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Some answers
« on: January 07, 2010, 06:33:32 pm »
Hello. About 4 months ago I had vaginal sex with a woman of unknown status. Unfortunately, the condom broke. I suppose I was inside her 1 to 2 minutes tops. Went to the health department about 12 hours later to request PEP but was refused. The doctor stated the risk was not high enough, but I could test at the appropriate time.I am currently awaiting my results from home access but was curious about something. Should I have been more insistent on receiving the medications or perhaps attempted to go elsewhere? I accepted his advice but now i suppose with the test pending am having second thoughts. Any advice would be warmly appreciated.

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Re: Some answers
« Reply #1 on: January 07, 2010, 07:03:58 pm »
Your doctor made the right call. You had a single and briefly unprotected incident. The condom protected you until it broke. The likelihood of infection during that incident was very, very low.

I expect your test result to be negative.

Cheers.
Andy Velez

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Re: Some answers
« Reply #2 on: January 07, 2010, 07:07:10 pm »
Than you Mr. Velez

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Re: Some answers
« Reply #3 on: January 07, 2010, 07:30:46 pm »
You're welcome. As I said, I expect you to come out of this ok.
Andy Velez

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Re: Some answers
« Reply #4 on: January 07, 2010, 07:38:30 pm »
You are probably correct, as I have been browsing the forums for some time and you and Ms. Smith seem to really know what you are talking about. Bad luck i guess, I don't think I had ever had a condom fail until this incident.

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Re: Some answers
« Reply #5 on: January 07, 2010, 08:51:30 pm »
You're lucky it hasn't happened until now. I can also tell you that I don't know of any cases where transmission has actually occured when a condom failed. So odds are you are going to test negative. As far as I am concerned getting tested is just doing the cautious thing.

Cheers.
Andy Velez

Offline bain

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Re: Some answers
« Reply #6 on: January 07, 2010, 08:58:48 pm »
Yes, the doctor pretty much said the same thing in reference to not seeing a positive result from condom failure. He also mentioned the fact that I am circumcised would help, not sure how, but I'll take all the help i can get. Thanks again for the advice Mr. Velez.

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« Reply #7 on: January 08, 2010, 08:24:33 am »
The reason the risk is lower for a man who is circumcised is because the skin of  theinside of the uncut foreskin has the kinds of cells which are receptive to transmission. Being circumcised removes that risk.
Andy Velez

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Re: Some answers
« Reply #8 on: January 08, 2010, 09:36:15 am »
Interesting. Really glad this site exists. Anyway, I should have my home access results by monday. I spoke to a counselor and was informed their tests are just as accurate as you will find in a doctors office, so I will know for sure soon. Really appreciate you taking the time to answer my questions and help keep me level-headed and calm Mr. Velez.

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Re: Some answers
« Reply #9 on: January 08, 2010, 04:33:32 pm »
You're welcome. Enjoy your weekend. I expect you to get a happy test result.

Cheers.
Andy Velez

Offline bain

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Re: Some answers
« Reply #10 on: January 11, 2010, 12:17:53 pm »
Mr. Velez, I got my results from Home Access 5 minutes ago, NEGATIVE! Thank you very much for your kind advice and reassurance. I cannot tell you how much it meant.

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Re: Some answers
« Reply #11 on: January 11, 2010, 01:00:28 pm »
Good news, Bain! No surprise here but I do appreciate the relief it gives you. Glad you found our exchanges to be helpful during a stressful time.

Best of luck now and make sure to keep handy and continue to use condoms everytime for intercourse.

Cheers. 
Andy Velez

Offline bain

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Re: Some answers
« Reply #12 on: January 11, 2010, 01:06:33 pm »
Condoms will be used without exception. Thanks again and best of luck to you.

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Re: Some answers
« Reply #13 on: January 11, 2010, 05:12:57 pm »
You're welcome.

Cheers.
Andy Velez

 


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