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Author Topic: Blowjob with accentuating circumstances?  (Read 1781 times)

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Offline SwedisheMale

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Blowjob with accentuating circumstances?
« on: May 06, 2008, 07:07:05 AM »
Dear experts. Less than one week ago I did something really stupid (no need to tell me, I admit, this is part of a picture of alcohol use and depression which I am trying to break out of). I had insertive fellatio for less than a minute with a girl who had sucked briefly on two other guys briefly before taking on me (swingers club setting). She was young (20), scandinavian, attended the place together with her boyfriend and insisted on condom use in the case of vaginal intercourse. I did nothing of this, but just escaped after the described actions. I am now really concerned about possibly having been exposed to pre-cum from some of the others through her oral cavity. Is it possible for you to enlighten me about my risks in this case?

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Re: Blowjob with accentuating circumstances?
« Reply #1 on: May 06, 2008, 07:14:38 AM »
Certainly we can enlighten you.

Receiving a blowjob is not a risk for HIV transmission, not even if the person doing the blowing has sucked on other dicks immediately prior. You do not need to test for HIV as a result of this encounter.

All sexually active adults should have a full STD screen at least once a year. Twice is better. If it's been a while since your last full screen or if you've not had one before you should make an appointment to do so with your doctor or at your local clinic. A full screen will include an HIV antibody test. Please be aware that I am not suggesting that you need to test because of your recent sexual behaviours. Rather I'm suggesting that it's a good routine to get into.

Please take the time to read our Welcome Thread and follow the links to our Lessons to learn more about how HIV is and is not transmitted.

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Offline SwedisheMale

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Re: Blowjob with accentuating circumstances?
« Reply #2 on: May 06, 2008, 07:45:43 AM »
Thank you. I really hope you are right. What do other people here think?

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Re: Blowjob with accentuating circumstances?
« Reply #3 on: May 06, 2008, 08:03:32 AM »
Swede,

Getting a blowjob is not a risk for hiv infection, no matter how many blowjobs were given before the person blew you. Not one person has ever been infected through getting a blowjob and you will not be the first.

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER A BLOWJOB, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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Offline SwedisheMale

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Re: Blowjob with accentuating circumstances?
« Reply #4 on: May 06, 2008, 08:58:42 AM »
Thanks again, Ann. I would like to hear Andy´s opinions. Then I rest my case!

Offline Ann

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Re: Blowjob with accentuating circumstances?
« Reply #5 on: May 06, 2008, 09:21:38 AM »
Swede,

Andy is taking a few personal days off, so don't be surprised if you don't hear from him right away.

His answer won't be any different to the ones you already have been given.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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