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Offline Longislander

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I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« on: March 15, 2007, 10:18:13 PM »
I met this guy last Saturday nite when I went out with the FH ( str8 women friend). We had a lot of fun, He got me pretty well on my way to drunk with shots. The 3 of us went to the diner for some food afterwards and then hung out in his truck. The FH went home, and since I didn't want to end the nite, we went to his place, and he agreed to no sex. So we went to sleep, and we woke up and fell asleep, etc. Nothing went on but kissing and some roaming hands. Finally got out of bed on Sunday with a pounder of a hangover ( way too many diff shots). He called me on Tuesday nite, I called him tonite, and we're gonna 'hang out' tomorrow nite, because he asked me to. He's 12 years younger than me, making him 31.

I don't want to disclose to him now. Especially since he now knows my FH and he sees her out sometimes when she's at a twinky weeknight gay-nite place. I haven't told her either.

How do I set my mind up to just have fun tomorrow nite, no sex, and just forget about HIV?
infected 10/05 diagnosed 12-05
2/06   379/57000                    6/07 372/30500 25%   4/09 640/U/32% 
5/06   ?? /37000                     8/07 491/55000/24%    9/09 913/U/39%
8/06   349/9500 25%              11/07 515/68000/24     2/10 845/U/38%
9/06   507/16,000 30% !          2/08  516/116k/22%    7/10 906/80/39%
12/06 398/29000 26%             Start Atripla 3/08
3/07   402/80,000 29%            4/08  485/undet!/27
4/07   507/35,000 25%            7/08 625/UD/34%
                                                 11/08 684/U/36%

Offline ndrew

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #1 on: March 15, 2007, 10:30:03 PM »
Hey, that's awesome.  The last date I had had a pit and I took it out and put it in a smoothie.

Have fun, relax, be yourself.  It will be good to see what he's all about without all the shots!  Trust yourself in terms of disclosing.

Drew

Offline milker

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #2 on: March 15, 2007, 10:34:56 PM »
This is great!!! But what the hell does FH stand for?  ??? ??? ???
mid-dec: stupid ass
mid-jan: seroconversion
mid-feb: poz
mar 07: cd4 432 (35%) vl 54000
may 07: cd4 399 (28%) vl 27760
jul 07: cd4 403 (26%) vl 99241
oct 07: cd4 353 (24%) vl 29993
jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
mar 08: cd4 392 (23%) vl 75548
jun 08: cd4 325 (27%) vl 45880
oct 08: cd4 197 (20%) vl 154000 <== aids diagnosis
nov 2 08 start Atripla
nov 30 08: cd4 478 (23%) vl 1880 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feb 19 09: cd4 398 (24%) vl 430 getting there!
apr 23 09: cd4 604 (29%) vl 50 woohoo :D :D
jul 30 09: cd4 512 (29%) vl undetectable :D :D
may 27 10: cd4 655 (32%) vl undetectable :D :D

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Offline dtwpuck

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #3 on: March 15, 2007, 10:39:59 PM »
This is great!!! But what the hell does FH stand for?  ??? ??? ???
   fag hag
Floating through the void in the caress of two giant pink lobsters named Esmerelda and Keith.

Offline milker

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #4 on: March 15, 2007, 10:41:52 PM »
This is great!!! But what the hell does FH stand for?  ??? ??? ???
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

one of them LOL  :o
mid-dec: stupid ass
mid-jan: seroconversion
mid-feb: poz
mar 07: cd4 432 (35%) vl 54000
may 07: cd4 399 (28%) vl 27760
jul 07: cd4 403 (26%) vl 99241
oct 07: cd4 353 (24%) vl 29993
jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
mar 08: cd4 392 (23%) vl 75548
jun 08: cd4 325 (27%) vl 45880
oct 08: cd4 197 (20%) vl 154000 <== aids diagnosis
nov 2 08 start Atripla
nov 30 08: cd4 478 (23%) vl 1880 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feb 19 09: cd4 398 (24%) vl 430 getting there!
apr 23 09: cd4 604 (29%) vl 50 woohoo :D :D
jul 30 09: cd4 512 (29%) vl undetectable :D :D
may 27 10: cd4 655 (32%) vl undetectable :D :D

Now accepting applications from blowjob ninjas™

Offline Bucko

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #5 on: March 15, 2007, 10:56:09 PM »
Longo-

Relax, have fun, watch the cocktail consumption, and disclose when you're ready.

It's your life and you'll know when it's right.

Brent
(Who loves histoires d'amour)
Blessed with brains, talent and gorgeous tits.

The revolutionary smart set reads The Spin Cycle at least once every day.

Blathering on AIDSmeds since 2005, provocative from birth

Offline Longislander

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #6 on: March 15, 2007, 11:01:49 PM »
yeah, one of thos FH's. I have to stop going out with her, cause she's knowing every guy I meet!  :-\

Thanks Drew and Brent for the replies. Of course I'm not even sure we're right for each other, but he is tall, good lookin' and we laugh alot together ( even when sober on the telephone).

We'll see how this goes. This will be the first time since POZ seeing a guy a 2nd time~
infected 10/05 diagnosed 12-05
2/06   379/57000                    6/07 372/30500 25%   4/09 640/U/32% 
5/06   ?? /37000                     8/07 491/55000/24%    9/09 913/U/39%
8/06   349/9500 25%              11/07 515/68000/24     2/10 845/U/38%
9/06   507/16,000 30% !          2/08  516/116k/22%    7/10 906/80/39%
12/06 398/29000 26%             Start Atripla 3/08
3/07   402/80,000 29%            4/08  485/undet!/27
4/07   507/35,000 25%            7/08 625/UD/34%
                                                 11/08 684/U/36%

Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #7 on: March 15, 2007, 11:17:24 PM »
Sweetie, for now I say enjoy yourself. I can understand not wanting to disclose right now, you're kinda testing the waters but if this takes a serious turn then what? You don't have to answer that but just saying...Keep us posted.... ;)
Started Atripla/Ziagen on 9/13/07.
10/31/07 CD4-265 VL- undetectable
2/6/08 CD4- 401 VL- undetectable
5/7/08 CD4- 705 VL- undetectable
6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
8/6/08 CD4- 805 VL- undetectable
11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
4/27/09 CD4- 664 VL-- undetectable
6/17/09 CD4- 438 VL- 439
8/09 CD4- 404 VL- 1,600
01-22-10-- CD4- 525 VL- 59,000
Cherish the simple things life has to offer

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Offline Oceanbeach

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #8 on: March 16, 2007, 12:28:25 AM »
Hey Paul,

How cool! relax, be flawless and have the best day
Michael

Offline puertorico2006

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #9 on: March 16, 2007, 12:28:38 AM »
just have fun on your second date.....

maybe he will just think your "hard to get" lol
Infected Probably: may 2005
Diagnosed: 11/2006

11/28/2006 CD4:309 / VL: 1907 No meds yet
12/27/2006 CD4:339/  VL:1649 No meds yet
  4/28/2007 CD4:550/  VL:1800 No meds :-)

Offline Christine

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #10 on: March 16, 2007, 11:21:07 AM »
Just have fun. Enjoy each others company. Enjoy the moment. Don't worry about what might happen, or what should happen. Let things work out naturally, and when things progress disclose when your ready.

Have a great time!
Christine
Poz since '93. Currently on Procrit, Azithromax, Pentamidine, Valcyte, Levothyroxine, Zoloft, Epzicom, Prezista, Viread, Norvir, and GS-9137 study drug. As needed: Trazodone, Atavan, Diflucan, Zofran, Hydrocodone, Octreotide

5/30/07 t-cells 9; vl 275,000

Offline woodshere

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #11 on: March 16, 2007, 11:43:54 AM »
Christine is right.  Disclosure will happen when it happens.  I had a first date with a guy last fall.  He was an HIV social worker and we immediately started talking about his job.  He was going on and then stopped and said, "By the way I am negative".  Wasn't planning on telling him my status, but there the opening was so I simply said, "I'm not".  Thirty minutes into the first date it's all out in the open.  We went on to have one of the best first dates I have ever had.  Subsequent dates weren't so good, but that is another story completely unrelated to HIV.  When it comes to disclosure I am finding you know when the time is right.

Just relax, be yourself and enjoy!

Woods
"Let us give pubicity to HV/AIDS and not hide it..." "One of the things destroying people with AIDS is the stigma we attach to it."   Nelson Mandela

Offline Ihavehope

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #12 on: March 16, 2007, 12:16:44 PM »
Longislander

Does that mean that you are dumping me?

It's sad that I had to find out this way

Al  :'(

(who thought you and I had something special going on)
Infected: April 2005
12/6/06 - Diagnosed HIV positive
12/19/06 - CD4 = 240  22% VL = 26,300
1/4/07 - CD4 = 200 16% VL = ?
2/9/07 = Started Kaletra/Truvada
3/13/07 = CD4 = 386 22% VL ?

Offline Longislander

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Re: I've got a date tomorrow nite...
« Reply #13 on: March 16, 2007, 04:13:58 PM »
(uh-oh)
infected 10/05 diagnosed 12-05
2/06   379/57000                    6/07 372/30500 25%   4/09 640/U/32% 
5/06   ?? /37000                     8/07 491/55000/24%    9/09 913/U/39%
8/06   349/9500 25%              11/07 515/68000/24     2/10 845/U/38%
9/06   507/16,000 30% !          2/08  516/116k/22%    7/10 906/80/39%
12/06 398/29000 26%             Start Atripla 3/08
3/07   402/80,000 29%            4/08  485/undet!/27
4/07   507/35,000 25%            7/08 625/UD/34%
                                                 11/08 684/U/36%

 


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