 2007, 12:36:03 PM »
See? I told y'all Philly has a bit of knowledge on Hispanic men... ;D And if you look at his sig line, that is even in Spanish....I need to get some spanish lessons from Philly....The Puerto Rican/Italian guy I was dating was GREAT in the sack. Shit, gave him some tequila one night and he just kept going and going and going...... ;D
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11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
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3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #88 on: December 12, 2007, 04:29:07 PM »
Well somebody hook me the f**k UP!!!! :o
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #89 on: December 12, 2007, 06:14:27 PM »
I wish we had Puerto Rican girls in Canada, there don't seem to be many.  Mmmmmmm!  We do however have tons of fine EI ladies, if only I could meet a poz one...
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #90 on: December 12, 2007, 08:09:25 PM »
What is an EI lady?
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11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
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3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #91 on: December 12, 2007, 09:20:00 PM »
That would be an East Indian lady.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #92 on: May 16, 2008, 03:49:15 PM »
this thread Rocked
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #93 on: May 16, 2008, 05:12:55 PM »
Yeah, this thread needed the dirt kicked off it. I seriously do wonder where all the poz straight men are. I can't seem to find any where I am or in the near vacinity.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #94 on: May 16, 2008, 08:25:22 PM »
Well, heh.  All I can say is to watch out for the poz men as well as the non-poz ones.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #95 on: May 17, 2008, 04:44:08 AM »
there are 3 at my meetings on tuesday : ).
of course, us gay men have beaten them into submission. now they hug, talk about their feelings and have become more fashionable. next we plan on teaching them how to piss correctly...
midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #96 on: May 17, 2008, 05:27:12 AM »
there are 3 at my meetings on tuesday : ).
of course, us gay men have beaten them into submission. now they hug, talk about their feelings and have become more fashionable. next we plan on teaching them how to piss correctly...
    :D  Oh, next2u...don't get me started..after bringing up 3 boys who drove me to complete distractions as they just seemed not to see that there was a bowl with water you were to aim INSIDE of...."oh, i guess i was still sleeping'...it almost got to where I was going to put a lock on the door and make them come to me and announce their intentions and upon returning the key have me go make an inspection...

"I may not be exactly where I want to be, but I sure as Hell am not where I was"
Wynnona Judd

Diagnosed/HIV
1993
AZT
Norvir
1994-2001
Crixivan/Epivir/Zerit
No Meds for 7 Years

04jul07/DVT-right leg/Bi Lateral PE's     
16oct08/DVT-left leg
Sept '09  6 blood clots in left arm
Coumadin 5mgs
                                     
Atenolol/50mg/2x
Hydrochlorth 25mg/1x
Gemfibrozil/300mgs/2X
Symbicort
Proventil Inhaler
Potassium
Rhinocort


*APR 08~Viramune/Truvada
March08  CD4 330 23% VL 452.000 
*Jan09 Med change~Epzicom/Viramune

Aug09   CD4 523 23%  VL<48
Diagnosed: COPD
Dec 2013: CD4 645 45% VL 49
Med Change: Viramune/Epivir/Ziagen/Isentress

Offline next2u

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #97 on: May 17, 2008, 12:11:34 PM »
yup, that's a male for you, they will get away with what they can. the lock & key doesn't sound like a bad idea, but then again you don't want them pissing elsewhere - like in a sink or bottle : )
midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #98 on: May 17, 2008, 12:42:59 PM »
yup, that's a male for you, they will get away with what they can. the lock & key doesn't sound like a bad idea, but then again you don't want them pissing elsewhere - like in a sink or bottle : )

   :o are you physhic?  get out of my mind.. :D  When they doscovered alcohol, I would find bottles stahed away and that was not booze in the bottle... :-\
"I may not be exactly where I want to be, but I sure as Hell am not where I was"
Wynnona Judd

Diagnosed/HIV
1993
AZT
Norvir
1994-2001
Crixivan/Epivir/Zerit
No Meds for 7 Years

04jul07/DVT-right leg/Bi Lateral PE's     
16oct08/DVT-left leg
Sept '09  6 blood clots in left arm
Coumadin 5mgs
                                     
Atenolol/50mg/2x
Hydrochlorth 25mg/1x
Gemfibrozil/300mgs/2X
Symbicort
Proventil Inhaler
Potassium
Rhinocort


*APR 08~Viramune/Truvada
March08  CD4 330 23% VL 452.000 
*Jan09 Med change~Epzicom/Viramune

Aug09   CD4 523 23%  VL<48
Diagnosed: COPD
Dec 2013: CD4 645 45% VL 49
Med Change: Viramune/Epivir/Ziagen/Isentress

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #99 on: May 17, 2008, 03:24:18 PM »
LOL I never once found a pee bottle in my kids room and remarkably he always lifted the lid and got most of it in the water.

I have however seen a male freind get up and piss in his luggage and the same guy has also peed in a closet. God only knows where else he has peed after drinking too much.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #100 on: May 17, 2008, 03:44:35 PM »
my x roommate was notorious for getting fucking wasted and inventing new piss spots. i woke up one morning and found him pissing in his closet. i had to literally take him by the dick and guide him to the bathroom. also, one of his friends stayed the night after a long evening of drinking. we woke in the morning because the alarm clock was going crazy, turns out homeboy was pissing on it. ahh, drunk straight men.

at my job some guys piss in bottles and leave them in their vehicles. we all understand and are cautious of apple juice!

but ladies, back to the beef. where are all the straight poz men (faults and all)? i see some in my support groups and some on pozmatch.com. they are a pretty reclusive species. maybe we can create a map with hotspots. or we can start documenting their habits so we can locate them better! haha, thats comedy..."the elusive poz straight man is often found wandering around dennys late thursday & friday nights complaning of hunger pains while trying to buy budlight..."
or "often mistaken for the straight poz man, his bi counterpart plays the clever decoy, luriing many hot poz mamas to the bedroom."
« Last Edit: May 17, 2008, 05:05:11 PM by next2u »
midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #101 on: May 17, 2008, 03:58:59 PM »
LOL too funny

You know I never had any trouble meeting pos straight men. The only trouble I ever had was finding quality hetero men who where not already taken or did not live 3000 miles away.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #102 on: May 17, 2008, 05:20:17 PM »
damn, just using the query function on poz personals i got over 100 poz straight & bi men within a hundred mile radius of me. they are out there. now, im not saying they are all matches, but maybe if we exhaust the available resources, develop a network (girl gossip!), and put it out there, hopefully we can get a 10% return . now, understand that i live within 100 miles of los angeles and i live in the largest county in the us, i know those results are not realistic for everyone. but a girl can move, i have an open room in my apt : )

nah, but on a real note, its hard finding a mate. and even if we were to date 10 men, only 3 or less would probably be compatible or desirable (the same is true vice versa). but lets rip on the men a bit more. the photos were weird, like the all had on ties. weird men hiding behind ties and pseudo-professionalism. beware.

has anyone had any luck from poz personals or pozmatch.com? ive meet 2 guys from poz personals and im talking to a guy who is on poz personals & pozmatch. i haven't been to the popular poz breakfasts out in la (there is one every saturday for the homos) but im sure that can lead to a plethora of other adventures.
midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #103 on: May 17, 2008, 07:26:22 PM »
I had an ad on Poz Personals but after talking to someone on there who was running a scam, I shut my ad down. And when I was actively checking, there was never any man close to where I live and I think some of them were incarcerated. There was one guy that I was really vibing and developed feelings for but he died last year. I found this out from his gf who claimed that he was hooking up with lots of women and not telling his status. I knew his status because of where his ad was but not sure if I believe the hooking up part.

And the only men I have seen in my town that are poz is my gay friends. I guess I am the only hetero poz woman in the city cause I have not heard of anyone else.
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5/7/08 CD4- 705 VL- undetectable
6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
8/6/08 CD4- 805 VL- undetectable
11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #104 on: May 17, 2008, 08:18:25 PM »
I'm not even going to comment about how I feel about poz "straight" men right now.  I think probably a good majority of them were infected taking it up the rear.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #105 on: May 17, 2008, 08:43:20 PM »
I met a poz straight man from one of the websites and it went nowhere. I am now talking to another one, but we haven't met yet. I have gotten the scammers, too on the websites. I haven't been to any of the support groups offered near me yet, but I am sure there are more than then same handful of guys that are on the websites.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #106 on: May 17, 2008, 08:48:56 PM »
where are all the straight poz men (faults and all)? i see some in my support groups and some on pozmatch.com. they are a pretty reclusive species.

In my experience poz straight men are generally to be found giving sloppy blow jobs to truckers at rest stops.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #107 on: May 17, 2008, 09:35:39 PM »
where are all the straight poz men (faults and all)? i see some in my support groups and some on pozmatch.com. they are a pretty reclusive species.

In my experience poz straight men are generally to be found giving sloppy blow jobs to truckers at rest stops.

MtD
Damn, is that where they're at. No wonder I can't get no head. The one I was seeing was giving me all the head I wanted except for the head I really wanted.
Started Atripla/Ziagen on 9/13/07.
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2/6/08 CD4- 401 VL- undetectable
5/7/08 CD4- 705 VL- undetectable
6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
8/6/08 CD4- 805 VL- undetectable
11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #108 on: May 17, 2008, 10:20:34 PM »
I would go into more details on some of my sexcapades, but I don't want to hijack this thread// :D
"I may not be exactly where I want to be, but I sure as Hell am not where I was"
Wynnona Judd

Diagnosed/HIV
1993
AZT
Norvir
1994-2001
Crixivan/Epivir/Zerit
No Meds for 7 Years

04jul07/DVT-right leg/Bi Lateral PE's     
16oct08/DVT-left leg
Sept '09  6 blood clots in left arm
Coumadin 5mgs
                                     
Atenolol/50mg/2x
Hydrochlorth 25mg/1x
Gemfibrozil/300mgs/2X
Symbicort
Proventil Inhaler
Potassium
Rhinocort


*APR 08~Viramune/Truvada
March08  CD4 330 23% VL 452.000 
*Jan09 Med change~Epzicom/Viramune

Aug09   CD4 523 23%  VL<48
Diagnosed: COPD
Dec 2013: CD4 645 45% VL 49
Med Change: Viramune/Epivir/Ziagen/Isentress

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #109 on: May 18, 2008, 04:40:24 AM »
I'm not even going to comment about how I feel about poz "straight" men right now.  I think probably a good majority of them were infected taking it up the rear.

where are all the straight poz men (faults and all)? i see some in my support groups and some on pozmatch.com. they are a pretty reclusive species.

In my experience poz straight men are generally to be found giving sloppy blow jobs to truckers at rest stops.

MtD

Jeeze, is it any wonder why poz straight guys tend to hide from society? Yeah, some of them may have been having MSM on the sly, but plenty of them don't.

Do I have to remind people that while transmission from a woman to a man is more difficult to accomplish, it's NOT impossible?

Grow up and leave the judgements about how people got infected out of it. It's just not fair and this isn't the appropriate place to throw this crap around. I don't want to see this again.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #110 on: May 18, 2008, 06:28:48 AM »
I agree with Ann. Those comments are not only inappropriate, but they reflect a persistant myth that being the penetrator during sexual intercourse is somehow safe. I've heard this even from people who really should know better. I know that's how I got infected, and although it might not be statistically the most common way, statistics don't do a bit of good once you are infected.
« Last Edit: May 18, 2008, 06:31:29 AM by chm02 »

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #111 on: May 18, 2008, 07:57:02 AM »
Jeeze, is it any wonder why poz straight guys tend to hide from society? Yeah, some of them may have been having MSM on the sly, but plenty of them don't.

Do I have to remind people that while transmission from a woman to a man is more difficult to accomplish, it's NOT impossible?

Grow up and leave the judgements about how people got infected out of it. It's just not fair and this isn't the appropriate place to throw this crap around.
I don't want to see this again.

Ann


Thank you for posting this. And, being mindful as to commentary about " how people got infected" should be a broad brush approach to include how the poster decides to deal with it and what kinds of specific assistance or counsel a poster seeks through the forum.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #112 on: May 18, 2008, 12:47:25 PM »
oh-Oh, someone got chastised! i see bitterness and admonishing...

i think you are all right. its horrible to perpetuate these myths that are stigmatizing straight men. its also unfortunate that MEN & WOMEN are cheating on their partners or are unable to live lives closer to their core identities. with that said, i believe (no facts or stats, just my 50 cents) that the majority of straight men, especially straight men outside of the us, receive the disease from unsafe heterosexual sex. once again, don't bash my opinion. i know there are probably plenty of men on the dl everywhere, but i don't think we should generalize hiv to msm sex just because we are the most visible poz group here in the us (and the easiest mode of sexual transmission too).

1 of the straight guys in my group got it intravenously. the other 2 got if from their female partners. the lone female in my group (we adopted her, it's so great, she's the only woman out of a group of 20-30 men in our male support group) got if from her husband who was having unprotected msm sex. i know i got it because i needed something from another person, i was lonely and wanted a partner and was willing to bend the rules for this 1 (2, 3) right guy.
 
anyhow, has anyone found where they are hiding? if they are scared of people thinking whatever about them oh well, they can join the group. it is not a fear they share alone. it's horrible none the less, but im sure plenty of us are still struggling with new facets of our identities gifted to us by hiv. when i was hospitalized 10 days ago the nurse asked me if i got hiv through drug use. i wanted to hit her. i don't want to tell people at my work cause i don't want them thinking im diseased or that i habitually make poor decisions. i still struggle with being a victim of my hiv too. anyhow, those are some of my fears. i know they are irrational but they are tacitly perpetuated in our society and its hard to divest myself of things that have been bolstered or inculcated by the masses.

uggh, now back to the search for more dick, or love. if i find single straight poz men ill tell them where to cum or come.

midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #113 on: May 18, 2008, 01:02:01 PM »
on a lighter note,  louis01 from poz personals is hot : ). so is moredimoi, isosmoov, and Antonio makes me want to grow a vagina. not to mention all the others! no lectures on being superficial or the other things a person brings to the table : )
midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #114 on: May 18, 2008, 01:38:11 PM »
See now, next2, I reactivated my account and was searching and didn't find jack, not one who was close to me or interesting.
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6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
8/6/08 CD4- 805 VL- undetectable
11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #115 on: May 18, 2008, 02:52:39 PM »
sorry about that qt. move to cali! its warm and there is no snow is so cal!!! hmm, i guess we will have to continue brainstorming. damnit, i sooo feel at fault for unreasonabley raising expectations : )~

im sure the ladies can forgive me. hmm, i know, ill post some pics of hot men!!! umm, what can i say, i like to cover all my food groups : )!






midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #116 on: May 18, 2008, 05:08:27 PM »
Dang!! That's sure is some photogenic hijackin' of a thread.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #117 on: May 18, 2008, 05:42:21 PM »
But a good hijacking at that.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #118 on: May 18, 2008, 06:07:37 PM »
Forget the celeb pix -- I found a real man!

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #119 on: May 18, 2008, 07:20:21 PM »
only one of those guys is a celeb! the rest are just random internet eye candy.

so, my booty called has flaked. internet men can suck : (
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sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #120 on: May 19, 2008, 01:29:12 AM »
Hell, I don't mind a picture hijack at all. The celebrity pic is the second one of Tyson. I would do the oriental guy, he is hot. And Philly is that one of your boy toys?
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #121 on: May 19, 2008, 04:50:55 AM »
Well, actually, inline photo hijacks are frowned upon in the Living forum. You're supposed to use the attachment thingy if you want to post photos in this forum - for the benefit of dial-up users. Photo hijack all you like in OT, but not here, please.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #122 on: May 19, 2008, 09:39:08 AM »
I would go into more details on some of my sexcapades, but I don't want to hijack this thread// :D

Hijack away...this thread was hijacked within minutes of me starting it...lol....I loved the conversations goin on in it..thats y i bumped it...

i wish my son would pee in something other that the toilet and me find it in his room...thats just lazy..lol...but i must admit he has a pretty good aim for a 6 yrold...he almost never lifts the seat up and i havent sat in pee that many times... ;D

I stil havent met any Poz straight men in person..only the one that infected me....i mean i am sure i have seem some like at the docs n stuff but actually up close n personal ...nada...not that im looking anymore anyways...im very happy with my neg yungin.......*being hit by a flashback of this weekend...DAyumm Boyee!*..oh sorry i likes to daydream bout some good luvin.....
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #123 on: May 19, 2008, 10:12:33 AM »
wishful, I see you live in New Jersey.  The Phildadelphia-NJ-NYC corridor by far has the highest IV transmission rate statistics of anywhere in the US so I'd assume there's a healthy sprinkling of straight men in there.  As far as how to practically locate them, I'm of no help.  But assuredly they're there somewhere.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #124 on: May 19, 2008, 11:56:10 AM »
Another is that one's girlfriend or wife might be less prepared to deal with the development than a gay man's partner.


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taken in the context that i am :o, i think you're right.... i'm gay, not partnered, but have views and experiences that would equate to (after all, i AM) a man......  i'd be willing to help if i could....
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« Reply #125 on: May 19, 2008, 12:00:04 PM »
"often mistaken for the straight poz man, his bi counterpart plays the clever decoy, luriing many hot poz mamas to the bedroom."
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if only i were to be so lucky.... a straight man at my beckon call?  ::)
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #126 on: May 19, 2008, 12:19:47 PM »
Philly: the men I do see at the docs are way older than myself...with the exception of one guy that i know from school (who by the way was infected via hetero sex)....i think many are unaware of their statuses and/ or  are in denial...like my infector....and those aware dont want the risk of anyone finding out..our town is really small...we only have 2 places that treat HIV (that i know of even), one is the local clinic that people go to for everything and alot already assume if u go there and its not to take your child for shots that u are going bcus your pos, and the other place (where i go), only older people go there it seems...
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #127 on: May 19, 2008, 12:37:04 PM »
Hell, I don't even see them at my ASO when I go there for clinic. And the one I did see was someone I knew who was bi that I had an encounter with which WASN'T worth remembering. I think the only reason we hooked up was because we were curious about each other. And we only have 2 places too, the ASO and the Health Dept. My ASO even tried to have a support group and no one showed up.*sighs*
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #128 on: May 19, 2008, 12:44:02 PM »
My ASO even tried to have a support group and no one showed up.*sighs*

That happens with teh gays too.  I go monthly to a group, but our first year or so it was bumpy with some months where only the moderator and I were there, and we just ate pizza and shot the breeze.  I kept going just to help him out as I didn't want him feeling like he was pulling all the weight.  Now we're up to about 8 people each month, sometimes more.

Anyway, support groups are for support honey, not booty calls :)
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« Reply #129 on: May 19, 2008, 02:26:36 PM »
I agree and I wouldn't be making booty calls at a support group but was just showing how much hetero men are on the DL in my neck of the woods.
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11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #130 on: May 19, 2008, 02:37:26 PM »
Good grief LOL

I can think of at least 50 men I have met who are straight and positive. Likely more.
Y'all just need to move to Texas apparently. Either that or I have skills. LMAO

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« Reply #131 on: May 19, 2008, 02:44:04 PM »
LOL...Apparently! (We need to move)
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #132 on: May 19, 2008, 07:14:48 PM »
The ASO here has a support group every Thursday night.  I went a couple of times.  I was the only woman and the rest of the attendees were gay men.  Which is alright; like you said David, a support group is for support.  Just saying, the straight men aren't coming out in this area either.  And neither are the women.  The case managers all tell me it's the women in this area who never, ever venture to the ASO for anything like a support group.  They're way too afraid of the stigma.  And they tell me most of the poz women don't go to the ASO for services either; the case managers have to go to their houses.  I personally could care  less.  But then, it's just me.  My daughter is grown and gone.  I might feel differently if I had children living at home. 
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #133 on: May 20, 2008, 12:55:44 AM »
yeah, i hooked it with a guy from my support group. never again. but, i was able to meet people who knew people. there i found a pool of dateable men. i try not to solicit sex at my primary support group. but the secondary ones are open!!!

i need more than one type of support!!!

btw, i think ann liked the cupcake man!!!
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feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #134 on: May 20, 2008, 04:49:33 AM »


btw, i think ann liked the cupcake man!!!

The guy in the middle is a bit of alright.  ;)
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #135 on: May 20, 2008, 05:05:02 AM »
btw, i think ann liked the cupcake man!!!

cupcake? I see whipped cream topped by a cherry.
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« Reply #136 on: May 20, 2008, 11:15:12 AM »
I dont go to Support meetings or go to my ASO for services...If i needed to i would tho..like when i first moved back here from Fl..i used to get cab rides and things like that from them for doc appointments..but now i drive, have decent insurance thru work, and talk to u guys here..
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #137 on: May 20, 2008, 11:37:00 AM »
I'm not sure I "get" the stigma excuse about going to an ASO.  You have to be fairly paranoid to think that people are sitting in the parking lot taking notations and pictures of people going in a building.  Plus when I think about it every ASO I've known of outside of GMHC in NYC has not been all that identifiable, generally in a building with multiple uses.

At any rate it's not a great excuse as far as support groups go -- you can always coordinate with a case manager and try to round up others that feel stigmatized and meet in a private home.  You just have to be willing to do the work.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #138 on: May 20, 2008, 02:49:50 PM »
I don't have a problem going to my ASO and like Philly said it is in a building where other community things go on. If anything I might see one other person in there when I am there. And actually have only run across one person that I knew. He could only assume what I was there for though I knew what he was there for.

My ASO has been a great help to me in plenty of ways though I wish I had a better case manager. I work with her to the best of my ability.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #139 on: May 20, 2008, 03:49:50 PM »
We are here!!!!!

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #140 on: May 20, 2008, 03:51:18 PM »
We're here!!

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #141 on: May 20, 2008, 04:35:26 PM »
We're here!!

And by looking at your name, prolly a million miles away from most of poz women.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #142 on: May 20, 2008, 04:48:28 PM »
As of 2006 the CDC reports Texas has 25,003 people living with HIV and 34,063 people diagnosed with AIDS.

Arizona has 5,793 people living with HIV and 4,929 people diagnosed with AIDS.

New Mexico has 909 people living with HIV and 1,255 people diagnosed with AIDS.

Nevada has 3,415  people living with HIV and 2,972 people diagnosed with AIDS.

You'd think some of these folks would be straight men. LOL

To check out the stats on your state you can click on the link below.
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« Reply #143 on: May 20, 2008, 06:52:04 PM »
Well, my state has almost 8,000 people (total) living with HIV/AIDS.  I probably know a handful, outside of these forums.

I have no problem feeling stigmatized.  The ASO here is the sole occupier of the building it's in.  I did a t.v. interview in the middle 90's without backlash (too bad I don't have a link ::)).  But, I knew people who have since passed on who faced horrible discrimination and bias.  This is such a conservative area, chalkful of Bible-thumping rednecks.  The people who won't come to my ASO, well, I'm not sure exactly what their greatest fear is.  I'd be interested to talk to them sometime though.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #144 on: May 20, 2008, 06:55:02 PM »
Here's a picture of a man to give Miss Tokelove something to talk about when she logs back on:

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« Reply #145 on: May 20, 2008, 07:09:04 PM »
I did 4 or 5 TV interviews in the early to mid 90's. I decided not to do anymore because the last reporter twisted my story and made my then alive, now dead husband out to be a bad guy. They took roughly an hour of tape and cut it up to make it sound like he infected me purposefully. I got so many phone calls from angry friends and relatives it was horrible. Fortunately they believed me when I told them it wasn't true.

It takes a lot of trust to be interviewed and I don't think I'll ever trust another reporter.

As far as going to the ASO. I could give two craps who sees me go in the building. My thought is what the hell are they doing there anyway? LOL
Not that I really care who knows I have HIV. The only people I know that aren't aware of my status are business related. And if it where left completely up to me I wouldn't care if they knew.
I'm not sure if my immediate neighbors know. But if they did I wouldn't care. I'm sure they wouldn't be bothered by it.

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« Reply #146 on: May 21, 2008, 12:51:49 AM »
i <3 anthony gallo. thank you philly, you know how to perk things up. can you hijack a lil bit more please? i promise to return the favor.

my state has 61555 people living with aids and no stats for the HIVers. hmm, well i'm one!


yeah for desertguy.

i saw a stat today on infection possibility for vagina - penis hiv transmission w/o protection. that shit was very low, ill post the info later. it was from poz mag.
midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #147 on: May 21, 2008, 01:30:06 AM »
Here's a picture of a man to give Miss Tokelove something to talk about when she logs back on:

Damn...I would love some of that. I don't know how I missed that earlier when I checked in. Now I have someone to dream about. Thanks Philicia.... :-*

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6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
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11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
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3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #148 on: May 21, 2008, 01:53:01 AM »
Damn...I would love some of that. I don't know how I missed that earlier when I checked in. Now I have someone to dream about. Thanks Philicia.... :-*

My state has no number for folks who are living with hiv, funny, like Next, I am one. And in the case of living with Aids, it is 18,703.

On October 18, 2002, Pennsylvania initiated confidential name-based HIV infection reporting in all areas except Philadelphia. Code-based reporting was implemented in Philadelphia in March 2004, and the switch to name-based reporting was made in October 2005.  The one county of Philadelphia contains half of all cases for the entire state.

This shows the 2006 number at 9,537

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/surveillance/resources/reports/2006report/table16.htm
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« Reply #149 on: May 21, 2008, 02:08:58 AM »




That's me! Who stole my photo?! ;D
Aug 07 Diagnosed
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Jun 08 CD4=325(22%) Jul 08 CD4=301(18%)
Sep 08 CD4=257/VL=75,000 Oct 08 CD4=347(16%)
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(Interrupted for 2 months with only Epizcom & Reyataz)
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« Reply #150 on: May 21, 2008, 07:01:16 AM »
and lovely photo it is too ;D

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #151 on: May 21, 2008, 05:54:49 PM »
Its a little off topic but what the hay.
In no particular order these are a few celebs I've been physically attracted to.

Tom Welling, Jared Leto, Ewan McGregor, Hayden Christensen, Jude Law, Josh Holloway, Michael Chiklis,
Cillian Murphy, Jensen Ackles and Mark Harmon.

Modified because...
I had links to their pics but the links weren't working.
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #152 on: May 22, 2008, 12:08:11 AM »
wendy, jared leto is smoking hot. i so loved him in my so called life & requiem for a dream. ewan mcgregor was edible in the pillow book also. below are additional hotties. this time, 2 are famous! hmm, philly still hasn't given us more goodies. an ode to hijacking!!! see, when the men don't speak up, we ladies know how to entertain ourselves!!!






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sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #153 on: May 22, 2008, 05:32:32 AM »
ooh the guy at the bottom is totally hot!!!!!! who is he?

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« Reply #154 on: May 22, 2008, 12:55:31 PM »
Girl thats Boris K. i dont dare try spelling his last name..he is married to Nicole Ari  Parker from Soul food the series and some other stuff..he is an actor and model..
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« Reply #155 on: May 22, 2008, 04:40:20 PM »
All with very impressive bodies but as I have aged eye candy has become less important and intellectuals or persons with character have become more appealing.

I couldnt find a webpage devoted to the average guy. LOL

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« Reply #156 on: December 29, 2008, 02:18:01 PM »
AHAHAHHA!  I just finished reading this thread! Hilarious.

Positive straight guy here you LOVED reading this!  Thanks.

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« Reply #157 on: December 29, 2008, 04:11:47 PM »
AHAHAHHA!  I just finished reading this thread! Hilarious.

Positive straight guy here you LOVED reading this!  Thanks.

Where are all the POZ str8 men? I think they all turned GAY or Bi ..............ROFLOL! just kidding guys
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« Reply #158 on: December 30, 2008, 07:50:41 AM »
Where are all the POZ str8 men? I think they all turned GAY or Bi ..............ROFLOL! just kidding guys
no pun intended  ;D

Ok--I know I'm dense.  I don't get it.  So being positive makes us straight guys 'turn' gay  or bi?  Maybe it's this type of crap that keeps us from this forum?

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« Reply #159 on: December 30, 2008, 08:04:48 AM »
 
no pun intended  ;D

  Ummm...  Sorry I did not see the pun.....
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« Reply #160 on: December 30, 2008, 09:05:00 AM »
Marco and Thomas, I don't think denb was making a serious accusation, but merely commenting on the lack of straight men in the gay community.

What I mean by that is; often times, when men become horny, and things at home are too much of a chore sexually, they will turn to gay people for sexual gratification at the drop of a pin.  This causes us in the gay community to become rather suspicious of men who tend to declare their straightness to us, when in fact, if they are comfortably straight, then they wouldn't have to declare it. 

I have heard many gay men in my life declare that there really are no totally straight men, but this also shows a level of ignorance that isn't fair or true, however, I have experienced some really interesting events in my life that cause me to pause.  For instance, many years ago, there was a marine in southern California who I met and while we were "doing it", with me being the active partner, he looked into my eyes as I was plowing the point home, and said "Please don't kiss me, I'm not queer".  Needless to say, I was so struck by the humor of the situation that it was the end of our little tet-a-tet, and I excused him and he left, terribly distraught that he had hurt my gay feelings.  Strange indeed.

I really don't think Denb had any mean feelings in his comment, but I certainly understood what he was referring to.  You guys who are straight and have never even thought about hooking up with a gay man; probably need to learn a bit from some of us who have innocently hooked up with far more self confessed "straight men" than you might have thought would have existed. 

Marco, you have expressed a keen interest in becoming involved in helping others to not become infected, and this is one of those areas that most governments and health programes seldom admit exist, or even know about, so it is really important to not shun the knowledge that millions of straight men do go outside of that community and come to the gay community for sexual satisfaction and then take the bug home to mommie/their wives, or girlfriends.

It is just a part of human nature.  We in the end, are all sexual beings and each one of us describes ourselves in the way that suits our needs and natures.

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #161 on: December 30, 2008, 09:50:55 AM »
I guess this is the point in the thread where I relate the time when I met a guy at a urinal and he took me home to his house, fucked the living shit out of me, then told me to keep it quiet (in disjointed Spanglish) because his wife and kids were upstairs sleeping.

Lovely, no?  He was gorgeous and very hung, so I did as I was told and then left...
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« Reply #162 on: December 30, 2008, 09:57:18 AM »
Marco and Thomas, I don't think denb was making a serious accusation, but merely commenting on the lack of straight men in the gay community.

What I mean by that is; often times, when men become horny, and things at home are too much of a chore sexually, they will turn to gay people for sexual gratification at the drop of a pin.  This causes us in the gay community to become rather suspicious of men who tend to declare their straightness to us, when in fact, if they are comfortably straight, then they wouldn't have to declare it. 

I have heard many gay men in my life declare that there really are no totally straight men, but this also shows a level of ignorance that isn't fair or true, however, I have experienced some really interesting events in my life that cause me to pause.  For instance, many years ago, there was a marine in southern California who I met and while we were "doing it", with me being the active partner, he looked into my eyes as I was plowing the point home, and said "Please don't kiss me, I'm not queer".  Needless to say, I was so struck by the humor of the situation that it was the end of our little tet-a-tet, and I excused him and he left, terribly distraught that he had hurt my gay feelings.  Strange indeed.

I really don't think Denb had any mean feelings in his comment, but I certainly understood what he was referring to.  You guys who are straight and have never even thought about hooking up with a gay man; probably need to learn a bit from some of us who have innocently hooked up with far more self confessed "straight men" than you might have thought would have existed. 

Marco, you have expressed a keen interest in becoming involved in helping others to not become infected, and this is one of those areas that most governments and health programes seldom admit exist, or even know about, so it is really important to not shun the knowledge that millions of straight men do go outside of that community and come to the gay community for sexual satisfaction and then take the bug home to mommie/their wives, or girlfriends.

It is just a part of human nature.  We in the end, are all sexual beings and each one of us describes ourselves in the way that suits our needs and natures.

Just my thoughts.

Guys...it was a JOKE, I was being sarcastic.............nothing more...........wasn't trying to be mean

Thanks Moffie65,  ;D  you bring up some VERY interesting points of view......and as for str8 men, I've worked around them for yrs. ( being in the Military and Law Enforcement for a number of yrs.) most didn't even know I was Gay, unless I told them, and when I did, it was no big deal at all, I was still one of the Boys, no matter what, I know my humor can be somewhat
dry, but again that's something I learned form all you str8 guys thur the yrs. and YES, you do have a lot
to offer, I have found Great Friendship, Respect, and non-sexual-support, this ole world wouldn't be very interesrting without you guys, and I'm greatful for that  ;D Men will always be Men no matter what, it just doesn't really matter who's Gay, Bi, or str8 were all still Men

And Philicia...........I always declined SEX with a Str8 guy, ( mostly due to them being co-workers) I just didn't want to go there, when I was offered it by some str8 men, I turned it down, and said No thanks......... being in the jobs I had, I'm sure you understand why..........I always thought Co-worker
sex was Taboo  :-[ however, if SEX was being offered by non- co-workers, I might have re-considered ;D
it is my understanding ,that if any men wants to have sex with another man, then he's really NOT str8 at all Str8 men don't have sex with each other unless they are Bi or Gay...........

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #163 on: December 30, 2008, 09:58:25 AM »
Moffie,

Iíve been HIV positive for 18 years.  Iím in no way a neophyte.  Thank you for suggesting where my focus should be, but actually youíre speaking of HIV transmission that occurs in behaviorally bisexual men.  In my state, that accounts for about 12% of our male transmission rate, as best as we can estimate. 

Being behaviorally bisexual, Bi or Gay are in fact different then being straight.  Regardless of what happens on Oprah, or at times in this forum, there ARE HIV positive men who never had sex with another man.

The plural of anecdote is not data so, your statement of ďYou guys who are straight and have never even thought about hooking up with a gay man; probably need to learn a bit from some of us who have innocently hooked up with far more self confessed "straight men" than you might have thought would have existed.Ē  Shows that yes, there are Bisexual men.  But you go too far in suggesting that we straight HIV positive men are oblivious to this perception.  In fact most of us have had to deal with it since the moment we disclosed our HIV status.

I can no longer count the number of eyebrow lifts, or verbal equivalents Iíve received immediately following a disclosure of my status and the fact that Iím straight. 

Now, I do not intend to be backed into a homophobe corner here simply by saying that IĎm not Gay.  Iíve said repeatedly in other threads here that if it were not for the love, compassion and teaching of Gay men I would be dead.  Iíve lived most of my HIV positive life trying to live up to the challenge they gave me and Ďpay it forwardí in a sense.

My chief complaint here is that almost inevitably in this forum, when one of us discloses that we are a straight man with HIV a post that basically can be distilled to ďUmmm, SURE you areĒ occurs.  Itís tiresome and in my opinion one important reason why some of us post sparingly here.

Generalizations and stereotypes are not fun even when they are true.  They are worse when their premise is false.

Your following statement of , ďThis causes us in the gay community to become rather suspicious of men who tend to declare their straightness to us, when in fact, if they are comfortably straight, then they wouldn't have to declare it.Ē unfairly tells us that we cannot openly disclose our sexual orientation.  How is THAT fair?  Here, when others have presumed me to be Gay, I have responded with the statement that I am not, only as a point of fact.  So is that disclosure meet your definition of someone who is so uncomfortable with their own orientation that they have to overtly disclose heterosexuality to Ďcoveríóor is it just me being honest as others are allowed to do here? 

By suggesting that any straight man who discloses his orientation is in fact overcompensating and therefore not straight, you have removed the option for us to state honestly who we are.   It reminds me of those flawed syllogisms and interrogation processes that uses questions such as ďHave you stopped beating your wife?Ē.  If one never beat their wife there is no way to answer that question as asked.  It presumes a false answer.

The original poster of this thread asked a question to the effect of ďWhere are the HIV positive straight men?Ē and when we replied with our presence here we are expected to be derided because of our orientation?

I think this brings the larger issue to clear light.  Is this forum one that actually accepts HIV positive individuals regardless of their mode of HIV infection and their sexual orientation, or doesnít it?

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #164 on: December 30, 2008, 10:35:59 AM »



I think this brings the larger issue to clear light.  Is this forum one that actually accepts HIV positive individuals regardless of their mode of HIV infection and their sexual orientation, or doesnít it?


It is also my understanding that ALL or welcomed here in this forum, so, I hope that you stick around, your opinion is valued here as well as everyone else, your sexual orientation has no bearing what-so-ever ;D we all admire and respect your opinion  ;D so come on now, there is NO need to feel threatened by us Gay /Bi Poz+ Men, one things for sure, were all still POZ+ no matter what the sexual orientation is..........
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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #165 on: December 30, 2008, 11:28:38 AM »


I think this brings the larger issue to clear light.  Is this forum one that actually accepts HIV positive individuals regardless of their mode of HIV infection and their sexual orientation, or doesnít it?


Personally I could care less how anyone got HIV.  Nor do I care about anyone's sexuality issues, though I'm not implying you have one at all.  Obviously MANY people do, which I guess is the point others are making though I've not been following this back and forth that closely.  This is why I only pay so much attention to facts/figures on transmission routes in terms of sexuality because it's such a hard thing to define accurately, though of course it's still very helpful.

Now, I'm sure you've been around enough gay men to have figure out that there's always a handful that seem to think that they can always flip the hetero in bed.  I hope my earlier comment didn't come off that way, because I'm not like that.

In the end the subject is a bit boring and unhelpful.
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« Reply #166 on: December 30, 2008, 01:36:48 PM »
Marco and Thomas, I don't think denb was making a serious accusation, but merely commenting on the lack of straight men in the gay community.

What I mean by that is; often times, when men become horny, and things at home are too much of a chore sexually, they will turn to gay people for sexual gratification at the drop of a pin.  This causes us in the gay community to become rather suspicious of men who tend to declare their straightness to us, when in fact, if they are comfortably straight, then they wouldn't have to declare it. 

 

  Just to clarify I was not upset at all by Denb45's remarks, I seriously just did not see the pun that was not intended. ;D  Perhaps he will clarify for me... ;)

      I really don't get your comment on straights Moffie.  If a gay man, straight woman, or lesbian  can come here and in their initial post identify themself as such, why can't a straight man?  If someone wants to suspect me of having covert operations going on behind my wife's back that is their prerogative, shit doesn't make me lose an ounce of sleep really. 
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« Reply #167 on: December 30, 2008, 01:58:20 PM »
  Just to clarify I was not upset at all by Denb45's remarks, I seriously just did not see the pun that was not intended. ;D  Perhaps he will clarify for me... ;)

      I really don't get your comment on straights Moffie.  If a gay man, straight woman, or lesbian  can come here and in their initial post identify themself as such, why can't a straight man?  If someone wants to suspect me of having covert operations going on behind my wife's back that is their prerogative, shit doesn't make me lose an ounce of sleep really. 

Skeebo............Thanks...........it was a JOKE, I was being sarcastic.............nothing more........... ;D
you are correct, there was never any pun intended in a joke, I'm glad that you saw that......again Thanks  :D
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« Reply #168 on: December 30, 2008, 02:02:36 PM »
Skeebo............Thanks...........it was a JOKE, I was being sarcastic.............nothing more........... ;D

  I know it was Den, I just missed the pun intended really...   I know you were being sarcastic, but you said "no pun intended" while there was no pun even given is what I meant..lol. ;D
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« Reply #169 on: December 30, 2008, 02:05:57 PM »
  I know it was Den, I just missed the pun intended really...   I know you were being sarcastic, but you said "no pun intended" while there was no pun even given is what I meant..lol. ;D

Again your correct, the no pun intended was for others that may not have gotten the JOKE  ;D LOL
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« Reply #170 on: December 30, 2008, 04:52:52 PM »
Marco, Thomas;

I am sorry if anything I said offended either of you.  I obviously didn't create the correct wording to reflect the point I was trying to make, and I don't intend to re-visit my or any other post in this thread.

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« Reply #171 on: December 31, 2008, 09:10:24 AM »
Are there any here?? I dcided to post this question here as well..as i am looking for male feedback as well as women..
Hi Wishful, it's my pleasure to introduce myself I'm Mike AKA PRMike and it would be nice to hear from you and be your friend and who know's where it can lead to ?
ok take care and may you have a HAPPY NEW YEAR always PRMike
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« Reply #172 on: December 31, 2008, 12:57:39 PM »
strictly straight man here. 
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« Reply #173 on: April 26, 2009, 03:53:09 PM »
 8) ha some of us are on rasta time and a little late ;)  but then i've been told i'll be late to my own funeral and also i havn't been chastized very often for dillydaddyin past closing time south of a girls belly button, okay yea i am a little nuts, lack of intimacy will do that to a guy.
       I've personally gotton tired of reindeer games responding to model images that don't know if they have hiv. and living in OCsocal a straight financially struggling artist/entrepreneur that thinks he's half his age sometimes feels twice his age and refuses to quit with hiv isn't exactly prime market material and as a ol surfboy guitar strappin semiretired legend alchemist herbalist growin up on the beach my taste are a little skewed from the prevailing crusine. (in other words if beauty is in the eye of the beholder i ain't been beholdin that well lately)
        if anyone is familiar with the area then you know asf (local org) is so confidentiality conscious that homeland security should get a clue and being a double minority (straight & white) maybe even triple cause the girls got their own club that i got chastized last year for crashing (innocently) as my 1st and only other post, life ain't a beech it can be a real mother fucker with spite and bubble gum the only thing holding it together (that's spite not spit). I've had girlfriends don't get me wrong and still love em, well one not so much, but two od'ed and passed into the black, one went overboard and i'm cool with her not coming back and another left town due to forces stronger and beyond our control. (that's just the last 3 years)(with time at a buddist retreat for soul therapy)

     I understand and have no problem with u girls wanting financial security, at least the ones i'm attracted to, iv'e just decided to focus on that aspect cause window shopping for a guy really isn't all that much fun and i would probably rather get a colonoscapy (okay maybe not) but you get the drift.  luv ya all of you like a brother but only want to keep & sleep with one of you.

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« Reply #174 on: April 26, 2009, 03:58:26 PM »
i did it again damn well maybe yould know if you didn't tell them girls only

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Re: Where are all the POZ straight men at???
« Reply #175 on: April 26, 2009, 04:03:26 PM »
Hmm,
in my parts, i could ask the same question about gay men - where are all the gay poz men. Find em easily enough in London, Paris and New York.  But mum's the word in Geneva.  Damn Swiss discretion.
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« Reply #176 on: April 26, 2009, 07:00:32 PM »
I'm flexible and  it leads to half as many dates not twice as many.
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« Reply #177 on: April 26, 2009, 07:39:33 PM »
Next u are too funny!..and cute too  ;)
yeah i subscribed to hivnet.com and its soooo lame..never more than 3 peopl on at a time and that includes me! My friend said she meets alot of guys but they all want sex still even after being diagnosed, Sex is still their main focus..dont get me wrong i definitely need a lil love err now n then but ultimately we are lookin for someone like ourselves that can understand where we are coming from but sometimes i think i want a negative person who just falls in love with me...and not worry about my condition..
Yes, there are a few of us  out here that understands where you coming from. Me personally I'm one of them type of guys that don't need sex to complete me I need someone that understands where I'm coming from and knows how to listen to the one that is having a problem with the disease

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« Reply #178 on: April 27, 2009, 02:24:50 AM »
Most straight poz people on this site are just in the wrong part of the world.  Sadly in the Western World HIV is something that disproportionately affects the gay community.  If we were all to relocate to South Africa or Russia we'd likely find more straight people for the possiblities of dating or at the very least a dependable booty call...

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« Reply #179 on: April 27, 2009, 02:31:53 AM »
no poz straight men in south africa either..except my ex, who was in denial bout it last time i saw him :)

MAYBE is in the air ;D

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« Reply #180 on: April 30, 2009, 04:23:33 PM »
One more straight around here. :)
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Jan 2009  CD4 550  CD4% ??  VL 40 000
Feb 2009  CD4 330  CD4% 18  VL Unknown
Apr 2009  CD4 406  CD4% 20  VL Unknown
May 2009  CD4 380  CD4% ??  VL 27 000
June 2009 CD4 395  CD4% ??  VL Unknown
Sept 2009 CD4 344  CD4% ??  VL 44 000
Jan   2010 CD4 397  CD4% ??  VL 250 000
May  2010 CD4 370  CD4% 16  VL 750 000
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