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Offline woodshere

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #50 on: August 31, 2007, 03:53:30 PM »
 
Now when they catch guys doin' the nasty in Muse Park, they take a Polaroid photo of them & keep it on file at the Police Department.

Since the park I was in was federal, I guess my Polaroid is on file with the federal government.  Boy if they do much investigating I probably could be confused for some sort of terrorist these days.

I am just wondering what kind of training cops receive who get assigned busting the queers cruising for sex in parks and tearooms.  I mean they have it down to a T. Send out all the right signals, but never ask for it.
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #51 on: August 31, 2007, 03:54:14 PM »
Sorry Woods Dan done trumped you.

I know and he got to touch it.
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #52 on: August 31, 2007, 03:55:18 PM »
Our little Woods. Always the bridesmaid. ;D

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #53 on: August 31, 2007, 03:55:36 PM »
issues, of course, though i wouldnt place them under an OCD diagnosis.

Seems clear to me.  Repetitive behavior linked to an obsession.  You're obsessed with getting caught, so you repeat bathroom trolling.
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Offline Iggy

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #54 on: August 31, 2007, 03:56:25 PM »
I am just wondering what kind of training cops receive who get assigned busting the queers cruising for sex in parks and tearooms.  I mean they have it down to a T. Send out all the right signals, but never ask for it.

Maybe they went to the seminary before the police academy

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #55 on: August 31, 2007, 03:58:37 PM »
philly

I am not sure I buy the OCD label you are putting on bathroom sex....it just doesnt seem that getting caught is the obcession....but rather the sex?????
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #56 on: August 31, 2007, 03:59:51 PM »
Maybe they went to the seminary before the police academy

But I have never known a priest to stop the action.
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #57 on: August 31, 2007, 04:01:52 PM »
But I have never know a priest to stop the action.

I guess you never had a nun walk in on you then?

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #58 on: August 31, 2007, 04:03:22 PM »
Seems clear to me.  Repetitive behavior linked to an obsession.  You're obsessed with getting caught, so you repeat bathroom trolling.

lol ok whatever you say.
just wanted to correct you though, my obsession involves 'cock' and not getting caught...and once again, i dont troll, i just enjoy.....

thanks bear for the clarification....
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #59 on: August 31, 2007, 04:05:43 PM »
philly

I am not sure I buy the OCD label you are putting on bathroom sex....it just doesnt seem that getting caught is the obcession....but rather the sex?????

I only pulled out my psychology degree once he wrote this

http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=15161.msg191635#msg191635


getting caught is sort of the rush that fuels the action.

If he just wants sex he'd log on to mancunt

This ain't 1972 sweetie :)
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #60 on: August 31, 2007, 04:08:31 PM »
would you accept a faxed copy of my middle finger in response to your 1972 comment?????
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #61 on: August 31, 2007, 04:09:22 PM »
The thing I enjoy most about bathroom sex are those wonderful large blue mints you find in the urinals.

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #62 on: August 31, 2007, 04:13:19 PM »
would you accept a faxed copy of my middle finger in response to your 1972 comment?????

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #63 on: August 31, 2007, 04:15:38 PM »
Somebody didn't start SLA for nothing. 

Offline woodshere

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #64 on: August 31, 2007, 04:17:03 PM »
With such easy access to dick these days, sex clubs, bath houses and most importantly the internet which can lead to having sex in an environment where one won't get caught, I can't help but think that gay men wanting action, are as much turned on by the dick as they are the chance of getting caught.  Where for others it's not the dick they get as much as the chase leading to the conquest.  The more I think about it the more I know that sex is as far more to do with other emotions than just the mechanics that lead to getting off.

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #65 on: August 31, 2007, 04:22:18 PM »
With such easy access to dick these days, sex clubs, bath houses and most importantly the internet which can lead to having sex in an environment where one won't get caught, I can't help but think that gay men wanting action, are as much turned on by the dick as they are the chance of getting caught.  Where for others it's not the dick they get as much as the chase leading to the conquest.  The more I think about it the more I know that sex is as far more to do with other emotions than just the mechanics that lead to getting off.

Woods


Kind of agree with this - I did enjoy it (as well as sex in the park) when I was a yoot with no other ideas of where to go....outside fo the piers and theatrers and just picking guys up off the street...but did outgrow it.


Offline marc11864

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #66 on: August 31, 2007, 04:27:14 PM »
Imagine the lack of effort in a Thai restroom!  ;D

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #67 on: August 31, 2007, 04:34:54 PM »
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #68 on: August 31, 2007, 04:44:24 PM »
we wouldn't have nearly as much of a problem with toilet sex if we had these...


(and i personally vote for these as the new florida toilet upgrades.  let's see how that flies)

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #69 on: August 31, 2007, 04:47:30 PM »
Wait till you see the public toilets in San Francisco that are on the street corners.  I hope those of you going won't spend too much time standing around them and missing the sights.
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #70 on: August 31, 2007, 04:52:26 PM »
We seem to have forgotten Turkish Toilets.

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #71 on: August 31, 2007, 04:53:19 PM »
Wait till you see the public toilets in San Francisco that are on the street corners.  I hope those of you going won't spend too much time standing around them and missing the sights.

they can't be more public than these...

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #72 on: August 31, 2007, 04:59:53 PM »
they can't be more public than these...

not public, just cute.
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #73 on: August 31, 2007, 05:05:42 PM »
Wait till you see the public toilets in San Francisco that are on the street corners.  I hope those of you going won't spend too much time standing around them and missing the sights.

Just remember that they open automatically after 20 minutes.
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #74 on: August 31, 2007, 06:47:54 PM »
Good luck avoiding the syringes  :P
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #75 on: August 31, 2007, 06:54:09 PM »
Just remember that they open automatically after 20 minutes.

We'll...uh, I will have to set the timer on my cell phone.  Thanks for the tip.
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #76 on: August 31, 2007, 06:55:48 PM »
A good lav deserves a kiss . . .


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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #77 on: August 31, 2007, 07:00:45 PM »
Wow... love that stainless steel toilet console.  Where's that from Missy Timmy?
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #78 on: August 31, 2007, 07:12:07 PM »
that is belgium, i believe.
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #79 on: August 31, 2007, 07:12:59 PM »
that's a wealth of information you're divulging there
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #80 on: August 31, 2007, 07:52:02 PM »
Imagine the lack of effort in a Thai restroom!  ;D

No imagination required here,  ;D, but that's a story for another day.

I agree with Philly about the appropriateness of sex in public places, but only when I'm not involved.  ;D. In the past it was just too tempting sometimes. These days I rarely have sex, but I have enough dumb stories to fill several volumes of the Spin Cycle, except my writing talents are poor and Bucko's stories aren't dumb.

Story 1: Sydney 1989/90 (sorry, this may be a little x rated)

Walking home from my boyfriends house in Edgecliffe back to the Cross I had to cut through Rushcutters Bay Park to get home. The park was a notorious beat after dark. As I entered the Park, this rough looking 'straight' guy started cruising me. Never to pass up an opportunity, I followed him into the toilet block. He wanted me to fuck him, so I obliged, did the deed and pulled up my pants eager to get home to bed. He had other ideas and wanted to return the favour. When I started on my way home, he pursued me. I ran off into the night, only to be chopped off from behind. He had a set of knuckle dusters (or whatever you call them). I vividly remember them being brass and quite nice looking as they smashed into the side of my head and jaw. I still have a nice little scar.
Anyway, he dragged me back into the toilet hald dazed. He proceeded to fuck me senseless, me squealing like a pig in pain. He pulled out and made me take his now filthy cock and load and left me on the floor a sobbing mess.
I never condone rape or violence, but the incident did ignite a fetish in me I probably wish I'd never discovered.

Story 2: London 1994

The day I arrived in London for the first time, my mate took me out clubbing. On the way home we popped by Clapham Common for a looksie at what was going down. I recall being down on my knees, pants down round my ankles, when all of a sudden a set of car headlights came roaring down a track in between the bushes. I stood up, momentarily lstunned ike a deer trapped in headlights. My flight reaction kicked in, the pants were up and I was off. I ran and ran and ran, not wanting to be deported on my first night in the UK.
Now, I don't know if you are familiar with the Commons in London but they are generally large. I had no idea where I was, it was dark. It took me about an hour and a half to find my friend and his car.

Story 3: Amsterdam 2004

I visited in 2004 with the same mate as above, and we stayed in a little pensione just across from one of the main saunas. I was out drinking with my mate but left him in a bar and headed home for the sauna, pissed as a fart. There was a note on the door advising that the sauna was closed for renovations and redirecting me to their day sauna nearby. I studied the map and when I turned around there was this dark dutch boy with his hand on his crotch behind me.
We headed off to the day sauna, but when we got there neither of us had cash. So, we headed off back to an atm to get cash and then back to the sauna. Both growing impatient, we just went for it in some doorway. We did whatever we had to do and he blew all over my face. I was still sitting, jerking off trying to blow. Him, being a typical male needed to pee and proceeded to do so off to one side. He then looked at me with a sheepish grin, turned hosed me down with his piss and washed the cum off my face. I was drenched, my clothes soaked in a mixture of cum and piss, and sans the 100 euros I withdrew from the atm (not sure if he somehow pick pocketed me or it fell out somewhere), but smiling. Unfortunately, as I was only in Amsterdam for a few days I took very few changes of clothes with me. ::)

The good ol' days!!!

edited to ad: my dumb stories aren't all dirty boy sex related. Two mates and myself were held at gunpoint in a girly bar/brothel in Argentina in 1988. Some days I just shouldn't leave the house.



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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #81 on: August 31, 2007, 10:28:59 PM »
...I dont get the (yuck) part of your question as, i would say, 95% of us here got infected by taking an erect penis in our rectums.....now to most of the population, nothing could be yuckier than that!! I dont partake much if at all in anal anymore because the thought of that actually sort of grosses me out. unless your partner took a major irrigation and is colonoscopy clean, its pretty nasty when you really think about it. but again, no judgements please.
based on personal preference, id much rather be on a bathroom floor sucking dick than being a bottom boy...

I dunno having my face inches (possible touching) some urine soaked bathroom floor just to give a little head seems kind of yucky.  Call me crazy. 

And I somehow think anal sex (straight & gay) is a teensy bit more common than sucking dick in a public washroom.  Just a guess.
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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #82 on: August 31, 2007, 10:41:04 PM »
With such easy access to dick these days, sex clubs, bath houses and most importantly the internet which can lead to having sex in an environment where one won't get caught, I can't help but think that gay men wanting action, are as much turned on by the dick as they are the chance of getting caught.  Where for others it's not the dick they get as much as the chase leading to the conquest.  The more I think about it the more I know that sex is as far more to do with other emotions than just the mechanics that lead to getting off.

Woods

If it were just as simple as just getting off, Internet sex would satisfy everyone and nobody would be catching HIV - or anything else.

There is nothing more boring than vanilla sex, except perhaps watching vanilla sex involving two twinks.

I firmly believe there is a kink in everyone's chain, all you have to do is find it.

For some, it is exhibitionism, for others voyeurism. The threat of being caught is just too delicious for some to pass up.

Then, of course, there are handballers, yellow hankie harlots and puppies who need training.

There are the practitioners of pain or those who like to spit shine boots.

Swinging slings and popper-scented leather. The the slap of my favorite cat.

Making them beg, then telling them, "No."

Hot candlewax or a razor scraping against taught skin.

Clamps, collars and restraints.

So, what is yours?

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Re: Why bathroom sex is hot
« Reply #83 on: August 31, 2007, 10:50:28 PM »

It was November of 1992, Chattahoochee park in the Vinings area of Atlanta.  This nice looking guy was walking around the park.  He walked back in the woods to the river and I followed. We were about 15 feet apart he stopped, started groping himself first, so I did the same, he kept groping but never pulled it out.  Well I did then he opened his jacket to show a nice big badge.  It is not entrapment I guess, but definitely he was enticing his prey.  I learned never to make the first move.  Funny it was my first visit there, knew I should have stayed at Piedmont Park that afternoon..... :)


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