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Author Topic: the boys should not be mad at the girls...  (Read 8239 times)

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Offline Lis

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the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« on: April 05, 2007, 08:17:18 pm »
you can kill me if you want but......

 I had a 7 hour trip to doc and lab today... my husband came home and slept...

We have a daughter that is home from school, and wants love...(kids are funny that way) so she and I cut up and figure what the dinner should be... I was too tired to start the laundry yesterday..(3 loads a day)  so I went a sortting, and washing and etc... dinner was omelets, sausage and biscuits... best i could do... then i put the second load of laundry in.. made a hair appt for tessa in the morning... fed the pets... and shit... got 1 load to go....!!

I love this life... but ..........
poz 1986....

Offline koi1

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #1 on: April 05, 2007, 08:19:40 pm »
I'm sorry Lis,

I'm confused. Are you okay. Were you just ttrying to say that life continues? Yes life does continue we know its not easy.

Hang in there.

rob
diagnosed on 11/20/06 viral load 23,000  cd4 97    8%
01/04/07 six weeks after diagnosis vl 53,000 cd4 cd4 70    6%
Began sustiva truvada 01/04/07
newest labs  drawn on 01/15/07  vl 1,100    cd4 119    7%
Drawn 02/10/07
cd4=160 viral load= 131 percentage= 8%
New labs 3/10/07 (two months on sustiva truvada
cd4 count 292  percentage 14 viral load undetectable

Offline Lis

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #2 on: April 05, 2007, 08:25:27 pm »
Rob,

all Im sayin is there are things that you really dont want to hear about... bleeding, birth, kids, sex on the rag...

stop with the fake be well stuff...
poz 1986....

Offline J.R.E.

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #3 on: April 05, 2007, 08:35:59 pm »
 ???


Who's mad at the girls. I"m not. If this is in regard to the new topic. "positive Women" I have no issues with that. I have no problem understanding that HIV positive women, are dealing with different issues than us guys !! Power to the women !!


Ray
Current Meds ; Viramune / Epzicom Eliquis, Diltiazem. Pravastatin 80mg, Ezetimibe. UPDATED 2/18/24
 Tested positive in 1985,.. In October of 2003, My t-cell count was 16, Viral load was over 500,000, Percentage at that time was 5%. I started on  HAART on October 24th, 2003.

 UPDATED: As of April, 2nd 2024,Viral load Undetectable.
CD 4 @593 /  CD4 % @ 18 %

Lymphocytes,total-3305 (within range)

cd4/cd8 ratio -0.31

cd8 %-57

72 YEARS YOUNG

Offline koi1

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #4 on: April 05, 2007, 08:37:33 pm »
Lis,

If you have not been reading my post I have been one of the strongest supporters of the women's only forum. I sincerely hope you are well. It actually hurts me that you would call me fake. I guess you are really having a hard time. Take care.

rob
diagnosed on 11/20/06 viral load 23,000  cd4 97    8%
01/04/07 six weeks after diagnosis vl 53,000 cd4 cd4 70    6%
Began sustiva truvada 01/04/07
newest labs  drawn on 01/15/07  vl 1,100    cd4 119    7%
Drawn 02/10/07
cd4=160 viral load= 131 percentage= 8%
New labs 3/10/07 (two months on sustiva truvada
cd4 count 292  percentage 14 viral load undetectable

Offline Lis

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #5 on: April 05, 2007, 08:39:42 pm »
you take care as well
poz 1986....

Offline Sdgirl

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #6 on: April 05, 2007, 09:08:37 pm »
GO LIS!  Maybe if we start talking about what kind of tampons we buy, the severity of our cramps, the va-jj smells and itches, they'll be glad we have our own little space!  Hehehe   :o
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.  Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.  It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.  We ask ourselves.."Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?  Actually, who are you not to be?"

Offline aupointillimite

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #7 on: April 05, 2007, 09:32:37 pm »
GO LIS!  Maybe if we start talking about what kind of tampons we buy, the severity of our cramps, the va-jj smells and itches, they'll be glad we have our own little space!  Hehehe   :o

See, that stuff isn't scary to me because I get to hear all about it on a regular basis.

I buy my roommate tampons and talk about her vagina smells and missed periods, she gets to take me to the ER when my prostate swells up like a balloon and I can't make pee pee.

We're like a married couple or something.

In all seriousness, I think the women's forum is a great idea.

There's gotta be a whole buncha issues that you all would like to talk about amongst yourselves... for reasons of demographics, this forum usually ends up being Male Health Problems R Us... and you all have to deal with it... so I think it's cool you have your own space. 
Your tastebuds can't repel flavor of this magnitude!

Offline RAB

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #8 on: April 06, 2007, 09:17:39 am »
Hey Liz

I'm not mad at you gals.  I think the new forum is a great idea. 

Be warned however, if the women think they can just hang out over there by themselves and not spend some time with us here in the living with, they've got another damn thing coming.

I need the women who are part of these forums, their/your voices and support are one of the things I value most around here.

If I have to, I'll put on a wig, dress, stiletto heels, and sashay my ass into that forum and yank some of you back here.  So just be aware of that!

L&K

RAB   :-*

(Who suspects he'd make one ugly drag queen!  Not that he knows though cause that's something he's never ever done!  No siree bob!   ::))

(Well o.k. maybe once, but that was all!)

(Oh alright, it was twice!  and I looked awesome!)

Offline gardner

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #9 on: April 06, 2007, 09:35:42 am »
Hey guys.  Isn't Liz's problem that when they got home from the doc's her husband went to sleep and she had to carry on with the daily crap?

Offline Moffie65

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #10 on: April 06, 2007, 09:52:59 am »
Hey guys.  Isn't Liz's problem that when they got home from the doc's her husband went to sleep and she had to carry on with the daily crap?

It might appear that way, only because you don't know her background and her current status with HIV.  Lis is keyboard challenged, and the number of keystrokes in the first post, reflect very much on the trauma she is feeling right now.  Driven woman this, and if I had only one tenth of her strength, I would be able to conquer the world.  She does this with a CD4 that is well below 200 and seems not to respond to HAART like it used to.  Hmmmmmmm......... 

Manageable indeeeed!

I would suggest that trite answers and simplistic wishes for her good health not be donated to this thread, she can read through shit that is insincere like a fox. 

Gardner, I am not attacking your answer, only pointing out that it doesn't even apply to this family.

Lis, I love you, and think of you and your struggles often.

Love,

(who donates here cautiously)
The Bible contains 6 admonishments to homosexuals,
and 362 to heterosexuals.
This doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals,
It's just that they need more supervision.
Lynn Lavne

Offline koi1

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #11 on: April 06, 2007, 10:06:40 am »
Who are you to call anyone's words insincere? Talk about backhanded bitchslaps.

If we all have to know everyone's lifestory to offer support.... Not all of us are retired and have time to keep a stalking profile on every member.Some of us just joined not too long ago.  Moffie, you are guilty of everything you accuse others of. This is not a turf war on Westside Story. I truly resent your remarks. Yes moffie you are a better human being, we get it. I think your sweetie needs to give you better lovin' because you are one grumpy grouch. If I get like you, I do hope your Harley Davidson gun toting neighbor shoots me like you want him to.

rob
« Last Edit: April 06, 2007, 10:08:30 am by koi1 »
diagnosed on 11/20/06 viral load 23,000  cd4 97    8%
01/04/07 six weeks after diagnosis vl 53,000 cd4 cd4 70    6%
Began sustiva truvada 01/04/07
newest labs  drawn on 01/15/07  vl 1,100    cd4 119    7%
Drawn 02/10/07
cd4=160 viral load= 131 percentage= 8%
New labs 3/10/07 (two months on sustiva truvada
cd4 count 292  percentage 14 viral load undetectable

Offline ACinKC

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #12 on: April 06, 2007, 10:21:38 am »
That was totally uncalled for Koi.
LIFE is not a race to the grave with the intention of arriving safely
in a pretty and well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in broadside,
thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming--WOW! WHAT A
RIDE!!!

Offline koi1

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #13 on: April 06, 2007, 10:26:35 am »
So is ever calling anyone insincere, when they truly here to support people.

We all know that you are the standard of tenderness.

rob
diagnosed on 11/20/06 viral load 23,000  cd4 97    8%
01/04/07 six weeks after diagnosis vl 53,000 cd4 cd4 70    6%
Began sustiva truvada 01/04/07
newest labs  drawn on 01/15/07  vl 1,100    cd4 119    7%
Drawn 02/10/07
cd4=160 viral load= 131 percentage= 8%
New labs 3/10/07 (two months on sustiva truvada
cd4 count 292  percentage 14 viral load undetectable

Offline ACinKC

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #14 on: April 06, 2007, 10:28:34 am »
Maybe comments like those are why some consider you insincere.  I hope you get to a better place today, it is GOOD Friday after all.
LIFE is not a race to the grave with the intention of arriving safely
in a pretty and well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in broadside,
thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming--WOW! WHAT A
RIDE!!!

Offline koi1

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #15 on: April 06, 2007, 10:37:26 am »
I'm going to ask Jesus for forgiveness, right after my letter to the Easter Bunny.

Go with god.

That was insincere.

rob
diagnosed on 11/20/06 viral load 23,000  cd4 97    8%
01/04/07 six weeks after diagnosis vl 53,000 cd4 cd4 70    6%
Began sustiva truvada 01/04/07
newest labs  drawn on 01/15/07  vl 1,100    cd4 119    7%
Drawn 02/10/07
cd4=160 viral load= 131 percentage= 8%
New labs 3/10/07 (two months on sustiva truvada
cd4 count 292  percentage 14 viral load undetectable

Offline thunter34

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #16 on: April 06, 2007, 10:43:51 am »
Gee...as predictable as the sunrise....
AIDS isn't for sissies.

Offline koi1

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #17 on: April 06, 2007, 10:48:35 am »
Gee...as predictable as the sunrise....

Yep here you are.

diagnosed on 11/20/06 viral load 23,000  cd4 97    8%
01/04/07 six weeks after diagnosis vl 53,000 cd4 cd4 70    6%
Began sustiva truvada 01/04/07
newest labs  drawn on 01/15/07  vl 1,100    cd4 119    7%
Drawn 02/10/07
cd4=160 viral load= 131 percentage= 8%
New labs 3/10/07 (two months on sustiva truvada
cd4 count 292  percentage 14 viral load undetectable

Offline milker

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #18 on: April 06, 2007, 10:50:32 am »
That was totally uncalled for Koi.

I think Koi has the right to have been shocked by Lis's original answer to his post, I was. Now he should let go, like I don't reply to posts that are obviously written in a state of mind that does not allow for discussion.

Milker.
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Offline thunter34

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #19 on: April 06, 2007, 10:56:27 am »
Yep here you are.



Huh?  Whatever do you mean, my dear?
AIDS isn't for sissies.

Offline Ann

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #20 on: April 06, 2007, 11:37:00 am »
Koi, Scottt,

You're both getting a time out and as it is the second one for both of you, it's for a month. Both of you have been increasingly hostile lately and it's got to stop.

Ann
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Offline Lis

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #21 on: April 06, 2007, 11:37:13 am »
I had a GREAT nights sleep, and am ready to take on this beautiful day...

Happy Easter to ALL
poz 1986....

Offline allopathicholistic

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #22 on: April 06, 2007, 11:42:53 am »
I had a GREAT nights sleep, and am ready to take on this beautiful day...

Happy Easter to ALL

Happy Easter to you too Lis  :-*

Offline Ihavehope

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #23 on: April 06, 2007, 11:49:43 am »
that was so hilarious girls.. haven't laughed so hard in a while.
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Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #24 on: April 06, 2007, 02:32:15 pm »
GO LIS!  Maybe if we start talking about what kind of tampons we buy, the severity of our cramps, the va-jj smells and itches, they'll be glad we have our own little space!  Hehehe   :o

honey please... I lived with a straight girl for 20 years!  It was like a common law marriage -- everything shared until she up and married the Oscar de la Hoya illegal immigrant look-a-like with the big cock (can't say I blame her) -- anywho.... bloody tampons are fun.  Hell, I even got a girl pregnant once.  Thank goodness she had a miscarriage or I'd really be up a creek without a paddle :)
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Offline red_Dragon888

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #25 on: April 06, 2007, 07:16:40 pm »
make him do three loads and dinner
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Offline Suntropic98

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Re: the boys should not be mad at the girls...
« Reply #26 on: April 10, 2007, 03:47:17 pm »
Nasty vagina smell=HIV?

Fuck man! You have any idea how many vaginas I've fucked that I thought were stank? Holy shit!



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