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bear60:
here is the situation:
This guy is newly HIV poz.
He is married and lives with wife and kids.
He is online and finds and corresponds with ...in Poz personals...a guy he slept with about a year ago who , in his Poz profile,  says he has been poz for 3 years.
This person had been told by the poz personal guy that he was negative.
They had anal sex.
Should he :
1. Out the guy
2. Out the guy and sue
3. Not out the guy because his family's privacy is at stake? ( his wife knows little about his private life)
4. Out the guy anonymously

Teresa:
Im more worried about the wife!

Teresa

DCGuy511:
I think he should just ask the guy directly why he lied.  And ask him if his wife knows.

Why all the games about outing? I'd never out anyone. Well, unless it is a congressman or congressional aide who is actively working to limit the rights of gays.

Just my humble opinion

Eldon:
I think the wife and kids are more important. How do they feel?

David_CA:

--- Quote from: bear60 on June 21, 2006, 07:58:03 PM ---here is the situation:
This guy is newly HIV poz.
He is married and lives with wife and kids.
He is online and finds and corresponds with ...in Poz personals...a guy he slept with about a year ago who , in his Poz profile,  says he has been poz for 3 years.
This person had been told by the poz personal guy that he was negative.
They had anal sex.
Should he :
1. Out the guy
2. Out the guy and sue
3. Not out the guy because his family's privacy is at stake? ( his wife knows little about his private life)
4. Out the guy anonymously

--- End quote ---
How about
5. Kick himself in the butt for being so careless and somehow get his wife tested.  He needs to be careful outting anybody, as he's the one married with kids.

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