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Offline blondbeauty

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Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« on: March 15, 2007, 01:49:54 PM »
I am being so successful!  :o
The only member in these forums approved by WINBA: World International Nail and Beauty Association.
Epstein Barr +; CMV +; Toxoplasmosis +; HIV-1 +.
Counts when starting treatment:
V.L.:80.200 copies. CD4: 25%=503
Started Sustiva-Truvada 14/August/2006
Last V.L.count (Oct 2013): Undetectable
Last CD4 count (OCT 2013): 52%= 933

Offline BlkRedBonenla

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #1 on: March 15, 2007, 02:03:15 PM »
Congrats on your profile. I have no luck, not even with POZ.com. Adam. Yahoo. Where does a guy look?
- cd4 20 2/07 & 50K VL

**** 3/07 started ATRIPLA *******
- cd4 70 5/07 & Undetectable VL
- cd4 218 11/07 & Undetectable VL
-cd4 297 3/08 & Undetectable VL
-cd4 439 1/09 & Undetectable VL
-cd4 436 4/09 & Undetectable VL
-cd4 442 8/09 & Undetectable VL
-cd4 512 11/09 & Undetectable VL
-cd4 531 2/10 & Undetectable VL
-cd4 439??? 6/10 & Undetectable VL ...


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Offline woodshere

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #2 on: March 15, 2007, 02:05:09 PM »
My profile for louisville says i am poz.  Amazingly of all the profiles I check out no one else is positive.  Go figure.

Woods
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Offline Cliff

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #3 on: March 15, 2007, 02:08:24 PM »
I thought "Needs discussion" in the safer sex line meant you were positive?  ::)   ???

Good luck and enjoy.

Offline Longislander

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #4 on: March 15, 2007, 02:26:15 PM »
Funny you should mention this... I went into Manhunt and changed everything to 'Ask Me' and deleted all words except for physical description.

I get an email from a guy just unlocking his pics, he looked pretty good, so I unlocked mine for him, and I get the following reply;

On Fri Mar 02, 2007 10:30 PM, XXXXXXXXXX wrote:

> very very nice!! nice guy!  safe sane poz here, maybe not 4 u?

So I reply with this;

thanks buddy. Nice pics yourself. I'm newly poz ( a little over a year) that's
why I deleted all or most of my info here.  It's not public knowledge and I'd
like to keep it that way, for now anyway.   If you'd like you can email me at
xxxxxxxxxx@xxxxxxxxx.net. I don't come in here too often..... Paul

Since Manhunt is quite the voyeuristic site, I know he's opened my email. To this day he hasn't deleted it, he was last online yesterday, and has not replied!!

I'm glad you're having great success Juan, though you are disappointing your fan club here!! :'(

 
infected 10/05 diagnosed 12-05
2/06   379/57000                    6/07 372/30500 25%   4/09 640/U/32% 
5/06   ?? /37000                     8/07 491/55000/24%    9/09 913/U/39%
8/06   349/9500 25%              11/07 515/68000/24     2/10 845/U/38%
9/06   507/16,000 30% !          2/08  516/116k/22%    7/10 906/80/39%
12/06 398/29000 26%             Start Atripla 3/08
3/07   402/80,000 29%            4/08  485/undet!/27
4/07   507/35,000 25%            7/08 625/UD/34%
                                                 11/08 684/U/36%

Offline milker

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #5 on: March 15, 2007, 02:30:48 PM »
Same here I changed my profile to "poz" then I got harassed by either people saying "see, I knew you were poz, liar", or "hey nasty pig let's swap loads" so i removed the information right away, after reading that disclosing to the world might not be a good idea. I disclose on a case by case basis now.
mid-dec: stupid ass
mid-jan: seroconversion
mid-feb: poz
mar 07: cd4 432 (35%) vl 54000
may 07: cd4 399 (28%) vl 27760
jul 07: cd4 403 (26%) vl 99241
oct 07: cd4 353 (24%) vl 29993
jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
mar 08: cd4 392 (23%) vl 75548
jun 08: cd4 325 (27%) vl 45880
oct 08: cd4 197 (20%) vl 154000 <== aids diagnosis
nov 2 08 start Atripla
nov 30 08: cd4 478 (23%) vl 1880 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feb 19 09: cd4 398 (24%) vl 430 getting there!
apr 23 09: cd4 604 (29%) vl 50 woohoo :D :D
jul 30 09: cd4 512 (29%) vl undetectable :D :D
may 27 10: cd4 655 (32%) vl undetectable :D :D

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Offline Ihavehope

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #6 on: March 15, 2007, 02:31:29 PM »
U go girl.
Infected: April 2005
12/6/06 - Diagnosed HIV positive
12/19/06 - CD4 = 240  22% VL = 26,300
1/4/07 - CD4 = 200 16% VL = ?
2/9/07 = Started Kaletra/Truvada
3/13/07 = CD4 = 386 22% VL ?

Offline puertorico2006

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #7 on: March 15, 2007, 03:23:38 PM »
ive changed my profiles to say "poz" and havent had any bad experiences (yet)....I hide my face though and unlock to the people i want to.... I didnt change my screen name though and ive had the same screen name everywhere (except this site because i was paranoid at first when i joined here lol) so everyone already knows its me i guess.....

good for you for feeling comfortably enough to disclose your status... although i guess its not the most comfortable route for everyone ......everyone seems to have different individual opinions on how to handle disclosure based on experiences/personality :-D....
Infected Probably: may 2005
Diagnosed: 11/2006

11/28/2006 CD4:309 / VL: 1907 No meds yet
12/27/2006 CD4:339/  VL:1649 No meds yet
  4/28/2007 CD4:550/  VL:1800 No meds :-)

Offline Fosbery

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #8 on: March 15, 2007, 03:28:34 PM »

Hey guys,

I changed mine on Gayday to say poz, I have not had one respond to me so far, as before I had responses all the time, however I do not have any pics this time around and that might make all the difference.

Offline Bucko

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #9 on: March 15, 2007, 03:30:51 PM »
Ive changed my profiles to say "poz" and haven't had any bad experiences (yet)....I hide my face though and unlock to the people i want to.... I didn't change my screen name though and Ive had the same screen name everywhere (except this site because i was paranoid at first when i joined here lol) so everyone already knows its me i guess.....

good for you for feeling comfortably enough to disclose your status... although i guess its not the most comfortable route for everyone ......everyone seems to have different individual opinions on how to handle disclosure based on experiences/personality :-D....

This has been my experience exactly. But Ft Lauderdale is burgeoning with gay guys, most new arrivals separated by their friends and family. And despite the poor services, the HIV+ population here is enormous.

As a strict serosorter, I just see it as separating the wheat from the chaff. I'd have no interest in pursuing a hook-up with a neg anyways.

Brent
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Offline Bucko

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #10 on: March 15, 2007, 03:32:27 PM »
Hey guys,

I changed mine on Gayday to say poz, I have not had one respond to me so far, as before I had responses all the time, however I do not have any pics this time around and that might make all the difference.

Pix make a huge difference. Just lock the face pix if you're concerned about anonymity.

Brent
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Offline Val

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #11 on: March 15, 2007, 04:30:57 PM »
I'm puzzled now and don't get it!   Blond, I thought you were in love?  With me! ;)  I expect some kind of explanation for this. 
And since I've been in love for more than 23 years now, I don't have to worry about this kinda thang...!

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Offline Ant

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #12 on: March 15, 2007, 06:59:16 PM »
I did the same on gaydar without pics and got several replies and a few from unhinged people. One guy accused me of telling everyone on gaydar he was poz. Another just wanting to bb. So back to little old me face and all but without the poz bit.

Sometimes I wonder if the bit in profiles saying a 'positive outlook' means they are poz.
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Offline Bucko

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #13 on: March 15, 2007, 07:25:33 PM »


Sometimes I wonder if the bit in profiles saying a 'positive outlook' means they are poz.

Absolutely!

And all those tired "No drama" types have a big secret to hide.

Brent
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Offline aupointillimite

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #14 on: March 15, 2007, 07:41:25 PM »
Since I am the type who likes to have a small air of mystery surrounding him, my MenschHunt profile says, "Ask me" regarding HIV status.

It's a nice way of saying "poz," but you get points when you tell them without having been asked in an email.

 
Your tastebuds can't repel flavor of this magnitude!

Offline Oceanbeach

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #15 on: March 15, 2007, 08:36:15 PM »
Hi Juan,

I met someone on a local men's site a couple of years ago.  Actually, I was directed to him through other friends who thought he would be a great catch for me.  He is poz, works in the healthcare field and was not the perfect one for me.  However, we spent the past years being great friends and I will certainly miss him when he moves to Atlanta in the Fall.

He did meet someone on either gaydar or manhunt, don't really remember but they are both transferring their jiobs, renting a condo and plan on buying a house.  I was on Planet out way back when all of those dates were disasters.  Some people may say I am a bitch but I believe a man isn't a real man unless he is a bleached blond.

I can also be quoted by saying, "men are like street cars, if you miss one, another comes along in 20 minutes."
 
I have a special cheer, I would like to share:

I SIZZLE, I ROAR, BECAUSE I AM A WHORE... I'M STUCK UP, I'M MEAN... BECAUSE I AM A QUEEN... RAH, RAH, EAT ME RAW, YEA TEAM
I like my men, like I like my whiskey...aged and mellow.  Have the best day
Michael

Offline aupointillimite

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #16 on: March 15, 2007, 08:38:03 PM »

I have a special cheer, I would like to share:

I SIZZLE, I ROAR, BECAUSE I AM A WHORE... I'M STUCK UP, I'M MEAN... BECAUSE I AM A QUEEN... RAH, RAH, EAT ME RAW, YEA TEAM

This is not a cheerocracy!  I am the cheertator; I will make the cheercisions, and I will live with the cheeronsequences, OK?
Your tastebuds can't repel flavor of this magnitude!

Offline Oceanbeach

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #17 on: March 15, 2007, 09:10:16 PM »
I hate it when that happens!  I just got my pom poms back from the dry cleaners  ;D

Offline aupointillimite

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #18 on: March 15, 2007, 09:11:17 PM »
I hate it when that happens!  I just got my pom poms back from the dry cleaners  ;D

Ha ha ha ha!

You can be Cheri Oteri, I'll be Will Ferrell.   :D
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Offline blondbeauty

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #19 on: March 15, 2007, 10:18:18 PM »
well...maybe I am being successful because I am naked on the picture...sorry Val. You know what my pijama hides...
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Counts when starting treatment:
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Offline Longislander

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #20 on: March 15, 2007, 10:22:42 PM »
please please PM me your gaydar name!!??
infected 10/05 diagnosed 12-05
2/06   379/57000                    6/07 372/30500 25%   4/09 640/U/32% 
5/06   ?? /37000                     8/07 491/55000/24%    9/09 913/U/39%
8/06   349/9500 25%              11/07 515/68000/24     2/10 845/U/38%
9/06   507/16,000 30% !          2/08  516/116k/22%    7/10 906/80/39%
12/06 398/29000 26%             Start Atripla 3/08
3/07   402/80,000 29%            4/08  485/undet!/27
4/07   507/35,000 25%            7/08 625/UD/34%
                                                 11/08 684/U/36%

Offline milker

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #21 on: March 15, 2007, 10:23:32 PM »
yes it's time to give everyone the link !  ::)
mid-dec: stupid ass
mid-jan: seroconversion
mid-feb: poz
mar 07: cd4 432 (35%) vl 54000
may 07: cd4 399 (28%) vl 27760
jul 07: cd4 403 (26%) vl 99241
oct 07: cd4 353 (24%) vl 29993
jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
mar 08: cd4 392 (23%) vl 75548
jun 08: cd4 325 (27%) vl 45880
oct 08: cd4 197 (20%) vl 154000 <== aids diagnosis
nov 2 08 start Atripla
nov 30 08: cd4 478 (23%) vl 1880 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feb 19 09: cd4 398 (24%) vl 430 getting there!
apr 23 09: cd4 604 (29%) vl 50 woohoo :D :D
jul 30 09: cd4 512 (29%) vl undetectable :D :D
may 27 10: cd4 655 (32%) vl undetectable :D :D

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Offline Bucko

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #22 on: March 15, 2007, 10:25:32 PM »
My profile pix were critiqued by several of the guys whom I eventually met and they were changed accordingly. There's now standing, sitting, erect looking down (a Mancunt crowd-pleaser) and from the side.

Brent
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Offline Longislander

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #23 on: March 15, 2007, 10:27:19 PM »
I must say there are alot of incredibly hot men on Gaydar from Madrid!

all I can say is that Juans pic is TRIPLE X RATED!
« Last Edit: March 15, 2007, 10:35:34 PM by Longislander »
infected 10/05 diagnosed 12-05
2/06   379/57000                    6/07 372/30500 25%   4/09 640/U/32% 
5/06   ?? /37000                     8/07 491/55000/24%    9/09 913/U/39%
8/06   349/9500 25%              11/07 515/68000/24     2/10 845/U/38%
9/06   507/16,000 30% !          2/08  516/116k/22%    7/10 906/80/39%
12/06 398/29000 26%             Start Atripla 3/08
3/07   402/80,000 29%            4/08  485/undet!/27
4/07   507/35,000 25%            7/08 625/UD/34%
                                                 11/08 684/U/36%

Offline blondbeauty

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #24 on: March 15, 2007, 10:41:17 PM »
You need to be a member to see the picture... :-\
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Epstein Barr +; CMV +; Toxoplasmosis +; HIV-1 +.
Counts when starting treatment:
V.L.:80.200 copies. CD4: 25%=503
Started Sustiva-Truvada 14/August/2006
Last V.L.count (Oct 2013): Undetectable
Last CD4 count (OCT 2013): 52%= 933

Offline Longislander

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #25 on: March 15, 2007, 10:45:24 PM »
mmmmmmmm :-* :-*
infected 10/05 diagnosed 12-05
2/06   379/57000                    6/07 372/30500 25%   4/09 640/U/32% 
5/06   ?? /37000                     8/07 491/55000/24%    9/09 913/U/39%
8/06   349/9500 25%              11/07 515/68000/24     2/10 845/U/38%
9/06   507/16,000 30% !          2/08  516/116k/22%    7/10 906/80/39%
12/06 398/29000 26%             Start Atripla 3/08
3/07   402/80,000 29%            4/08  485/undet!/27
4/07   507/35,000 25%            7/08 625/UD/34%
                                                 11/08 684/U/36%

Offline blondbeauty

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #26 on: March 15, 2007, 10:46:49 PM »
 :-[
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Epstein Barr +; CMV +; Toxoplasmosis +; HIV-1 +.
Counts when starting treatment:
V.L.:80.200 copies. CD4: 25%=503
Started Sustiva-Truvada 14/August/2006
Last V.L.count (Oct 2013): Undetectable
Last CD4 count (OCT 2013): 52%= 933

Offline northernguy

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #27 on: March 15, 2007, 10:49:08 PM »
OK, there's 34 pages of guys from Madrid.  How am i going to get through all those :-[
Apr 28/06 cd4 600 vl 10,600 cd% 25
Nov 8/09 cd4 510 vl 49,5000 cd% 16
Jan 16/10 cd4 660 vl 54,309 cd% 16
Feb 17/10 Started Atripla
Mar 7/10 cd4 710 vl 1,076 cd% 21
Apr 18/10 cd4 920 vl 268 cd% 28
Jun 19/10 cd4 450 vl 60 cd% 25
Aug 15/10 cd4 680 vl 205 cd% 27
Apr 3/11 cd4 780 vl <40 cd% 30
Jul 17/11 cd4 960 vl <40 cd%33
April 15/12 cd4 1,010 vl <40 cd% 39
April 20/12 Switched to Viramune + Truvada
Aug 2/12 cd4 1040, vl <40, cd% 38
Oct 19 cd4 1,110 vl <40 cd% 41

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #28 on: March 15, 2007, 10:52:36 PM »
I can give you a clue...the nickname has to do with HIV.
The only member in these forums approved by WINBA: World International Nail and Beauty Association.
Epstein Barr +; CMV +; Toxoplasmosis +; HIV-1 +.
Counts when starting treatment:
V.L.:80.200 copies. CD4: 25%=503
Started Sustiva-Truvada 14/August/2006
Last V.L.count (Oct 2013): Undetectable
Last CD4 count (OCT 2013): 52%= 933

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #29 on: March 15, 2007, 10:55:25 PM »
bring it on damnit

what's your link? there are zillions of horny men that want to see your naked pictures damnit :D
mid-dec: stupid ass
mid-jan: seroconversion
mid-feb: poz
mar 07: cd4 432 (35%) vl 54000
may 07: cd4 399 (28%) vl 27760
jul 07: cd4 403 (26%) vl 99241
oct 07: cd4 353 (24%) vl 29993
jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
mar 08: cd4 392 (23%) vl 75548
jun 08: cd4 325 (27%) vl 45880
oct 08: cd4 197 (20%) vl 154000 <== aids diagnosis
nov 2 08 start Atripla
nov 30 08: cd4 478 (23%) vl 1880 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feb 19 09: cd4 398 (24%) vl 430 getting there!
apr 23 09: cd4 604 (29%) vl 50 woohoo :D :D
jul 30 09: cd4 512 (29%) vl undetectable :D :D
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Offline Longislander

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #30 on: March 15, 2007, 10:58:20 PM »
<----------------------------------- has fallen in love................................. :-*   ;)
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2/06   379/57000                    6/07 372/30500 25%   4/09 640/U/32% 
5/06   ?? /37000                     8/07 491/55000/24%    9/09 913/U/39%
8/06   349/9500 25%              11/07 515/68000/24     2/10 845/U/38%
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Offline Val

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #31 on: March 16, 2007, 01:34:21 AM »
well...maybe I am being successful because I am naked on the picture...sorry Val. You know what my pijama hides...

Well, that does not explain much besides the fact that I know something...!  Which I can affirm to be true.   Nonetheless,   and  if I recall it well,  you were supposed to be "madly" in love.  And now this Gaydar thing?
Oh these guys, I tell you, it is just like the French saying that goes something like this:

..."Toutes des salopes, sauf mamam!"

Val
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Offline SouthSam7

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #32 on: March 16, 2007, 05:00:13 AM »
LOL at the cheerleaders, above.

I have a good friend who will remain nameless.  He's poz too.  In fact he's my only real peer in this area.  I see him on Manhunt all the time and he says he's negative in his profile.  I don't get that.  Of course he gets laid all the time and ironically, he SAYS with other POZ people!  I guess his tricks say they are negative too in their profile.  He tells me they f*ck bb of course, and I wonder when the disclosure happens. 

He may be lying to me about something.  Probably the disclosure part.  I don't pursue negative people online because of uncomfortable disclosure reasons, so I have a feeling he tells people he's negative and, like idiots, they believe him. 

I'm all about hot spontaneous sex but I would feel guilty if I hit it raw with someone and didn't tell them I was positive (beforehand, duh).  Even if it is their responsibility, too.  I am a little bitter that I'm honest but he gets laid and I don't.  Thank god for porno.

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #33 on: March 16, 2007, 04:22:28 PM »
Sam, you're pretty hot, I'm sure you're the only one keeping you from getting laid~  ;) Tell us about your MH profile ;)

I'm not even sure I'm ready to have sex with a poz person, let alonbe a neggie~ :-\
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2/06   379/57000                    6/07 372/30500 25%   4/09 640/U/32% 
5/06   ?? /37000                     8/07 491/55000/24%    9/09 913/U/39%
8/06   349/9500 25%              11/07 515/68000/24     2/10 845/U/38%
9/06   507/16,000 30% !          2/08  516/116k/22%    7/10 906/80/39%
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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #34 on: March 16, 2007, 09:19:39 PM »
Thanks, longislander, you made my day.  Now off to work while others go to the clubs  >:(

Peace.

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #35 on: March 16, 2007, 09:22:32 PM »
Tender.


Now about this MH profile....
AIDS isn't for sissies.

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #36 on: March 17, 2007, 11:38:33 AM »
Quote
Sam, you're pretty hot, I'm sure you're the only one keeping you from getting laid~ 

I would have to agree, Sam is a very hot looking man ..  :P

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #37 on: March 17, 2007, 08:53:09 PM »
Yes he is. I am a dirty slut.  :-[
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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #38 on: March 17, 2007, 08:55:46 PM »
Yes he is. I am a dirty slut.  :-[
;D Hi my name is Milker ;D
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jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
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Offline SouthSam7

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #39 on: March 19, 2007, 05:50:48 AM »
Thanks for the complements.  It's amazing how someone telling you you're hot, etc.,  can change the way you see yourself, which impacts many parts of your life.  I appreciate it.  So, do y'all ever get to Eufaula, Alabama?  It's the center of the universe - NOT

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #40 on: March 19, 2007, 08:43:04 AM »
No luck here eather. I always attract the fems. They never like doing what I like doing. Any real men out there let me know. PLEASE
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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #41 on: March 21, 2007, 04:20:50 AM »
That Manhunt shit is funny. I actually just erased my profile recently from there. The best way to use that site OR any of these pay sites for that matter is to not pay for them. You then save your self from knowing unnecessary information such as if he has looked at you email or not or if it was deleted. This way if he doesn't write ya back, he's not interested. Further if you haven't hooked up or swapped info by the time you run out of emails, it was probably time for you to log off anyway as it was'nt going to happen.

not pessimistic. realistic. you wont find love on those gay sites. just wont happen. people are there looking for sex. I thought I found love once, turned out to be a total lie. terrible. anyway point trying to be made.

  • Not paying for those gay sites = $0
  • Not looking for love on those paysites = $0
  • Finding a quick hook up on those sites = possible good time, or more headache
  • Staying off those paysites, joining local community poz social groups and the like, dating a nice lad, finding true love = priceless

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #42 on: March 21, 2007, 04:34:00 AM »
  • Not paying for those gay sites = $0
  • Not looking for love on those paysites = $0
  • Finding a quick hook up on those sites = possible good time, or more headache
  • Staying off those paysites, joining local community poz social groups and the like, dating a nice lad, finding true love = priceless

klvn ::) :o ;D
love beauty rain laughter

It would be terrific if you posted an introduction, klvn. I don't think this counts:

http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=7376.msg86169#msg86169

Rather than disparaging other people's efforts to find whatever they are looking for (and we are not all looking for the One True Love) it would be great to do as you yourself suggested, and use a support site for, well, support when you can.

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Offline klvn

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #43 on: March 21, 2007, 04:54:34 AM »
"disparaging other people's efforts to find whatever they are looking for..."

Wow bud  I think you totally missed the point. Its cool though. Simply agreeing with the over all frustration mentioned by most in this post. Its often that those pay sites are used instead of sites such as these or other support groups to, yes, find a significant other or mate. I like many have fallen victiim  to there demise. I also like many have simply shared my experiance with those sites on a site in which Ithought is supposed to show support this one.  However I'm greeted by the exact oppisite. good times. excuse me oh aids meds gods for "disparaging" (good word indeed man) against those who share in the same frustrations as i.

get over your self man. its not that serious. i hope that all find love using what ever site they so choose. i just didnt have any luck on manhunt and by the readings of it, it doesnt sound like  to many others have either.

klvn.

lol i just clicked on the link and I get the whole intro thing now. very good my friend. as  you can see then I'm a very simple guy, I dont like to much drama and I dont understand why people rain on peoples parade. its so uneccessary. so not cute either. to me thats a great intro. I had actually forgot about that. good times.

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #44 on: March 21, 2007, 11:01:00 AM »
I like both of your points of view; neither is correct and neither is wrong.

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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #45 on: March 21, 2007, 11:11:50 AM »
Is it "tense day" today? Seems like many posts are pretty tense..

Relax relax !


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mid-jan: seroconversion
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mar 07: cd4 432 (35%) vl 54000
may 07: cd4 399 (28%) vl 27760
jul 07: cd4 403 (26%) vl 99241
oct 07: cd4 353 (24%) vl 29993
jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
mar 08: cd4 392 (23%) vl 75548
jun 08: cd4 325 (27%) vl 45880
oct 08: cd4 197 (20%) vl 154000 <== aids diagnosis
nov 2 08 start Atripla
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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #46 on: March 21, 2007, 07:47:18 PM »
I have always stated that I am hiv poz and have been for 24 years. I have had people ask me why didn't I just leave it blank I would probably get more dates and I said because it's a lie or a fantasy and I am one to be totally upfront about my status. Not only do I put in the designated area where they ask, I put it in the headline and in the profile and I still have to tell people when they hit on me that I am hiv positive because they don't read the profile, only look at the picture. Yes I have been treated badly by a lot of gay and bi men and some have been extremely hateful because for 1 I like BB but only with other poz people. I am not the giver of the gift and have never been bug chaser and have to watch for those 24/7. It is not a gift even though I wouldn't the man I amn today if the 4th man I had ever been with, finally let me hair down, gave it to me along with hep B and the clap. lucky me I felt I won the lottery. I just left a reply to a gentleman that was trying to stop people from being prejudice against HIV poz individuals but in his profile stated,"I have known a lot of hiv poz gay men, not that I had sex with them" that statement right there cancelled out anything prior to it. He also is prejudiced against hiv and most people don't realize the we have more to worry about catching something from them that could kill us then they do from us.
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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #47 on: March 27, 2007, 03:19:55 PM »
Well I created a NEW profile which says I'm poz, but my facepic is private now, and the results are quite different than the first try where I just updated my old profile to say poz.

No nasty messages anymore, 90% of the requests are from positive people (or "anything goes"), and they're nice, even the "i need some dick" ones, and the choice of disclosing my facepic when I want to is better for me. The rest is from neggies calling and my first reply is "u know i'm poz, right?" and so far only one had not seen the "hiv pos", and the others seemed to be aware of how to stay safe and be poz-friendly.

So far so good. My first attempt was not the right way to do it, apparently.

Milker.

mid-dec: stupid ass
mid-jan: seroconversion
mid-feb: poz
mar 07: cd4 432 (35%) vl 54000
may 07: cd4 399 (28%) vl 27760
jul 07: cd4 403 (26%) vl 99241
oct 07: cd4 353 (24%) vl 29993
jan 08: cd4 332 (26%) vl 33308
mar 08: cd4 392 (23%) vl 75548
jun 08: cd4 325 (27%) vl 45880
oct 08: cd4 197 (20%) vl 154000 <== aids diagnosis
nov 2 08 start Atripla
nov 30 08: cd4 478 (23%) vl 1880 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feb 19 09: cd4 398 (24%) vl 430 getting there!
apr 23 09: cd4 604 (29%) vl 50 woohoo :D :D
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Re: Created a profile in Gaydar saying I am HIV+
« Reply #48 on: March 27, 2007, 03:36:31 PM »
Milkie-

Disclosure is a learned activity that becomes easier with experience.

Maybe it's just Ft Bottomdale...I don't know. But my poz status hasn't interfered with my hook-ups at all. It actually makes it easier than winging it in bars.

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