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Author Topic: Worried and can not rest with this. Pls help!  (Read 1713 times)

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Worried and can not rest with this. Pls help!
« on: August 27, 2007, 08:10:20 AM »
It happened yesterday and I was thinking about it all day and night and worried so much that I could not concentrate on anything. I had protected sex with one sex worker normally then after that about 20 munites I had another one but the incident came right at the starting stage. Her body was on me and her vagina seemed wrapped my penis by accident and after about 15 seconds I recognized that and stopped it and crushed to the bathroom to clean my penis up with soap. I am really worried about this! Please help some advise whether I have possibility of being infected? It's just the yesterday then what could I do to low down the possibility? Thank you, guys!
« Last Edit: August 27, 2007, 11:15:17 AM by unrested »

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Re: Worried and can not rest with this. Pls help!
« Reply #1 on: August 27, 2007, 09:56:19 AM »
I am unclear from what you have written if you had unprotected intercourse or not?

Please clarify.
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Re: Worried and can not rest with this. Pls help!
« Reply #2 on: August 27, 2007, 10:23:55 AM »
In the second intercourse with another sex worker, I wanted a protected sex but at the starting stage, she laid on me kissing me but low down my penis somehow got inside her vagina. I recognized it after about 15 seconds that I stopped the intercourse immediately and rushed cleaning my penis in the bathroom. In addition, I could not raise my penis up cause I was so worried even she gave me some hand job.
« Last Edit: August 27, 2007, 11:14:47 AM by unrested »

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Re: Worried and can not rest with this. Pls help!
« Reply #3 on: August 27, 2007, 11:15:33 AM »
You were not at risk for HIV in what you have described.

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Re: Worried and can not rest with this. Pls help!
« Reply #4 on: August 27, 2007, 12:25:22 PM »
Technically you had unsafe sex since you penetrated the second woman without a condom. However, because by your account it was so very brief I don't see any need for testing. The only reason to test in 13 weeks would be for your own peace of mind. I'm confident you will test negative if you decide to do that.

You do need to stay awake to taking care of your health. Keep those condoms handy. You can have intercourse with as many partners as you like. As long as you have a condom on you're protected.

Cheers,
Andy Velez

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Re: Worried and can not rest with this. Pls help!
« Reply #5 on: August 27, 2007, 08:25:58 PM »
Thank you, guys! Your advices help put my mind at peace.

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Re: Worried and can not rest with this. Pls help!
« Reply #6 on: August 27, 2007, 09:44:28 PM »
Good. I'm glad you found the exchanges to be helpful.

Cheers,
Andy Velez

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Re: Worried and can not rest with this. Pls help!
« Reply #7 on: August 28, 2007, 12:05:50 PM »
Dear Andy,

Sure, it helps me and the guys in sort of situations like mine much. I am grateful to you and all the mods and the admins who have found and operated this forum! I would like to wish you guys all best!

Unrested.

 


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