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Offline tester8888

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #50 on: August 09, 2007, 05:05:23 PM »

You got it.  Care for a check up?


Dr Hunter, I would love to make an appointment.  Do you make house calls??
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Offline thunter34

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #51 on: August 09, 2007, 05:09:25 PM »
I have been known to make housecalls, yes.

Although lately I have been considering a move to So Fla to open up a joint practice with Bucko.
AIDS isn't for sissies.

Offline tester8888

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #52 on: August 09, 2007, 05:15:37 PM »
I have been known to make housecalls, yes.

Although lately I have been considering a move to So Fla to open up a joint practice with Bucko.

Too bad Arkansas is in the opposite direction from where you are going then.    :'(
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Offline woodshere

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #53 on: August 09, 2007, 05:18:08 PM »
I had a crush on Kristi McNichol, does that say anything???
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Offline thunter34

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #54 on: August 09, 2007, 05:19:21 PM »
I may have to go on call for SF.

There seems to be a need.


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Offline gemini20

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #55 on: August 09, 2007, 05:47:29 PM »
Just got to chip in here with the flip side which probably doesn't happen very often but I can speak from my experience.

Back in the early 1990s I had a 3 year relationship with a gay guy I met in a positive youth group. I would often accompany him to corporate events when he felt the need to be seen as 'straight'. We also had an amazing sex life, he is the only man I ever became pregnant by! But he is and always will be more attracted to men and it was men that he wanted to have a long term commitment with.

We lost touch for a decade but reconnected last year and although he has been in a committed relationship with his boyfriend for the past 5 years, he spent the night with me and we ended having sex together again (but apparently its not cheating on the boyfriend because I'm not a guy!).

When there's that chemistry between two people then I don't think being 'gay' or 'straight' comes into it.

Just my two cents,

Emma


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Offline David_CA

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #56 on: August 09, 2007, 05:56:29 PM »

You got it.  Care for a check up?

Well yes, by all means!   ;)
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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #57 on: August 09, 2007, 06:19:02 PM »
I have been known to make housecalls, yes.

Although lately I have been considering a move to So Fla to open up a joint practice with Bucko.

What an awe-inspiring team we'd make, darling   :-*

Just got to chip in here with the flip side which probably doesn't happen very often but I can speak from my experience.

Back in the early 1990s I had a 3 year relationship with a gay guy I met in a positive youth group. I would often accompany him to corporate events when he felt the need to be seen as 'straight'. We also had an amazing sex life, he is the only man I ever became pregnant by! But he is and always will be more attracted to men and it was men that he wanted to have a long term commitment with.

We lost touch for a decade but reconnected last year and although he has been in a committed relationship with his boyfriend for the past 5 years, he spent the night with me and we ended having sex together again (but apparently its not cheating on the boyfriend because I'm not a guy!).

When there's that chemistry between two people then I don't think being 'gay' or 'straight' comes into it.

Just my two cents,

Emma

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That's what I've always suspected. If it weren't for society's condemnations, Bi-chic would be just as hot for guys as it is for girls.

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Offline JeffreyM

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #58 on: August 09, 2007, 06:51:20 PM »
Well you guys, Maybe I'll just have to play it straight to get some action!  But what do I do with my Dreamgirls paraphernalia?  I guess I shouldn't be hung up on labels and stuff, bi, gay straight, on the "down low". 

Hopefully "STRAIGHT" to bed for me!

I'm 2 1/2 years single from a LTR and ready to hump my furniture!  Oh forgot, already did that ;D

WOW gemini20! 

woodshere:  How funny about Kristie M !  When I first saw KD lang on tv in the 80's, I thought she was a cute dude!

ps  Cindy, if I were even 1% straight, I would have been on a plane by now!  Maybe we can get a straight guy to hold you down, while I do your hair. 
« Last Edit: August 09, 2007, 06:56:32 PM by JeffreyM »

Offline thunter34

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #59 on: August 09, 2007, 06:55:43 PM »
Big, fat wet & sloppy welcome kisses for Jeffrey!
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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #60 on: August 09, 2007, 06:59:39 PM »
Big, fat wet & sloppy welcome kisses for Jeffrey!

...and for initiating such a good thread so early in his career. Welcome, Jeffie-

Brent
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Offline JeffreyM

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #61 on: August 09, 2007, 08:42:30 PM »
Big, fat wet & sloppy welcome kisses for Jeffrey!

Thunter, I'm soaking!  Thanks for the Welcome!

Bucko, Thanks
« Last Edit: August 09, 2007, 08:44:38 PM by JeffreyM »

Offline thunter34

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #62 on: August 09, 2007, 08:56:22 PM »
I'm somewhat wet myself this evening.

Go figure.



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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #63 on: August 09, 2007, 09:31:12 PM »
Thunter, I'm soaking!  Thanks for the Welcome!

Bucko, Thanks


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Offline MoltenStorm

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #64 on: August 09, 2007, 09:33:54 PM »
I personally think they're in denial and just can't face the truth of being either gay or bi.

Here's another one for you. I know a drag queen - who considers 'herself' a woman - who has 'straight' men call her when their girlfriends are out of town because they want 'her' to fuck them. She has tits, but she still has everything down below. I'm guessing they can reconcile that with being 'straight' because she has tits.
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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #65 on: August 09, 2007, 09:39:18 PM »
Cindy, if I were even 1% straight, I would have been on a plane by now!  Maybe we can get a straight guy to hold you down, while I do your hair. 

Jeffrey~
I would send for you first class, baby!   MUAH!

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #66 on: August 09, 2007, 11:26:18 PM »
Was that a reference to Madge the Manicurist?


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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #67 on: August 09, 2007, 11:50:29 PM »
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Offline JeffreyM

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #68 on: August 09, 2007, 11:57:41 PM »
LOL  you guys are really cracking me up!   ;D

Offline tester8888

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #69 on: August 10, 2007, 01:06:32 AM »
I personally think they're in denial and just can't face the truth of being either gay or bi.

Here's another one for you. I know a drag queen - who considers 'herself' a woman - who has 'straight' men call her when their girlfriends are out of town because they want 'her' to fuck them. She has tits, but she still has everything down below. I'm guessing they can reconcile that with being 'straight' because she has tits.


Does 'she' work at Tower Records in Downtown Memphis?  If so, I know her.
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Offline sweetasmeli

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #70 on: August 10, 2007, 12:43:26 PM »
I sometimes I do wish it was clear cut for me but it's not always that straight forward unfortunately.   It's really hard to describe i'm sure someone else on here could do a better job.  I think my 'straight' housemate who I found out last week has kissed a few girls  :) put it best when she said she's just attracted to certain types of people male or female, why try pigeonhole anyone though? Thats the way it is for me I think, it can be confusing at times but mostly it's pretty good! I do find myself distracted A LOT though haha.

I liked what Chris wrote here, especially the part about not pigeon-holing folk.

If it weren't for society's condemnations, Bi-chic would be just as hot for guys as it is for girls.

Brent
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And Brent, you're saving that 10% just for me, aren't you baby? ;) :-*

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #71 on: August 10, 2007, 03:13:50 PM »

Does 'she' work at Tower Records in Downtown Memphis?  If so, I know her.

"She" doesn't anymore, Tower Records  in downtown Memphis is closed now.

Offline tester8888

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #72 on: August 10, 2007, 03:20:33 PM »
"She" doesn't anymore, Tower Records  in downtown Memphis is closed now.

Dang it!  I liked that store, not to mention the staff.
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Offline Iggy

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Re: "straight guys"
« Reply #73 on: August 10, 2007, 07:16:45 PM »
I'm straight

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« Reply #74 on: August 10, 2007, 08:53:07 PM »
I'm straight

I think someone's pants are on fire! :P :D
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