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Offline pretzel1002

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Insertive Sex
« on: July 06, 2006, 02:20:34 AM »
I have a question.

I had protected sex with a man. I was the insertive partner. I used a condom, I was wondering if the condom broke during intercourse would I realize. I don’t recall any signs of it breaking and was wondering if it would be somewhat apparent if an break occurred or if I would not be able to tell. the other thing was we did not have lube and used spit. I don’t think the condom broke, is this considered safe sex if I used a condom and it showed no signs of breakage. thanks.
« Last Edit: July 06, 2006, 02:50:51 AM by pretzel1002 »

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Insertive Sex
« Reply #1 on: July 06, 2006, 02:54:23 AM »
I have a question.

I had protected sex with a man. I was the insertive partner. I used a condom, I was wondering if the condom broke during intercourse would I realize. I don’t recall any signs of it breaking and was wondering if it would be somewhat apparent if an break occurred or if I would not be able to tell. the other thing was we did not have lube and used spit. I don’t think the condom broke, is this considered safe sex if I used a condom and it showed no signs of breakage.


Pretzel,

When condoms break they do it in dramatic fashion. Believe me had the condom broken you would have known. They end up looking shredded. Given that, there is no risk of HIV transmission from what you describe. Please take the time to read our spiffy Welcome Thread which contains links to the important HIV transmission lessons here at AIDSMEDS.

One other thing, people who are sexually active should have a full STD check-up twice a year. A full checkup will include an HIV antibody test. If it's been a while since your last checkup or if you've never had one you should probably think about making an appointment with your doctor or local clinic.

You don't need to test for HIV on the basis of this protected sexual encounter.

Kind regards,

MtD

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Re: Insertive Sex
« Reply #2 on: July 06, 2006, 05:36:02 AM »
pretzel1002,

Can I ask why you are using different usernames while posting to our forums? Thus far, you have also used ualguy

Please realize that this kind of activity is disrespectful of other forum members, as well as our moderators. People spend a considerable amount of time helping others in these forums. Using multiple accounts is at the very least annoying, if not deceiving and disrespectful of others. It is also against our Terms of Membership which you agreed to when you became a member. This information is also contained within the Welcome Thread, which you should have read by now. So really, you have no excuse.

You must realize that the answers won't change, no matter how many names you post under.

I would appreciate a reply to this message, and I hope you will commit to using just one account - preferably your original one. If not, you will be banned from further access to the forums.

Ann
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Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Insertive Sex
« Reply #3 on: July 06, 2006, 05:54:01 AM »
 >:(

That's it. Screw the worried well parasites. Matty the Damned is out of Am I Infected? forum for a while. I wouldn't feed any of them boiled rice with a sling-shot.

-stomps off in a rage-

>:(

MtD

Offline ualguy

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Re: Insertive Sex
« Reply #4 on: July 06, 2006, 12:31:59 PM »
my appologies i did not read the welcome thread carfully enough i prmoise it will not happen again

Offline joejoe

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Re: Insertive Sex
« Reply #5 on: July 06, 2006, 03:49:49 PM »
>:(

That's it. Screw the worried well parasites. Matty the Damned is out of Am I Infected? forum for a while. I wouldn't feed any of them boiled rice with a sling-shot.

-stomps off in a rage-

>:(

MtD

I sincerely hope you are kidding. I was/am so scared and it's because of your comments (and Ann's etc.) that I find some comfort in making it through this 6 week testing wait/hell. You offer so much....as do the rest.

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Re: Insertive Sex
« Reply #6 on: July 06, 2006, 05:47:41 PM »
ualguy,

Thank you for returning to your original account. I've disabled your new one and locked this thread. Please go back to your original thread if you have further questions.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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