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Author Topic: A sad day for my family  (Read 15999 times)

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Offline Ric Wilke

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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #50 on: June 30, 2009, 07:42:49 pm »
Dearest Jan,

We both know the angel story you share with one of your granddaughters.  Now both of you and a personal Guardian Angel.  Alfie is at home with our Lord.

With all our love and sympathy, Ric & Thom

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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #51 on: June 30, 2009, 08:50:30 pm »
My condolences to you and your family, Jan. What a terrible and terribly sad experience for all of you to live through. Some years ago friends of mine had the same thing happen. I can only pray for you all to be comforted because words don't cover this.

Hugs.

   
Andy Velez

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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #52 on: June 30, 2009, 10:07:38 pm »
Dearest Jan:

I can't fathom the pain and heartache.  My love and support go out to you and your family. 

RAB   :'(


Offline anniebc

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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #53 on: July 05, 2009, 06:56:38 pm »
Tomorrow, Tuesday the 7th of July our time..baby "Alfie" will be laid to rest, as my family say goodbye  to our presious little boy I'm hoping the healing will soon follow and the tears will soon dry up.

I want to thank you on behalf of my grandson and his beautiful partner for the prayers and the kind thoughts you have all sent from around the world, it has helped them and the rest of my family probably more than you realise.

So once again from the bottom of my heart I thank you all.

Hugs
Jan :'(
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Offline BT65

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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #54 on: July 05, 2009, 08:05:16 pm »
Jan, I am so sorry.  I know words don't completely heal, but I hope they help some in the healing process.  I wish you and your family, especially Alfie's parents, peace.
  In luv,
Betty
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Offline MOONLIGHT1114

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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #55 on: July 05, 2009, 08:55:50 pm »
Jan~

I am so sorry that this sad event has happened to you and your family.  My prayers are with you at this difficult time.

God Bless,

~Cindy
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Offline fearless

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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #56 on: July 05, 2009, 09:45:22 pm »
One candle will burn bright in my window tonight Jan.

Peace to you and all your family.

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Offline anniebc

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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #57 on: July 05, 2009, 10:38:42 pm »
Hi everyone

I thought you might like to see the ones you have been sending your prayers to..my grandson and his beautiufl partner and my little Great grandson Aiden when he was a little younger, he is now 22 months old..Alfies big brother.

Steve..thank you for your kind words.

Hugs
Jan





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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #58 on: July 05, 2009, 11:20:48 pm »
im sorry to hear this happened to you and your loved ones. my condolences to you and your family.
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Offline Longislander

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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #59 on: July 06, 2009, 07:14:10 pm »
Truly heartbreaking Jan. They're a lovely couple and Aiden is ( naturally!) adoreable~

Thankfully Aiden is there, I'm sure he'll help them get through this period in his own little ways.

Bless them all.

Paul

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Offline anniebc

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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #60 on: July 07, 2009, 07:56:21 pm »
The little one has been laid to rest now, the prayer's you all sent will now help the family start their healing proccess... yesterday was a hard day for my family but Little Alfie is at rest and will live on in all our hearts.


Paul thank you for your post, I've missed seeing you around.

Thank you all for your support.

Hugs
Jan :-*
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Offline BT65

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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #61 on: July 07, 2009, 09:27:12 pm »
Once again lady, I am so sorry.  Anytime a little one is taken I question it.  It doesn't seem to make sense.  But, that's me.

You and your family will continue to remain in my thoughts.
  Luv you,
Betty
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Offline heartforyou

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Re: A sad day for my family
« Reply #62 on: July 09, 2009, 02:40:27 am »
Dearest Jan,

lfie is home with the angels. surrounded by love and peace.
May you all heal now.


Love

hermie
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