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Offline Ann

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Re: worried about condom slip
« Reply #50 on: September 02, 2007, 07:13:21 pm »
MJ,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.

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It's most likely that the condom slipped off upon withdrawal. They'll do that if the base of the condom isn't held on to while pulling out.

You haven't been at risk.

Ann
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Re: worried about condom slip
« Reply #51 on: September 02, 2007, 10:14:33 pm »
But the condom was inside me all night long while i was sleeping.. up until the morning!!

what if there was precum inside the condom. and what if he was penetrating me with the condom stuck in me (bareback)????

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Re: worried about condom slip
« Reply #52 on: September 02, 2007, 10:20:39 pm »
MJ,

Re-read what Ann told you:

It's most likely that the condom slipped off upon withdrawal. They'll do that if the base of the condom isn't held on to while pulling out.

You haven't been at risk.


She would have considered your concern about precum when she wrote that. As she says you were not at risk.

MtD
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Offline MJworried

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Re: worried about condom slip
« Reply #53 on: November 01, 2007, 02:30:38 am »
Hi.. I need your expertise.

The guy I had sex with where I was the receiver on September, said he tested negative yesterday. 
But he seems to be concerned still that he may need to test again...
Also, he tested negative back in April also...
this is making me scared and worried.  I was wondering if I need to be tested?

do you think I should?  He says that I don't have to worry about getting HIV.
But I'm still scared... It was my first time having sex and I'm now worried!
please help. thannk you.
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Re: worried about condom slip
« Reply #54 on: November 01, 2007, 03:08:51 am »
MJ,

Re-read the advice that we gave you. If you'd been at risk don't you think we would have said so?

MtD
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Re: worried about condom slip
« Reply #55 on: November 01, 2007, 03:21:00 am »
The reason why i'm so worried again is because
he said, even though he tested negative, he feels
he needs to test again.  I asked him if he's had
unsafe sex. and he said no.  but he has had a lot of
unprotected oral sex.

I'm just concerned because the condom did slipp off, and
i'm afraid that he might have inserted his penis in me without it
on... because I found the condom was still inside of me in the morning!!!!
:-(

please help.. thank you
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