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Title: Have you ever done this?
Post by: CaptCarl on August 20, 2006, 12:08:43 pm

Hello Kiddies in Pozland!
    Capt. Carl here with a quick question about the alternative side if disclosure about ones status. Have any of you ever disclosed to someone who is hitting on you with the hope that it will turn them off and they will leave you alone? I mean after saying no a few tmes and they still persist. I've done it a few times, and it didn't work a few times. Think about the irony in that!

Title: Re: Have you ever done this?
Post by: david25luvit on August 22, 2006, 07:08:58 am

I admit it.........YES! ::)

Title: Re: Have you ever done this?
Post by: Ann on August 22, 2006, 07:36:12 am

LOL... I did it once and it worked like a charm. :D

Ann

Title: Re: Have you ever done this?
Post by: Dachshund on August 22, 2006, 08:08:39 am

Yes I have and it did not work...finally had to say I wasn't interested. Course I had my high school figure back then.

Title: Re: Have you ever done this?
Post by: Ann on August 22, 2006, 09:29:34 am

Well, in my case, I'd already been telling the bloke that I had a partner I had no intention of cheating on. The bloke in question was saying that it was ok, he only wanted a one-off anyway and nobody needed to know blah blah blah. Finally, I said, "OK, let's go, but you need to know that I'm hiv positive..." and he was like, "Oh! Nevermind!" ;D

Title: Re: Have you ever done this?
Post by: allopathicholistic on August 22, 2006, 11:32:11 am

Irony indeed. I have never done that but you just gave me some clever ideas about repelling unwanted suitors

Title: Re: Have you ever done this?
Post by: lydgate on August 22, 2006, 11:39:25 am

Done it, and it didn't work.

Title: Re: Have you ever done this?
Post by: jkinatl2 on August 22, 2006, 12:44:42 pm

I've done that many times, with mixed results. Sadly, sometimes people then suddenly see you as an Epic Tragic figure ... that they want to get naked with.

eep.

Title: Re: Have you ever done this?
Post by: texasguy on August 22, 2006, 06:13:54 pm

oh jk....my first giggle of the week....Epic Tragic figure.... sometimes your replies crack me up!

Terry W

Title: Re: Have you ever done this?
Post by: babygirl17844 on August 27, 2006, 10:58:28 pm

did it here as well sometimes it works and sometimes it don't...... good lord in the past month I have had 15 negative guys hitting on me, I have been saying no to them for the past 4 years I just have not been having luck with neg guys they say they can deal with it and I found out they couldn't so been dating poz only. but again having no luck, seems so many lie in their profile saying they want LTR when in fact they just want to get lucky. if you give it up you don't hear back from them and if you don't still don't hear back..... damned if you do and damned if you don't---------------grrrrrrr. I may just stop saying no to the negs at least I will have dates and they know I am poz before they write me its in most of my profiles.