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Title: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 03, 2011, 08:26:43 pm
sorry if anyone expected something 'thought-provoking' due to the title lol
it's something my friends always comment on ( the prudes, virgins and such) that I have or like sex TOO much.
which I don't see ( really I don't ), I think I have ( HAD )a normal and healthy sex life. I never saw it strange specially since me and a friend from H.S would have about the same amount with our partners at the time.
but then again she's my female counterpart. . .  :-\
so just wondering what everyone thought was too much, just right, or not enough.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 03, 2011, 08:46:54 pm
Humm let me see hear, i want sex maybe once or twice a month, I'm 54, but my other-half wants it 3 to 4 times a week he's 54 and on high doses of inject able testosterone every week, I'm in HELL, and can't get out
can someone PLEASE help me out here  :D  :D :D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: wolfter on May 03, 2011, 08:54:07 pm
Are we supposed to vote at our current age or yours?  At your age, my choice isn't there.  EVERY FREEKING DAY, SEVERAL TIMES PER DAY!  At my current age, whenever I can freeking get it....lol
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 03, 2011, 08:56:09 pm
Are we supposed to vote at our current age or yours?  At your age, my choice isn't there.  EVERY FREEKING DAY, SEVERAL TIMES PER DAY!  At my current age, whenever I can freeking get it....lol

Greg, can you help me out here, I'm not kidding  ;D and I ran outta Viagra  ???
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Rev. Moon on May 03, 2011, 09:13:58 pm
You are missing an option, so I will not be voting.  There is NEVA' enough sex.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 03, 2011, 09:18:50 pm
You are missing an option, so I will not be voting.  There is NEVA' enough sex.

I like the way you think there  ;)

Are we supposed to vote at our current age or yours?  At your age, my choice isn't there.  EVERY FREEKING DAY, SEVERAL TIMES PER DAY!  At my current age, whenever I can freeking get it....lol


my age, your age, my dog's age. what I'm asking is how much YOU feel is good enough or "healthy" enough

I'm in HELL, and can't get out
can someone PLEASE help me out here  :D  :D :D


I think you're confusing heaven and hell lol
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 03, 2011, 09:25:44 pm
I like the way you think there  ;)


my age, your age, my dog's age. what I'm asking is how much YOU feel is good enough or "healthy" enough


I think you're confusing heaven and hell lol

Sweetheart   :-*   your 20 going on 21 enjoy it while it last honey cause when it's gone, it's REALLY GONE, my battery died 5 yrs ago, and all I can do now @ my age is FAKE IT, somehow that still works  :D and I don't get any complaints  ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 03, 2011, 09:31:01 pm
Sweetheart   :-*   your 20 going on 21 enjoy it while it last honey cause when it's gone, it's REALLY GONE, my battery died 5 yrs ago, and all I can do now @ my age is FAKE IT, somehow that still works  :D and I don't get any complaints  ;D

hey hey now. that is not true for all. my last partner was 52 and we had sex twice a day ( he worked and I had too much school\ work so we couldn't do more). maybe you just need to recharge that battery there stud-muffin  ;)
I've yet have to fake it  :P
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: WillyWump on May 03, 2011, 09:31:42 pm
Humm let me see hear, i want sex maybe once or twice a month, I'm 54, but my other-half wants it 3 to 4 times a week he's 54 and on high doses of inject able testosterone every week, I'm in HELL, and can't get out
can someone PLEASE help me out here  :D  :D :D

YES! Send him to me, I do weekly doses of Test also, we will kill each other
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: WillyWump on May 03, 2011, 09:32:42 pm
hey hey now. that is not true for all. my last partner was 52 and we had sex twice a day ( he worked and I had too much school\ work so we couldn't do more). maybe you just need to recharge that battery there stud-muffin  ;)
I've yet have to fake it  :P

Sweet, Klouny likes older guys! Come to Daddy!!

Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: leatherman on May 03, 2011, 09:34:12 pm
when I have a stable partner (with 2 that made up nearly 20 yrs of my life), we usually tried to have sex every night with an occassional afternoon or two thrown in there each week. So I agree with the Rev - you don't have the correct amount of options in your poll. Might I suggest "unlimited" or "as much as possible"

Now that I'm 49 and "dating", it depends on what you're defining as "sex". A four hour afternoon romp consists of getting off 3-5 times. ;) sadly without a constant partner, there's just not enough chance for me to have sex daily right now (dammit!) so I usually have to take matters into my own hands. ;)

prudish people are always going to say that "any amount" of sex is too much; but really there is no such thing. The right amount of sex is how much you enjoy and how much you can get. The "complainers" are just jealous.  :D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 03, 2011, 09:36:03 pm
when I have a stable partner (with 2 that made up nearly 20 yrs of my life), we usually tried to have sex every night with an occassional afternoon or two thrown in there each week. So I agree with the Rev - you don't have the correct amount of options in your poll. Might I suggest "unlimited" or "as much as possible"

Now that I'm 49 and "dating", it depends on what you're defining as "sex". A four hour afternoon romp consists of getting off 3-5 times. ;) sadly without a constant partner, there's just not enough chance for me to have sex daily right now (dammit!) so I usually have to take matters into my own hands. ;)

prudish people are always going to say that "any amount" of sex is too much; but really there is no such thing. The right amount of sex is how much you enjoy and how much you can get. The "complainers" are just jealous.  :D

Ya'll young ens are killing me, SHIT I'm an old man  ???
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 03, 2011, 09:39:08 pm
Might I suggest "unlimited" or "as much as possible"

I LOVE your answer  :D just didn't want to seem to be THAT big of a  nymphomaniac. . . even though I am  :P

Sweet, Klouny likes older guys! Come to Daddy!!

yes I do  ;)
there is a charm to a smart, sophisticated, older gentleman that makes my legs quiver.
plus the possibilities it adds to role-play
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 03, 2011, 09:41:45 pm
I LOVE your answer  :D just didn't want to seem to be THAT big of a  nymphomaniac. . . even though I am  :P

yes I do  ;)
there is a charm to a smart, sophisticated, older gentleman that makes my legs quiver.
plus the possibilities it adds to role-play


Oh your too kind  :-*
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: wolfter on May 03, 2011, 09:43:01 pm
Perhaps the sex drive is what determines sexual orientation?  If I hadn't hard a partner for close to 2 decades, I would surely have been the town tramp.  And the morning sex, always the greatest....ALWAYS!!
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 03, 2011, 09:44:57 pm
Perhaps the sex drive is what determines sexual orientation?  If I hadn't hard a partner for close to 2 decades, I would surely have been the town tramp.  And the morning sex, always the greatest....ALWAYS!!

how I miss morning sex. . . it's THE best way to wake up. next to a morning woodie lol
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 03, 2011, 09:47:20 pm
Perhaps the sex drive is what determines sexual orientation?  If I hadn't hard a partner for close to 2 decades, I would surely have been the town tramp.  And the morning sex, always the greatest....ALWAYS!!

Oh shit greg, you can be my town tramp, I'll even come thur your bedroom window and RAPE your ass  ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: wolfter on May 03, 2011, 09:48:15 pm
Oh shit greg, you can be my town tramp, I'll even come thur your bedroom window and RAPE your ass  ;D

It's kinda cold out, but I went ahead and cracked it open....lol
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 03, 2011, 09:48:52 pm
Oh shit greg, you can be my town tramp, I'll even come thur your bedroom window and RAPE your ass  ;D

how can anyone pass such an offer down. I'll gladly leave my window open  ;)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 03, 2011, 09:50:07 pm
It's kinda cold out, but I went ahead and cracked it open....lol

 I just bought  one of those telescopic ladders on sale @ LOWES  :D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: leatherman on May 03, 2011, 09:53:23 pm
And the morning sex, always the greatest....ALWAYS!!
gross! LOL but to each his own.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 03, 2011, 09:55:56 pm
gross! LOL but to each his own.

Shit that when the gettin is the BEST  ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: wolfter on May 03, 2011, 09:56:32 pm
gross! LOL but to each his own.

It's only gross if you're still lubed from the night before......
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 03, 2011, 09:59:42 pm
YES! Send him to me, I do weekly doses of Test also, we will kill each other

Willy he' probably love you, and DUMP me  ???
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 03, 2011, 10:02:33 pm
It's only gross if you're still lubed from the night before......

Greg an man after my heart   :P shit I'm moving to Ohio FAST  ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: SunnyFlorida on May 03, 2011, 11:56:12 pm
(Why do I have the feeling I was the one that inspired this thread...?)

Maybe there's something abnormal going on in my head, but I don't think I can even manage sex more than once or twice a week. Hell, I only jerk off about that much and I just turned 28 last week! I haven't had sex in over two years (early February 2009 if you want to be precise) and to be honest, I'm not bothered at all about it. I'm not above going down on someone at any time (or having someone go down on me, as has been the case as of late... ;)) but it's very, very rare that I do want to fuck someone and it's only because I really am into him on multiple levels.

Sounds like I'd be in good company with you, Dennis. ;)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: SunnyFlorida on May 04, 2011, 12:02:32 am
Also... a vast majority of guys I know seem to want sex several times a week. It's very rare for me to meet someone whose libido is as low as mine. Klouny and I were texting earlier about this very subject, and I told him that I feel like I'm in the minority and that I'm not sexually compatible with most men. He says that I'm not, but I tend to desire less sex and more cuddling (and romance, I should add.) I dunno... like I said, it's very rare for me to fantasize about pegging someone, let alone actually want to do it.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Solo_LTSurvivor on May 04, 2011, 12:06:00 am
YES! Send him to me, I do weekly doses of Test also, we will kill each other

Thanks for that laugh, Wumpy.

Damn, now I'm wondering if having normal testosterone levels is working against me because after reading these responses, my ass should be broken into a zillion pieces (from lack of indulging)  ;D

(Why do I have the feeling I was the one that inspired this thread...?)

Sounds like I'd be in good company with you, Dennis. ;)


I thought you two had done it already, the way Dennis was so insistent about not saying anything about why you're so inspiring, Sunny...
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 04, 2011, 12:12:26 am
(Why do I have the feeling I was the one that inspired this thread...?)

weirdly enough, it wasn't you. but another REAL prude I know. I swear she's like a nun on crack or something. but you did * bump* me into this thread lol. you know how much I like it, "tease"  ;)
so I just wanted to see how much other's enjoyed the nasty
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: SunnyFlorida on May 04, 2011, 12:13:17 am
I thought you two had done it already, the way Dennis was so insistent about not saying anything about why you're so inspiring, Sunny...

Dennis tells fish stories... :D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: SunnyFlorida on May 04, 2011, 12:14:27 am
you know how much I like it, "tease"  ;)

Mm-hmm... *munches on your nipple*
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 04, 2011, 12:17:19 am
Mm-hmm... *munches on your nipple*

lol oh wow, online too?
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: leatherman on May 04, 2011, 12:17:42 am
*munches on your nipple*
ouch! can we have less of that talk for a little while. It's only be a week since one of my nipple rings accidentally got ripped out and I'm still a little touchy about that subject LOL
(http://i918.photobucket.com/albums/ad21/leathermanmikie/avatars/nipple.jpg)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Solo_LTSurvivor on May 04, 2011, 12:18:35 am
lol oh wow, online too?


Damn, those webcams are getting a real workout tonight  :o
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 04, 2011, 12:19:59 am
Damn, those webcams are getting a real workout tonight  :o

 :-* what can I say lol
I have a webcam, might as well use it neh ? ;)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: SunnyFlorida on May 04, 2011, 12:20:06 am
ouch! can we have less of that talk for a little while. It's only be a week since one of my nipple rings accidentally got ripped out and I'm still a little touchy about that subject LOL
(http://i918.photobucket.com/albums/ad21/leathermanmikie/avatars/nipple.jpg)

YIPE!!! You poor thing!!! @_@

Damn, those webcams are getting a real workout tonight  :o

Who said webcams were involved?
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 04, 2011, 12:21:16 am
quote author=Solo_LTSurvivor link=topic=37726.msg470370#msg470370 date=1304482715]
Damn, those webcams are getting a real workout tonight  :o

 :-* what can I say lol
I have a webcam, might as well use it neh ? ;)[
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Solo_LTSurvivor on May 04, 2011, 12:22:46 am
YIPE!!! You poor thing!!! @_@

Who said webcams were involved?

Excuse me.  Overactive imaginations, then   :-\

:-* what can I say lol
I have a webcam, might as well use it neh ? ;)[

LOL, may as well.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 04, 2011, 12:27:13 am
pfft I'm using my webcam  ;)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: SunnyFlorida on May 04, 2011, 12:28:35 am
pfft I'm using my webcam  ;)

Tease.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Solo_LTSurvivor on May 04, 2011, 12:28:48 am
pfft I'm using my webcam  ;)

And hopefully not typing with one hand   ;)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 04, 2011, 12:31:26 am
I'm flexible, I can type with my toes  ;)
no, not typing with one hand either lol
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Solo_LTSurvivor on May 04, 2011, 12:33:28 am
I'm flexible, I can type with my toes  ;)

Elvis has left the building (on that note)  :D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 04, 2011, 12:34:24 am
 :-*
kinky ain't it lol
those with a foot fetish let your minds wander
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: SunnyFlorida on May 04, 2011, 12:37:48 am
:-*
kinky ain't it lol
those with a foot fetish let your minds wander

I always thought you were versatile... Little did I know...
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: OneTampa on May 04, 2011, 12:56:14 am
After reading this thread, I felt like I drank a gallon of giggle juice.

Y'all are something else!

 :D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Dachshund on May 04, 2011, 07:24:26 am
ouch! can we have less of that talk for a little while. It's only be a week since one of my nipple rings accidentally got ripped out and I'm still a little touchy about that subject LOL
(http://i918.photobucket.com/albums/ad21/leathermanmikie/avatars/nipple.jpg)

Looks like a butt plug misshap.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 09:36:42 am


Sounds like I'd be in good company with you, Dennis. ;)

 :D I don't think so, I'm an old man, and set in my ways  ;) some people like me, and some people don't
as my personality can be somewhat too strong for most guys  ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: OneTampa on May 04, 2011, 11:46:38 am
Where is the selection for "Other"?

 ;)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 12:36:35 pm
Dennis tells fish stories... :D

"Jesus said I'll make you fishers of men"  :D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Solo_LTSurvivor on May 04, 2011, 12:42:14 pm
"Jesus said I'll make you fishers of men"  :D

Hey, watch where you aim that pole!

I was wondering when you'd chime in   ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 12:46:50 pm
Hey, watch where you aim that pole!

I was wondering when you'd chime in   ;D
:-*
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 04, 2011, 12:52:51 pm
alright, brought on by popular demand I guess.
the ~OTHER~ option has been added.
go crazy with it.
I personally think that 3 times a day is a good number.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 12:55:45 pm
alright, brought on by popular demand I guess.
the ~OTHER~ option has been added.
go crazy with it.
I personally think that 3 times a day is a good number.

 ??? sacrilegious  ???
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 04, 2011, 12:56:50 pm
what is?  :-[
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 01:55:23 pm
what is?  :-[

3 times a day  :o shocking but maybe not for a 21  yr old  ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 04, 2011, 02:01:35 pm
 :D silly
that's not shocking. we're not talking about electrostimulation  ;)
I just have a strong libido , a tendency to bite, and an oral fixation I wasn't able to outgrow
I blame Freud
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 02:03:19 pm
:D silly
that's not shocking. we're not talking about electrostimulation  ;)
I just have a strong libido , a tendency to bite, and an oral fixation I wasn't able to outgrow
I blame Freud

 :-* spoken like a true 21 yr. old  :D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: leatherman on May 04, 2011, 04:26:15 pm
alright, brought on by popular demand I guess.
the ~OTHER~ option has been added.
I have voted now  ;) ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 04, 2011, 04:35:20 pm
I have voted now  ;) ;D

wooh :D
I sense a strong libido lol
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: mecch on May 04, 2011, 04:53:11 pm
Hey young one - there is no "too much" or "not enough" sex it's whatever feels right for you. If your straight buddies say you are oversexed, its a common jealousy and stereotype of straights about gays.  Just do what feels right.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: SunnyFlorida on May 04, 2011, 05:07:41 pm
I feel like such a sexless prude. T_T
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: drewm on May 04, 2011, 05:12:06 pm
Sweet, Klouny likes older guys! Come to Daddy!!



Jeez Willy, you just now figured this out? You're slipping LOL!  :D ;)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Buckmark on May 04, 2011, 06:37:41 pm
I feel like such a sexless prude. T_T

Me too.  In my mind, I'd love to have sex once or twice a week.  In practice, it's been over 4 years.  There's some kind of disconnect between my body and my mind. 




Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Solo_LTSurvivor on May 04, 2011, 06:44:37 pm
In practice, it's been over 4 years. 

I have sex every single time I visit the OT forum   :D

In actuality, it's been quite awhile for me too. So long that I'm not even sure that it's like riding a bicycle.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 06:49:38 pm
Me too.  In my mind, I'd love to have sex once or twice a week.  In practice, it's been over 4 years.  There's some kind of disconnect between my body and my mind.  






 :-* a handsome guy like you in the prime of his life shocking  :o love the mohawk sexy, the things I wanna do with that  :P
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 06:50:52 pm
I have sex every single time I visit the OT forum   :D

In actuality, it's been quite awhile for me too. So long that I'm not even sure that it's like riding a bicycle.

Ya'll are kidding right?  ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: SunnyFlorida on May 04, 2011, 06:52:19 pm
Me too.  In my mind, I'd love to have sex once or twice a week.  In practice, it's been over 4 years.  There's some kind of disconnect between my body and my mind.

For me, it's different... I don't care all that much about having sex, but I'm more about romance. It's been just over 2 years for me. I honestly do think I could go the rest of my life without having sex anymore... *cue shock from audience*
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 06:58:54 pm
For me, it's different... I don't care all that much about having sex, but I'm more about romance. It's been just over 2 years for me. I honestly do think I could go the rest of my life without having sex anymore... *cue shock from audience*

 Romance and then foreplay, and then the good stuff, hey Romance is good nothing wrong with that, everyone wants it, but not many can get it  ;)

Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Miss Philicia on May 04, 2011, 07:09:56 pm
I just liked to be plowed. No kissing, no foreplay. And when you're done please leave.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Buckmark on May 04, 2011, 07:11:34 pm
For me, it's different... I don't care all that much about having sex, but I'm more about romance. It's been just over 2 years for me. I honestly do think I could go the rest of my life without having sex anymore... *cue shock from audience*

Not so shocking.  Different people have different views on sex.  For some, like many of those who have responded here, it's about an act (fucking, sucking, etc.).  For others, like me, it's more about intimacy, closeness, intensity of shared experience -- maybe that's what you mean by romance, you'd have to elaborate on your view of that.  I'm sure there are other views too.  I do think that the predominant view in society for men both gay and straight is that sex is about fucking, and the more, the better.  If you don't identify with that, it can leave you wondering if you are compatible with anyone sexually.  
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 07:12:19 pm
I just liked to be plowed. No kissing, no foreplay. And when you're done please leave.
if you don't leave I'll bite your head-off, and KILL you like the praying mantis he is  :D
you better kill me then , and make sure I'm DEAD  :-*
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 07:16:51 pm
Not so shocking.  Different people have different views on sex.  For some, like many of those who have responded here, it's about an act (fucking, sucking, etc.).  For others, like me, it's more about intimacy, closeness, intensity of shared experience -- maybe that's what you mean by romance, you'd have to elaborate on your view of that.  I'm sure there are other views too.  I do think that the predominant view in society for men both gay and straight is that sex is about fucking, and the more, the better.  If you don't identify with that, it can leave you wondering if you are compatible with anyone sexually.  

intimacy can be problematic, so I do know what you mean by that, I too have that @ times, but at my age I don't care, I'm kinda past all of that, but, anyway, good luck to ya Buck, it's out there if you want it and your open to it  ;)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Rev. Moon on May 04, 2011, 07:19:08 pm
I just liked to be plowed. No kissing, no foreplay. And when you're done please leave.


Not me, girl.  Every single one of me tricks is expected to light a dozen scented candles, cover the entire mattress with rose petals, and to recite the sweetest verses while we're fucking.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 07:22:44 pm

Not me, girl.  Every single one of me tricks is expected to light a dozen scented candles, cover the entire mattress with rose petals, and to recite the sweetest verses while we're fucking.

humm tell me more  ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: WillyWump on May 04, 2011, 07:24:59 pm
Not so shocking.  Different people have different views on sex.  For some, like many of those who have responded here, it's about an act (fucking, sucking, etc.).  For others, like me, it's more about intimacy, closeness, intensity of shared experience -- maybe that's what you mean by romance, you'd have to elaborate on your view of that.  I'm sure there are other views too.  I do think that the predominant view in society for men both gay and straight is that sex is about fucking, and the more, the better.  If you don't identify with that, it can leave you wondering if you are compatible with anyone sexually.  

I'm with Henry on this. Intimacy is the end game with me. I can have sex with someone I dont love and it feels good, but it's more of a physical feel good,  but I can have sex with someone I love and it is the most amazing feeling in the world, like a good feeling in the soul.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 07:28:53 pm
I'm with Henry on this. Intimacy is the end game with me. I can have sex with someone I dont love and it feels good, but it's more of a physical feel good,  but I can have sex with someone I love and it is the most amazing feeling in the world, like a good feeling in the soul.


now your talking boy, I've been with my hubby for 17 yrs. and we both love each other, and we both fight each other too, then we fuck each other all over again, were both the same age, and have had some of the same life experiences, we agree to disagree, and it's HOT HOT HOT  I'm still in Hell, but in a good way I suppose  ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Buckmark on May 04, 2011, 07:30:21 pm

Not me, girl.  Every single one of me tricks is expected to light a dozen scented candles, cover the entire mattress with rose petals, and to recite the sweetest verses while we're fucking.

Ode On a Grecian Urn Full of Lube
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Miss Philicia on May 04, 2011, 07:30:44 pm
but I can have sex with someone I love and it is the most amazing feeling in the world, like a good feeling in the soul.


... especially if it's a 15 year old
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Buckmark on May 04, 2011, 07:35:55 pm
I can have sex with someone I dont love and it feels good, but it's more of a physical feel good.

I can't have sex with someone I don't love, or at least like a lot and feel close to.  Having done so in the past, I know it leaves me feeling horribly empty (it's hard to find the right words).  There's a part of me that has an envy for people who can just let go at the drop of a hat and have sex with someone they find attractive and enjoy themselves.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 07:37:58 pm
I can't have sex with someone I don't love, or at least like a lot and feel close to.  Having done so in the past, I know it leaves me feeling horribly empty (it's hard to find the right words).  There's a part of me that has an envy for people who can just let go at the drop of a hat and have sex with someone they find attractive and enjoy themselves.

Buck, I like many of you here, I used to be like this in my 20s & 30s then I got too dam old after that, and wanted a lot more than just sex with just anyone  ;)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Rev. Moon on May 04, 2011, 07:45:07 pm
Ode On a Grecian Urn Full of Lube


There ya go.  I prefer Mediaeval Poesy, but any rhyme will do. 

Oh, and I forgot to mention the pre and post-sex showers, the intense cuddling after copulating, and the deluxe breakfast that such tricks need to make for this here queen in the morning.

... especially if it's a 15 year old

Willehmina's mancunt profile has him listed as a muscle daddy  ;)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Miss Philicia on May 04, 2011, 07:50:37 pm
I'm watching some extra filthy porn (http://i52.tinypic.com/v328h0.jpg) while reading this thread.  Might have to grab some poppers.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: WillyWump on May 04, 2011, 07:52:04 pm
... especially if it's a 15 year old

:: bitterness noted::


Willehmina's mancunt profile has him listed as a muscle daddy  ;)

and whatevas
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Jeff G on May 04, 2011, 07:58:35 pm
Intimacy for me is knowing who to make the check out to in advance .
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 08:05:08 pm
Intimacy for me is knowing who to make the check out to in advance .

 :D debit or credit half & half's $50, blows $75, and anything else the price will double with each & every sexual act requested  ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Solo_LTSurvivor on May 04, 2011, 08:05:41 pm
I'm watching some extra filthy porn (http://i52.tinypic.com/v328h0.jpg) while reading this thread.  Might have to grab some poppers.

My word.  I think it's time for me to go watch America's Next Top Model after clicking that link.  I've never seen anything like that before

:: bitterness noted::

and whatevas

Well Klouny did say he likes older men  ;)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 08:08:45 pm
My word.  I think it's time for me to go watch America's Next Top Model after clicking that link.  I've never seen anything like that before

Well Klouny did say he likes older men  ;)

OH PLEASE  ::)  :D :D :D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Miss Philicia on May 04, 2011, 08:09:29 pm
My word.  I think it's time for me to go watch America's Next Top Model after clicking that link.  I've never seen anything like that before

I'm also multi-tasking with Dirty Dancing on a 42" flat screen and eating some fried chicken.  Should I turn my web cam on too?
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 08:11:15 pm
I'm also multi-tasking with Dirty Dancing on a 42" flat screen and eating some fried chicken.  Should I turn my web cam on too?

 :D ya'll are too much  ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Solo_LTSurvivor on May 04, 2011, 08:26:03 pm
OH PLEASE  ::)  :D :D :D

Sorry, I stepped away because I found myself suddenly compelled to take matters into hand (http://tinypic.com/r/2a77dyt/7)

I'm also multi-tasking with Dirty Dancing on a 42" flat screen and eating some fried chicken.  Should I turn my web cam on too?

Only if you promise to put on a pair of sparkly tassels and a g-string   ;)
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Rev. Moon on May 04, 2011, 08:29:10 pm
Sorry, I stepped away to take matters into hand (http://tinypic.com/r/2a77dyt/7)

Only if you promise to put on a pair of sparkly tassels and a g-string   ;)


She's actually gonna put on a show using a certain toy vacuum while on a trapeze.  You don't wanna miss it.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: Solo_LTSurvivor on May 04, 2011, 08:31:39 pm

She's actually gonna put on a show using a certain toy vacuum while on a trapeze.  You don't wanna miss it.

I guess I better take Showgirls out of the DVD player now.
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: denb45 on May 04, 2011, 08:35:20 pm
Sorry, I stepped away because I found myself suddenly compelled to take matters into hand (http://tinypic.com/r/2a77dyt/7)


Please, I did that last nite for about 2 hours, and SHIT it was good  ;D had to please the hubby, before he traded me in on a new younger and bigger model  :D I told you all I was in HELL  ;D
Title: Re: what's your breaking point?
Post by: klouny on May 04, 2011, 10:01:10 pm
Well Klouny did say he likes older men  ;)

To clarify. . . yes I do like older men  ;)

There's a part of me that has an envy for people who can just let go at the drop of a hat and have sex with someone they find attractive and enjoy themselves.

awe that's sweet. some of you here are some true love birds.
attraction, genuinely caring for someone in a deeper level ( aside from physical ) that just amplyfies the sexual intimacy and experience between partners. but all in all I love doing the nasty  :-*