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Estoy infectado? / Re: Duda infección VIH
« Last post by Andy Velez on Yesterday at 05:40:01 PM »
Cualquier los detalles besando no es un riesgo por el VIH.

Si no hay penetracion sin un condon no tenia un riesgo.  Frotando cerca el ano con el pene no es un riesgo.  Penetracion es un riesgo y tiene que probar a 12 semanas por un resultado conclusivamente negativo.
Am I Infected? / Re: Unprotected Insertive Anal Sex
« Last post by worried905 on Yesterday at 05:39:23 PM »
How worried should I be?
Estoy infectado? / Duda infección VIH
« Last post by Hgpet13 on Yesterday at 05:11:14 PM »
Hola Andy, Buenas tardes, escribo desde la Ciudad de México. Tengo algunas dudas referente a si estuve expuesto a un contagio de VIH, estoy realmente preocupado

1. Es posible el contagio por besos profundos? tengo encías inflamadas y sangradas, además que me di cuenta que el otro chavo sangraba de la boca, porque percibí el sabor a hierro. Además en los besos me lastime la lengua sin sangrar pero me ardió durante tres días. Van 5 días desde la exposición y en enferme de la garganta

2. El chavo froto su pene en mi año sin penetracion y sin llegar a la eyaculacion por medio minuto aproximadamente. Hace tiempo tuve una herida en el glúteo pero ya está cicatrizada y cerrada.

Gracias y espero puedas responderme.

Okay, look cunnilingus see the fluid a woman produces when sexually excited comes from the Bartholin's glands, this is a lubricating fluid and does not have any more hiv present than other bodily secretions such as saliva, sweat or tears. Saliva, sweat and tears are not infectious fluids.   

HIV isn’t transmitted by hugging, shaking hands, sharing toilets, sharing dishes, kissing, through saliva, tears, or sweat and as for receiving a BJ is not a risk, end of story no "if's" about it.

So if she had or did not have chlaymdia does not make any difference. It does not change this assessment or play a part of the risk. If you already had an STI it could increase your risk if you took a risk such as unprotected intercourse, however you had no such risk.

If what you posted was your only concern you have no exposure at all and so need to specifically test for HIV, move on with your life and test as normal when next due.

Ok I get exactly what your saying Jim .. Yes she had throat chlaymdia but I tested negative for that so that's a good sign I think for not catching HIV through oral too.. If my test come back negative from the first test I took 5 days after exposure, do you think my next test will come back negative for HIV in 4 weeks? ONCE AGAIN THANKYOU YOU DO A GREAT JOB!

Now if she had another STI's it would just increase your risk of catching that STI.
It would in this case not change your HIV risk.

Look In brief the theory of STI "increasing" the odds of HIV transmission is if you have a preexisting STI causing lets say inflammation or open sores it might when you do take an already known risk, lets say unprotected intercourse increase the likelihood of HIV being transmitted to you. Anyhow I hope you see my point that if she had chlaymdia it does not make a "no risk situation" for HIV transmission into a risk.

Thanks for the quick reply... So even with her having chlaymdia in the throat don't raise my chances of catching HIV? I thought your risk went up if the person has a std? Plus I don't know if she had any open wounds from chlaymdia or not? But when we French kissed I didn't taste any blood

Nothing you mentioned was a risk for HIV transmission and you have no reason to specifically test for HIV as you had no exposure from this incident

Her HIV status is really not important, the only thing that matters is your own risk behaviors and nothing you mentioned here was a risk. Even if she tested negative all it means is she was negative 13 weeks ago.

Again the only thing that matters was your actions and if they were a risk for HIV and the answer to this is, No. 

Now do keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's. So please do get fully tested regularly for all STI's including HIV and more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs.

Finally use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, to avoid sexually transmitted hiv infection.

Kind regards


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On sept 9th I had Protected sex and unprotected oral sex with a female I met on tinder. I don't know her HIV status and I been worried ever since! I was just tested August 19 and I was HIV negative and std free.. Also during that time I figured her, I went and got tested 7 days later everything was negative for std's but I'm waiting on my HIV results back.. Yes I know you have to wait at least 4-6 weeks but I just had to go get tested and talk to someone... Yesterday I get a call from her and she tells me she sge calls me and tells me she got chlaymdia from her ex in her throat! What are the chances I test positive for HIV ??

You had no risk, and as a rule we don't comment on what other site say or do.

Actually reading back the thread the girl was not a risk however you did have a risk as you have been having intercourse with your wife.  I am presuming for this that you have had unprotected intercourse with your wife and unprotected intercourse is a risk.

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