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Title: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Ihavehope on March 19, 2007, 11:29:15 am
This may sound wierd for a few but I get sooooo turned on when I kiss someone after they smoke a ciggarette and I ain't even a smoker. I get so turned on when they smell like ciggarrettes all over their body. Am i wierd for liking this? What turns you on?
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: ACinKC on March 19, 2007, 11:42:45 am
Breathing.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: jack on March 19, 2007, 11:45:02 am
smiles. eyes. legs. skin. bulges.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: milker on March 19, 2007, 11:46:38 am
Breathing.

LOL

Funny I have a friend who is like this too. I'm a smoker and he is totally turned on by my ashtray mouth when kissing. I always try my best to brush my teeth and gargle mouth washes for a long time  and have fresh clothes before going to a date, but in his case it's the opposite he forbids me from brushing my teeth and asks me how many cigs I've smoked before kissing lol and I thought I was the weirdo :D
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Longislander on March 19, 2007, 12:09:59 pm
a handsome face, great eyes, smile, and the mystery-wondering what he's all about.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Bucko on March 19, 2007, 12:27:13 pm
I've got kind of a laundry-list (or litany, depending on your perspective) of likes/dislikes.

I have a mild (well, for me) smoking fetish. That is to say that, as part of a total dom thing, an occasional smoke during some forms of sex is highly pleasurable, but i don't get the smell thing. It's just the act of breathing in the smoke and handling the cig that I find sexy.

As I am a strict anal top I like a biggish, round butt that moves when slapped: not fat, just a little extra junk in the trunk.

And I am powerfully attracted to smaller penises, especially on muscular men. If they are uncut, I fall in lust on the spot.

Though hardly complete, I'd round out this list with attitude. I coined the term "aggressively submissive" in describing the kind of attitude I find so appealing, though I find sheer passivity an unadulterated bore.

Brent
(Who can add other factors to the list upon request)
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: indyguy on March 19, 2007, 12:59:25 pm
I am open for any of the above! Its been so long I forgot what sex is like. Does this mean I am a virgin again? ;D
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 19, 2007, 01:02:35 pm
a huge 8================D

actually im just kidding ;-) (well maybe just half true hehe)

but i like a cute face most...eyes/mouth/lips/teeth :-D
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: indyguy on March 19, 2007, 01:11:10 pm
I think I am gonna go where Puertorico is if they all look like him.  :o WOW
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: milker on March 19, 2007, 01:26:26 pm
I think I am gonna go where Puertorico is if they all look like him.  :o WOW

They do they do! Hmmmm I heart my PRs :)

And one Hijack, One!
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 19, 2007, 01:31:10 pm
thanks  :-*

actually im only 1/2 puerto rican....1/2 white boy :-D

so when are you guys visiting me? lol
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Post by: indyguy on March 19, 2007, 01:37:26 pm
I dont have any Puerto Rican in me but I would like some if you are offering.  ;D If you want to come to the great state of Indiana thats cool too. ::)
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 19, 2007, 02:31:27 pm
Puerto Rico's nice and all, but if you want good girth I heartily recommend Santo Domingo!
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 19, 2007, 02:39:21 pm
"girth" lol care to explain?

ive never been to santo domingo but im planning on going soon....

im renewing my passport in 2 weeks so my next chance to fluke the country im taking it (need to find some cheap airfare lol)
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 19, 2007, 02:44:24 pm
Thicker cocks, sweetie darling. 

This is the one!

Too bad The Penthouse closed years ago.  It was so scadalously legendary.   
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: puertorico2006 on March 19, 2007, 02:49:18 pm
lol.....never had a dominican boy although there are plenty here so i wouldnt know

but i dont think race has all that much to do with cock size because ive seen all different size cocks on people of different race, shape, sizes, and colors hehe

i should have known that thats what you meant by "thick" guess im still waking up (or very naive but i doubt its that)
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: fearless on March 19, 2007, 07:33:55 pm
Dimples. Preferably just one.

For some reason, they make me go weak at the knees.

And, Jesus look alikes. Long hair, suffering, thin.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: thunter34 on March 19, 2007, 07:35:42 pm
I think I have answered this before....


A bright smile.  Witty and affectionate.  Smart.


Failing that, hung like a rhino.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Catman on March 19, 2007, 07:59:27 pm
Yes, we did have a thread on this before but let's do it again. 'Ihave', this is not a simple question for me but here it goes. I have changed body types during my life. Since you ask man/woman I'll answer both. In women I love nice white skin, black shiny long hair, and soft small hands. I love that "Morticia Adams" look but in a refined way. I find Paloma Picasso to be stunning at her age and Carolina Herrera, also.
In men it's quite different. I really don't have a favorite type as long as a nice penis is there and a nice body smell. The body smell alone can really set my hormones on fire and he doesn't even have to be very handsome. I'm not talking "man scent" here. Just a clean body emitting its natural fresh skin smell. If he's a horny sweetheart with great hands that know where and how to caress this cat's body, then I'm giving off my best purrs... ;)
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Matty the Damned on March 19, 2007, 08:28:36 pm
Red hair. Red hair sends Matty the Damned totally nuts. The guy can be totally foul in every other respect, but if he's a bloodnut I'll do him.

Oh and Jews. Jews turn me on.

MtD
(Who dreams of a redhaired four by two)
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: thunter34 on March 19, 2007, 08:34:13 pm
Red hair. Red hair sends Matty the Damned totally nuts. The guy can be totally foul in every other respect, but if he's a bloodnut I'll do him.

Oh and Jews. Jews turn me on.

MtD
(Who dreams of a redhaired four by two)

Right on for that about the Jews.  I have a definite thing for Jewish boys.  And glasses.  I make passes at guys with glasses.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Matty the Damned on March 19, 2007, 08:40:05 pm
Right on for that about the Jews.  I have a definite thing for Jewish boys.  And glasses.  I make passes at guys with glasses.

One of the hottest books I ever read was about Jewish identical twin boys. It was called The Same Embrace. One was a screaming fagalah and the other became a black hatted orthodox type who shlepped off to Israel. The sex scene in the Yeshiva left me totally verklempt.

MtD
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 19, 2007, 08:41:03 pm
Dimples. Preferably just one.

For some reason, they make me go weak at the knees.

::raises hand as someone who has this physical trait::
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: thunter34 on March 19, 2007, 08:45:02 pm
Re:  both Matty and philly's posts above....


HAWT.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 19, 2007, 08:46:15 pm
Yeah, but I'm not Jewish.  I look more like a piece of white trailer trash that just won the lotto at the Vivienne Westwood boutique.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: fearless on March 19, 2007, 08:47:18 pm
::raises hand as someone who has this physical trait::

And, you are relatively tall too, aren't you?   ;)

stop it, Philly. I'm gonna have to go outside for a breather.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 19, 2007, 08:49:17 pm
And, you are relatively tall too, aren't you?   ;)

stop it, Philly. I'm gonna have to go outside for a breather.

6 ft tall
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: thunter34 on March 19, 2007, 08:52:03 pm
Yeah, but I'm not Jewish.  I look more like a piece of white trailer trash that just won the lotto at the Vivienne Westwood boutique.

I've seen a picture.  I know the goods are...well, good. 

S, might as well go on out for that breather now.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 19, 2007, 08:56:34 pm
::blushes::
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: milker on March 19, 2007, 08:59:53 pm
So where are those pictures is there a hidden part of the site where we can get some personal "relief" watching dirty pictures? LOL
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 19, 2007, 09:01:23 pm
In the infamous "Porn" thread in Off Topic.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: milker on March 19, 2007, 09:02:13 pm
Milker takes notes and will bring his laptop to bed tonight  :D :D :D
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 19, 2007, 09:03:38 pm
Milker takes notes and will bring his laptop to bed tonight  :D :D :D

better plan on spending a few hours reading that thread... it must be about 20 pages long
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: milker on March 19, 2007, 09:09:12 pm
better plan on spending a few hours reading that thread... it must be about 20 pages long
Porn is the hottest subject in this forum? Why am I NOT surprised LOL
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: egello on March 20, 2007, 02:17:32 am
We shoudl create HOOK UP section on this forum,,,, so that we can all release our sexual desires that often seem to seep into all our messages...

anyways,,, i love rough looking guys,,, pretty boys are nice to look at, but i dream of roughies... someone who looks like they went through lots of shit....
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: purplerain on March 20, 2007, 02:29:32 am
Light Eyes w/ Dark Hair
Hairy Bods
Hairy Butts
Positive attitudes
ok and a dick thats about 7" long and FAT AS HELL LOL

Is that 2 much 2 ask 4 in one man????????????
:)
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Catman on March 20, 2007, 06:21:31 pm
We shoudl create HOOK UP section on this forum,,,, so that we can all release our sexual desires that often seem to seep into all our messages...
Ha,ha. This is so true! (at least on my behalf) :D
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: bear60 on March 20, 2007, 06:24:24 pm
Is it just me or have I heard a little birdie say something about various hook-ups that have occured here.  Some obviously not so sucessful I might add.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Bucko on March 20, 2007, 06:36:22 pm
The hook-up section's more commonly known as AMGs. From what I have heard, they can be most illuminating.

Brent
(Who is going to Atlanta)
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 20, 2007, 06:56:51 pm
Is it just me or have I heard a little birdie say something about various hook-ups that have occured here.  Some obviously not so sucessful I might add.

Careful, or you just might get a big "F.U." from another poster on this board.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: bocker3 on March 20, 2007, 08:03:07 pm
Rock hard calves!! 
I don't know why, but show me a good pair of calves on a man and I'll do whatever he asks!!  TWICE  ;D

Mike
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: tigger2376 on March 20, 2007, 08:34:15 pm
A really strong muscular back, a taut bum, a sense of humour and the abillity to say 'I was wrong'
(and mean it)


And of course a man who can admit he read the map wrong! ;D
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Bucko on March 20, 2007, 08:53:05 pm

And of course a man who can admit he read the map wrong! ;D

That is a genetic impossibility, sweetheart  ;D

Brent
(Who was once known as Mapboy and who never got us lost)
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: dtwpuck on March 20, 2007, 11:48:17 pm
Ihavehope....   I love blowing a guy while he's smoking.  No, you're not weird.

More than that though.. the things that turn me on about a guy are his scent.. far and away  a guy who smells good, naturally, can obsess me.

I also like tattoos.  I know... this comes as a complete shock.

Nerds work for me too, especially if they're short bottom boys.  And I don't really mean geek chic boys, but nerds.  You know, the kind that get excited about star trek.  I really like pinning them down and watching their eyes pop out while I get really agressive figuring out every button on their body.  Now you know.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Ihavehope on March 21, 2007, 09:30:51 am
wow, you ladies sure have many kinds of turn-ons. I must agree with many of you that the scent of a person is very important. I once met an incredibly gorgeous masculine hairy Greek GOD, who I was terribly in love and he had a fetish for latino boys like me so it was a perfect match. The first make out session his breathe STUNK! I was a bit turned off but I kept my eyes open and kept telling myself "he is a God, maybe he ate something bad, it's ok" but then after several make out sessions I couldn't take it anymore, his mouth tasted like anchioves with eggs and gave him countless gum and candy and the smell and taste never went away. I had to make the decision to stop seeing him which broke my heart because he was truly the most attractive person I have ever been with but kissing is very important to me and if I want to vomit after every makeout session then it made me wonder if his hygiene was good.

Al
(who cried when he had to let go of his Greek God but soon after found a Dominican papi with girth  ;))
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 21, 2007, 09:43:58 am
Anchovies and eggs huh?  ha ha... he probably thought you smelled like arroz con pollo!
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Post by: thunter34 on March 21, 2007, 09:46:39 am
I knew a guy in Wilmington like the one hope describes:  Absolutely gorgeous- You could swear that you could lick him from head to toe.  Breath that could practically stop time in its tracks, though.  Ugh.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Ihavehope on March 21, 2007, 10:07:12 am
Anchovies and eggs huh?  ha ha... he probably thought you smelled like arroz con pollo!

Girl, it's too early in the morning for me to bitch slap u but arroz con pollo smells delicious.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 21, 2007, 11:57:42 am
Girl, it's too early in the morning for me to bitch slap u but arroz con pollo smells delicious.

That was my point.  I'm sure to a Greek person anchovies smell delicious.  They are quite common in any Mediterranean diet.
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Post by: thunter34 on March 21, 2007, 12:06:48 pm
I wonder what Courtney Love smells like?

(Hope's avatar made me think of that.  Probably anchovies again.  But who knows?)
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Ihavehope on March 21, 2007, 12:08:22 pm
I wonder what Courtney Love smells like?

(Hope's avatar made me think of that.  Probably anchovies again.  But who knows?)

I love the way courtney love photographs. She seems to ALWAYS be high or drunk, 90% of her pictures she looks trashed.

Al

(who has a little Courtney love in him)
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 21, 2007, 12:09:16 pm
Maybe I should hop over to the Italian Market today (it's only 6 blocks away) and grab some of those little smelly creatures and have big ole Fish Fry.  Maybe my nasty downstairs neighbor will complain!
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: thunter34 on March 21, 2007, 12:11:37 pm
I love the way courtney love photographs. She seems to ALWAYS be high or drunk, 90% of her pictures she looks trashed.

Al

(who has a little Courtney love in him)

Girl, it's cuz she IS high or drunk 90% of the time.  No camera magic there.  I have to admit part of me loves her, too.  Such a magnificent disaster.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: aupointillimite on March 21, 2007, 02:44:29 pm
Oooooh.

I used to have a thing for the painfully thin indie-rock guys.

Wait... I still do.

I've never dated a man who's ass I couldn't kick if it came down to that.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: tigger2376 on March 21, 2007, 10:11:33 pm
And I forgot...men who call when they say they will
(and fresh sweat, after a workout, or a days work GRRRRRRRRRRRRR)
And woodshavings
Er, just about anything apart from bad manners.....and blowing a guy after hes had a really HOT curry, second hand chillis etc NOT my thing, and my lips go numb
(can't believe I just said that)
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Longislander on March 21, 2007, 10:14:59 pm
 
Quote
(can't believe I just said that)

hehe, me either! :o
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: aupointillimite on March 21, 2007, 10:38:52 pm
Er, just about anything apart from bad manners.....and blowing a guy after hes had a really HOT curry, second hand chillis etc NOT my thing, and my lips go numb

Oh God!

I thought that was just me... no joke... when I was 21, my boyfriend at the time and I were absolutely obsessed with Indian food.

Yeah.   :D
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: milker on March 22, 2007, 01:33:39 am
punks:

there was this german dude that had one side of his head shaved, the other side with long hair going to his shoulders. I was peeing in my pants just watching him.

necks:

A nice neck and I want to bite. Too many times when they turned around they turned out to be lesbians tho.

latinos:

hmmmmmmm

skinny dudes:

usually goes with punks. one of my ex-bf was like an ironing board, including a flat ass. hmmmm

romantic perverts:

I'm one of those, I like the same.

huge cum shooters:

Well I think people know this already..

southern accent:

I'll get on my knees if you have an Alabama accent.

Milker.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: CowboyUpOregon on March 23, 2007, 08:45:03 am
Personality, eyes, how they treat people...........and a wrangler butt and a southern drawl doesn't hurt either<G>

Jim
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Ihavehope on March 31, 2007, 08:28:32 pm
just remembered that I like a nice Southern accent. I like that they take 15 minutes to answer "How you been" question. Luv it.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 08:37:29 pm
I am so not a fan of the Southern accent.

I used too have one, too.

No joke.
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: cullens888 on March 31, 2007, 08:38:50 pm
I am open for any of the above! Its been so long I forgot what sex is like. Does this mean I am a virgin again? ;D
:'( Same here.. But I love Men even if I don`t have one anymore.. :'(
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: cullens888 on March 31, 2007, 08:43:28 pm
just remembered that I like a nice Southern accent. I like that they take 15 minutes to answer "How you been" question. Luv it.
;D Thank ya kind sir. Greetings from Georgia... ;D
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: cullens888 on March 31, 2007, 08:44:40 pm
I am so not a fan of the Southern accent.

I used too have one, too.

No joke.
Aah come on don`t hold it against me.. ;D
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 08:45:58 pm
Aah come on don`t hold it against me.. ;D

Don't worry.  I won't. 
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: cullens888 on March 31, 2007, 08:48:22 pm
Don't worry.  I won't. 
;D Hey Benj.. Great to be back... :-*
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 08:52:12 pm
;D Hey Benj.. Great to be back... :-*

Whoo hoo!

Benj
(Who will probably be unable to ever completely stop saying "y'all.")
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: Miss Philicia on March 31, 2007, 09:25:18 pm
I used too have one, too.

No joke.

You still do, Blanche
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: aupointillimite on March 31, 2007, 09:31:13 pm
You still do, Blanche

AAAAAAAAAHHHH!

Must... see... diction... coach!
Title: Re: What turns you on most about a man/woman?
Post by: JesusLovesYou on April 09, 2007, 03:26:02 pm
Hairy bodies for sure!