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[iknwimdumb]

Hi everyone
I had an encounter with csw 10 days back.. It was first time for me.. I m a male .24 years old
I don't have any kisiing.. She applied 2 condoms on my penis (m not sure about the quality)
She gave oral for 1 minute..I dint come that time... Now we had vaginal intercourse .. For 2 minutes.. I cummed inside her vagina.., I was wearing same 2 condoms.. After that I pulled my penis outside.. Started removing condom using my hand.. But she said wait..use tissue .. She used tissue and removed the condom by herself... After that I wiped my penis using another tissue. And then washed it using water...then my hand using soap or sumthing.
(M not sure whether my hands were infected at that time when I was trying to remove the condom. Though I dint fingered at all...didn't gave any oral to her.)
Here I doubt wascondom removal part was correct or not??


Now here is what all happened in last 10 days
1)  just from that day I started feeling a strange sensation in my penis.. Kind of I feel like urinating more.. Plus seems like my penis has lost its energy..
2 this problem lasted for next four days
3) day 4  I developed mild fever .. It comes and goes... Little fatigue too
4) from day 4 to today fever is same
..comes and goes ...and from today morning onwards I feel like my throat is burning... Not so much  but may be it is just a starting..


Its only 10th day today I told u everything... Please tell me what are my chances... I m really looking forward for uR reply... Sorry for a long post

[Joe K]

Nothing you describe was a risk for HIV infection.  You used a condom for intercourse, so you did not have any risk.  You should however, never use two condoms at the same time.  Condoms are designed to be used ONE at a time and using two could create problems, so please only use one condom each time.

The risk factors for HIV are ...

Sharing IV drug needles immediately after use.
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex.
Mother to child during or shortly after birth.
Very specific health care situations.

Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to HIV testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start.  As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine HIV tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than HIV.  Some of the other STDs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid HIV infection. It really is that simple!

Joe

[iknwimdumb]

Hey Joe... Thanks a lot for writing back...really appreciate that... However I was expecting more specific answer regarding my condom removal part doubt.. I m really confused.. How do u analyze my situation dear... I m sure you understand the trauma through one goes in this phase...as my symptoms fears me..I really looking forward for uR specialist openion.. Thanks a ton in advance..

[Joe K]

Hey Joe... Thanks a lot for writing back...really appreciate that... However I was expecting more specific answer regarding my condom removal part doubt.. I m really confused.. How do u analyze my situation dear... I m sure you understand the trauma through one goes in this phase...as my symptoms fears me..I really looking forward for uR specialist openion.. Thanks a ton in advance..

I already told you that you did not have a risk and symptoms can be caused by many things.  If you are sexually active, you should be having regular screenings for STDs, which are much easier to transmit than HIV.

If your symptoms concern you, please consult with your doctor.  You cannot determine your status by symptoms, as only testing can.  You did not have a risk and you do not need to test over this incident.

Joe

[iknwimdumb]

Thanks Joe... Deny and ppl... Really helpful this forum is... One last thing I want to ask how early after an exposure of HIV.. One can have the symptoms.. I mean is there any minimum time for the symptoms to appear.. I heard that it is at least 2 weeks.. Is it true??

[Jeff G]

Thanks Joe... Deny and ppl... Really helpful this forum is... One last thing I want to ask how early after an exposure of HIV.. One can have the symptoms.. I mean is there any minimum time for the symptoms to appear.. I heard that it is at least 2 weeks.. Is it true??

The average time to seroconversion is 22 days. Most who are infected will test positive by 6 weeks. For various reasons a small number will take longer and that is why we follow the CDC recommendation to test at 3 months for a conclusive negative result.

Many people with HIV never have any symptoms at all ... and others can have a rough seroconversion . You have not had the slightest risk for HIV and do not need testing for this specific incident .