Dick rubbing on crack!

[andyz69]

The first time I had sex, I had my partner put his dick inbetween by butt crack and just rub it up and down. He was scared to put it in because I was a virgin, I actually started to think of it only now, because I have to face a blood test soon and I am terrified. I am worried because what if some pre-cum spilled into my butt-hole cause his dick touched by butt hole and he might have been HIV+...!

Secondly ever since my first sexual partner besides having sex with men (protected off course), I used to love to indulge in rimming and fingering. I used to always prefer rimming than anything else..I am worried abou the risks asociated with rimming and Whenever I would have oral sex, I was always recieving it. I once without knowing it, recieve oral sex from someone who was HIV positive..I have been terrified since!!

[Ann]

Andy,

Nothing you describe is a risk for hiv infection. Please click on the link and read the Transmission Lesson found in our Welcome Thread

The rubbing in your crack is something called frottage and frottage is not a risk for hiv infection. Fingering is not a risk for hiv infection, rimming is not a risk for hiv infection and getting a blowjob is not a risk for hiv infection.

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily spread through unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where transmission can happen INSIDE the body.

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER ANY OF THE ACTIVITIES YOU SPECIFICALLY LIST, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple.

Ann