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Title: ~ new love and future promises ~
Post by: klouny on August 17, 2012, 09:19:21 pm
been a while ( Loonggg while actually )since i posted on the here. and a ton load has happened. mostly good things im glad to report :)

i moved out of my older sister's apartment and now i live with 6 Amazing, and i do mean amazing roomies. they feel like family already. everyday i cant help but wake up with a smile on my face ( and sometimes a bewildered look since i find random people in my bed with me , but anyways )

I was fired from my job, which i  kinda loved ( working at chipotle ) because i was missing work due to some family drama. <--- only sad part :(

right now im spending some down time with the family down in florida. and in one of my very normal nights not sleeping due to the wonders of insomnia. i found out i have a crush on one of my male roommates. . . which is a total shame because it's a no-no, since he's straight. so thank you life for throwing this rush of confusing hormones my way again -_-

oh and now to throw the best part in there ( and purpose for this thread ). im engaged :D
to my bestfriend ( who was kind enough to propose to me three times, since i didn't believe the first two times :P )
so yay. . . which brings me to seek for advice/help. since i have no idea how to plan for a wedding  :-\
Title: Re: ~ new love and future promises ~
Post by: thunter34 on August 17, 2012, 10:40:05 pm
Wow.  Last time I knew, you'd jetted off to Arkansas.
Title: Re: ~ new love and future promises ~
Post by: DecoyBarrier on August 18, 2012, 05:28:41 am
So your best-friend proposed marriage and you accepted, while at the same time you are in love with one of your roomies?

Well, I would totally move to Alasca :D
Title: Re: ~ new love and future promises ~
Post by: klouny on August 18, 2012, 04:56:25 pm
So your best-friend proposed marriage and you accepted, while at the same time you are in love with one of your roomies?

Well, I would totally move to Alasca :D

lol it's just a tiny crush really
btw im marrying my best friend, who's a girl. and my roommate; we share everything.
and i truly do care for her, and i can't see myself in the future without her there by my side. that's why i agreed to it. so it's not sexual in any way lol

why would i want to move to alaska btw? it's really cold there

Wow.  Last time I knew, you'd jetted off to Arkansas.

 ;D yah. living in the mountains was not my thing really
Title: Re: ~ new love and future promises ~
Post by: tednlou2 on August 19, 2012, 02:48:42 am
Well, I suppose supporting marriage equality means I should support everyones right to marry whom they choose, regardless of whether it fits into our ideas of what that means.  So, congrats!  I mean, as long as she is not under any illusion this will be a "normal" marriage that is sexual.  Wait.  Many marriages are no longer sexual after a few years.  ;) 

Title: Re: ~ new love and future promises ~
Post by: DecoyBarrier on August 19, 2012, 05:05:25 am
lol it's just a tiny crush really
btw im marrying my best friend, who's a girl. and my roommate; we share everything.
and i truly do care for her, and i can't see myself in the future without her there by my side. that's why i agreed to it. so it's not sexual in any way lol

why would i want to move to alaska btw? it's really cold there

 ;D yah. living in the mountains was not my thing really

Well good luck :) Alaska is awesome, that's why, but I don't want to force anything upon you :D
Title: Re: ~ new love and future promises ~
Post by: klouny on August 19, 2012, 06:45:20 pm
Well, I suppose supporting marriage equality means I should support everyones right to marry whom they choose, regardless of whether it fits into our ideas of what that means.  So, congrats!  I mean, as long as she is not under any illusion this will be a "normal" marriage that is sexual.  Wait.  Many marriages are no longer sexual after a few years.  ;)
so you see, we have the cure to all divorces. marry your gay-best friend :P