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Title: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 12:55:21 pm
It seems as if NOTHING can stop them!

(http://www.reconnections.net/People%20aghast%20at%20WTC.jpg)

http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=3022746&page=1

The blending is Guerrilla Queer Bar DC, a social experiment bordering on activism that Jones, Trott and "the lesbian of the group," Amy Mulry, host.

Through a network of Internet profiles on Myspace, Friendster and Yahoo, they sound the call to gays and lesbians around the city and descend on a straight bar, on the third Friday of every month.

Tired of being limited to a few dozen gay bars, and Mulry points out, just two lesbian bars in the city, the group began seeking out straight bars three years ago. The trio began with an e-mail list of around 200; it's now approaching 2,000.

"When you're the only gay person, people tend to engage on that level, like 'Oh, I have a gay friend.' That's what defines you," Jones said. "If there are 20 gay people, then all of a sudden the conversation changes and it becomes about you being a person who has other qualities."



P.S.
I'm all for it!

Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: jkinatl2 on April 09, 2007, 01:03:42 pm
This can only lead to line dancing.

Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: thunter34 on April 09, 2007, 01:03:59 pm
I'm here.  I'm queer.  And I also want a beer.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Dachshund on April 09, 2007, 01:05:06 pm
Thank God they are not Jewish.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ademas on April 09, 2007, 01:06:19 pm
I love this!
(that pic is from 9/11, though...still heartbreaking to look at.)
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: StanDaMan on April 09, 2007, 01:06:56 pm
When they begin invading smoke-free coffee houses I'm in!

As a tee-totaler non-smoker I don't go into gay bars for more than 10 minutes and I ain't been in a straight bar since the Dandy Warhols played in one in the late 90s. 

SD
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Miss Philicia on April 09, 2007, 01:08:08 pm
... or deaf
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: thunter34 on April 09, 2007, 01:11:33 pm
When they begin invading smoke-free coffee houses I'm in!

As a tee-totaler non-smoker I don't go into gay bars for more than 10 minutes and I ain't been in a straight bar since the Dandy Warhols played in one in the late 90s. 

SD

Dandy Warhols fan, huh?   ;)

PS- I think Jewish cum is kosher.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: JesusLovesYou on April 09, 2007, 01:12:07 pm
 ;D
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 01:28:48 pm
Great.  All the fuckin clique members show up.  Just because you are in my thread don't be thinking you can take over my #2 ranking BITCHES!!!
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: jkinatl2 on April 09, 2007, 01:33:31 pm
I know, I hated being number three. I feel so Jimmy Olsen. I would post further, but I'm all dying and shit.

Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Dachshund on April 09, 2007, 01:34:31 pm
I know, I hated being number three. I feel so Jimmy Olsen. I would post further, but I'm all dying and shit.



Shut up girl.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Buckmark on April 09, 2007, 01:45:16 pm
I've gone to many of the events sponsored by the Austin "guerilla bar" group.
I'm not a huge fan of bars.  But what I enjoy about this is the opportunity to
go someplace I may never have been before, and not feeling limited about
where I can go to socialize with other gay folks.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gqb-austin/ (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gqb-austin/)

As the motto says:  Don't Clone, Colonize.

Henry
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Bucko on April 09, 2007, 01:46:02 pm
At least you slutty bitches got mentioned. How much carnality must one person post before he gets on the list?

Brent
(Who was raised Episcopalian but must have Jew in him somewhere)
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: jkinatl2 on April 09, 2007, 01:46:50 pm


As the motto says:  Don't Clone, Colonize.

Henry


I LIKE that quote! Who said it, do you know?

Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: StanDaMan on April 09, 2007, 01:47:56 pm
Great.  All the fuckin clique members show up.  Just because you are in my thread don't be thinking you can take over my #2 ranking BITCHES!!!

I've never been in a clique larger than one person.  Luckily I weigh enough to count as 2 people.

My clique is extremely restricted: no diptheria cases allowed, period.  No exceptions so please don't ask.

SD
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Bucko on April 09, 2007, 01:52:42 pm
I've never been in a clique larger than one person.  Luckily I weigh enough to count as 2 people.

My clique is extremely restricted: no diptheria cases allowed, period.  No exceptions so please don't ask.

SD

You can be in my clique, sweetums. We take all sizes.

Brent
(Who enjoys the familiar)
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: thunter34 on April 09, 2007, 01:53:39 pm
I know, I hated being number three. I feel so Jimmy Olsen. I would post further, but I'm all dying and shit.



Oh, Lord have mercy!  That was funny.  You of the despair and no sense of humor & all.

~T Hunter

(who has most certainly had some Jew in him more than once)
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Andy Velez on April 09, 2007, 02:03:31 pm
On a historical note, in QUEER NATION's 1990 days, that was a regular tactic on the agenda. A number of historically straight bars were invaded for an evening. Sometimes it happened because there had been a report of some anti-gay stuff. In other cases it was just a part of QN's committment to raising queer visibility in non-traditional settings.

Two historic bars, the White Horse Tavern in the West Village and McSorley's in East Village were among the targets which were very enjoyably rainbowed. Some supposedly straight Upper East Side watering holes were also visited en masse.

As I recall, once things got started at any particular site it wasn't always easy to tell the invaders apart from the invaded, if you get my drift.

Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 02:06:36 pm
Me and the WIFEY love going to Gay bars and would welcome your invasion with open arms!  I wish we had a big group here in KC I'd nominate a few places for them to start!
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 02:18:38 pm
(http://revart.blogs.com/minister_of_rants/images/gays_thegaysarecoming300x300_2.jpg)
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Dachshund on April 09, 2007, 02:29:04 pm
On a historical note, in QUEER NATION's 1990 days, that was a regular tactic on the agenda. A number of historically straight bars were invaded for an evening. Sometimes it happened because there had been a report of some anti-gay stuff. In other cases it was just a part of QN's committment to raising queer visibility in non-traditional settings.

Two historic bars, the White Horse Tavern in the West Village and McSorley's in East Village were among the targets which were very enjoyably rainbowed. Some supposedly straight Upper East Side watering holes were also visited en masse.

As I recall, once things got started at any particular site it wasn't always easy to tell the invaders apart from the invaded, if you get my drift.

I want to be invaded.


Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 02:30:48 pm
You need to learn how to quote people and add your own commentary first!
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Dachshund on April 09, 2007, 02:33:34 pm
You need to learn how to quote people and add your own commentary first!



You need to bite me, second place homo-lite wannabe. ;D
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: JesusLovesYou on April 09, 2007, 02:34:34 pm
(http://www.godhaven.org.uk/blogimages/narodowe.jpg)
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 02:40:36 pm


You need to bite me, second place homo-lite wannabe. ;D

HOLY SHIT That was funny as hell!  I love you man!  Priceless, truly priceless!  And a perfect example of keeping our harshest words for ones we like the best!  (Big assumption on my part I guess!)
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Dachshund on April 09, 2007, 02:53:29 pm
HOLY SHIT That was funny as hell!  I love you man!  Priceless, truly priceless!  And a perfect example of keeping our harshest words for ones we like the best!  (Big assumption on my part I guess!)

I do love you because like me, we rather enjoy being the butt of the joke.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 02:54:30 pm
I do love you because like me, we rather enjoy being the butt of the joke.

Amen to that.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: jkinatl2 on April 09, 2007, 02:56:26 pm
eep.

Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: bt1313 on April 09, 2007, 03:22:11 pm
A total misjudgement as to pic usage......why use a 9/11 photo like that. I am offended.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 03:35:32 pm
A total misjudgement as to pic usage......why use a 9/11 photo like that. I am offended.

I googled the word "Aghast" and used the picture I thought expressed the emotion that I wanted.  Had no idea it was of 9/11.

Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: StanDaMan on April 09, 2007, 03:42:37 pm
A total misjudgement as to pic usage......why use a 9/11 photo like that. I am offended.

If the pic had the WTC in it I might have been offended, too, but it didn't.  AC made no reference to 9/11 but someone else did. A pic taken completely out of context and placed in a thread like this is no insult to those who died or their loved ones. 

9/11 is still somewhat fresh in the USA's collective psyche and the enormity of that day will never be forgotten.  AC was in no way joking about 9/11.  If he'd been able to find a pic of people reacting to the Hindenburg explosion it wouldn't be any more offensive than the pic used.

That is my humble opinion.

SD
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: aupointillimite on April 09, 2007, 03:49:05 pm
Man... God bless my generation.

I go to straight bars all the time... standard operating procedure for me, really.

I loathe most of the gay bars in Richmond.

And the straight bars I go to are filled with scruffy bike kids and tattooed hardcore music fans... and they don't ever treat me like I'm "the gay guy."   

If this were done where I go... no one would know the difference.  Because it happens all the time without any organization. 

I prefer social fluidity and look forward to the day when tactics like this are obsolete.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: aupointillimite on April 09, 2007, 03:50:05 pm
Two historic bars, the White Horse Tavern in the West Village and McSorley's in East Village were among the targets which were very enjoyably rainbowed. Some supposedly straight Upper East Side watering holes were also visited en masse.

The White Horse?

I love that place!

That's the bar where Dylan Thomas drank himself to death!

My best friend Jennie and I attempted to recreate it... but we ended up just drinking ourselves to awesome.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: jkinatl2 on April 09, 2007, 03:50:37 pm
do NOT joke about the Hindenberg



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Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: jkinatl2 on April 09, 2007, 03:51:16 pm
Too soon?
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 03:52:40 pm
Too soon?

TOTALLY what I was thinking?  Other than that, how was the play Mrs. Lincoln?
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: aupointillimite on April 09, 2007, 03:56:49 pm
do NOT joke about the Hindenberg

Did you read The Onion's Our Dumb Century for the Hindenburg? 

"AWESOME!

Nation Wowed By Tremendous Hindenburg Explosion!

Gay Ball of Flame Warms Hearts Chilled by Depression."
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: aupointillimite on April 09, 2007, 03:57:30 pm
TOTALLY what I was thinking?  Other than that, how was the play Mrs. Lincoln?

I've always admired Lincoln for having gotten shot in a fashionable theater. 
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: StanDaMan on April 09, 2007, 04:06:02 pm
do NOT joke about the Hindenberg

Now that pic is offensive!!  My great-great-great-3rd cousin died on the Hindenburg and so did her cat. 

"How did you enjoy the motorcade, Mrs. Kennedy?"

SD
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: bt1313 on April 09, 2007, 04:06:55 pm
I was simply stating that the pic offended me. I think I said I was offended. Not that the photo was offensive. I think print is just like words...but more powerful because its there to be seen. As someone who lost a few people in those attacks as well as the ongoing war...it was a cruel reminder of 9/11. The thread also used the word INVADING....much like we were in the attacks. It was just me having a sensitive spot. And the pic, unbeknowst to the poster coupled with the thread was a bit much. Nor was the fact that I posted my comment after someone mentioned that it was a 9/11 photo. I do not in anyway expect everyone to know every photo from that horrific event. Nor did I intend to feel like I was wrong for making my post because of the reasons why it was an acceptable photo. And lastly I was not attacking the original post...more just asking a qeustion of why post that pic...which was answered by the poster. I wonder now what was posted with the pic....when located. Maybe a reference to 9/11. And if so....heartlessness and lack of consideration of those affected by the tragedy. Just my two cents. i know its only two...but I feel its worth a million.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Miss Philicia on April 09, 2007, 04:07:15 pm
::long cat usage detected::
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: aupointillimite on April 09, 2007, 04:10:17 pm
My whole family died on the Challenger.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: bt1313 on April 09, 2007, 04:11:40 pm
ironically i googled aghast as well. Found that pic. Clciked it. read then writing underneath. clicked on the click button. next picture...hmmm the towers and a plan hitting one. <sigh> what wonders the computer provides. and with a little research...i know i would have had secod thoughts about that posted photo. and now i see where some of the other user are offened by words on here. death is not a joking matter...nor are tragedies.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: jkinatl2 on April 09, 2007, 04:13:14 pm
Did you read The Onion's Our Dumb Century for the Hindenburg? 

"AWESOME!

Nation Wowed By Tremendous Hindenburg Explosion!

Gay Ball of Flame Warms Hearts Chilled by Depression."

the Onions "Our Dumb Century" was a book I bought for my bother for Xmas a few years ago. I started reading it, decided it was WAY too cool for him, so I kept it :)

Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: aupointillimite on April 09, 2007, 04:17:04 pm
the Onions "Our Dumb Century" was a book I bought for my bother for Xmas a few years ago. I started reading it, decided it was WAY too cool for him, so I kept it :)

It's absolutely brilliant.

"World's Largest Metaphor Hits Iceberg."

"Dastardly Japs Attack Colonially Occupied U.S. Non-State."

And the one from WWI about 20,000 dying in a four inch advance on the Western Front.  HIL-arious! 
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 04:21:41 pm
ironically i googled aghast as well. Found that pic. Clciked it. read then writing underneath. clicked on the click button. next picture...hmmm the towers and a plan hitting one. <sigh> what wonders the computer provides. and with a little research...i know i would have had secod thoughts about that posted photo. and now i see where some of the other user are offened by words on here. death is not a joking matter...nor are tragedies.

Well, being that I was just looking for a picture of people who were "aghast" I wasnt really looking to research the photo.  All I wanted was the emotion.  And if it continues to offend I invite you to put me on ignore as I probably will have a tendancy to do that to you.  Which is not a slam or anything I totally get that I rub some people the wrong way, it may just be that you are one of them.  Which is ok.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ademas on April 09, 2007, 04:32:51 pm
mmmm...I wasn't offended.
that's just one of those 9/11 images that's seared into my brain.
i've googled images and used them before without having a clue where they originated, and I sort of assumed that was what AC had done.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: JesusLovesYou on April 09, 2007, 04:35:37 pm
I didn't find the picture offensive either but then again I didn't loose a loved one in 9/11. I guess it all depends in the way you interpret the image. I remember once I was offended by a comedian who was making fun of AIDS and i found to the be utterly disgusting but the rest of the crowd was having the time of their lives. Maybe the person who posted the picture should consider that.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 04:39:39 pm
I didn't find the picture offensive either but then again I didn't loose a loved one in 9/11. I guess it all depends in the way you interpret the image. I remember once I was offended by a comedian who was making fun of AIDS and i found to the be utterly disgusting but the rest of the crowd was having the time of their lives. Maybe the person who posted the picture should consider that.

Anyway,  The Gays are Still Invading!
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: jkinatl2 on April 09, 2007, 04:41:38 pm
I am WAY more offended by people making up transparent identities online and thinking the rest of the crowd won't notice.

One action might offend some folks, true. The other? Damages the forum and hurts the prospect of sincere folks being welcomed into the fold. That's TeH Sukk.

Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: aupointillimite on April 09, 2007, 04:42:36 pm
Anyway,  The Gays are Still Invading!

We're coming in from Canada.

Fargo has already fallen and is now under the tyranny of universal health care and tolerance.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Dachshund on April 09, 2007, 04:43:01 pm
My whole family died on the Challenger.

My sister got pregnant in the back seat of a Dodge Challenger
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: sweetasmeli on April 09, 2007, 04:43:56 pm
death is not a joking matter...nor are tragedies.

No offense meant bt, but I think you will find that many folk on here will beg to differ on that score.

Laughing in the face of adversity can often be an incredible coping mechanism. There are many on here - myself included - who frequently find laughter the best therapy when faced with the most daunting and/or desperate situations.

Aidsmeds is an incredible mix of personalities and there are some folk here with amazing souls and huge hearts. More often than not, they know when its time for tears and when its time for laughter. Sometimes its time for both.

You only have to browse through Living With to see that...and be sure to go beyond the first page!

Melia
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Dachshund on April 09, 2007, 04:45:22 pm
I'm surprised to see so many "new" members offended by this pic.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 04:46:00 pm
My sister got pregnant in the back seat of a Dodge Challenger

Yeah...ummmm..... sorry bout that.  Tell her I TOTALLY meant to call.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: jkinatl2 on April 09, 2007, 04:46:35 pm
hehe

"new"

Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: sweetasmeli on April 09, 2007, 04:48:09 pm
Yeah...ummmm..... sorry bout that.  Tell her I TOTALLY meant to call.

Andrew, you are sooo naughty. Now you can go stand in the corner! :P
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: JesusLovesYou on April 09, 2007, 04:48:18 pm
I don't get the "new" joke, was that directed towards me?
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: Dachshund on April 09, 2007, 04:49:15 pm
Oh Al you are a silly girl.
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: aupointillimite on April 09, 2007, 04:50:09 pm
You guys.  I'm serious.

My whole family died on the Challenger.  I'm so upset I might binge on a saltine and start a new account here.

How subtle is "Doxie&ACMustDieByCatheter?"
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 04:50:21 pm
Andrew, you are sooo naughty. Now you can go stand in the corner! :P

You comin along or do I have to bang Dasch's sister again?
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: sweetasmeli on April 09, 2007, 04:55:04 pm
You comin along or do I have to bang Dasch's sister again?

You scare me a bit...can I bring my ferret snogging friend too? :)
Title: Re: The GAYS are INVADING!!!!
Post by: ACinKC on April 09, 2007, 04:57:57 pm
You scare me a bit...can I bring my ferret snogging friend too? :)

Sure...wife knows im "hetero-flexible"!