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Author Topic: Cunnilingus Question  (Read 2220 times)

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Offline Pgs123

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Cunnilingus Question
« on: March 15, 2007, 09:36:42 AM »
I am a female who received oral sex from a male.  I recently tested negative for HIV, and he has indicated that he has also tested negative for HIV.  I was also fingered by him.  He masturbated himself onto my chest.  I have no open cuts or abrasions.  I did not perform oral sex on him.  I was feeling very guilty about this, and am worried that I may have exposed myself to something.  Is this a risky situation, and should I go get tested? 

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Cunnilingus Question
« Reply #1 on: March 15, 2007, 09:47:57 AM »
PG, absolutely nothing which you did put you at risk for HIV transmission.

You do need to read our lesson about Transmission. You can find a link to it in the Welcome thread which opens this section. The most essential information you need to know and follow is that if you have either vaginal or anal intercourse the guy has to be wearing a latex condom. Everytime. No exceptions. No matter what you think you know about your partner or how great he looks or anything else. A condom is a must. Period.

If you're just becoming sexually active it can be very exciting and also anxiety provoking. Go at a pace that's right for you and always, ALWAYS do it the safer way with condoms for intercourse.

This time out you have no cause for concern about that incident in terms of HIV.

Cheers,
Andy Velez

Offline Pgs123

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Re: Cunnilingus Question
« Reply #2 on: March 15, 2007, 09:50:33 AM »
Thank you Andy.  I think much of it is that good 'ol Catholic guilt in me.  This site is a blessing.  Thank you for your quick response.

Offline Pgs123

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Re: Cunnilingus Question
« Reply #3 on: March 21, 2007, 01:31:04 PM »
How about if he fingered me? 

Offline ACinKC

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Re: Cunnilingus Question
« Reply #4 on: March 21, 2007, 01:52:46 PM »
The answer is still no.  HIV is not transmitted by fingering.  Use condoms for vaginal and anal intercourse every time and you should have no worries.
LIFE is not a race to the grave with the intention of arriving safely
in a pretty and well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in broadside,
thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming--WOW! WHAT A
RIDE!!!

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Cunnilingus Question
« Reply #5 on: March 21, 2007, 03:13:19 PM »
Guilt is a whole other matter and is unhealthy for both the body and the spirit. No kidding.

As far as HIV is concerned you have no cause to worry about this incident. REALLY!

Cheers,
Andy Velez

Offline Pgs123

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Re: Cunnilingus Question
« Reply #6 on: March 21, 2007, 03:52:06 PM »
Thank you Andy and ACinKC.  Guilt IS unhealthy.  It's something I am dealing with.  I've found I'm ten times harder on myself than anyone else!  Thank you both for your kind response.  Happy Spring!

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Cunnilingus Question
« Reply #7 on: March 21, 2007, 06:34:49 PM »
You're welcome.

Practice being gentle with yourself. It's very good for your health. No kidding.
Andy Velez

Offline Pgs123

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For the worriers out there...
« Reply #8 on: September 20, 2007, 10:56:18 AM »
Just wanted you all to know that I too was a fanatical worrier about HIV infection.  Could I get it this way, or that way... and to be honest, the worry was all over nothing.  I just had my well-woman check-up and had every test run from here to eternity - no HIV!  However, I did test positive for Herpes II virus.  :o If you're going to worry about something (not to say that worrying is OK, because it's not all that great to do to yourself), worry about that.  I had no outbreaks, no indication that I might even have herpes.  But I do, so I'll deal with it just like millions of other people.  My point is that once you let fear take over, it can ruin your life.  It did mine for almost 10 years - time I can't get back.  So, go get tested for whatever may be scaring you and get your results and move on.  The moderators here are absolutely fabulous, and they know what they're talking about.  Listen to them!!! 

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Cunnilingus Question
« Reply #9 on: September 20, 2007, 11:09:02 AM »
PG, I appreciate your comments. However, we do ask that members keep their comments in their original thread.

Readers will better be able to appreciate the evolution of your experience by getting the whole story.

Thanks and good luck to you!

Cheers,
Andy Velez

 


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