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« Last post by DANIELtakashi on October 25, 2016, 11:31:15 PM »
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« Last post by Ptrk3 on October 25, 2016, 10:52:21 PM »
"Fingering" is not a risk for HIV infection, for the reasons to which you allude (the HIV does not survive contact with ambient air). Furthermore, an Oraquick test 16 weeks post exposure yielded "negative" results.
You needn't worry further about this incident: move on because you did not engage
in unprotected sex.
« Last post by Lala4525 on October 25, 2016, 10:35:03 PM »
My best friend slept with a HIV positive person several times without protection. She assured me she was tested and was negative. But i never trusted her, so i cant be sure that shes telling the truth. Anyway in January i ended up in a regretful situation. Me her and a guy were hanging out and he fingered her and fingered me right after. I've been freaking out ever since. Theres no other situations like mine so I'm not sure if this is a reason to be worried. I read that HIV dies outside of the body. After he fingered her there wasn't much time between when he started fingering me probably about 30 seconds. 2 months after that a got a basic blood test (not sure if that checks for HIV) but i was told it came back normal. After that, at 16 weeks i took an oraquick test(oral swab) at planned parenthood it was the scariest thing i ever done. It came back negative. However all i do is think about it.
I've had yeast infections too.
Do you think i should even be worried about this? Its not like i had unprotected sex. I just want to move on from this.
I keep worrying about the Accuracy of my oraquick because i read one in twelve give out false negatives.
Insertive unprotected anal sex with a partner of unknown HIV status is a risk for HIV infection, though less of a risk, statistically, if you are the insertive partner rather than the receptive partner. If your partner is, in fact, HIV negative, it is not a risk.
As far as PEP is concerned, I would advise you to check with your health provider or local STI/STD clinic for advice on whether it is appropriate for you, based on the facts of your situation as you convey them.
Likewise, I would ask them about the various windows for other STI's/STD's and what testing needs to be taken based upon the facts of your situation.
The testing guidelines for HIV antibodies is six weeks post exposure, then 13 weeks post exposure for confirmation.
« Last post by 2tcells on October 25, 2016, 09:36:56 PM »
your my favorite member on this site! I will send you one of my shepherds if you ever need a guide dog.
My mind is racing a mile per hour and I'm on very little sleep since this weekend and pretty much freaking out...but I'll try to be to the point and unbiased with the facts and my questions. I'm also going to italicize the parts that he said but which obviously I can't confirm even though he re-iterated it multiple times
This happened 48 hours ago. I met another bi/curious guy who said he was disease free (said before and after the fact twice when we chatted yesterday and again today). I wasn't wearing protection, and I was the insertive partner (inserted about half way for under a minute). He said he's never topped or bottomed with a guy before (only given/received oral, and has had sex with females).
Does this warrant trying to get a PEP prescription tomorrow morning? I know people can't say one way or the other, but an opinion on what you would do would help.
How does STI testing work? Different infections have different windows...so do I go get tested multiple times for different infections as the window period ends, or do I wait for the longest window and just go once and get it done?
I've seen private companies (like std check) that offer an early detection HIV RNA test after 9 days - is this test reliable? Would this test be effected by taking PEP?
Thanks for any help and guidance.
« Last post by gorka on October 25, 2016, 08:44:22 PM »
Nice article summarizing this and some other vaccine efforts
« Last post by BT65 on October 25, 2016, 08:28:36 PM »
Matty! Good to hear from you! What's up??
Yes, it is completely possible to have a lifetime relationship with an HIV-positive person and remain negative, especially if the HIV-positive person is adherent to an antiretroviral regimen and is undetectable.
There are many serodiscordant couples living healthily and happily throughout the world. Here's some more information about safe(r) sex in a serodiscordant relationship:
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