Ankle wound making worried

[sameeer9]

Please help me to get my worries of,the incident which is making me worried happened one month ago.I went with my freind to a girl.My freind went inside with that girl first and did all sort of sex & came out in 20 minutes with the girl and asked me to go in.I went in with the girl and she starting getting undressed and asked me to do the same .i removed my clothes ,she came close to me and i grabbed her,she was touching my penis after 2-3 minutes she made me to sit on the bed and started giving oral(when she started oral condom was there but i don.'t know and did not saw when it happened) when she was giving me oral i bent down and started touching her body in this i touched her vagina i guess my fingerips went inside just only for 2-3 seconds as she removed my hand from there ,after oral she came on the bed and asked me to come over her for sex but i saw few white warts(3 or 4) on her sides of vagina so i refused,she said don.t afraid i don't have anything but i asked her to continue only with blowjob ,than she again started giving oral at this time she was on bed and i was also on bed,than i cum in the condom after 7-8 minutes.the concern here is i was having a 2-days old wound in my ankle of right foot due to motorcycle kick(blood was visible on the wound)..
1.can that girl use the condom used by my freind on me as he threw his condom full of semen there in same room under the bed and i did not saw her putting condom on me as tha happened very fast(i know u all were not there but is it possible).
2.Can fingering like i did is any problem.
3.can any vaginal fluid from her vagina can flow down on my ankle wound of ankle in bj position like that. i am 6 feett & she was 5 feet and i was lying with open legs and she was in between my legs.

8 days after this incident i had uti,urine culture showed e-coli bacteria and i am still taking antibiotics new culture came sterile. i has tb epididimis 1 year before and i took treatment for 8 months...

Now i am feeling some sensation in ht ear) and my right armpit seems litlle swollen compared to the lelu etc.

Please advise and help me to get stressed free. Now I know that safe sex is only at Own Home with only one Partner not even with condom.

Waiting for all of yours expert opinion ..

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[Jeff G]

Hi Sam , you did not have a risk for HIV in any of the things you did . Even if a condom had not been used for the oral sex you still would not have had a risk , getting a blowjob is not a risk for HIV . Fingering isn't a risk ... no one has ever been infected with HIV in any of the situations you are concerned about .

HIV is a fragile virus that cannot survive outside of the human body , so you cant get HIV from rubbing up on a vagina and the secretions a woman has when excited isn't infectious for HIV . If you use condoms for vaginal and anal sex you will avoid HIV , it really is that simple .   

[sameeer9]

Thank u so much Jeff for your reply , my concern is that wound on ankle which can go staright under vagina during bj  and vaginal fluids comes on that if when they were in directcontact of each other(than fluids will not get any air) and that girl just finished sex with my freind few minutes before so some cervical(or sexual fluids) might be present in that...Thank you so much for giving ur time,

[Jeff G]

Thank u so much Jeff for your reply , my concern is that wound on ankle which can go staright under vagina during bj  and vaginal fluids comes on that if when they were in directcontact of each other(than fluids will not get any air) and that girl just finished sex with my freind few minutes before so some cervical(or sexual fluids) might be present in that...Thank you so much for giving ur time,

I read your concerns carefully and can say that no one in the history of HIV has ever been infected with HIV from vaginal secretions in the manner you are describing .

If a woman has HIV it resides deep in the vagina in a mucosal lining near the cervix , the fluids a woman has when excited comes from glands near the vaginal opening , so you were never near her cervix and you did not have a risk ...  Also HIV can not drip from a vagina onto your leg and into a sore and infect you , its simply not the way HIV is acquired and you can safely put this incident behind you and get on with your life . 

HIV is sexually acquired from unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse ... period .

[sameeer9]

Hey Jeff,How are you and thank you for the excellent work you are doing here by your reply i understood that i dont had any exposure by this incident but as a human had some more tensions as more I thought about the circumstances of that insident, in that as after that incident i asked my freind what he did and he said he did all sorts of sex styles with that girl and he do it a lot of times and enjoys it as a freind and as I myself was very afraid of the exposure after this only one first and the last exposure i told him about the danger of getting infected in many ways,first he ignored all my thoughts but after few days in his thoughts he started looking afraid and looked suspicious, i started thinking may be he would  have poked me with some needle to get me the same.after that incident we were out for 3-4 days together all the time.more i thought more i was getting tension and recently i started feeling swelling in my armpit then under my neck which is still swelled so today i decided to go for a test and i took that same freind for test also, and we both came back negative.this was 38th day..

so 1.can i rely on this test or i do need to test again for that incident.
 
     2.my freind if he poked me but he also came back negative and in recent 2-3 months he said this was the only sex he did.

what abouth the swellings..as this is my last question you will understand my tension and help me to go on the straight way.

[Andy Velez]

A swollen armpit is not an HIV specific symptom. If it persists leave it alone and see your doctor to discuss it. Don't squeeze it as doing that can create a problem where none really exists.

All this speculation on your part seems just that to me: speculation without any basis in actual fact. I don't see any basis to think you have actually had a risk for HIV transmission. Nor any need for further testing at this point.

[Jeff G]

Hi Sam , your letting your fears and imagination run away with you , the facts are you didn't have a risk .