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How did you get infected?

Unprotected anal/vaginal sex
44 (75.9%)
Sharing needles
2 (3.4%)
Born HIV+
0 (0%)
Oral sex
9 (15.5%)
Blood transfusion
0 (0%)
Other (explain)
3 (5.2%)

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Offline milker

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How did you get infected?
« on: June 16, 2007, 11:50:57 PM »
So how did you get infected?
mid-dec: stupid ass
mid-jan: seroconversion
mid-feb: poz
mar 07: cd4 432 (35%) vl 54000
may 07: cd4 399 (28%) vl 27760
jul 07: cd4 403 (26%) vl 99241
oct 07: cd4 353 (24%) vl 29993
jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
mar 08: cd4 392 (23%) vl 75548
jun 08: cd4 325 (27%) vl 45880
oct 08: cd4 197 (20%) vl 154000 <== aids diagnosis
nov 2 08 start Atripla
nov 30 08: cd4 478 (23%) vl 1880 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feb 19 09: cd4 398 (24%) vl 430 getting there!
apr 23 09: cd4 604 (29%) vl 50 woohoo :D :D
jul 30 09: cd4 512 (29%) vl undetectable :D :D
may 27 10: cd4 655 (32%) vl undetectable :D :D

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Offline Sky

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #1 on: June 17, 2007, 12:06:56 AM »
My ex shared the wealth with me after lying about his test results (even showed me negative papers).
Poz since 2003.

Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #2 on: June 17, 2007, 12:13:55 AM »
Let's see... it could have been Doug Stiles (sp?), a Venezuelan hustler (no, I didn't pay) or the Dominican on the piece of foam rubber.

or

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IOhhxfC-lms
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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #3 on: June 17, 2007, 12:28:39 AM »


Bad weekend, long night, good time, rough consequences, doesn't matter. 

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #4 on: June 17, 2007, 12:31:08 AM »
Well...  i was involved in several risky situations during several years, with people i though would be safe.. but i think (has no prove) i got infected by somoene i loved.

There is a guy i know since over 2.5 years ago, i really like him since the first time we met, we dated and all that. Sex is always great with him, but he always wanted to do it unprotected... even if i had condoms nearby, anyways... i never really forced the condom thing i was just happy getting laid with him.

It happens he does not love me (he has already told me so), but i do like him lot, so if i am not wrong by october/november last year we had sex... great fuck... and it was the first time he cummed in me, off course no protection. Then i lost contact with him for several months until march 07 when i told him i was feeling bad and i would get tested... well... i got the results following day and that night... he told me he was diagnosed hiv+ by december 06. About month after our last sexual relationship.

Nowadays we still talk, and are good friends i am a support for him because i know he is a good guy.... and well..... i like him a lot yet. He does not feel the same... we keep on having sex from time to time, with protection now, he is on meds i am not. Well.... that was how the sad thing begun...

Juan Carlos
13/03/07 1er diagnóstico /Peso: 79kg
19/04/07 CD4: 494 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 80kg
19/07/07 CD4: 659 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79.5kg
06/03/08 CD4: 573 (después de meses muy deprimido) /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79kg
17/09/08 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 84Kg
06/02/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 85Kg /HCV: Neg /HBV: Neg.
07/03/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg / Gym 3días/semana y Natación 2días/semana.
12/05/09 CD4: 470 /Cviral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg.
08/07/09 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 77Kg.
09/12/09 CD4: 510 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg. No medicinas aún
10/01/10 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
15/05/10 CD4: 320 /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
01/02/11 CD4: 291 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
05/05/11 CD4: 366 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
27/07/11 CD4: 255 /CViral: 138000 /Peso: 78kg.

Disfrutando y aceptando una nueva vida...

Offline Ann

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #5 on: June 17, 2007, 05:48:52 AM »
Oh thanks Milkie, the WWs are gonna love this one. ::)

Sheesh.

What the hell does it matter?
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Offline DanielMark

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #6 on: June 17, 2007, 07:28:01 AM »
Probably those aliens that keep abducting me. What a nuisance.  ;)

Well if you must know I was a bit tipsy and had a brief but enjoyable uninhibited encounter with someone of unknown status. Stupidest thing I ever did in my life. I was a gullible young man.

Did you realise that when you have sex with someone you are also having sex with every person they ever had sex with and everyone those ones did too?

It’s bloody mind-boggling!

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Offline Cerrid

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #7 on: June 17, 2007, 07:58:44 AM »
milkie, there's already a thread on these matters (and probably many more):  ;)

http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=7984
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Offline Andy Velez

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #8 on: June 17, 2007, 08:22:21 AM »
Milker, I'm wondering what purpose you had in mind in starting this thread. 
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Offline Dachshund

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #9 on: June 17, 2007, 08:26:35 AM »
To end this misery I think we should have a how did you get it and now that you got it should you disclose forum.

Offline sweetasmeli

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #10 on: June 17, 2007, 08:35:47 AM »
To end this misery I think we should have a how did you get it and now that you got it should you disclose forum.

Actually Mr Hal, wouldn't that be 2 forums? ;D Oh, I see....

And in all honesty, hasn't this topic been beaten to death yet in other threads?
Milker honey, use the search function...

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Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #11 on: June 17, 2007, 09:15:07 AM »
Milker,

I agree with the others.

You expect us to answer time and time again what is essentially the same tortured question. I think we have a right to ask you, what is your purpose?

MtD

Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #12 on: June 17, 2007, 09:41:17 AM »
I think we have a right to ask you, what is your purpose?


The frenchie just likes starting threads and polls so that he can see his name in the "author" column. 
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Offline milker

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #13 on: June 17, 2007, 09:45:55 AM »
Sorry I didn't mean to offend, I actually did think there was another thread before, but I couldn't find it.

Feel free to lock it.

Milker
mid-dec: stupid ass
mid-jan: seroconversion
mid-feb: poz
mar 07: cd4 432 (35%) vl 54000
may 07: cd4 399 (28%) vl 27760
jul 07: cd4 403 (26%) vl 99241
oct 07: cd4 353 (24%) vl 29993
jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
mar 08: cd4 392 (23%) vl 75548
jun 08: cd4 325 (27%) vl 45880
oct 08: cd4 197 (20%) vl 154000 <== aids diagnosis
nov 2 08 start Atripla
nov 30 08: cd4 478 (23%) vl 1880 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feb 19 09: cd4 398 (24%) vl 430 getting there!
apr 23 09: cd4 604 (29%) vl 50 woohoo :D :D
jul 30 09: cd4 512 (29%) vl undetectable :D :D
may 27 10: cd4 655 (32%) vl undetectable :D :D

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Offline xyahka

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #14 on: June 17, 2007, 09:48:48 AM »
Hey, come on... dont be so hard on him...

Frenchies always like to talk about something :)

As for me, i don't mind... in fact i have always asked myself same question about some people here....  so it is fine.

Plus, i know people will ask me about it for the rest of my life so, one more interview.... does not matter to me ;)

Juan Carlos
13/03/07 1er diagnóstico /Peso: 79kg
19/04/07 CD4: 494 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 80kg
19/07/07 CD4: 659 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79.5kg
06/03/08 CD4: 573 (después de meses muy deprimido) /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79kg
17/09/08 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 84Kg
06/02/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 85Kg /HCV: Neg /HBV: Neg.
07/03/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg / Gym 3días/semana y Natación 2días/semana.
12/05/09 CD4: 470 /Cviral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg.
08/07/09 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 77Kg.
09/12/09 CD4: 510 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg. No medicinas aún
10/01/10 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
15/05/10 CD4: 320 /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
01/02/11 CD4: 291 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
05/05/11 CD4: 366 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
27/07/11 CD4: 255 /CViral: 138000 /Peso: 78kg.

Disfrutando y aceptando una nueva vida...

Offline Jerry71

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #15 on: June 17, 2007, 10:03:51 AM »
Oh thanks Milkie, the WWs are gonna love this one. ::)

Sheesh.

What the hell does it matter?

Chill Ann we need a little humor here in the Living With Forums.  :-*

Since we are also adding new Content on the Foums. "Why not We Are All POZ Deal With It".

Seems like every three months we are adding some new area to the forums and keeping more people that are living with the virus away from the site.
« Last Edit: June 17, 2007, 10:08:57 AM by Jerry71 »

Offline J.R.E.

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #16 on: June 17, 2007, 10:09:57 AM »
Chill Ann we need a little humor here in the Living With Forums.  :-*



Whats so humourous about finding out, or disclosing how we became infected. I don't find it humorous


Ray
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http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=45159.0

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Offline Grinch

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #17 on: June 17, 2007, 10:12:21 AM »
WW's?

Offline JPinLA

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #18 on: June 17, 2007, 10:13:13 AM »
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Whats so humourous about finding out, or disclosing how we became infected. I don't find it humorous

I agree.  What is the intention of this poll?  

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Offline xyahka

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #19 on: June 17, 2007, 10:38:59 AM »
Well... i guess the idea of the threat was to answer one of the first questions i have everytime i meet another poz... how did you get it?

I think he expected we could have some more humour sense on how to deal with something people will ask all the time. Plus, i am sorry we are going to react like that everytime people ask us about this, i though we would have already gotten over the issue.... anyways. I guess... if anyone does not like the question, then don't answer it. I am ok with someone asking because i know i would like to ask others about it.

cheer up

Juan Carlos
13/03/07 1er diagnóstico /Peso: 79kg
19/04/07 CD4: 494 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 80kg
19/07/07 CD4: 659 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79.5kg
06/03/08 CD4: 573 (después de meses muy deprimido) /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79kg
17/09/08 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 84Kg
06/02/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 85Kg /HCV: Neg /HBV: Neg.
07/03/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg / Gym 3días/semana y Natación 2días/semana.
12/05/09 CD4: 470 /Cviral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg.
08/07/09 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 77Kg.
09/12/09 CD4: 510 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg. No medicinas aún
10/01/10 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
15/05/10 CD4: 320 /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
01/02/11 CD4: 291 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
05/05/11 CD4: 366 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
27/07/11 CD4: 255 /CViral: 138000 /Peso: 78kg.

Disfrutando y aceptando una nueva vida...

Offline Iggy

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #20 on: June 17, 2007, 10:49:49 AM »
I don't have any issue in wanting to know how most got infected but I do think that this information should come about  through the process of getting to know everyone and their stories rather than as a generic checklist.

I do wonder though about the pile on to you starting this thread.

If we believe that there is no innocence or guilt in how we are each infected, than outside of my opening point, what is the issue of such information being out there?

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #21 on: June 17, 2007, 10:53:37 AM »
I got mine via Immaculate Infection!   ::)  It honesty does not bother me telling how I got it.  If others that visit this site can learn from my mistake unprotected anal sex then I am all for it.  Oops, that last sentence just screwed up my Immaculate Infection theory!  :P
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Offline xyahka

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #22 on: June 17, 2007, 11:19:38 AM »
Iggy read again... i didn't start the thread.... don't lose the point.

Juan Carlos

(who notice everytime things chime up, people forget who starts the threads or who says what)
13/03/07 1er diagnóstico /Peso: 79kg
19/04/07 CD4: 494 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 80kg
19/07/07 CD4: 659 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79.5kg
06/03/08 CD4: 573 (después de meses muy deprimido) /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79kg
17/09/08 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 84Kg
06/02/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 85Kg /HCV: Neg /HBV: Neg.
07/03/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg / Gym 3días/semana y Natación 2días/semana.
12/05/09 CD4: 470 /Cviral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg.
08/07/09 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 77Kg.
09/12/09 CD4: 510 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg. No medicinas aún
10/01/10 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
15/05/10 CD4: 320 /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
01/02/11 CD4: 291 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
05/05/11 CD4: 366 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
27/07/11 CD4: 255 /CViral: 138000 /Peso: 78kg.

Disfrutando y aceptando una nueva vida...

Offline Dachshund

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #23 on: June 17, 2007, 11:22:43 AM »
If you follow the ignore the thread if you don't like it logic...then you should ignore a person who questions a topic and then there will be no topics and we can all go home. The last person to leave please turn off the lights.

Outside of healthcare providers and aidsmeds I have never, ever had a positive person ask me how I became infected.

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #24 on: June 17, 2007, 11:23:49 AM »
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Iggy read again... i didn't start the thread.... don't lose the point.

Juan Carlos

(who notice everytime things chime up, people forget who starts the threads or who says what)

huh?

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #25 on: June 17, 2007, 11:33:40 AM »
---Melia senses handbags at dawn in the air---

I think most peoples objection might be that this question has been raised many times here and with a not so difficult click of the search button and a bit of searching, the thread initiator could have found the answer to his question from a lot of folk who've already answered it and bumped an old thread for new folk to participate in too.

Although saying that, I think Jerry's response about humour might be because the last thread that was started on this topic was a myriad of responses, some serious and some rather giggle-inducing.

Melia
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*edited to clarify to one clueless New Yorker who thought I meant a 'more kind' egg ::)
« Last Edit: June 17, 2007, 12:11:36 PM by sweetasmeli »
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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #26 on: June 17, 2007, 11:37:55 AM »
Quote
I think most peoples objection might be that this question has been raised many times here and with a not so difficult click of the search button and a bit of searching, the thread initiator could have found the answer to his question from a lot of folk who've already answered it and bumped an old thread for new folk to participate in too.

Agreed and well put.

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #27 on: June 17, 2007, 12:03:29 PM »
Iggy sorry for the missunderstanding :)



Juan Carlos

(feeling happy today while he sees how the simple things in life become more and more complex)
13/03/07 1er diagnóstico /Peso: 79kg
19/04/07 CD4: 494 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 80kg
19/07/07 CD4: 659 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79.5kg
06/03/08 CD4: 573 (después de meses muy deprimido) /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79kg
17/09/08 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 84Kg
06/02/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 85Kg /HCV: Neg /HBV: Neg.
07/03/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg / Gym 3días/semana y Natación 2días/semana.
12/05/09 CD4: 470 /Cviral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg.
08/07/09 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 77Kg.
09/12/09 CD4: 510 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg. No medicinas aún
10/01/10 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
15/05/10 CD4: 320 /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
01/02/11 CD4: 291 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
05/05/11 CD4: 366 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
27/07/11 CD4: 255 /CViral: 138000 /Peso: 78kg.

Disfrutando y aceptando una nueva vida...

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #28 on: June 17, 2007, 12:17:49 PM »
The author of this thread (yours truly) did search for "how infected" and that didn't give much, I should have searched a bit better, I agree.

Why ask, you ask?

I was wondering what was the state of mind of people when they got infected, that is, drunk, high, or simply having enough of condoms, or what else. Although I did think I saw a similar thread before, I thought I dreamed it since I couldn't find it with my shitty search.

As usual, most of my initial threads are badly written, do not explain what I'm asking, and that creates controversy. I agree that using a poll was not a good idea, and maybe without the poll this thread would have been accepted. But at this point, those who think it's an interesting question will gladly reply, those who think it's a private matter will not. No need to get fussy, raise hands screaming about this, just hit the ignore or back button and you will be fine :)

As how I got infected, I'm actually less sure that it was a particular night when I was drunk, because I have since discovered that lots of my previous tricks are actually positive, and they didn't tell me, so the actual date is not set in stone anymore. So if I wasn't drunk it was due to the desperation of having to use condoms all my life. I replaced it with the desperation of having to test all my life and taking meds all my life. Yup, great state of mind.. ::)

Milker.
mid-dec: stupid ass
mid-jan: seroconversion
mid-feb: poz
mar 07: cd4 432 (35%) vl 54000
may 07: cd4 399 (28%) vl 27760
jul 07: cd4 403 (26%) vl 99241
oct 07: cd4 353 (24%) vl 29993
jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
mar 08: cd4 392 (23%) vl 75548
jun 08: cd4 325 (27%) vl 45880
oct 08: cd4 197 (20%) vl 154000 <== aids diagnosis
nov 2 08 start Atripla
nov 30 08: cd4 478 (23%) vl 1880 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feb 19 09: cd4 398 (24%) vl 430 getting there!
apr 23 09: cd4 604 (29%) vl 50 woohoo :D :D
jul 30 09: cd4 512 (29%) vl undetectable :D :D
may 27 10: cd4 655 (32%) vl undetectable :D :D

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Offline Morton Salt

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #29 on: June 17, 2007, 12:27:01 PM »
I got my HIV from a McDonalds cheseburger.

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Offline newbernswiss

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #30 on: June 17, 2007, 12:27:41 PM »
My ex shared the wealth with me after lying about his test results (even showed me negative papers).
My ex, who is dead, did the same. Failed to tell me he was posiive, not negative. Guess he could not spell??? Anyway I've survived him by 8 years so far and life is better without him for me.

Offline thunter34

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #31 on: June 17, 2007, 12:31:00 PM »
The last person to leave please turn off the lights.


That will most likely be either you or me.
AIDS isn't for sissies.

Offline xyahka

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #32 on: June 17, 2007, 12:54:54 PM »

That will most likely be either you or me.

Or Me!!!!!

Juan Carlos :)
13/03/07 1er diagnóstico /Peso: 79kg
19/04/07 CD4: 494 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 80kg
19/07/07 CD4: 659 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79.5kg
06/03/08 CD4: 573 (después de meses muy deprimido) /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79kg
17/09/08 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 84Kg
06/02/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 85Kg /HCV: Neg /HBV: Neg.
07/03/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg / Gym 3días/semana y Natación 2días/semana.
12/05/09 CD4: 470 /Cviral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg.
08/07/09 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 77Kg.
09/12/09 CD4: 510 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg. No medicinas aún
10/01/10 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
15/05/10 CD4: 320 /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
01/02/11 CD4: 291 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
05/05/11 CD4: 366 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
27/07/11 CD4: 255 /CViral: 138000 /Peso: 78kg.

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Offline bimazek

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #33 on: June 17, 2007, 01:23:14 PM »
give milker a break guys, he just tested pos and it is completely normal to play over and over how did i get it, who is to blame, the denial, anger, bargaining

i think it falls into denial and bargaining - it is the minds way of taking the guilt and blame off one self to see that and how others made a similar mistake

i know can i went thru that phase 9 mo ago, it is easy to forget the confusion of the first year

the important thing is that everyone makes mistakes, you made a few and one unlucky one but you are not alone in making a bad decision and forgive yourself... how by taking active steps to help others and go to some poz social events and being kind and friendly to guys

btw milker if you use the same profile name here and other places it compromises your anonimity not sure if you care or not




Offline Jerry71

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #34 on: June 17, 2007, 01:30:50 PM »
Milker you made the right choice to start a poll. It is your business if you want to start a POLL. If others don't want to partake in it then don't.

By the way I was infective back in 2004 due to unprotective sex. To many time going to the bars and getting drunk and finding myself in bed with some guy and forgetting to use protection.

Frankly I hate using condoms.

Offline thunter34

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #35 on: June 17, 2007, 01:31:00 PM »
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btw milker if you use the same profile name here and other places it compromises your anonimity not sure if you care or not

um...if there's one person here that would understand the potential windows for lost anonymity, it's our milker.

trust me on that one.
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Offline Carolann

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #36 on: June 17, 2007, 01:44:27 PM »
Well there are worse things that our milkie could be doing, like bashing gay parades, or starting another disclosure thread, and JC, Jonathan just posted on the blogs not too long ago. Hurry and go post another verbose example of cheerfullness. Afterall, we know how much you like to be on top.

CA

Offline xyahka

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #37 on: June 17, 2007, 02:03:03 PM »
Well there are worse things that our milkie could be doing, like bashing gay parades, or starting another disclosure thread, and JC, Jonathan just posted on the blogs not too long ago. Hurry and go post another verbose example of cheerfullness. Afterall, we know how much you like to be on top.

CA

Well, i think God gave us eyes to read or not read what we like or don't. Guys... you gotta use that right.
I like milker's posts because he is only trying to contribute, perhaps others should start threads too.... Carolann??? i am sure you may also have any verbose example of cheerfullness to share with us too  :P. Go ahead and post something... i am curious to know what you have to tell us...:P. Kisses, have a good day

Juan Carlos  :D
« Last Edit: June 17, 2007, 02:22:36 PM by xyahka »
13/03/07 1er diagnóstico /Peso: 79kg
19/04/07 CD4: 494 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 80kg
19/07/07 CD4: 659 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79.5kg
06/03/08 CD4: 573 (después de meses muy deprimido) /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79kg
17/09/08 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 84Kg
06/02/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 85Kg /HCV: Neg /HBV: Neg.
07/03/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg / Gym 3días/semana y Natación 2días/semana.
12/05/09 CD4: 470 /Cviral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg.
08/07/09 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 77Kg.
09/12/09 CD4: 510 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg. No medicinas aún
10/01/10 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
15/05/10 CD4: 320 /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
01/02/11 CD4: 291 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
05/05/11 CD4: 366 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
27/07/11 CD4: 255 /CViral: 138000 /Peso: 78kg.

Disfrutando y aceptando una nueva vida...

Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #38 on: June 17, 2007, 02:23:04 PM »
suddenly there are a lot of personal agendas surfacing here
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Offline xyahka

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #39 on: June 17, 2007, 02:34:51 PM »
Juan Carlos is glad of not having personal agendas with any virtual person on earth/cyber space...  although he is always courious to get to know others. There should be a reason why some people speak/write the way they do.

Juan Carlos is willing to learn.

Att.

Juan Carlos  :)
13/03/07 1er diagnóstico /Peso: 79kg
19/04/07 CD4: 494 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 80kg
19/07/07 CD4: 659 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79.5kg
06/03/08 CD4: 573 (después de meses muy deprimido) /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79kg
17/09/08 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 84Kg
06/02/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 85Kg /HCV: Neg /HBV: Neg.
07/03/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg / Gym 3días/semana y Natación 2días/semana.
12/05/09 CD4: 470 /Cviral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg.
08/07/09 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 77Kg.
09/12/09 CD4: 510 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg. No medicinas aún
10/01/10 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
15/05/10 CD4: 320 /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
01/02/11 CD4: 291 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
05/05/11 CD4: 366 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
27/07/11 CD4: 255 /CViral: 138000 /Peso: 78kg.

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Offline Carolann

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #40 on: June 17, 2007, 02:40:25 PM »
God did not give me anything, not even AIDS. All I am saying is that a particular poster enjoys posting about the same things, and granted he did stop posting disclosure threads. Anyhow, you being the mother hen and telling people to lighten up is wearing thin. Let people express what they want. If you noticed, some people answered the question just fine, without trying to defend anyone. I don\\\'t know why duplicate threads are discouraged, but they are. I think if someone wants to know how some of us got to join the club, they can research it or maybe try the pm button. I don\\\'t think I need to know how everyone got it. I think we all have an idea what the main route is and the factors that take us there. I think the I just tested positve forum is full of this wealth of information. I agree that this bit of information makes no difference in how I feel about anyone on this forum. We are all here now, the mode of infection may be interesting to some, but the most crucial for those involved now is how to live with this.

CA

Offline Carolann

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #41 on: June 17, 2007, 02:44:27 PM »
And we know noone here has an Agenda, especially Philly, who is never bitchy or  short with anyone. Once again, the pot calling the kettle...

CA

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #42 on: June 17, 2007, 02:47:12 PM »
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Let people express what they want.

I agree with Carolann!  No point in being coy!
AIDS isn't for sissies.

Offline David_CA

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #43 on: June 17, 2007, 02:50:33 PM »
If I don't want to read a post, I won't.  The title of this thread is pretty clear as to the content.  If you're not comfortable talking about how you got infected.... don't.  Click 'Back' in your browser and read something that interests you.  I can bitch about what's on a particular channel on TV but continue to watch it, or I can change the channel and find something I like.  BTW, I got the 'bug' from buttfucking. 
David
Black Friday 03-03-2006
03-23-06 CD4 359 @27.4% VL 75,938
06-01-06 CD4 462 @24.3% VL > 100,000
08-15-06 CD4 388 @22.8% VL >  "
10-21-06 CD4 285 @21.9% VL >  "
  Atripla started 12-01-2006
01-08-07 CD4 429 @26.8% VL 1872!
05-08-07 CD4 478 @28.1% VL 740
08-03-07 CD4 509 @31.8% VL 370
11-06-07 CD4 570 @30.0% VL 140
02-21-08 CD4 648 @32.4% VL 600
05-19-08 CD4 695 @33.1% VL < 48 undetectable!
08-21-08 CD4 725 @34.5%
11-11-08 CD4 672 @39.5%
02-11-09 CD4 773 @36.8%
05-11-09 CD4 615 @36.2%
08-19-09 CD4 770 @38.5%
11-19-09 CD4 944 @33.7%
02-17-10 CD4 678 @39.9%  
06-03-10 CD4 768 @34.9%
09-21-10 CD4 685 @40.3%
01-10-11 CD4 908 @36.3%
05-23-11 CD4 846 @36.8% VL 80
02-13-12 CD4 911 @41.4% VL<20
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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #44 on: June 17, 2007, 02:56:49 PM »
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No point in being coy!

Once again, the pot calling the kettle... oh koi one!
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Offline Dachshund

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #45 on: June 17, 2007, 03:00:47 PM »
Unless a thread is locked or deleted everyone has the right to read or not read, comment or not comment, sing, dance, laugh, tell or not tell, make up stuff, etc, etc, etc, etc, that's just the way it works folks and that ain't changing.

People tell me I shouldn't but I notice them rubber-necking an accident just like me.

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« Reply #46 on: June 17, 2007, 03:02:11 PM »
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... oh koi one!

Koi?

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03-23-06 CD4 359 @27.4% VL 75,938
06-01-06 CD4 462 @24.3% VL > 100,000
08-15-06 CD4 388 @22.8% VL >  "
10-21-06 CD4 285 @21.9% VL >  "
  Atripla started 12-01-2006
01-08-07 CD4 429 @26.8% VL 1872!
05-08-07 CD4 478 @28.1% VL 740
08-03-07 CD4 509 @31.8% VL 370
11-06-07 CD4 570 @30.0% VL 140
02-21-08 CD4 648 @32.4% VL 600
05-19-08 CD4 695 @33.1% VL < 48 undetectable!
08-21-08 CD4 725 @34.5%
11-11-08 CD4 672 @39.5%
02-11-09 CD4 773 @36.8%
05-11-09 CD4 615 @36.2%
08-19-09 CD4 770 @38.5%
11-19-09 CD4 944 @33.7%
02-17-10 CD4 678 @39.9%  
06-03-10 CD4 768 @34.9%
09-21-10 CD4 685 @40.3%
01-10-11 CD4 908 @36.3%
05-23-11 CD4 846 @36.8% VL 80
02-13-12 CD4 911 @41.4% VL<20
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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #47 on: June 17, 2007, 03:06:59 PM »
CarolAnn,

it is your right to disagree with my posts, but saying that i'm "bashing" gay parades is untrue, I repeated what bothers me in the current parades, I'm the last one to "bash" other gay people, and also the last one to "bash" members of this forum, unless there is something tangible to "bash" about.

Bim, you must have seen my profile on another site. Like thunter said, it's a calculated risk :)

Milker.
mid-dec: stupid ass
mid-jan: seroconversion
mid-feb: poz
mar 07: cd4 432 (35%) vl 54000
may 07: cd4 399 (28%) vl 27760
jul 07: cd4 403 (26%) vl 99241
oct 07: cd4 353 (24%) vl 29993
jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
mar 08: cd4 392 (23%) vl 75548
jun 08: cd4 325 (27%) vl 45880
oct 08: cd4 197 (20%) vl 154000 <== aids diagnosis
nov 2 08 start Atripla
nov 30 08: cd4 478 (23%) vl 1880 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feb 19 09: cd4 398 (24%) vl 430 getting there!
apr 23 09: cd4 604 (29%) vl 50 woohoo :D :D
jul 30 09: cd4 512 (29%) vl undetectable :D :D
may 27 10: cd4 655 (32%) vl undetectable :D :D

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Offline joemutt

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #48 on: June 17, 2007, 03:13:20 PM »
So how did you get infected?
None of your business  ;)

Offline xyahka

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Re: How did you get infected?
« Reply #49 on: June 17, 2007, 03:38:04 PM »
None of your business  ;)

I bet you were the one choosing "others" option in the poll. LOL  :D

Juan Carlos

(happy of living in a free world)
13/03/07 1er diagnóstico /Peso: 79kg
19/04/07 CD4: 494 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 80kg
19/07/07 CD4: 659 /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79.5kg
06/03/08 CD4: 573 (después de meses muy deprimido) /CViral: ?? /Peso: 79kg
17/09/08 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 84Kg
06/02/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 85Kg /HCV: Neg /HBV: Neg.
07/03/09 CD4: ?? /CViral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg / Gym 3días/semana y Natación 2días/semana.
12/05/09 CD4: 470 /Cviral: ?? /Peso: 87Kg.
08/07/09 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 77Kg.
09/12/09 CD4: 510 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg. No medicinas aún
10/01/10 CD4: ? /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
15/05/10 CD4: 320 /CViral: ? /Peso: 76Kg.
01/02/11 CD4: 291 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
05/05/11 CD4: 366 /CViral: ? /Peso: 78kg.
27/07/11 CD4: 255 /CViral: 138000 /Peso: 78kg.

Disfrutando y aceptando una nueva vida...

 


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