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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: manojforum on August 10, 2013, 03:41:42 pm

Title: Unprotected Massage Handjob and Anal Finguring
Post by: manojforum on August 10, 2013, 03:41:42 pm

Hi,

Thanks for such a wonderful work.

Four Days back I got a massage from our Bulgarian Housemaid. During the Massage she gave me an unprotected hand job and my Penis head was rubbing her nipple. I asked her to finger my ass and initially she dint accept but later as per my request she fingered me.

No sex was involved, I ejaculated on her nipple.

 I have a sour throat. I am very concerned. Should I be going for any Test?

My penis head was rubbing her nipple during ejaculation, can i get any STD because of this?

She was fingering my ass, can I get any STD because of this?

Now I can see small white blister looking spots inside cheeks. Should I be Worried? Shall I go for any STD tests?
Very nervous..


Thanks

Title: Re: Unprotected Massage Handjob and Anal Finguring
Post by: Andy Velez on August 10, 2013, 04:14:47 pm

You are worrying needlessly about this incident in relation to risk for HIV.

Sexually the ONLY confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. As long as you always use condoms properly for those activities you will be well protected.

Rubbing, masturbation, fingering and other activities you have mentioned are not risks.

If your symptoms persist you should discuss them with your doctor. They have nothing to do with HIV.

There is no need for testing or concern on your part. Get on with your life. 

Title: Re: Unprotected Massage Handjob and Anal Finguring
Post by: manojforum on August 10, 2013, 05:38:40 pm

Thanks Andy, for the prompt response.

Just a few clarifications.

What are the possibilities of any STD other than HIV?

Can my anxiety cause the small white blisters in my mouth?


Thanks.

Title: Re: Unprotected Massage Handjob and Anal Finguring
Post by: jkinatl2 on August 10, 2013, 06:19:50 pm

Quote from: manojforum on August 10, 2013, 05:38:40 pm

Thanks Andy, for the prompt response.

Just a few clarifications.

What are the possibilities of any STD other than HIV?

Can my anxiety cause the small white blisters in my mouth?


Thanks.

Your anxiety can indeed cause blisters and other manifestations. Stress can be a dreadful thing.

You were not at risk from any STDs from a handjob and anal fingering.

Title: Re: Unprotected Massage Handjob and Anal Finguring
Post by: manojforum on August 11, 2013, 05:24:12 am

Thanks jkinatl2 for your prompt response.
Thats very helpfull.

Title: Re: Unprotected Massage Handjob and Anal Finguring
Post by: Andy Velez on August 11, 2013, 09:05:44 am

Mano, just as a general statement I will say that other STDs are easier to acquire than HIV. We do advise that anyone who is sexually active out to at least annually have a full STD panel done to make sure you are negative of all STDs.

In the meantime if your symptoms persist you should discuss them with your doctor. HIV is not the cause.