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Author Topic: Please tell me my risk  (Read 1593 times)

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Offline fingerscrossed

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Please tell me my risk
« on: April 30, 2010, 08:04:02 PM »

I was on here a long time ago. Andy V. nice to see you are still around (I also remember RapidRod as well).  Unfortunately, I am back on here to ask another risk question.

- Before I went to a sex worker I plucked some pubic hairs and used a beard shaver to trim my pubic hairs. 
- Then I went to a sex worker and she started to play with my penis with her hands and boobs (no condom). 
- I rubbed her vagina through her panties, as her panties were still on. 
- While I was rubbing her she was rubbing my penis with her hands with some liquid she put on (some kind of lubricant). 

- I then put a condom on.  But this condom was provided by her so how can i be sure it was a good condom?  She also kept it inside her panties right on her pubic region. 
- Well, she blew into the condom and put condom on, and then gave me a blowjob. 
- I check her vagina area and though it was dark did not notice anything unusual. 
- Then I eventually entered her vagina doggie style.  I made sure that no part of my body touched hers other than what was covered by my condom.  So I had no direct skin to skin contact.  Then I took the condom off. 
- Then I grabbed some tissue, put it around my penis and masturbated.  But while I was masturbating, some of my hand that took the condom off touched my penis skin. 

I am worried about three things:
1. The possible vaginal fluid touching my penis.  Worried about HIV risk as well as genital warts risk.
2. I am also worried the condom she gave was not adequate.
3. And I am worried the trimming and plucking I did may have made me more susceptible to catching genital warts or HIV.

Can you please tell me my risk for ANY STDs and HIV?  I will get tested once I stop being a cheating wussie.

Once again, thanks to you guys for your generous support with us cheating bastards that use sex workers.

Offline fingerscrossed

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Re: Please tell me my risk
« Reply #1 on: April 30, 2010, 08:05:37 PM »
I just wanted to add, I was rubbing her vagina not directly, but was rubbing her panties.  So by through her panties I meant my hand was on the outside of her panties.

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Please tell me my risk
« Reply #2 on: April 30, 2010, 08:06:50 PM »
Please keep all your thoughts questions and comments in your original thread. This helps us follow your story and give you the most accurate advice.

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Offline fingerscrossed

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Re: Please tell me my risk
« Reply #3 on: April 30, 2010, 08:13:13 PM »
Hi Matt,

Should I reply to my original thread?  That thread was in 2007.

Thank you.

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Please tell me my risk
« Reply #4 on: April 30, 2010, 08:16:06 PM »
Yes. Please re-post this question in your original thread.

Under the AMI rules you are not permitted to start a new thread, no matter how old your original thread might be.

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