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Author Topic: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!  (Read 20955 times)

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Offline RapidRod

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #50 on: April 24, 2007, 09:44:46 pm »
There would not be a risk to you or the other person.

Offline ACinKC

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #51 on: April 25, 2007, 10:38:51 am »
Rod is 100% correct.
LIFE is not a race to the grave with the intention of arriving safely
in a pretty and well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in broadside,
thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming--WOW! WHAT A
RIDE!!!

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #52 on: April 25, 2007, 12:33:01 pm »
Bite? Wound? Cut? Who sucked you? Dracula's daughter? Let's get real here.

Uh, your terminology is just a tad excessive, NF. By which I mean to say your exaggerations are just more of your mind creating stuff to worry about that has absolutely no basis in HIV science.

This is not an HIV situation. Period.
« Last Edit: April 25, 2007, 12:39:52 pm by Andy Velez »
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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #53 on: April 25, 2007, 04:07:14 pm »
so even if this cut was present at the time of the blowjob, and not simply a result of me masturbating the past few days, I still would have nothing to worry about?

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #54 on: April 25, 2007, 04:28:20 pm »
WHAT PART OF THIS IS NOT AN HIV SITUATION AM I NOT BEING CLEAR ABOUT?

None of your particulars make any difference. There was no risk for transmission. Period.
Andy Velez

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #55 on: April 26, 2007, 03:48:09 pm »
Hey guys - sorry to bother you again - so basically, what I"m taking away from this whole thing is:  Stop creating different scenarios in your head, b/c the truth of the matter is, you were not at risk at all, and you don't need to worry for another second about this situation, as there was no hiv risk here (and that only my mind is creating risks, which were not actually there.....and thus, i should stop worrying) - that sound like a good assessment/take home message?  thanks guys!

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #56 on: April 26, 2007, 03:56:41 pm »
Yes, that's right.

Andy Velez

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #57 on: May 09, 2007, 06:06:14 pm »
sorry, another question - :( - im trying to do things that keep me safe, but I always end up coming up with a fear -

so i went to a strip club where you can get private shows - this one was one where the girl used a dildo, and you could masturbate as you both sit on a bed - no biggie -anyway, she came/ejaculated quite a bit on the bed - since i was already done, i helped her take off the sheets right away - well, as I did this, a portion of my thumb (which had a recent cut) came in contact with a wet part of the sheet - was i at any risk? should i get tested? thanks guys.

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #58 on: May 09, 2007, 06:10:04 pm »
No, there is absolutely no risk of contracting HIV from touching sheets that have been moistened with pussy juice.

Seriously. Read the Lessons.

MtD

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #59 on: May 09, 2007, 06:14:54 pm »
really? i don't have to woorry? b/c after that situation, i was quite scared and thinking to myself, "you had an opening, and you were in touch with vag. juices..." and thought i would have to test...

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #60 on: May 09, 2007, 06:23:29 pm »
No, you don't have to worry. Seriously.

After nearly 12 months with us and 30 posts you should know this. I hate to say it, but I think you're posting silly questions for the sake of it. I don't believe for a moment that you help changed the bed linen in a whore-house. I think you made that scenario up.

You should be aware that WW's who keep asking patently silly questions end up copping a time out.

It's time you moved on. We can't help you any further.

MtD

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #61 on: May 09, 2007, 06:47:26 pm »
NF, Matty has hit it right on the head. It's time to call a halt here with these REALLY? FOR SURE? BUT WHAT IF questions.

You've been well served here and it's time to stop. Now.

Get on with your life.
Andy Velez

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #62 on: May 09, 2007, 07:02:11 pm »
sorry andy - i know i may worry a bit much but i had this new issued come up (4 posts up on the thread - i assume you think in eed not worry about this one?)- and i have and do meet with a sexual health counselor - its just in b/w visits, sometimes i have things come up - and i absolutely did not make up that situation matty - i come here b/c i feel comfortable talking to you guys as you've been very helpful - and i certainly don't mean to waste your time at all - for instance, you guys have told me i don't need testing, and as such, have not wasted such resources - with this latest thing, it seems again, that you guys are saying i should relax - so i will....thanks - and sorry andy

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #63 on: May 10, 2007, 08:17:52 am »
hey ann, andy - my latest fear - the thing about 4 posts up- i'm still having anxiety over it - i do have an appointment for the 17th with my counselour again - but am i just being absurd?  i assume by your post andy above, you're saying that matty's words are equally as true and accurate as yours and ann's?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #64 on: May 10, 2007, 08:50:48 am »
You did not have a risk, continue to see your counselor.

Offline ACinKC

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Re: Andy, Ann, Experts, please help!!!
« Reply #65 on: May 10, 2007, 10:22:10 am »
YOu do not get HIV from pussy juice soaked sheets.  It simply is not possible. 

You could cut your arm off and use the pussy juice soaked sheets as a bandage and you still wouldnt need to worry.
LIFE is not a race to the grave with the intention of arriving safely
in a pretty and well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in broadside,
thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming--WOW! WHAT A
RIDE!!!

 


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