Please help very scared. Andy anne Anyone please :o(

[lumix777]

Hello and thanks for the excellent forum its a great help to everyone.

my story is that I had sex with an escort with condom no kissing or anything . lasted about 5 minutes condom intact and came in the condom and that was it all done.

second incident had sex with an escort kissed around her vagina no licking. oral with condom then sex with condom lasted about 15 mins came in the condom. when I removed myself from inside her condom was 3 quarters on my shaft moved up a little  all the cum inside the condom.

im really scared and suffer from severe anxiety plz help me

love u all

[Ann]

lumix,

You have NOT had a risk for hiv infection. You did all you need to do in order to protect yourself - you wore a condom for anal or vaginal intercourse.

It doesn't matter that the condom didn't completely cover the shaft of your penis. What is important is that it covered the HEAD of your penis. Hiv cannot infect through skin and the skin on the shaft of your penis is no different to the skin anywhere else on your body.

Condoms have been proven to prevent hiv infection. There have been three long-term studies of couples where one is positive and one is negative. In the couples who used condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, but no barrier for oral activities, not one of the negative partners became infected with hiv. Not one.

Kissing anywhere on the body is also not a risk. Not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST FOR HIV SPECIFICALLY FOLLOWING KISSING OR PROTECTED INTERCOURSE, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann

[lumix777]

this is the first 2 times ive had sex in a year but don't want to do it again. I also gave one of the girls pecks on the lips very light kissing not tongue. is there anything else that I can get infected with. Im really scared what if I had small break in the skin at the bottom of my shaft or if the condom was out of date etc. could I be at risk. I said to one of the girls its a risky job but she said she always uses condoms and there is no need to worry.
I also deep kissed a girl 2 months before for 20 minutes but that's all I did and a year ago had sex with another girl with condom but deep kissing got tested at 8.5 weeks was negative  for all stds.
should I retest after this exposure

[Ann]

Lumix,

If it's been a year since you last had a complete sexual health check up, then yes, it's time you had another.

However, you can fully expect your hiv test to come back negative, as none of the details you added were risks for hiv infection. Nicks on the base of your penis don't matter. The only time an out of date condom matters is if it breaks, and yours did NOT break. You had NO RISK for hiv infection.

Kissing, deep, shallow or sideways, is NOT a risk for hiv infection. No way, no how.

Other STIs are MUCH more easily transmitted than hiv, but the only way to know if you've been infected with any STI is to TEST. You can test for most of the other STIs ten days to two weeks following a possible exposure, but syphilis shares a three month window period with hiv for a conclusive negative result.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!!!

Ann