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Offline enzo_man

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very worried and need your point of view
« on: April 11, 2010, 11:35:27 PM »
i'm a gay man ,
last night i have an unprotecd oral sex (he sucked my dick for over 20 minutes)the problem is that i have a little cut on my dick wich i've seen after he finished so i tried to verifey if he has some cuts in his mouth and i have seen some intact place but don't know if there was a blood or no
and before that i recived an anulingus (he likcked my anus and he enter his tongue inside for 2O minutes too)and i'm very afraid that he has some cuts on his tongue
and i wear a condom and i had a 1 minute anal intercourse and the condom did not break
also he fingerd me and i don't know if he has toutched his dick with presemen
the problem is today i have like a liquide in my anus when i go to do my need in toilet so i called him and  when i asked him about his hiv statut he refused to answer and he told me that it's a privete information
i'm really very worried if he is positive and i need your point of view !!
had i put my self in risk
when have i to get tested
thank u

Offline RapidRod

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Re: very worried and need your point of view
« Reply #1 on: April 12, 2010, 05:37:26 AM »
At no time were you at risk of contracting HIV in the situation you've provided.

Offline enzo_man

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Re: very worried and need your point of view
« Reply #2 on: April 12, 2010, 08:28:28 AM »
thanks for replay
even with cuts ?there is no risk?
is there any need for testing ?

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: very worried and need your point of view
« Reply #3 on: April 12, 2010, 08:40:52 AM »
Cuts, nicks, sores, pimples and whatever. Believe me, we have heard all the possibilities and in the entire history of the epidemic no guy has ever been confirmed to have been infected through receiving oral sex. It's safe to say you aren't going to make history by becoming the first.

There is no need for testing nor for further concern on your part about this.   
Andy Velez

Offline enzo_man

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Re: very worried and need your point of view
« Reply #4 on: April 12, 2010, 08:45:30 AM »
thanks a lot andy
i want you to explain to me this point pls
if he has enter his tounge in my anus deep so there is a direct contact and especialy if toynge has cuts
it's like entrenig a dick in anus ?so what's the diffrence and what's the things wich make one risky and one not as you said

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: very worried and need your point of view
« Reply #5 on: April 12, 2010, 08:51:01 AM »
Rimming is absolutely not the same as anal intercourse. There has NEVER been a confirmed case of transmission via rimming. Nor is a tongue, even a large and long one, comparable to a penis being inserted anally. Nor does it ejaculate sperm which then remains in the protected environment of the anus nor does it tear at the anus in a manner which would allow HIV to enter into the bloodstream.

You are worrying needlessly. Period.
Andy Velez

Offline enzo_man

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Re: very worried and need your point of view
« Reply #6 on: April 12, 2010, 08:57:13 AM »
thanks a lot andy you're great
so pls have you idea about liquide wich go out from my anus when i go tp wc to do my need ?

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: very worried and need your point of view
« Reply #7 on: April 12, 2010, 09:08:15 AM »
I don't understand your question. What do you mean by "liquid go(ing) out from my anus when I go to the WC to do my need?"

On occasion an anus may have bleeding due to constipation and hard stools. And there is natural body fluid in the anus of varying quantity depending on the person.

But none of that changes the fact that rimming is absolutely not a risk for HIV transmission. Period.
Andy Velez


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