I am really scared of one incident recently happenned to me, Can you pls acess my risk and let me know if i need to be tested.
I had been to a massage parlour in South India. I wore condom from the beginning.
One hour before I went to meet the lady I used a trimmer to trim my pubic area which caused some cuts in my genital.
There was no blood but I sensed a burning sensation there when I used aftershave lotion after trimming
during the massage, at some point we were sitting face to face on the table. she put my penis with the condom beneath her underwear for a few seconds
and rubbed, I said no but she said it was just rubbing. I am not sure if the head of my penis entered her vagina or just rubbed outside as she was wearing her panties always
Anyway after 10, 15 seconds I removed my penis from there..
I believe some vaginal fluid should have there in the condom due to this. after that she tried to give me a handjob with condom on and latter she removed condom
and gave me a handjob util i came away from her. she rubbed my urethra a few times while she gave me HJ.
(The condom was intact, always there on me until she removed it for HJ and I checked it with water method and there was no leak)
these are my concerns now, off which I dying out of fear and guilt
1) Is it a big risk that she had Vaginal fluid on her hand and she rubbed my Urethra..?
(I do not think she had lot of it while giving me a HJ as she already tried to give me HJ with condom on and some of it would have dried due to that)
2) immediately after i came I became paranoid and i applied soap and shaving lotion on my penis.. Then I found another small cut with no blood by the burning sensation of the lotion which is close to the head of my penis on the foreskin which I am not sure if came from the lady's nail while giving HJ or from the trimmer.
given the fact that she might have touched that cut too.. Am I having great risk..?
3) will your answer change due to the fact that I am from South india (Asia) and where the type of Virus is different ( C Type) and the hiv transmission science (which you gave in the welcome thread) could be different due to this ?
I was very careful to use condom from the beginning and i did not penetrate her other than what I said above (she putting my penis with condom on inside her panties)
but I am feeling really sorry that all this happened to me after taking lots of such precuation...
I did a HIV test after 24days it came negative, did an STD test and came negative. I just wanted to add that I am not at all a sexually active person who is
pls say if I need any test for this, I talked some guys running medical lab and they say I should do PCR as this is very risky.
but the price for the test is too high so I thought to wait for your feedback..