Dating Thread XXVII: It's Warm, and now Poof, Where My Ladies At?

[wishful]

Hey gfs...hope all is well with everyone....im cool....i finally got a cell phone and my computer(thanks Prez)...but i wont have internet until the 10th...and i have to send my fone back cus the send/clear/and right arrows dont work...WTF?..lol well anyways im just peepin in to say HOW U DOIN??!! (Respucia style)..from Norbit..

im missing my kids already but i talk to them almost everyday...im sure they will be asking to come home soon but the dad wants them for the year so he can have all his kids together and be the family that he said he wanted with me with someone else.....oh well...ce la vie i guess.....im tired of being angry and bitter...im about to start reading my Bible more to find some peace...i cry too much...breaking up with the boyfriend/ i guess we dont understand each other as much as i thought....who knows...i dont have the energy for his intensities...im drained....but im coming up with a plan to make myself happy in the next few years...starting with this crappy credit...i have been working on it for about a year and its so hard to try n clean up and pay your current bills...but im determined....i know their are peeps in way worse than me but im among the worse..lol well i enjoyed that stimulus...i only pd 3 bills tho and the rest on me..1300 goes so damn fast its ridiculous...still tryin to get the child support in order.....i may end up gettin a lawyer and suing for the arrears cus they are really playin me out.....im gonna pray on it tho....
i love u guys thanks for the ears and welcome to all my new members....if u ever need an ear feel free to pm me..i always answer...Peace..

[Winiroo]

Latifah


tendai - Glad to hear you are doing ok.

Mum - Social security death benefits come on the 3rd also. LOL I hope it was warm rain when the kids washed.

Queen - Good luck with your potential psycho webcam guy. I'd be so done with him already LOL Overly eager is frightening unless you know the person well enough.

Snow - It sounds like you need to slow down LOL  Good luck with all the house rearranging.

Thanks to everyone who mentioned Billy and his stepfather. Billy was told yesterday that his stepdad was given 2 weeks to live.
When his mother died he didn't get any of the things that she willed to him and neither did his brothers. I guess they will be able to get their mothers and grand parents belongings when he passes. Hopefully none of the step sisters get weird and try to claim things that where from the boys family. You know how that goes.
I feel badly for them. I know its hard to loose a parent. Its sad but at least he got to live into his 70's and it hit him so fast that he wont suffer for a long time.

I was going to say something else but I got a brain fart and I cant remember anything now. LOL

I'll check in with you ladies later.

[wishful]

Wini: sending positive thoughts and energy you and billy's way.....

[Winiroo]

Thank you Wishful




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[BT65]

Afternoon ladies,

Latifah, wow, you're a tall woman.  I'm 5'9".  I used to be 5'10", but I shrunk because of osteoporosis.  Give your baby a kiss for me.

Jshort, you just keep on exercising girl.  And don't feel bad about that piece of cake.  I'm diabetic, and I still eat sweets (sometimes).  To think of life without any is just too much for me.  Once in awhile doesn't hurt.  Just stick to what you're doing.

Snow, I'm not actually going to talk to the doctor; I'm just going to pick up a script.  My knees are still troublesome.  The last time I saw my doctor, which was a couple weeks ago, he told me maybe I should call my ortho to see if he came up with anything.  Apparently the ortho talked to my doctor and said he was going to research what he could do.  I haven't called yet.

Wish, it sounds like you breaking up with your bf might be a good thing.  I just wanted to mention that if you're going to read the Bible, you might want to stick with the New Testament.  The Old is filled with a lot of God's judgement, and some of it is not too nice.  I'm sure you're going to miss your kids.  Are you still able to talk to them?

Wendy, tell Billy I'm so very sorry about his father.  I hope things work out with him being able to get the stuff that's left to him.  That's the only right thing that should be done.

I just wanted to stop in real quick and say "hi" to everyone.  I'll probably be back later tonight. Nothing to do until the 3rd.  Have a good afternoon ladies.  AND-it's time to start a new thread.  If no one's done it by tonight, I probably will.  Later-

[wishful]

Yes Betty i talk to them like everyday.....

your welcome wini

[minismom]

Snow, we have 1 bathroom, too.  You're right, it makes getting ready to go anywhere, well...interesting   Especially now that my 11 yr old son takes longer to get ready than I do and he comes out looking exactly the same as he went in.   When Mini was in her leg braces and we were being told she'd never walk, we were worried about the stairs, too.  No matter how we enter the house, we have to go up stairs.  But, one day, she got up and walked.  I still have the plans to the ramp we were going to build.  Sometimes, it's good to remember.

Cristy, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!  I'll spare you the full force of my singing..lol.  I"m with Betty, girl, I need some details.

Latifa, everytime I see your name, I think of Queen Latifa - another tall, beautiful black woman.  I'll keep you and your son in my prayers.  Be sure to let us know how your latest labs went.  That's why we're here.

We ended up having the toilet stopped up, so we had to drain it (via a paper cup and a towel), pull it up, and dig around.  Someone had put Mini's comb in and flushed it.  NASTY!  But, it's now all put together and the boys don't have to pee off the porch (although it didn't bother them any).  We couldn't get the walk done because of all the rain yesterday and this morning.  The rain has stopped, but where we're putting it is full of water so we can't bring in dirt to level out the ground, we'd just end up with a muddy mess.

Ok, this is post 106, so I'm going to start another thread.  I guess we should consider this one closed.

Mum

For our new members, we only post about 100 times in each "dating" thread.  You can still read this thread to catch up, but please post in the other thread titled: "Dating Thread XXVIII: I love you..."  Thanks!