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Title: WE DID IT! WE ARE HAVING A BABY! AND MY WIFE IS FINE!
Post by: dingowarrior on June 18, 2008, 07:30:15 pm
Hello all,
Some of you may have read my posts in the past. They were about my wife and I trying to have a baby, I'm pos. my wife is neg.
We tried Invitro twice,and thousands of dollars later no baby,and alot of bills.
So we read the SWISS study and decided to try it naturally.
Well after 5 attempts my wife became pregnant, But then was the scary part. She had to take an HIV test..
We were worried,as I'm sure anyone in our shoes would be.
But we met ALL the SWISS studies requirments and we just got her blood work back and she is STILL HIV NEGATIVE!!
She is 8weeks pregnant, so her last exposure was just over 2 months ago. She will have to take another HIV test, but this is a strong indication that all is well.

There is life after this disease, just have faith, keep your doctor appointments and ADHERE to your meds!
To all you folks out there wanting to have a baby,There is hope, please dont give up your dreams because of this virus.
Be safe ,and thanks for reading!

dingowarrior  ;)
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Post by: Matty the Damned on June 18, 2008, 07:42:10 pm
Congratulations doll.

MtD
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Post by: YaKaMein on June 18, 2008, 07:50:41 pm
Mazel Tov! Glad your dreams are coming true. Take care of each other.
-YaKa
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Post by: Miss Philicia on June 18, 2008, 07:51:28 pm
Congrats, and best of luck!
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Post by: richva on June 18, 2008, 08:37:28 pm
Amazing.  And fantastic.  Don't know you, but so very, very happy for you.

Rich
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Post by: BT65 on June 18, 2008, 10:45:53 pm
Congratulations Dingo and good luck.
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Post by: sharkdiver on June 18, 2008, 10:47:35 pm
Wow congratulations!!!!

Sharkie ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: GSOgymrat on June 18, 2008, 10:48:51 pm
Fantastic news! I'm so happy for you!
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Post by: komnaes on June 18, 2008, 11:04:32 pm
Wow.. there is so much love between you guys to make this possible!

Best wishes to you all.
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Post by: Longislander on June 18, 2008, 11:29:28 pm
Wow! Congrats and best wishes~
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Post by: Robert on June 19, 2008, 12:20:11 am
 this is just too cool.

 Congratulations ~~~~

 robert
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Post by: Mortons Pepper on June 19, 2008, 12:55:00 am
This is TERRIFIC NEWS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!  You give a lot of hope to the couples who are in your shoes.  My husband and I are in those same shoes and we are also in the process of trying to get pregnant.  We are going through SPAR (http://sementesting.org/).  We have considered conceiving naturally but we weren't sure.  We haven't tried IVF because we are in the early stages and aren't at that point yet.  But I think it's so great that you were able to conceive naturally and that your wife is still negative.  Please keep us all posted.  I am so hopeful.
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Post by: anniebc on June 19, 2008, 04:42:13 am
Dingo

You have jsut turned a bad day into a wonderful evening...that is just the best news, Congratulations to you and your wife...just keep us updated as the months go by.

Hugs to you both
Jan :-*
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Post by: allopathicholistic on June 19, 2008, 06:48:00 am
this is beautiful to read! many congratz and my thoughts are with all 3 of you  8)
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Post by: tendai on June 19, 2008, 06:50:30 am
Congratulations you guys. Thats great news!
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Post by: John2038 on June 19, 2008, 07:17:20 am
that's the most beautiful ever news I have read in this forum !
As Soon as I will have found Her and met the criteria I will do the same if she agree
So congratulations and thanks for all of us (giving  hopes!)
What a nice Shana Tova isn't ? 
I guess it will arrive close to it no?
Shalom !
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Post by: J.R.E. on June 19, 2008, 07:51:47 am


CONGRATULATIONS !!  :)     


Ray
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Post by: Peter Staley on June 19, 2008, 09:03:42 am
Very cool.  Please keep us in the loop going forward.  We'll want to see baby pictures!

Peter Staley
Founder
AIDSmeds.com
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Post by: PaulinNJ on June 19, 2008, 10:27:26 am
It's stories like this that give my heart a big thumbs up and that while the nightly news makes one think that the world is going to hell in a handcart, people like you who share your experience UPLIFT all of us! It's just after 10:30 AM and your success story will be on my mind all day to make me smile and think that "Hey. All really is OK in the world!"

I know there's one or two more "squeeks" to get through (HIV tests for your wife) but if we all send good vibes your way, I have NO DOUBT it's all going to be just fantastic. What a priviledge to have a child in a day and age where many parents have no clue how lucky they are. You are both going to be the BESTEST Daddy and Mommy any child could wish for.

One more thing:

YAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Congrats.

Paul
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Post by: Texan38 on June 19, 2008, 11:31:11 am
That is such wonderful news!! Congratulations to you both!!  :-*
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Post by: minismom on June 19, 2008, 01:28:01 pm
I'm so happy for the both of you!  Keep us informed about your wife's progress.  I can't wait to see baby pictures.

Mum
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Post by: butterfly on June 19, 2008, 01:33:31 pm
Congratulations!  I am so happy for you!
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Post by: Iggy on June 19, 2008, 04:13:28 pm
Congradulations!  All the best wishes for you and your wife.
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Post by: Snowangel on June 19, 2008, 04:18:42 pm
Dingo-
That is great news. Congratulations to you both.  I am so happy for you!!!

Snow
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Post by: Teresa on June 19, 2008, 06:05:14 pm
BIG CONGRATULATIONS to you and your wife! Wonderful news!!

Hugs
Teresa
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Post by: Lakis on June 19, 2008, 07:24:01 pm
Congratulations!!!!Great news!!!
Lakis
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Post by: blondbeauty on June 19, 2008, 07:45:51 pm
Congratulations. Vive la Suisse!. Remember to post a picture of your baby as soon as it is born.  ;)
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Post by: Ann on June 20, 2008, 05:51:59 am
Great news, Dingo and Mrs Dingo!

If her hiv test was done at or after the six week mark (from your last unprotected baby-making endeavour) - it is good news indeed as a negative result at that point is unlikely to change. I hope Red Dirt Girl reads this thread!

I'm looking forward to the photos. ;)

Congratulations!

Ann
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Post by: John2038 on June 20, 2008, 06:55:56 am
if I may ask .. how many unprotected attempts ?
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Post by: sharkdiver on June 20, 2008, 09:07:13 am
if I may ask .. how many unprotected attempts ?

He mentions that issue in the original post.    I think asking for more details would be unnecessary and frankly rude.
A simple Congratulations or Good luck would be more appropriate.

Again Dingo.....that is just awesome!
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Post by: Seven on June 20, 2008, 02:58:43 pm
That is Soooooooooooooooooooooooo AWESOOME! I am so happy for you both. I am with a neg partner so I hope when we decide to make a baby...he will want to do it natuarally. I REALLLLLLLY HOPE SO! I am not into pushing the matter thou...seeing how its not like its gonna happen next week or anything...but hearing news like this is simply amazing!

Good Luck with everything :)
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Post by: Victory101 on June 20, 2008, 05:14:41 pm
Congrats and wishing yourwife a healthy pregnancy. ...Best wishes
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Post by: angelofdreams on June 21, 2008, 08:49:04 am
woohoo,
congratulations ,
very happy to hear its going so well.

and i wanna see the pictures,
hehe

Angel
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Post by: catwoman on June 25, 2008, 12:17:09 am
Congratulations!!!!!  ;D
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Post by: dingowarrior on June 25, 2008, 04:07:19 pm
Thank you all for the wonderful responses!!
Keep the faith!  ;)