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Offline raj19803

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Lap Dancer
« on: November 20, 2007, 02:42:54 PM »
Dears

About 10 days back i was in USA where i visited a lap dance joint.I hired the services of lap dance for about 30 mins. I was wearing my undergarments and terrywool ( not very thick) trousers apart from sweater on top. The lady sucked my cock from outside the trouser.I could feel her lips over my head but my cock was all inside the undergarments and trouser. After that i fingered her vagina with no finger insertion for about 10 -15 secs. I have no visible cuts in my fingers when i see with naked eye.

She rubbed her pussy covered by panties over my trousers with  my cock inside the underwear. I had held her buttocks but not touched the anus  but fingers could be close to that. definitely not touched anus AFter her rubbing for about 15 mins i had an orgasm inside my pants. During the rubbing my penis could have slid from under wear but was within my trousers not exposed . She was wearing a slim panties and there was no direct contact of my penis with her vagina . After about 1 week i am having a slight cold though i do have sinus problem and i have come back to a hot climate. so it could be due to weather change Please advise if there is any risk.

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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #1 on: November 20, 2007, 02:46:39 PM »
There is absolutely no risk of HIV infection from anything you describe here. HIV cannot be transmitted via fingering nor through clothing. You do not need to test for HIV.

Please take the time to read our Welcome Thread and follow the links to our Lessons to learn more about how HIV is and is not transmitted.

MtD

Offline raj19803

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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #2 on: November 20, 2007, 02:54:51 PM »
Dear Matty

Thanks for your reply. I read in one article that one of the symptoms is a cold within 2 weeks. I am having mild nasal infection which is causing me to worry.

This lady was doing similar cock sucking over pants for all the guys who were using her lad dance services. Can any ifection be transmitted due to this?

Can the outside lips of vagina pass the infection to my fingers ? or her wet panties ?

Can holding her buttocks close to anus be any source of infection?

Can the duration of rubbing be any cause of worry?

Please advise

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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #3 on: November 20, 2007, 03:34:25 PM »
Raj, all of the various additions of activities you are throwing into the mix still come down to no risk for HIV transmission. Period.

Maybe a dry cleaning bill but no risk for HIV. Really.

The bottom line in all of this is that you didn't have any unprotected intercourse and that's the real issue as far as HIV transmission is concerned.
Andy Velez

Offline raj19803

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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #4 on: November 21, 2007, 10:31:26 AM »
. My nerves are calmed based on your replies.

I also did go for pissing when i held my penis after fingering. Is there any risk due to that.Sorry for being a pest


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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #5 on: November 21, 2007, 11:28:36 AM »
No, no risk that you urinated after the fingering. Period.

Andy Velez

Offline raj19803

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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #6 on: November 21, 2007, 11:38:51 AM »
Andy

I am referring to the risk of  holding penis while urinating. after fingering ???? not the urination process.

Please clarify

Thanks in advance


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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #7 on: November 21, 2007, 11:49:43 AM »
Yes, I understood quite clearly what you were saying. HIV is not transmitted by holding your penis with the fingers you have used to finger a woman's vagina.

You are worrying needlessly. Really.
Andy Velez

Offline raj19803

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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #8 on: November 24, 2007, 11:16:49 AM »
Andy Ann Rapid


Can i resume normal sexual ( unprotected ) activity with a faithful partner without condoms?

As stated above i never had exposed my genitals to the dancer and  all the contact was over pants ( both oral and rubbing )


Offline raj19803

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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #9 on: November 24, 2007, 11:17:53 AM »
 apart from holding her buttocks and fingering

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #10 on: November 24, 2007, 11:40:50 AM »
Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #11 on: November 24, 2007, 12:12:38 PM »
Raj, Warning!

If you come back again with the same stuff or variations on it you're getting timed out.
Andy Velez

Offline raj19803

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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #12 on: December 09, 2007, 10:45:26 AM »
Guys one last time

Anxiety is high so please donot shoo me away.

Do vaginal secretions on the panties while grinding during the lap dance carry the virus. Does the virus die in contact with cloth or can it permeate inside clothes that it can infect the penis with skin open.

Does the virus live on the lips of vagina that it can  infect if touched.

Does the virus transmit by saliva while running lips over pants with penis inside.

My apologies for irritating you but i am serious with my concerns please bear with me






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Re: Lap Dancer
« Reply #13 on: December 09, 2007, 02:25:16 PM »
Raj,

If you were serious about learning about hiv transmission, you would have read the Welcome thread like you've been asked to and you would have read the Transmission Lesson.

Getting a lap dance is not a risk for hiv infection. Unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse is a risk. You didn't have unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse, you had a lap dance.

You've been warned about repeatedly posting over this NO RISK lap dance. I'm giving you that time out. Do not create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned, no questions asked.

Ann
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