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Offline MVZLA

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4 weeks?
« on: May 21, 2008, 11:39:57 AM »
hi, in april 11 i have a risk sexual situation, i use a condon but the person whit have sex is unknown and extremely promiscuos, I am heterosexual,  i am a men, this girl living inthe street and dont now your hiv status, the condon is not breake im cheked, mi penis was good no injures i cheked in that monment, but de condon slized one time i m note inmediatly and take the condon putt again, but iam no pretty sure if some fluids of this girls take contact whit my body.

i take a hiv test ELISA 4 GENERATION ( HIV1 / HIV 2 / P24) NEGATIVE - 8 DAYS ( 19 april) After this contact, my dr. says that is good all reduce a single one time risk conduct ( mi last sex was in december)

I repeat 32 day after ( may 12) ( 4.5 weeks) Elisa 4 generation  ( HIV1 / HIV 2 / P24)  / VDRL / CLHAMYDIA / HEPATITIS C AND B ALL RESULTS NEGATIVE.

is that good or is to early ?  i want repeat the test on week 7 ( 49 days) if is negative i can stay cool ? i need help the fear is take control of my mind i cant eat or sleep. i have serius pains in my head and pass for days and come back but im feeling good idont flu or fever.

thanks

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Re: 4 weeks?
« Reply #1 on: May 21, 2008, 12:41:46 PM »
MV, ordinarily I would merge your threads here because our rule is to keep your questions and comments in the same thread. But because your other is in the Spanish section I am leaving this one as is. But please don't start a new thread everytime you have another thought or question.

Now as to the incident you're concerned about....  The HIV status of  your partner, no matter what you know or think you know of her history doesn't matter because you used a condom. Condoms provide very effective protection. You are worrying needlessly. You never needed to test about this incident. This is all stuff going on inside of your head. You were not at risk.

There is no need for further HIV testing. You are wasting your money.

We do recommend that anyone who is sexually active ought to have a full STD panel done regularly. That means at least once a year. As far as HIV is concerned you're ok this time. Realmente!

Get on with your life, papi.

Cheers,
Andy Velez

Offline MVZLA

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Re: 4 weeks?
« Reply #2 on: May 21, 2008, 01:00:18 PM »
thank you andy, and sorry for my mistake, i a new one jeje, the razon  i was post on english is beacuse i try receive other opinions and may be on english its more easy for the other participants, in note inthe spanish section the particiaption y very low, , but my english is sooo lowest and very bad to.

thank you and so sorry

and i take a test again in the week 7 ( the next week ) for my mental healthy i need that for living again i think is the only way, please tell me 4.5 weeks negative test is good how do you think

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Re: 4 weeks?
« Reply #3 on: May 21, 2008, 01:02:07 PM »
M,

Your 4.5 negative result is conclusive because you did NOT have a risk to begin with. You do NOT need further testing. You ARE hiv negative.
 
You do NOT have hiv.

Ann
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Offline MVZLA

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Re: 4 weeks?
« Reply #4 on: May 21, 2008, 01:17:36 PM »
i try think same you but the principal reason is i am drunk is this moment as that me a serius fear about my actions, but an pretty sure about put the condon before penetrating and when she ask me to for anal sex wiht out a condon i rejected and do using the condon but for a biggest concern me the incident with the slizes,  i loose de erection when a try penetratin  for anal sex.

for finally tell me please, a negative test elisa ( hiv 1 and 2 /p24) 32 days after the risk is a good notice waht do you think , forget my case was a general opinon abotu this time


thank you

today i m go to mountain in my city EL AVILA 2.500 MTS IN the rest point stay a statue of virgen Maria i believe in her , i prey whit my all forces and hope, for andy and you ann , you are a very good persons and you work helping other peoples has been grateful for everyone

thank a lot kind regards


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Re: 4 weeks?
« Reply #5 on: May 21, 2008, 02:05:31 PM »
M,

Whether or not you pray at a statue, your result is not going to change. You had no risk. You are hiv negative.

Ann
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HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: 4 weeks?
« Reply #6 on: May 21, 2008, 02:48:23 PM »
You're not listening to us. You're listening to your fears and your fears are not well grounded in HIV science.

Read this as many times as you need to in order for it to sink in: YOU DID NOT HAVE A RISK FOR HIV. There is no need for any further testing.

Stop with all the drama and get on with your life. Really.
Andy Velez

Offline MVZLA

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Re: 4 weeks?
« Reply #7 on: May 21, 2008, 04:46:48 PM »
thanks, i try too do thi,  and erase my fears,

but is very complicated because i dont remember all the situation and that  make terror over my , it is  my principal concern , i ask to me is posible i was penetrintg with out protection when the condon slized may be for a one o two minutes i think is not posible but i dont sure about this , i remeber perfectly when take the condon and putting again.

i am promise you no make more questions but i need to now your opinion about take a test elisa 4 generation 32 days before de risk that result negative is good what are the posibilities of change the status low? high? i want to now this only this for my mental health only that please

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Re: 4 weeks?
« Reply #8 on: May 21, 2008, 04:56:21 PM »
M,

Yes, it's a good result because you did NOT have a risk for hiv infection. You ARE hiv negative!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline MVZLA

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Re: 4 weeks?
« Reply #9 on: May 28, 2008, 12:36:26 AM »
Ann,

sorry my english is to bad, the problem  I had sex with this woman and i was drunk, I remember perfectly to have used condom before beginning the sex but in a movement to change of position and my penis withdraws the condom  slip out and she the well-known and she said it to me, I think that probably I did not have contact unprotected for that when my penis withdraws the condom stay the half in of her and the other half out of her, i takes it carefully and  to putting again , because the concern i use a second condon ( 2 condons ) no broken,  i try doing sex but my penis go down and penetration was no good, 

iIf during the sex the condom is slipped and you do not notice it and continue having sex the normal thing is that the condom was getting lost inside her(it), or to stay in any side but not the half inside and to half out I think that I stay this way for that it(he) was just in the moment that withdraws my penis to change position

what do you think ?

i am take this week ( 7 weeks after the risk) i was negative is unlikely to change after 13 weeks?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: 4 weeks?
« Reply #10 on: May 28, 2008, 04:39:44 AM »
It doesn't matter if the condom slipped or not. Just as long as the head of the penis was covered you were never at risk.

Offline MVZLA

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Re: 4 weeks?
« Reply #11 on: May 29, 2008, 10:45:30 AM »
I take the blood test again yesterday after( 48 days) 7 weeks to the risk contact, today get a results

Elisa HIV 1/2 and p24 = negative
HEP A, B, C, = negative

the Dr says that is very good and almost finally conclusive,  but i need testing again in 13 weeks for 100% sure

i dont have any risk situation in all year only this case.

what do you think ? is good ? what are my chances?

thank soo much for all the support to me






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Re: 4 weeks?
« Reply #12 on: May 29, 2008, 10:49:07 AM »
MV,

You didn't have a risk this time either. The condom was half in, half out, which means it came off as you withdrew and you were never inside unprotected. Your result is not going to change, you ARE hiv negative. You did not have a risk and you do not have hiv.

I'm giving you that time out I warned you about in the other forum. Do not attempt to create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned.

Ann
Condoms are a girl's best friend

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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