I'm new to the forum but have been reading a lot of posts as I have been terrified of an incident almost 12 weeks ago.
Here goes, I am male and had anal sex with a female CSW. I wore a condom and afterward I thought nothing more about it.
About 10-14 days later I had the worst sinus pain I've ever had which went after 3 or 4 days. Then a sore throat and ears for around the same amount of time. Ever since then Ive had painful glands in my neck and throat pain.
Before with insertive sex she gave me a hand job with baby oil. I know it's not to be used with condoms but at the time I wasn't thinking about that.
I had a full STD test at 5 weeks including HIV which was negative. My symptoms persist and so did my anxiety so I had a 7 week HIV test which was also negative. The very next day (day 50 post incident) I had a really bad throat and a gland on the left side of my neck felt swollen. Then at week 9 I could (and still) feel pain in my groin and armpits although admitidly the armpit pain has subsided recently.
My fear is the condom failed and I didnt notice. I did see the condom whilst I was still wearing it after and it 'looked' ok. But the symptoms and their continuance has left me fearing for my life. I am terrified.
I have read on other forums including this one that no one has seen a 7 week negative turn positive. I pray I am ok.
I guess I am asking what other more educated people think of my situation. I have my 12 week test in a few days and I am extremely scared.
Thank you for your time. God Bless