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Author Topic: Herman is in the hospital...  (Read 7302 times)

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Dan J.

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Herman is in the hospital...
« on: April 05, 2007, 11:05:54 AM »
I received an email from Herman yesterday. He has been having high fevers 105+ so he will be in the hospital a few days.  He didn't say much more than that. I don't know what is going on.

I hope he feels better soon.

Dan J.

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #1 on: April 05, 2007, 11:09:24 AM »
I hope he feels better soon and recovers quickly.....He is in my prayers.

Al
« Last Edit: April 05, 2007, 11:17:33 AM by Ihavehope »
Infected: April 2005
12/6/06 - Diagnosed HIV positive
12/19/06 - CD4 = 240  22% VL = 26,300
1/4/07 - CD4 = 200 16% VL = ?
2/9/07 = Started Kaletra/Truvada
3/13/07 = CD4 = 386 22% VL ?

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #2 on: April 05, 2007, 11:14:02 AM »
Sending good thoughts, wishes, prayers...kisses, hugs that he feels better soon. Dan, thanks for letting us know.

Feel better soon Herman!
Christine
Poz since '93. Currently on Procrit, Azithromax, Pentamidine, Valcyte, Levothyroxine, Zoloft, Epzicom, Prezista, Viread, Norvir, and GS-9137 study drug. As needed: Trazodone, Atavan, Diflucan, Zofran, Hydrocodone, Octreotide

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #3 on: April 05, 2007, 11:27:45 AM »
I'm so sorry Hermie is so sick. I hope he feels better soon. I will keep him in my thoughts.
No Fear  No Shame  No Stigma
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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #4 on: April 05, 2007, 11:48:23 AM »
Positive thoughts headed at Herminator.
LIFE is not a race to the grave with the intention of arriving safely
in a pretty and well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in broadside,
thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming--WOW! WHAT A
RIDE!!!

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #5 on: April 05, 2007, 11:53:14 AM »
Hermie, can't have you sick bud. Think positive thoughts and get your little ass home.

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #6 on: April 05, 2007, 12:00:15 PM »
oh!  best thoughts to him and a speedy recovery!
"Iíve slept with enough men to know that Iím not gay"

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #7 on: April 05, 2007, 12:13:18 PM »
Herman,  Please get well soon my Friend...

Love

Eric

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #8 on: April 05, 2007, 12:20:20 PM »
come on, herman.  Get better.  You can do it.  I know you can.  I love you too much, Herman, for you to be in the hospital when it's a beautiful spring day outside.

robert

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #9 on: April 05, 2007, 12:32:35 PM »
Hermie:

Positive thoughts are going out to you for a speedy recovery! 

RAB

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #10 on: April 05, 2007, 12:34:46 PM »
Hi Hermie,

If you can read this, know that you are in my thoughts. You are such a sweetie.

rob
diagnosed on 11/20/06 viral load 23,000  cd4 97    8%
01/04/07 six weeks after diagnosis vl 53,000 cd4 cd4 70    6%
Began sustiva truvada 01/04/07
newest labs  drawn on 01/15/07  vl 1,100    cd4 119    7%
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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #11 on: April 05, 2007, 12:39:08 PM »
Herman

I'm sorry to hear you're in hospital.  I hope you get well soon.

Best wishes

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #12 on: April 05, 2007, 12:41:21 PM »
Herman,

I hope you fell better soon! You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs
Teresa
Hubby HIV+ 5/5/06
CD4:320
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 VL: <20
Atripla (started it 8/24/06)
 

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #13 on: April 05, 2007, 01:01:05 PM »
Hope you're soon feeling better, Hermie.

Sending good wishes your way,
Andy Velez

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #14 on: April 05, 2007, 01:40:41 PM »
One of the first who has jumped in when i did emerged on this site.
Hermie wish you all the best ,and hang on !
There is a quite money to be spend and days to be lived.
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Oct.     `06.  CD4=58  ?    %       VL not perform. ?!?
25.Dec.`06.         203       14        VL= 0
29.May.`07.    broken device        VL=1363
20.June`07     broken device        VL=0
25.Dec `07  CD4=582                  VL=70
14.May `08  CD4=448
29.July `08                                  VL=0
26.Nov `08  CD4=674                    VL=179
16.Mar `09  CD4=554                    VL=0
19.Jan`10 CD4=715               
03.Mar`10                                    VL=0
24.Aug`10 CD4=524                     VL=0
04.Dec`10 CD4=626                     VL=0
15.Sep`11                                   VL=93
17.Nov`11                                   VL=0
05/26 .Jul`12 CD4=713                 VL=0
28.Nov`12 CD4=916                     VL=0
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Offline thunter34

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #15 on: April 05, 2007, 01:47:28 PM »
Wishing you a speedy recovery, Hermie.

Tim
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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #16 on: April 05, 2007, 04:34:19 PM »
THANK YOU ONE AND ALL FOR YOUR SHOW OF CONCERN AND LOVE !!

Herman, is home, as it is the Easter holidays overhere and there is no doctor competence to check him; ....... well more specifically his ass-hole  :o

Those of you who knew what our dear man went thru' would not be surprise at all these manifestions coming forth due to layer after layers of events of the most trying nature.

Anyway, on a lighter note, i had suggested that he comes to Brussels, we go sell our asses at the central station , after which hitting the restro for a lobster dinner ( if you are not 18, kindly, do not read this  ;) )

As i had reached my allocated time, Herman, is home, very tired and resting alot and besides having a voice of a retired 2 cents whore,  HE IS OK.

I am sure he will be very touched by all these words of concern, kindly , have patience, he shall be back to reply you all soon !!

 :-* :-* :-*

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #17 on: April 05, 2007, 05:50:01 PM »
besides having a voice of a retired 2 cents whore,  HE IS OK.

Record it for the posterity :)

This is good news, i'm happy that things are going better :)

Milker.
mid-dec: stupid ass
mid-jan: seroconversion
mid-feb: poz
mar 07: cd4 432 (35%) vl 54000
may 07: cd4 399 (28%) vl 27760
jul 07: cd4 403 (26%) vl 99241
oct 07: cd4 353 (24%) vl 29993
jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
mar 08: cd4 392 (23%) vl 75548
jun 08: cd4 325 (27%) vl 45880
oct 08: cd4 197 (20%) vl 154000 <== aids diagnosis
nov 2 08 start Atripla
nov 30 08: cd4 478 (23%) vl 1880 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feb 19 09: cd4 398 (24%) vl 430 getting there!
apr 23 09: cd4 604 (29%) vl 50 woohoo :D :D
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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #18 on: April 05, 2007, 05:50:52 PM »
herman is in my thoughts and prayers
poz 1986....

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #19 on: April 05, 2007, 05:52:15 PM »
Wishing him a speedy recovery and hoping for the best!

Mikey :)
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"Beware of the fortune teller doom and gloomers who seek to bring you down and are only looking for company, purpose and validation - not your best physical/mental interests."

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Offline allopathicholistic

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #20 on: April 05, 2007, 06:32:49 PM »
THANK YOU ONE AND ALL FOR YOUR SHOW OF CONCERN AND LOVE !!

Herman, is home, as it is the Easter holidays overhere and there is no doctor competence to check him; ....... well more specifically his ass-hole  :o

Those of you who knew what our dear man went thru' would not be surprise at all these manifestions coming forth due to layer after layers of events of the most trying nature.

Anyway, on a lighter note, i had suggested that he comes to Brussels, we go sell our asses at the central station , after which hitting the restro for a lobster dinner ( if you are not 18, kindly, do not read this  ;) )

As i had reached my allocated time, Herman, is home, very tired and resting alot and besides having a voice of a retired 2 cents whore,  HE IS OK.

I am sure he will be very touched by all these words of concern, kindly , have patience, he shall be back to reply you all soon !!

 :-* :-* :-*

Hi Siang. Good to hear that! Please hug him and tell him hi. A friend can help so much. You're proof honey. Thank you {Hug}  8)

Offline manchesteruk

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #21 on: April 05, 2007, 06:34:47 PM »
Glad to hear you are back home Herman and hope you are 100% again soon.

Chris
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Offline Jody

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #22 on: April 05, 2007, 06:55:45 PM »
Get well soon Hermie dearest, we can't have you running around looking like Joan Crawford now !!! 

Get your rest and have some chicken soup !!!

Love, Jody
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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #23 on: April 05, 2007, 06:56:09 PM »
Thanks for letting us know Dan..here's hoping for a speedy recovery Hermie, let us know how you are going when you are feeling a little better...thinking of you as always.

Hugs
Jan :-*
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Offline Basquo

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #24 on: April 05, 2007, 07:47:21 PM »
Hermie, glad you're home, but keep watch on yourself!  I've been very worried about you since last night.

Dan, my friend, thanks so much for posting this. I'm not sayin' who you care for, but you care for all of us, obviously. It was good of you to let us know about Herman.

Much love,
Creighton

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #25 on: April 05, 2007, 07:58:08 PM »
Hey Hermie,

There is lots of positive energy coming from me to you.

BIG HUGS,

Mark
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~ William Ellery Channing (Unitarian Minister)

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #26 on: April 05, 2007, 08:01:07 PM »
Hello Herman,


Hope you make a speedy recovery !! Get better soon...


Ray
Current Meds ; Viramune, Epzicom, 40mg of simvastatin, 12.5mg of Hydrochlorothiazide.
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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #27 on: April 05, 2007, 09:31:58 PM »
I hope you get well soon.

Good vibes for you man!

Alex
Poz since Jul 19 2006
Initial numbers : CD4-250 VL 3500
First labs after HAART (Dec 04-2006) : CD4-432 VL-<40 (Undetectable)  cd4%=25.11%
Started HAART: Combivir+Efavirenz Aug 26 7:38 pm
Feb 08 2007 - Gradually stopping HAART cause of Myalgia. Protecting Efavirenz. Stopped Efavirenz, ahead with Combivir....
February 17 Combivir stopped.
April 3 -07 : Started ddi+3tc+efavirenz...
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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #28 on: April 05, 2007, 09:55:43 PM »
Hermala,

Get better soon. Be assured that Matty the Damned is keeping you in his daily anxities.

MtD

Offline koi1

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #29 on: April 05, 2007, 10:19:42 PM »
To Hermie,

A very cool guy with a big heart. Get well soon.

rob
diagnosed on 11/20/06 viral load 23,000  cd4 97    8%
01/04/07 six weeks after diagnosis vl 53,000 cd4 cd4 70    6%
Began sustiva truvada 01/04/07
newest labs  drawn on 01/15/07  vl 1,100    cd4 119    7%
Drawn 02/10/07
cd4=160 viral load= 131 percentage= 8%
New labs 3/10/07 (two months on sustiva truvada
cd4 count 292  percentage 14 viral load undetectable

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #30 on: April 05, 2007, 11:24:18 PM »
Thanks Siang for letting us know.....

Dear Herman,

I hope you feel much better soon, I am keeping you in my prayers.   You are one of the sweetest men I have ever met, and I love you my friend......

hugs,

Alan
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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #31 on: April 06, 2007, 03:54:30 AM »
feel better soon, herman - kate 

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #32 on: April 06, 2007, 05:02:51 AM »
Hermie,

glad you are back home and feeling better.   

Hugs,
John

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #33 on: April 06, 2007, 10:00:42 AM »
Hermie-

PM or e-mail me, doll. Hoping it all gets better soon-

Bisous,
B
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Offline Life

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #34 on: April 06, 2007, 11:24:47 AM »
Hermie, let me know if you need a fanny rub anytime soon...... 

Love you Sweetie,

Eric

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #35 on: April 06, 2007, 11:38:17 AM »
gosh,, i hope he does well,,, anyone konw what his conditions were like before????

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #36 on: April 06, 2007, 11:42:08 AM »
Hi Herman
My thoughts are with you.
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Offline cmhjeff

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #37 on: April 06, 2007, 02:37:58 PM »
Herman not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I've worried since the 29th when you sent that PM and you told me about the fevers. I kept your PM to remind me to send positive thoughts your way everyday. I sure hope you've gotten a chance to see a doctor before the April 23rd you told me about.

I am glad to read Siang's post that you are back home.

Stay Strong!
Hugs
Jeff

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #38 on: April 06, 2007, 04:03:18 PM »
I dread to post this, as i had checked in with Herman this morning, he said he will post something, as he did not , i fear the worse !!

His voice did not sounded like it is worth more than 2 cents ; anyway, i can't make him laugh too much as his ass still hurts  ::) one day , they will maybe stitch it up and give him the bag (wonder what my reward will be for this  ??? he has already award me with the title : mother bitch , LOL )

What sucks it that , as a caring and giving and loving person, he just discover that love had turn out to be Medusa, he did not turn to stone fear not, it is just depression that had came in to claim it is price.
Well that is the bad news !! This helplessness infront of this fxxxxxx wall called depression is killing !!
I THINK WITH ALL OUR COLLECTIVE POSITIVE THOUGHTS MIRACLE CAN HAPPEN !! I really do want to believe that !! And Herman can believe in love, and love again and be on his two feet again and smile and laugh again, which was an important part of our frequent exchange.

Thank you one and all for reading and participating, sorry, i do not have good news  :'(

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #39 on: April 06, 2007, 06:03:07 PM »
Herman,

Oh how difficult this post is for me.

I just want good things for you, and this is not good.  Please be sure that you have my heart and that I have you in my thoughts probably more than you might imagine.

Be good, be safe, and above all be well.

HINT,  there is no depression in the desert, only warmth, and love from this household.

Love,
The Bible contains 6 admonishments to homosexuals,
and 362 to heterosexuals.
This doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals,
It's just that they need more supervision.
Lynn Lavne

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #40 on: April 06, 2007, 08:10:49 PM »
I think we should change the title to

Herman is not in the hospital !!

Tim, dear,
HINT, there is no deprivation of my dessert, i like mine long and warm, with two vanilla icecream, thank you  ;D ;D

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #41 on: April 07, 2007, 05:23:00 AM »
Dearest family.
When life is cold and frying fevers lash out at you, relentlessly, it is good to know someone cares.
Thank you for all the get well wishes
And yes, thank you Dan for putting this up. Thanks water duck for your friendship.

Everything seems to take a turn for the worst in my life.
Even after my doctor told me to go out and do something nice for myself, I got robbed of my wallet while  at the Chinese store, to treat myself.
My physical health is rapidly deteriorating. I am weak as a child. Scared for more pain in my Rectum.
Having been confronted with mental illness in love has shattered me even more.
I had to learn the hard way that love is no cure for that kind of disease.
Sleeping and crying is the only thing I do.
How much can a man take?

Just know that your kind words of encouragement touched me.
It is hard to find directions when your brain is fried.

love
Herman
Diagnosed in 1987 and still kicking
Viread, Kivexa (Epzicom),Viramune once daily

Happiness is the freedom of breathing fresh air every day.

Offline Moffie65

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #42 on: April 07, 2007, 05:30:02 AM »
It is hard to find directions when your brain is fried.

Maybe one should stop looking for direction and start letting healing take place.  It is often times confusing when we try too hard and forget to just stop, look and listen.  Taking care of ourselves is often times very difficult when we are fucused on others. 

Love you Herman, and hope you can find the time for you.

Love,
The Bible contains 6 admonishments to homosexuals,
and 362 to heterosexuals.
This doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals,
It's just that they need more supervision.
Lynn Lavne

Offline Jeffreyj

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #43 on: April 07, 2007, 05:46:03 AM »
Be Brave, Be Strong Hermie. You can get through this. Because it is what people like you do!

Thoughts, love and prayers are with you dear friend.
Positive since 1985

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #44 on: April 07, 2007, 09:40:30 AM »
Get Well soon Herman.

This is the last time I will post here. He needs this place more than I do.

Goodbye,

Dan

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #45 on: April 07, 2007, 09:54:21 AM »
It's good to hear from you again, Hermie.

I'm glad you're out of the hospital.

Just keep on taking care of yourself and bit by bit, day by day you'll get stronger.

Cheers, 

Andy Velez

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #46 on: April 07, 2007, 10:34:08 AM »
Hey Hermie:
        Just focus of your rectum healing because that must be waay uncomfortable. Take away the physical pain and then work with the mental pain which I know you will overcome in a few weeks. Don't remain depressed for too long because life is too precious to waste on depression. Yes, it does feel bad and makes us very weak and without any purpose in life, but that is only because we are still in it's grasp. Slowly get out of that grasp and do what I know you love doing and that is enjoying life and loving what is ours to enjoy. Every time we have a "fall" in life, we just have to slowly get up, wipe off our knees, and move on. Nothing is more important that our health and maintaining it is a full time job. No one but ourselves makes our lives worth living. Having a partner, or not, friends or aquaintances, relatives and our jobs, are just things that are there to make things flow in our lifetime, but it all eventually leads up to ourselves and what we do to our lives to make it as long and entertaining as possible. Cheer up buddy, I still have that nude picture of you on that palm tree, who knows where, you never said, and I hope to see a second palm tree with you on it! Ha,ha. Get better soon... ;)


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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #47 on: April 07, 2007, 10:43:30 AM »
Hermie.... Your a strong man... Everybody can see that...  Please trust us when we say, "Your a strong man"...  You WILL come through this...   Stop looking down the road so much...  I have felt your strength here, on the phone and in spirit...   Keep it simple my Dear Friend...

Love,


Eric


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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #48 on: April 07, 2007, 03:37:03 PM »
Water Duck just invited me for dinner tonight. Thank you , dearest friend.
It was just what I needed : someone that took care of me for the evening.

We had a nice glass of wine and a great dinner and I was able to relax between the coughing attacks.

Genuine friendship : a rare gift....

I know the recovery will be slow, but at least I dare look into the future again... with fragile eyes

love
Herman
Diagnosed in 1987 and still kicking
Viread, Kivexa (Epzicom),Viramune once daily

Happiness is the freedom of breathing fresh air every day.

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Re: Herman is in the hospital...
« Reply #49 on: April 07, 2007, 03:44:57 PM »
Hermie,

Nice to hear from you and hope that you will feel a lot better very soon.

Take care of yourself.

Comforting to know that you were in good hands ;).

With fondest thoughts. Alain :-*

 


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