i am going crazy,what should i do?

[belgrano]

 :)hi every body:
i amwriting from latin america,from argentina,i had an incident on may 21 of this year. I stayed with a girl,i did not have intercourse sex,no oral sex,no vaginal, no anal sex,no kisses,i was dressed ,she was nude an asked me to touch softly her clitoris twice, i did so with my bare finger,my finger was sane ,no wounded,no no hurt,no cuts,then i touched her vagina,external side of vagina with the palm of my hand,my hand was too sane,no wounded,no hurts,no cuts.I abandoned the room, I DID NOT WASH MY HANDS.
I arrived at home 55 ( fiftyfive) minutes later, I washed my hands with alcohol,and water and soap.15( fifteen ) minutes later  i masturbated myself,with my bare hand on my bare penis.

94 ( ninety four) days later,it s some like three months an three days i realized ELISA.IT was Negative.

Please ,may you,the best experts , tellme what i have to do now: i need to realizea new ELISA just at 6 months?,Am i in risk,what may i expect from this case.I am in the middle of a nightmare.
Thanks a lot for your hel.god bless you

[Ann]

Bel,

You did NOT have a risk for hiv infection. You do NOT need further testing. You ARE hiv negative.

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann

[belgrano]

Bel,

You did NOT have a risk for hiv infection. You do NOT need further testing. You ARE hiv negative.

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann

[belgrano]

thanks Anne.I will abandon any test ,you are so glad,i willalways take care with sex.I will use allways condomes.i wreally appreciate yor advice.God bless you.

thans verymuch.Belgrano.

[belgrano]

thanks Anne.I will abandon any test ,you are so glad,i willalways take care with sex.I will use allways condomes.i wreally appreciate yor advice.God bless you.

thans verymuch.Belgrano.

[belgrano]

hi dear experts: i am very glad to contact you,in this case i am asking for advice to a friend of mine.She is a spansh girl,who received oral sex while she was sleeping,something nearly like a rape.The guy did not cum,she told me she was slept ,she thnksthere were two minutes of oral sex,she took an ELISA at RED CROSS in Spain at 9 weeks and two days.She does not know what to do,has she to repeat the test ,has she been at risk.Thans alt,for your help and for your kindness.

huge from BElgrano

[Matty the Damned]

Belgrano,

Please keep all your additional thoughts, questions and comments in your original thread. This helps us to follow your story and give you the most accurate advice.

If you can't find you original thread click on the red link I've provided above. Alternatively you can click on the "show own posts" link in the left hand column of any forums page.

Your questions will not be answered until you return to your original thread.

Additionally you should not post polls in this Forum.

MtD

[belgrano]

hi dear experts:

sorry if i sent another question across a new message,i really mistake,so i expect this is the right way.i really sorry.excuse me.
well i need advice for a friend of mine,she is a spanish girl who took oral sex while she was sleeping,she was attacked , i think it was nearly a rape.The guy did not cum,the  time she thinks was two minutes or less,she was slept,she really does not know exactly.SHE  took elisa TESTof fourth generation AT 9 WEEKS AND TWO DAYS,IT WAS NEGATIVE, she realized at Red Cross of Spain.Is it necessary a second test at 12 or 13 weeks, is she on risk of HIV??.
Thanks a lot for your help.I am sending this question for she is scare and very nervous,she is living a nightmare,pleasif you may answer i will apreciatte.
thans an god bless you,  Belgrano.

[belgrano]

hi dear experts:

sorry if i sent another question across a new message,i really mistake,so i expect this is the right way.i really sorry.excuse me.
well i need advice for a friend of mine,she is a spanish girl who took oral sex while she was sleeping,she was attacked , i think it was nearly a rape.The guy did not cum,the  time she thinks was two minutes or less,she was slept,she really does not know exactly.SHE  took elisa TESTof fourth generation AT 9 WEEKS AND TWO DAYS,IT WAS NEGATIVE, she realized at Red Cross of Spain.Is it necessary a second test at 12 or 13 weeks, is she on risk of HIV??.
Thanks a lot for your help.I am sending this question for she is scare and very nervous,she is living a nightmare,pleasif you may answer i will apreciatte.
thans an god bless you,  Belgrano.

[anniebc]

Belgrano

I have merged your threads, please stick to this one so we can keep track of you...thank you for your cooperation.

If your friend has been given a negative result at 9 weeks then HIV is not her problem, her fears aare unfounded..but if she wants to test out till 13 weeks for peace of mind ...well that's up to her.

Please read the Welcome Thread and follow the lessons on HIV transmission and pass them on to your friend to read.

Jan

[belgrano]

thanks a lot dearexpertrs.I have just writen to my friend,she is really happy,thanks again,god bless all of you.

belgrao

[belgrano]

thanks a lot dearexpertrs.I have just writen to my friend,she is really happy,thanks again,god bless all of you.

belgrao

hello dear experts
here i am again,i am in some kind of trouble,i do not know what to think about
i took notice of advice of being tested two times a year,so las t week i went laboratory and made my hiv Elisa test ,for the finishing of the year,i got results at 5 days,it was NEGATIVE.Here comes muy question:when i got in  the nurse office i took out my coat and put in a hook,when i got round there was the nurse with the syringe and the needle stick in her hand  I DID NOT SEE WHEN SHE TOOK OUT THE SYRINGE NEITHER THE NEEDLE FROM THE SECURITY BLISTER.i did not see blood in the syringe neither in the needle.Have you heardsometime of something so,has it been a dangerous situation,it was posible the needle to be infected if the test was Negative,I want to add ,there were a lot of syringes and needles in their security blister over the desk.May you give some advice,am i a paranoic,if it is a silly question i apologize,i do not want to waste yur time,really i do not know what to think,may it be she was in a hurry,anything more.
Thanks a lot for your help,great experts of the world,god bless you,and a great huge for everyone.

Belgrano

[Matty the Damned]

Belgrano,

You really are stressing over nothing. The needle and syringe would have been sterile.

MtD

[belgrano]

hellomatty:
thanks a lot great expert,i realize i am on stress for this situation,i will forget for ever,i only needed one advice.Thanks a lot,i will see the nurse on may 2008,i think it is a great idea to prevent and test twice a year.So,see you at any moment,thanks expert friend. BYE

Belgrano