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GONE MAD · « **Reply #50 on:** August 18, 2008, 04:06:50 pm »

im trying really hard.trust me.i dont think is thrush my tougue was perfectly fine until i scrapped it with with my finger repeatdly andhard and it healed.now their is no problem i brush with with a moderate tooth brush.nothing hurts anymore.letme levelihave to do the test for a full medical i think the fact that i took the test ismaking me scared to death.the person that i had unprotected sex with got his results after i was exposed to the precum he tested negative.i thinkthat my fear should of been over but it wasnt.approximately 4 months ago march 28th. i was home and i was drunk and sleeping i no you might think its physcological but i started to assume that someone came in while i was sleeping as i only remembered blotches of that night.but rememberedlocking thedoor.im assuming here.i know u all dont discuss syptoms but i find it really weird that i amhaving really bad muscle pain which was associated with hypocalcaemiacausei must admit my dairy intake is low andafetr the pains which was severe i increase my intaketo the maximum and it stopped.but my mind is associating it with peripheral neuropathy.thats what actually scaring me

GONE MAD · « **Reply #51 on:** August 18, 2008, 06:25:47 pm »

i know that you all don't deal with symptoms because it doesn't determine whether you hav hiv or not.but i find it really weird to be havin these cramps

GONE MAD · « **Reply #52 on:** August 18, 2008, 06:40:58 pm »

i know that you all dont get about discussing symotoms but what i want to know is that what does peripheral neuropathy hast do with hiv i read at your website that it is a side effect but i see something about muscle cramps.im confused

GONE MAD · « **Reply #53 on:** August 19, 2008, 03:24:46 pm »

i no it is very weird to ask but could you get it from kissing if the person has trush and one of the blotches rubs off?

jkinatl2 · « **Reply #54 on:** August 19, 2008, 03:30:23 pm »

No risk.

Ann · « **Reply #55 on:** August 19, 2008, 03:30:52 pm »

Gone,

Kissing isn't a risk for hiv infection, end of story.

If you keep up with the repeated posting, you'll be timed out. We've been more than patient with you so far, but this has got to stop. You're unlikely to test positive going by what you've told us so far.

Get off the internet, collect your test results and get on with your life.

Ann

GONE MAD · « **Reply #56 on:** August 19, 2008, 03:34:59 pm »

im going tommorow cause my country screwed up the datesfor my results.i no its unlikely but im just scared never the less

GONE MAD · « **Reply #57 on:** August 20, 2008, 03:21:57 pm »

today i had the oral quick test after 2 months anf 18 days after exposure and it was negative..im relievedbut still have the fear in the back of mind tanx ALOT EVERYONE!!!!!

Andy Velez · « **Reply #58 on:** August 20, 2008, 03:43:11 pm »

Fortunately fears aren't facts. A negative test result is a fact. No surprise that result since you didn't have a risk.

Get on with your life. Really.

GONE MAD · « **Reply #59 on:** August 20, 2008, 07:08:17 pm »

how likely is it for a 2 months 18 days negative to turn positive?

Ann · « **Reply #60 on:** August 21, 2008, 04:44:52 am »

GM,

how likely is it for a 2 months 18 days negative to turn positive?

It's not going to happen.

Ann

GONE MAD · « **Reply #61 on:** August 27, 2008, 06:15:55 pm »

i know that you said that it wont change putdo ppl get false negatives

Andy Velez · « **Reply #62 on:** August 27, 2008, 06:30:17 pm »

The average time to seroconversion is 22 days. All but the very smallest number who will seroconvert will do so within 4-6 weeks after a risky incident.

We're not here to debate the issue with you.

You have been told what we think about your situation. Go ahead an re-test at 13 weeks if you want to and collect another negative result.

GONE MAD · « **Reply #63 on:** October 12, 2008, 08:48:25 pm »

does precum cause a slower seroconversion than normal???or does the same 3 months apply?

RapidRod · « **Reply #64 on:** October 12, 2008, 09:41:27 pm »

Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

Ann · « **Reply #65 on:** October 13, 2008, 06:41:33 am »

Gone,

The same three months applies.

Ann

GONE MAD · « **Reply #66 on:** October 14, 2008, 03:16:26 pm »

GONE MAD · « **Reply #67 on:** November 13, 2008, 07:02:11 am »

i not this might be a little annoying but i not you all don,t deal with symptoms but lymphs nodes hav swollen on my neck not large this has never happened before to me.i want to no if by simple rubbing of theneck excessively would acccount for that.cause since the test i have been obsessive with rubbing down my neck until one morning i found a few.i hav had a 8 weeks negative and a 11 weeks 3 days negative though

Ann · « **Reply #68 on:** November 13, 2008, 09:55:44 am »

Gone,

Keep your hands off your lymph nodes because touching them all the time to see if they're swollen WILL cause them to swell. If they remain swollen after you've left them alone for a few days, see your doctor. Swollen lymph nodes (unless you caused it yourself by touching them all the time) are a sign of infection. Whatever infection you may have, it is NOT hiv. You do not have hiv and you do not need further hiv testing.

You are still under a time out warning.

You don't have hiv and it's time you moved on with your life.

Ann

GONE MAD · « **Reply #69 on:** January 27, 2011, 01:58:39 pm »

Hi i posted 2 years ago and i think i need another text since then i hav had sex with protection.But since then i have had the same lymph node swollen i have taken other std test which where negative.i am alws afraid that the oral quick test i took at 12 weeks and the western blot elisa test at 8 weeks were in accurate.i have also aquired a rash since the testing the first time,since i was afraid i recently took care of it and it was decribe as a fungus and my swollen lymph nodes on my neck which go an come periodically was attributed to my cavities. my one worry i believe is the window period and should i eliminate the ones b4 the test and i slept with my bf intially he inserted without a condom for 4 to 5 minutes and then placed a condom on.my problem is precum again. oh and lastnight i woke up with night sweat

Ann · « **Reply #70 on:** January 27, 2011, 02:28:41 pm »

Gone,

Anyone who is sexually active should be tested at least once a year.

As you've always used condoms in the past two years, I fully expect your hiv test to return a negative result.

If you feel unwell, see a doctor. It's nothing to do with hiv.

Ann

GONE MAD · « **Reply #71 on:** January 27, 2011, 02:39:54 pm »

and my exposure to pre cum on the one exposure after the test. but the ora quick was a good test cause i went to the clinic today and the doctor who spoke poke poor english told me that 3 months was nt good enough do it over which is contrary to everything i have ever learnt

Andy Velez · « **Reply #72 on:** January 27, 2011, 02:55:59 pm »

Lymph nodes swell for all sorts of reasons. I don't see any basis in what you have reported in the past or currently to doubt the validity of your earlier negative HIV tests.

Whatever problems you are having physically are something you should be discussing with your doctor(s). We cannot diagnose in this setting. All I can say is I don't see any evidence that HIV is the problem but as Ann suggested, anyone who is sexually active ought to have a full STD panel done at least annually.

The doctor who advised you about testing at 6 months is outdated in his recommendation. A negative test result at 13 weeks is sufficient unless longterm intravenous drug use, organ transplant or treatment for cancer are involved. In those instances 6 months is recommended.

GONE MAD · « **Reply #73 on:** January 27, 2011, 03:07:38 pm »

well i guess i shouldnt be worried about the guys with the condoms i think ius the precum exposure im his second partner and his first he had was with a condom. the guys with the condom was more promiscuous and it was him i was worried about and the last guy i did it with b4 the 12 week test and 8 weeks test . so i was thinking bk on that and well worried about the guys with the condoms. and well the precum.The doctor she was uncertain and not informative i hav to go next week to get tested i have paranoid tendancies is all.

GONE MAD · « **Reply #74 on:** January 27, 2011, 03:09:19 pm »

one of my doctors said my rash was a fungal infection from sharing clothing and sweating.The swoolen lymph node was due to cavities i was told by another

Andy Velez · « **Reply #75 on:** January 27, 2011, 03:10:31 pm »

Good luck with your test result, which I expect will be negative based on what you have reported. Nothing further to comment at this point.

GONE MAD · « **Reply #76 on:** January 27, 2011, 03:14:05 pm »

thank you and i hope so tooo

GONE MAD · « **Reply #77 on:** January 27, 2011, 03:58:42 pm »

so you guys think it would be negative i think its the swollen lymph nodes and the body aches that throw me off and i cant explain it thats why i alws wonder about the tests that i took b4

Ann · « **Reply #78 on:** January 27, 2011, 04:18:48 pm »

Mad,

The rapid test you took at twelve weeks was conclusive.

If you test due to your protected activities since your conclusive test two years ago, we fully expect you to again test hiv negative.

Hiv isn't the only thing that can cause swollen glands or body aches. See your doctor. We cannot diagnose you here.

If you read the Welcome Thread before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

Please consider yourself warned!

Ann

GONE MAD · « **Reply #79 on:** January 28, 2011, 04:42:41 pm »

The reason why i came back and asked because last december well dec 3rd at my university a guy who was HIV poz for 20 years came to talk to us about everything concerning us so he asked the question when was the time you should get tested after an exposure and his response was four months and i was a bit confused and i didnt say anything.cause i remembered i did mine at 2 months 18 days and i had the rash all that time and it came negative and still have the rash which is nothing big im takin care of it now as it wasnt a rash of alarm i thought at the time but as i said the doctor said it was a fungus and perscribed me something

Andy Velez · « **Reply #80 on:** January 28, 2011, 06:40:01 pm »

So essentially your rash has nothing to do with HIV, you tested negative and you are coming back here with more mental handwringing because?

Because you're just indulging yourself in drama is how I see it.

GONE MAD · « **Reply #81 on:** January 28, 2011, 07:06:27 pm »

i think im scared over my next precum exposure im sorry and the guy said 4 months and i was confused

GONE MAD · « **Reply #82 on:** January 28, 2011, 07:18:32 pm »

and when i told the AIDS information guy i did take a test the oral one with the mouth swab he said it wasnt reliable like 70 % but i wudnt think they wud use something like that well unreliable to test for HIV.

Ann · « **Reply #83 on:** January 29, 2011, 10:25:46 am »

Gone,

Just because the man has been living with hiv for twenty years does not mean that he is up-to-date on testing issues. He's not.

We've given you the factual information here. That's all we can do. We're not a hand-holding outfit.

I'm giving you that time out you've been warned about. Do not attempt to create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned.

Ann

GONE MAD · « **Reply #84 on:** February 27, 2011, 01:52:08 pm »

ok i understand now i accept that my 12 week was conclusive.i hav alws used condoms after. ALWAYS dont knw why im still terrified but what about swallowing cum? thats me assuming that any one of them had HIV

Andy Velez · « **Reply #85 on:** February 27, 2011, 06:41:22 pm »

Your saliva contains over a dozen elements and proteins which very effectively prevent the transmission of viable HIV.

Once again you are worrying needlessly. Get off of that worry track right now. Period.

GONE MAD · « **Reply #86 on:** March 02, 2011, 03:01:57 pm »

i think its the lymph nodes i got 2months after the test how cant cavities cause that for so long their not big i didnt even knew they even existed before reading up about HIV and theirs one by my collar bone and i am reading so many bad thing about it and the aches in my fingers and the night i work up in a night sweat i think makes it even harder.to believe it took a lot for me to go the first time. paranoid majorly i guess

Andy Velez · « **Reply #87 on:** March 02, 2011, 05:01:19 pm »

Do yourself a big and smart favor and stop all that reading. It is taking you nowhere good. So cut out that kind of self-indulgence and get on with your life.

Leave your lymph nodes alone as Ann has warned you previously. If they are swollen then discuss them with your doctor. HIV is not your problem.

I am also going to warn you that we are not going to indulge you in endless what ifs and anxious speculations. If you keep that stuff up you are going to find yourself getting another Time Out.

GONE MAD · « **Reply #88 on:** March 07, 2011, 03:45:42 pm »

I must apologize I realize that one of the guys sleeps around alot and i INSISTED he used a condom even though he didnt want you but i gave him one and ensured he used it.Ill still go get tested cause i going to get married. i think its just fears thank you guys so much for you help.My mind is playing tricks on me even though i know i used condoms silly huh.im only running the night through my head.

Ann · « **Reply #89 on:** March 07, 2011, 03:56:21 pm »

Gone,

If you're getting married, BOTH of you should have a complete sexual health care check up, including but not limited to hiv testing. You should do this BEFORE you stop using condoms.

Ann

GONE MAD · « **Reply #90 on:** March 07, 2011, 08:05:28 pm »

i know he is a virgin so he wants us both to go do it together and just get it out of the way im the hold up cause im still scared

Ann · « **Reply #91 on:** March 07, 2011, 08:21:35 pm »

Gone,

We've told you time and time again that protected intercourse is NOT a risk for hiv infection. Grow up already. Are you sure you're ready for marriage?

We've indulged you enough. I'm giving you that second time out you've been warned about. You know the drill - if you attempt to create a new account to get around your time out you will be permanently banned.

Ann

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