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Title: It has been a while.
Post by: TreDai on July 21, 2008, 10:02:28 pm

Hi everyone it has been awhile since I have been on here.. forgive me I need to vent.

Today I was on my Tagged page and this guy i don't know sends me a message saying"should I tell everyone about my health(HIV) not to be rude but shouldn't let everyone on the site so they can be safe"  My reply was thanks for your concern but I only have friends on here and then i asked would he feel better if I put a condom on the computer before I send or receive any messages. And I also let him know that it no ones business buy mine who tell or don't tell and it is not like it is a secret. That PISSED ME OFF!! royally  >:(

Title: Re: It has been a while.
Post by: BT65 on July 22, 2008, 07:53:22 am

Hey TreDai, good to hear from you!  Sorry it's in this context though.  How did that guy even know about you being HIV+?  I wouldn't have appreciated that comment either.  I've never heard of "Tagged" but I'm assuming it's like Myspace.  If that's the case, then I suppose you don't really have much control over who sends you what.  Be the better person and just ignore it.  If you don't react, chances are he won't be back in touch.  Good luck.
  Luv,
Betty

Title: Re: It has been a while.
Post by: tendai on July 22, 2008, 08:17:02 am

hie Tre. thats telling him, where does he get off anyway? ::)

Title: Re: It has been a while.
Post by: TreDai on July 24, 2008, 12:25:08 pm

Betty.

I do alot of work here in Columbus. I speak and volunteer.I am also used to break stereotypes here in the city. I found that doing good with it does me a lot of good. So if someone knows my status it is not a big deal, It was how he did it.

Title: Re: It has been a while.
Post by: Winiroo on July 24, 2008, 12:29:16 pm

There are plenty of ignorant people out there. I'd have been annoyed too considering I don't have sex with anyone online.

Title: Re: It has been a while.
Post by: TreDai on July 28, 2008, 05:03:38 pm

LMAO....exactly!! I rejected him before that happened!!