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Offline Blling89

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Re: Advice needed
« on: February 11, 2015, 08:08:21 AM »
Hello jeff i m new user and don't know to make forum i have one question plz if you are there now?thanks
Hlo ,i want to continue use this site can you plz tell me how to pay.i don't have pay by i can pay by credit card.i m on big risk.i just had oral 4 weeks and i can see every single symptom of hiv.i didn't have sex from 2 years and last month i had std test was negetive.i m dying inside feeling tht i got hiv postive even i was on safe side .only girl gave me bj thts all happened between us.but after that day i m sick diarrhoea from 4weeks,sore throat badly nodes as well ,sore muscles.i think she recently infected bcz her current hiv test is negative so far.she got sore throat aa well.plz help me i will kill myself if i found positive

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« Reply #1 on: February 11, 2015, 08:11:28 AM »
You can post all your questions here in your own thread ... Please only post in this one thread no matter how long between visits or the subject matter . You can find this thread by going to your profile and selecting show own post and it will take you here . It helps us to help you when you keep all your thoughts or questions in one thread and it helps other readers to follow the discussion. Additional threads will be merged. http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0

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« Reply #2 on: February 11, 2015, 08:24:55 AM »
Ask your question .
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Re: Advice needed
« Reply #3 on: February 11, 2015, 08:37:18 AM »
Hlo,i m sharing now i had oral sex 4 weeks ago unprotected with one girl .she gave me bj tht was all I didn't gave her oral she was on date tht day.i have never had unprotected intercourse in my life so far.after 2 days oral i did get pimples on my penis and went to doctor he said its not herpes i was worried about.pimples went away last week but there was bit inflammed penis head now looks fine.i have diarrhoea from 4 weeks now ,loss of appetite,skin itching and sore throat from last week and some white pimple on tongue i have noticed yesterday.my symptoms shows that i have hiv positive.i m 26 year old and had std screen 2 mnths ago which was negetive I didn't have sex from 2 years.this was first time after 2 years ended up with oral only.even i ask her to get blood test for safety and we went to doctor for result which shows herpes positive,there was one infection doctor couldn't find it wasn't uti and hiv negetive.now i m very scared still bcz she was still with someone recently and she go out all the time.i mean if she hiv positive and not appear in test yet bcz it takes 3month and other she just gave me bj so i could catch serious disease from her?my symptoms make me worried
Hlo ,i want to continue use this site can you plz tell me how to pay.i don't have pay by i can pay by credit card.i m on big risk.i just had oral 4 weeks and i can see every single symptom of hiv.i didn't have sex from 2 years and last month i had std test was negetive.i m dying inside feeling tht i got hiv postive even i was on safe side .only girl gave me bj thts all happened between us.but after that day i m sick diarrhoea from 4weeks,sore throat badly nodes as well ,sore muscles.i think she recently infected bcz her current hiv test is negative so far.she got sore throat aa well.plz help me i will kill myself if i found positive

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« Reply #4 on: February 11, 2015, 08:43:01 AM »
No one has ever been infected with HIV from getting a blow job and you will not be the first .
HIV is sexually transmitted from unprotected anal or vaginal sex ... not from getting your dick sucked and it would not matter if she had HIV or not, its not a risk.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI.Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you did not have a risk and do not need to test for this specific incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!
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Re: Advice needed
« Reply #5 on: February 11, 2015, 08:52:28 AM »
Thanks jeff for reply i respect for your answer.but my doctor saying that is still risk but its very low risk.and i got all symptoms feeling like i have catched it already.i m trying to ignore but i m having symptoms more and more .i never been sick like this it just happened after tht day.so i m dying inside to thinking about this bcz i m very unlucky person.
Hlo ,i want to continue use this site can you plz tell me how to pay.i don't have pay by i can pay by credit card.i m on big risk.i just had oral 4 weeks and i can see every single symptom of hiv.i didn't have sex from 2 years and last month i had std test was negetive.i m dying inside feeling tht i got hiv postive even i was on safe side .only girl gave me bj thts all happened between us.but after that day i m sick diarrhoea from 4weeks,sore throat badly nodes as well ,sore muscles.i think she recently infected bcz her current hiv test is negative so far.she got sore throat aa well.plz help me i will kill myself if i found positive

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Re: Re: Advice needed
« Reply #6 on: February 11, 2015, 08:54:31 AM »
You doctor is dead wrong . You cant get HIV from getting a BJ, no one ever has .
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Re: Advice needed
« Reply #7 on: February 12, 2015, 06:38:47 AM »
Hlo jeff i have just paid to continue use this site.i m on big risk.i just had oral 4 weeks and i can see every single symptom of hiv.i didn't have sex from 2 years and had negative result 2mnth ago.i m dying inside just felling i got this serious disease .i have every single symptom which cleara that i got hiv positive from oral i have still diarrhoea ,sore throat badly lymph nodes ,sore muscles and feeling sick all the time.she is diagonsed negetive so far but she is sick now aa well with sore throat .she has affair with many boys .i just did get bj from her.my tongue got pimples on it and burning.i will kill myself if its positive bcz i never had unprotected intercourse in my life and i was not aware about oral tht its risking as well.plz reply me
Hlo ,i want to continue use this site can you plz tell me how to pay.i don't have pay by i can pay by credit card.i m on big risk.i just had oral 4 weeks and i can see every single symptom of hiv.i didn't have sex from 2 years and last month i had std test was negetive.i m dying inside feeling tht i got hiv postive even i was on safe side .only girl gave me bj thts all happened between us.but after that day i m sick diarrhoea from 4weeks,sore throat badly nodes as well ,sore muscles.i think she recently infected bcz her current hiv test is negative so far.she got sore throat aa well.plz help me i will kill myself if i found positive

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Re: Advice needed
« Reply #8 on: February 12, 2015, 06:50:20 AM »
Plz someone else can advice aa well how it can possible tht i got exact same symptom after oral sex aa well.they always say its inpossible how could it infected me .she didn't even took off pant she just gave me bj and currently she is negative but i m sure she is infected bcz she just recently met before me one guy who came from oversea he looks infected.plz reply i have 2positive point one is still is negative on result yet other it was only oral from her to me.but i m sure infected with hiv positive from her.there is no mean to develop all sympton in me without any reason.doctor said there is risk but low risk
Hlo ,i want to continue use this site can you plz tell me how to pay.i don't have pay by i can pay by credit card.i m on big risk.i just had oral 4 weeks and i can see every single symptom of hiv.i didn't have sex from 2 years and last month i had std test was negetive.i m dying inside feeling tht i got hiv postive even i was on safe side .only girl gave me bj thts all happened between us.but after that day i m sick diarrhoea from 4weeks,sore throat badly nodes as well ,sore muscles.i think she recently infected bcz her current hiv test is negative so far.she got sore throat aa well.plz help me i will kill myself if i found positive

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« Reply #9 on: February 12, 2015, 07:28:44 AM »
You doctor is dead wrong . You cant get HIV from getting a BJ, no one ever has .

Please do not spend money to buy a subscription to ask more questions about a no risk blow job ... its not a risk no matter what circumstances you throw into the mix .

If you try to create another account again you will be banned .
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Re: Advice needed
« Reply #10 on: February 12, 2015, 07:36:01 AM »
Sorry jeff i m new so i have tried but i will not try again .i hardly found how to pay so now i can keep using this one.so does anxiety can give me this symptoms but symptoms are real and i feeling itching on my neck and throat.i don't what i m sure got infected
Hlo ,i want to continue use this site can you plz tell me how to pay.i don't have pay by i can pay by credit card.i m on big risk.i just had oral 4 weeks and i can see every single symptom of hiv.i didn't have sex from 2 years and last month i had std test was negetive.i m dying inside feeling tht i got hiv postive even i was on safe side .only girl gave me bj thts all happened between us.but after that day i m sick diarrhoea from 4weeks,sore throat badly nodes as well ,sore muscles.i think she recently infected bcz her current hiv test is negative so far.she got sore throat aa well.plz help me i will kill myself if i found positive

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« Reply #11 on: February 12, 2015, 07:37:49 AM »
If you are sick go see a doctor, we do not discuss symptoms . If this is your only concern its not HIV .
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« Reply #12 on: February 12, 2015, 07:54:28 AM »
Sorry jeff i can't understand ,all other sites and doctors say there is risk in oral for hiv how can we so confident and i can see all symptoms in me after oral.i don't know its only month yet can't wait 2more month
Hlo ,i want to continue use this site can you plz tell me how to pay.i don't have pay by i can pay by credit card.i m on big risk.i just had oral 4 weeks and i can see every single symptom of hiv.i didn't have sex from 2 years and last month i had std test was negetive.i m dying inside feeling tht i got hiv postive even i was on safe side .only girl gave me bj thts all happened between us.but after that day i m sick diarrhoea from 4weeks,sore throat badly nodes as well ,sore muscles.i think she recently infected bcz her current hiv test is negative so far.she got sore throat aa well.plz help me i will kill myself if i found positive

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« Reply #13 on: February 12, 2015, 07:57:41 AM »
The theoretical risk from oral comes from GIVING a man a blow job when he has a high viral load and you suffer significant wounds in your mouth ... not from getting blow jobs, no one has ever been infected with HIV from getting their dick sucked and you will not be the first .

We will not pretend you had a risk when you did not .
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« Reply #14 on: February 12, 2015, 08:02:49 AM »
Ok thanks jeff i wish i m safe.but i m very scared just feeling tht i m unlucky man and it canhappen to me
Hlo ,i want to continue use this site can you plz tell me how to pay.i don't have pay by i can pay by credit card.i m on big risk.i just had oral 4 weeks and i can see every single symptom of hiv.i didn't have sex from 2 years and last month i had std test was negetive.i m dying inside feeling tht i got hiv postive even i was on safe side .only girl gave me bj thts all happened between us.but after that day i m sick diarrhoea from 4weeks,sore throat badly nodes as well ,sore muscles.i think she recently infected bcz her current hiv test is negative so far.she got sore throat aa well.plz help me i will kill myself if i found positive

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« Reply #15 on: February 12, 2015, 08:08:34 AM »
Ok thanks jeff i wish i m safe.but i m very scared just feeling tht i m unlucky man and it canhappen to me

We cant help you if you wont listen ... You did not have a risk .
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« Reply #16 on: February 12, 2015, 06:46:47 PM »
Hlo,before sleep and after wake up this is only thing hitting my mind.i have zero risk but 100 symptoms are there of hiv positive.its making me more scared now bcz she got sick as well with sore throat badly.it can't be co incidence .i don't know how it can be possible .i have very bad buring pain during urination .my body is like i can't wake up from bed unable to do anything.stomach is paining and diarrhoe still there from 4 weeks.sore throat is at worst and can feel lympe nodes as well.i don't know plz plz share your story if it happen to anyone and they were negative in end.plz help i can't rid off this thing.sorry jeffy i am dying with anxiety
Hlo ,i want to continue use this site can you plz tell me how to pay.i don't have pay by i can pay by credit card.i m on big risk.i just had oral 4 weeks and i can see every single symptom of hiv.i didn't have sex from 2 years and last month i had std test was negetive.i m dying inside feeling tht i got hiv postive even i was on safe side .only girl gave me bj thts all happened between us.but after that day i m sick diarrhoea from 4weeks,sore throat badly nodes as well ,sore muscles.i think she recently infected bcz her current hiv test is negative so far.she got sore throat aa well.plz help me i will kill myself if i found positive

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« Reply #17 on: February 12, 2015, 06:48:55 PM »
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If you come back with more of the same after your ban is up you will get another . Get some help that we cant provide .


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