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Offline feha88

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please can you help me
« on: September 02, 2007, 06:32:47 pm »
Hello all, firstly i must say I'm very greatful to have found this forum as I'm currently very worried at this moment.
Two days ago I visited a transexual escort here in england, and she gave me unprotected oral for around 15 minutes, and for around 5 minutes she put her finger in my anus, I didnt cum either. I am currently terrified i have contracted HIV, I am wondering what are my risks that I have on this encounter?
I thank you in advance, and hope to hear from you soon.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: please can you help me
« Reply #1 on: September 02, 2007, 06:38:51 pm »
No risk in contracting HIV in the situation that you provided.

Offline feha88

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Re: please can you help me
« Reply #2 on: September 02, 2007, 06:42:35 pm »
No risk in contracting HIV in the situation that you provided.
Thanks for the quick answer mate, really appreciate it. Are you certain there is no risk? Do i have a reason to test?

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Re: please can you help me
« Reply #3 on: September 02, 2007, 06:47:07 pm »
fe,

Neither getting a blowjob nor being fingered are risks for hiv transmission, no matter who is doing it to you or whether or not you came.

Along with reading the Welcome Thread and following the link to the Transmission Lesson, here's what you need to know to avoid hiv:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you do NOT need to test over this specific incident, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Again, neither getting a blowjob nor being fingered - or doing the fingering - are risks for hiv infection. Never have been, never will be. Not one person has EVER been infected this way and you won't be the first.

Ann

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