HIV risk view and test advise..

[TomZ]

first of all i would thank you all for providing help that people can get from you because there are people don't find such guide in a place where the idea and the goal is help people and giued them to prevent for free. god bless you and wishe all the best for hellping people and societes.
 
i couldn't find any right decision about hiv test which could help me and i am really confuse and really need an advise from you as nobody here where i live are expret in my country about hiv testing and as i really in situation that couldn't make me arrange my self very well and i couldn't make it by my self i start to search and meet doctor all around.
 
past 3 months i have had a contact withe a women unknown but i guess maybe shes in high risk group...i had few min protected contact(I don' know how I use condom in correct way put it was very stretch on the head when I see it) and also unprotected oral sex without condom and deep french kisses..

after a week and half from the event i start to have all hiv symptoms and I have them antel now

Sore through (still)
Swollen lymph in my nick (gone) and under armpit (still)
Muscle ache(still but not like before)
Join pain(still)
My bowl make sound and use to hurt me at the first week after the event the sound still there
Dizziness and weakness (still)
Far eyes not like before any more
Headache ( was very strong at weeks 4 and 5)
Night sweat for 3 days  


whats make me thinking and can't move that iv had plan to marrige and date are already posted befor that event and 3 months to my family and I can't get the right decision because i couldn't find some one  guide me to the right decision. yes i learned that people do mistake no body perfect and yes people do i mistake no one knows god only knows.
 
i start to take test as follow and my marrige will be next months after those test and after my this post..
 
1. rapid test at 4 weeks (27 days)
 
2.combi ab/ag test at 5 weeks
 
3.combi ab/ag  test at 6 weeks
 
4.combi ab/ag test at 12 weeks and all STD 
 
5.combo ab/ag test at 13 weeks and 6 days (97 days)

all of them thanks to god : negative.


Now am on week 15 still have those symptoms ..
 

 
 i need your advise, am in very hard situation.. do you advise me to postponed my marrige and take test at 6 months ..or make my 3 months and 6 days (97days)  definitive and conclusive.
 
iv posted my concern i really need an advise..weather i test at 6 months or I put all those behind me and keep moving with my plan..
 

 

[RapidRod]

Guess what? Those symptoms have nothing to do with HIV.

[Andy Velez]

I am not certain you ever had a for real risk for HIV. But in any case you have tested negative at 3 months and beyond so you are reliably HIV negative. You have no cause for concern about HIV. So get married, have a wonderful life and don't worry about HIV anymore.

Just get on with your life.

[TomZ]

Hellow,,

Rapid rod and andy,,Thanks a lot for your reply

thank you for your reply but yea am still what to figure out what's wrong.. Iv seen doctor and she tell that's still couple time and she still don't know what's wrong, she did couple randome test.. And I will see her next week..

But still afraid from HIV because and really those symptoms make me concern and make can't make any move because am afraid to get some one involve..

Still have couple more question as ur very involve and specialist on this failed for Many years ..

-did u saw or heard any case that turn positive after 13 weeks negative..

-who should be tested to 6 months

-does if symptoms start at 2 weeks the test should be positive after couple weeks from symptoms stars...

-does symptoms should be not last long..

-my symptoms start at weeks 2 and still antel today 15 weeks.. I don't know start to think that I might not built enough anty body because I still sick

-iv did do any elis test all of the was different then elisa but as they said new machine ...


Thx a lot and I really Need advise and guide cuz i start to fell I shoul cancel many coming things to get things solved and there are no specialist of kinda thing here where I live all of them start to say different things thx alot

[RapidRod]

As Andy has advised you, you have a conclusive negative test result.

[Ann]

Tom,

Keep working with your doctor to find out what, if anything, is actually wrong with you.

Whatever that may be, it is NOT hiv. You have conclusively ruled hiv out of the picture.

You did NOT have a risk for hiv infection in the first place.

You do NOT have hiv!

Ann

[TomZ]

Thanks every one for support..I really appreciate

I can take it ..not HIV...

Yea ann am trying to figur out what make this symptoms still there .. I really can't figure .. I will see the next appointment with dr what will happen as she make a random tests ... Hope every thing goins be alright and there no co infection..that's why am still concern about those things.. The symptoms starts and stil antel now ..

[Andy Velez]

Whatever is going on symptomatically has nothing to do with HIV. Just because your doctor(s) haven't come up with a diagnosis does not invalidate the legitimacy of your negative HIV results. HIV is not the problem. Period.

Good luck with getting the problem sorted out.

[TomZ]

Hellow every one..

Hi expret ,,

Hope every on in good health and shape..

As I told you I will come by to post my update on testing of 6 months and it was negative and test done by roche cobas e411 combi eclia method for HIV 1 and HIV 2 + p24 and thx god it was negative ..

My symptom still have mucel pain all over my body on and off..

I really need ur opinion expert as to move on or to still have test one year mark..

As in there are no guarantee when test will be positive..and does it really happen to change positive pass 6 months negative?



Thx in advance all it's an update and advise in need

Shokran = thx

[RapidRod]

■Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result,  or no-risk situation will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

[Ann]

Tom,

It's no surprise you tested negative again - you were already conclusively hiv negative.

You do not need further testing. You do NOT have hiv!

You never had a risk in the first place.

If you feel unwell, see a doctor. Whatever is going on has NOTHING do do with a virus you DO NOT HAVE.

If you keep coming back here to wring your hands over your NO RISK situation and CONCLUSIVE NEGATIVE RESULT, you WILL be given that time out Rodney warned you about. Seriously.

YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV.  End of story!

Ann

[TomZ]

Hii all

Sory I knw I might be anxiety + those symptoms.. Always come on my mind that maybe this one is type that don't included in test so that's why it doesn't appear on test or something + my weadding day is 2 day from now and I really concern and not happy at all as much as some one as newly will married and he might infect the one he loved all of his life...
Thx Rodny
Thx ann

[Andy Velez]

Tom,

It's no surprise you tested negative again - you were already conclusively hiv negative.

You do not need further testing. You do NOT have hiv!

You never had a risk in the first place.

If you feel unwell, see a doctor. Whatever is going on has NOTHING do do with a virus you DO NOT HAVE.

If you keep coming back here to wring your hands over your NO RISK situation and CONCLUSIVE NEGATIVE RESULT, you WILL be given that time out Rodney warned you about. Seriously.

YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV.  End of story!

Ann

Rodny, you are a special person as is everyone. But you're not special in the way you are worrying about. You're HIV negative. Stop with the drama and get on with your life.

I'm going to warn you that if you continue to return here with more unfounded doubts and fears you are going to find yourself getting a Time Out for at least 28 days from the site.

HIV is not your problem so cut itout and get on with your life. Really.